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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I get gay and bi guys, but why do so many straight guys look at other guys profiles? Just curious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are fab straight

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I think fab straight means if it moves fuck it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha oh dear. I think you might be right

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By *uziebabyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester


"So I get gay and bi guys, but why do so many straight guys look at other guys profiles? Just curious... "

Bearcuriosity possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are either checking out the competition or comparing their profile to other single males

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sounds entierly plausable..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paper trailing? They look at a lady...see her verifications...check who they are. (I'm assuming you have verifications. I haven't looked as it doesn't particularly interest me.... I have my own)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they are either checking out the competition or comparing their profile to other single males "

This... Esp if a guy has veris. Probably to see what's working for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally either:

a) they like penis

b) you've met someone they like or want to meet and they are being

c) profile ideas to incorporate into their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paper trailing? They look at a lady...see her verifications...check who they are. (I'm assuming you have verifications. I haven't looked as it doesn't particularly interest me.... I have my own)"

This is true. I had a meet ask me a few times why have I got some verifications displayed but not others? He wanted to check them all out . Why when what happened between my previous meets has nothing to do with how my future meets may go.

Some people are strange but let them get on with it and don't let it deter you from having fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they can...

and don't forget all the ones who are looking in stealth mode too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checking out the competition maybe?

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By *rinceCorwinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

There's a stealth mode !?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it for research purposes. Lol.

I generally check to see what they're profile looks like or to see the verifications ad they maybe someone I met before or someone I want to meet. It's sometimes to check out the competition and to let them know they have competition. Lol

Many reasons but I wouldn't worry until you start getting the weird messages from them. That's when you put the single male block up. I've done it, don't stop them looking but stop them winking and message get if you don't want that.

You get 80% less messages though. Lol

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"Maybe they are either checking out the competition or comparing their profile to other single males "
thats y iv done it, or to see who has been viewing me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's no bad thing haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally do it to view those who make idiotic forum posts - just to see if they were having a bad 5 minutes or to see if they're always such a bell end!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"There's a stealth mode !?!

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My Account/Privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a stealth mode !?!

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Did I look at your pro? Or didn't I?

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a nosey at other guys profiles. I'm just curious is all. Sometimes try and get inspiration for new pics etc. Doesn't mean I wanna suck any of them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good 90% of those who view me are always guys. Straight, Bi, gay, TVs.... it doesnt really bother me. Ive also chatted to a few too, because im polite.

I have checked out single guys profiles myself and its often been based on womens or couples veris. I check out what calibre of guy they go for as a comparison to myself.

I must say that i find it frustrating when i get "Sorry your not for me" and then see the type of guys theyve been with. .

Each to their own i guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah it doesn't bother me, just interesed in the reasons behind it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it doesn't bother me, just interesed in the reasons behind it!"

Curious to see how other guys perceive themselves i guess. Im always curious about who other's have played with, especially when i get dismissed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you posted a look at me post so I looked at you

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Go to a public toilet and stand by the urinal...you maybe amazed at how many guys check each other out..

Probably quite natural to be curious.

I don't think it is an indication of who you bat and field for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly for profile tips and nosiness, I'm guessing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it doesn't bother me, just interesed in the reasons behind it!

Curious to see how other guys perceive themselves i guess. Im always curious about who other's have played with, especially when i get dismissed."

Women dismiss you??

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"Yeah it doesn't bother me, just interesed in the reasons behind it!

Curious to see how other guys perceive themselves i guess. Im always curious about who other's have played with, especially when i get dismissed.

Women dismiss you?? "
dont they all? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I get gay and bi guys, but why do so many straight guys look at other guys profiles? Just curious... "

Real straight guys might look at your profile if you've meet someone they interested in. Though I am still amazed at the men who believe they straight as they only meet TV. Clearly Prison mentality giving is not gay

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By *ournemouthbusinessguyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

don't know about anyone else but when i am on mobile and looking at a profile soemtimes i double tap in error and it opens up someone who verified her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it doesn't bother me, just interesed in the reasons behind it!

Curious to see how other guys perceive themselves i guess. Im always curious about who other's have played with, especially when i get dismissed.

Women dismiss you?? dont they all? Lol"

Only the married ones to their hubby lol.

I know my dad has never had a BJ from my mum. She's the only woman he's ever had and his 54 now. Poor man lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy has written a berification for a woman im interested in.

I sometimes check to see if she has written one back for him.

Also check out the competition kinda thing.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Because no-body (male or female) can find out what or who your looking for, and where, without reading your profile. -

Why does it bother you who looks at it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It doesn't I was just curious to the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it bothers you OP, block single men.

I have no issue with guys checking me out, but found it was skewing the Who's Look At You figures and was making me feel overly important when I saw that I'd had 20 views in a single day, I can't tell you how my ego grew, all these people checking me out. Then I saw it was 19.9 single guys and 0.1 women and I was super deflated.

These days I block single guys so I know that the people in my look at count are people that I might want to meet, even better that they are people that may want to meet me based on what I'm looking for.

Do whatever works for you though, if it bugs you, block them, if it doesn't, don't.

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By *iavelmanMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I just looked at my last 100 profile views and 63 were by men, 5 TV, 24 couples,2 women and the remainder were mates. For a straight guy looking for women and couples I don't see why other guys are so interested in me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people think it bothers me? Did I say it did? No. I'm just curious as to the reasoning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just looked at my last 100 profile views and 63 were by men, 5 TV, 24 couples,2 women and the remainder were mates. For a straight guy looking for women and couples I don't see why other guys are so interested in me. "

Because a lot are completely selfish, arrogant and without respect for other people's wishes/desires. They think they're that amazing they can get you to cast aside your wishes for your body all for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it bothers you OP, block single men.

I have no issue with guys checking me out, but found it was skewing the Who's Look At You figures and was making me feel overly important when I saw that I'd had 20 views in a single day, I can't tell you how my ego grew, all these people checking me out. Then I saw it was 19.9 single guys and 0.1 women and I was super deflated.

These days I block single guys so I know that the people in my look at count are people that I might want to meet, even better that they are people that may want to meet me based on what I'm looking for.

Do whatever works for you though, if it bugs you, block them, if it doesn't, don't."

Well said and I have a similar story...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally look around and will look at other guys profiles mainly, as has been said before, to see what kind of stuff other guys are writing in their profiles etc. Also in the forums you can get a better understanding of the people who are talking on a thread!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"I just looked at my last 100 profile views and 63 were by men, 5 TV, 24 couples,2 women and the remainder were mates. For a straight guy looking for women and couples I don't see why other guys are so interested in me.

Because a lot are completely selfish, arrogant and without respect for other people's wishes/desires. They think they're that amazing they can get you to cast aside your wishes for your body all for them! "

Someones got outta bed on the wrong side?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just looked at my last 100 profile views and 63 were by men, 5 TV, 24 couples,2 women and the remainder were mates. For a straight guy looking for women and couples I don't see why other guys are so interested in me.

Because a lot are completely selfish, arrogant and without respect for other people's wishes/desires. They think they're that amazing they can get you to cast aside your wishes for your body all for them!

Someones got outta bed on the wrong side?"

Look at you with your attitude. No actually I'm perfectly fine and so it my day. You clearly condone and with your attitude clearly participate in disrespectful people ignoring profile wishes and time wasting them. Says a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally look around and will look at other guys profiles mainly, as has been said before, to see what kind of stuff other guys are writing in their profiles etc. Also in the forums you can get a better understanding of the people who are talking on a thread!"

Not true! A lot of people including some on this very thread think it's perfectly acceptable to bad mouth and walk over someone. They think because they're doing it publicly, the other person will not stick up for themselves. It's perfectly fine to not allow yourself to be walked over or publicly shamed. In real life a lot of people on this site are decent genuinely nice people. Which in person meet ups get to see. Unfortunately there are a lot of keyboard warriors on this site but in person, I'm sure they're not so rude/bullyish/brave.

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By *ssexcokMan
over a year ago

southend


"I generally look around and will look at other guys profiles mainly, as has been said before, to see what kind of stuff other guys are writing in their profiles etc. Also in the forums you can get a better understanding of the people who are talking on a thread!

Not true! A lot of people including some on this very thread think it's perfectly acceptable to bad mouth and walk over someone. They think because they're doing it publicly, the other person will not stick up for themselves. It's perfectly fine to not allow yourself to be walked over or publicly shamed. In real life a lot of people on this site are decent genuinely nice people. Which in person meet ups get to see. Unfortunately there are a lot of keyboard warriors on this site but in person, I'm sure they're not so rude/bullyish/brave."

Yeah so true but I'm straight but sometimes look out of curiosity or to see who's watching me on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally look around and will look at other guys profiles mainly, as has been said before, to see what kind of stuff other guys are writing in their profiles etc. Also in the forums you can get a better understanding of the people who are talking on a thread!

Not true! A lot of people including some on this very thread think it's perfectly acceptable to bad mouth and walk over someone. They think because they're doing it publicly, the other person will not stick up for themselves. It's perfectly fine to not allow yourself to be walked over or publicly shamed. In real life a lot of people on this site are decent genuinely nice people. Which in person meet ups get to see. Unfortunately there are a lot of keyboard warriors on this site but in person, I'm sure they're not so rude/bullyish/brave.

Yeah so true but I'm straight but sometimes look out of curiosity or to see who's watching me on cam "

That's cool. You obviously enjoy being watched. Have fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it doesn't bother me, just interesed in the reasons behind it!

Curious to see how other guys perceive themselves i guess. Im always curious about who other's have played with, especially when i get dismissed."

This^

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By *uymartinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If I look at a guys profile it's because I am checking verifications of a lady I am meeting

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