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By *otlipsandSir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

So after a conversation with a single guy who winked at us initially,

It lead to the inevitable "wanna Fuck" message.

We declined as we are only looking to meet single women at the min (stated in our profile clearly).

Subsequently we were accused of having no manners ,and showing no respect !!

Apparently by entering into a conversation your agreeing to meet !!!

Maybe this is exactly why people just read and delete messeges ?

what do people think ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

That's the fault of the guy not the winks system. Some guys think any contact is game on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd simply block the group of people we didn't wish to meet. Spares us the aggro in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind winks but don't agree that entering a conversation means automatic fuck nor should a want to fuck message be sent it's always nice to chat a little see how everyone gets on then see where it leads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some men need to realise that it's not 100% necessary for every single person on the earth to want to fuck them or find them attractive and deal with rejection. It happens. It's not the end of the world

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By *otlipsandSir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"That's the fault of the guy not the winks system. Some guys think any contact is game on "

Blocked now ,so problem solved !

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

What's the betting there's another forum thread started about winks conversations and blocking and how much of a waste of time people are being started simultaneously to this one haha yeah we get the same we hate being rude so we just block these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to reply to everyone who messages us out of courtesy. We rarely reply to winks. This works for us and we rarely have negative issues.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I enjoy receiving winks, I wink a lot in my daily life, find it a friendly n flirty way to strike up a convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wink as a sign that we would like to chat only. What happens after that who knows. Anyone assuming that we wanna play straight away are blocked. We want to play with "friends " not strangers. We want to get to know the men, women or couples first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really taken with the wink system. It seems too ambiguous. If somebody winks at me, I don't think "wahey, my luck's in", but if I respond with a message I wouldn't mind a reply. Even if it's just "I/we liked your pic or think you're cute, but don't want to take it further".

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