FabSwingers.com forum: Black men vs bbc

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I recently changed my name from BBC4YOU after a great conversation with a lovely lady at a Cupids event. She explained the "stigma" sometimes attached to "BBC" so I changed my name for the better might I add.

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

Saw you at cupids on Thursday!

I totally agree about the whole BBC label Whilst I much prefer black or mixed race men I like to have a connection and get on with whomever I play with they're nit just a walking cock

The label BBC just makes a guy sound like a piece of meat rather than a person

Great choice in new username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the expectation that black men are all going to be massively hung surely puts pressure on average sized guys. Not really keen on the whole BBC thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally, prefer it when guys don't even make reference to their ethnicity at all in their names or descriptions. We can clearly see from pictures so don't need it shouted out loud before we get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I've seen a lot of bbc where the word big should not be used.

Same as the term bbw where beautiful should also not be used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not looking to meet with Black men for several reasons. But one of those reasons was that they describe themselves as BBC. Caucasian men too have large cocks but they don't describe themselves as BWC

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Saw you at cupids on Thursday!

I totally agree about the whole BBC label Whilst I much prefer black or mixed race men I like to have a connection and get on with whomever I play with they're nit just a walking cock

The label BBC just makes a guy sound like a piece of meat rather than a person

Great choice in new username

Hey you, yh I remember seeing you, though your hard to miss with those lovely legs and lovely ass. Lol.

I totally agree it's about the connection regardless of colour or how big you assume I am. However I've been with couples where that was exactly the scenario they wanted to play out and I agreed to it as I already had a connection with them. (Don't mind being a piece of meat, but on my terms. Lol)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the expectation that black men are all going to be massively hung surely puts pressure on average sized guys. Not really keen on the whole BBC thing. "

I'm not wither pal and that's why I just wanted a bit mor perspective on it. I'm not easily offended and don't take myself too serious as life's to short for all that. I just hate the boxes that people/society put people in. I'm too free to be put in a box and my colour definitely don't just define who I am. I'm a man first and foremost.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We personally, prefer it when guys don't even make reference to their ethnicity at all in their names or descriptions. We can clearly see from pictures so don't need it shouted out loud before we get there. "

Totally agreed. Although my name has Black in it. It was inspired from a cracking event at Cupids, the same event I got my insight on the whole BBC thing...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be fair I've seen a lot of bbc where the word big should not be used.

Same as the term bbw where beautiful should also not be used "

Definitely agree with that one... bless their Lil cotton socks

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

You are more than just a big black cock

If you're happy being pursued for just one body part go for it, but most guys eventually find it a bit demeaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet someone just because they have a big black cock.

I've been asked a few times if that's what I'm into, and have also been asked if I have been called a black man's whore before. I don't go in for the whole white woman/BBC scene; I meet a man because I like him, not the size and colour of his cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are not looking to meet with Black men for several reasons. But one of those reasons was that they describe themselves as BBC. Caucasian men too have large cocks but they don't describe themselves as BWC

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -"

That's the exact reason why it winds me up as it does give that impression. The worst thing about it is that there are black guys out there that are just cocks and can offer nothing more. I don't want to be associated with those guys. You're also quite right as there white guys with huge dicks and black guys with tiny ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chatted with a black guy about this. I asked him if he felt like a fetish because of his colour and size. He said it made things easier for him and didn't mind at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right, it suggests that black men are nothing more than a walking cock - how insulting! Similarly it annoys me how other pornography-influenced categories minimise and stereotype others, e.g. BBW, MILF etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I recently changed my name from BBC4YOU after a great conversation with a lovely lady at a Cupids event. She explained the "stigma" sometimes attached to "BBC" so I changed my name for the better might I add.

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

I don't particularly go for 'big' or 'black' or 'bbc'.....but I was at Cupids on Tuesday too and what I did notice was that every single black man there was smiling, was polite and was respectful

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are more than just a big black cock

If you're happy being pursued for just one body part go for it, but most guys eventually find it a bit demeaning "

Why thank you. Lol

It's not only demeaning but sex is so much more than that, we'll good sex anyway... I now see it as their insecurity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally have stayed away from Black BBC guys because my experience is they are selfish in bed foreplay wise because they think a big cock is all they need or they send opening messages like "had BBC before?"

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't meet someone just because they have a big black cock.

I sometimes get it too from my black friends asking me why I like white women and what's wrong with black women. I have a black son and have nothing against any women ( I love you all. Lol).

Like I said I believe there's too many boxes that society try to put us all in. Having a serial preference doesn't have to be so crude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I chatted with a black guy about this. I asked him if he felt like a fetish because of his colour and size. He said it made things easier for him and didn't mind at all "

Yh like I've said I've been in a few scenarios where that's what the couple and I had arranged however I got to know this couple and it was a scenario they wanted to do for a long time, so I was more honoured that I was able to help them with their fantasy as apposed to being used as just a black cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're right, it suggests that black men are nothing more than a walking cock - how insulting! Similarly it annoys me how other pornography-influenced categories minimise and stereotype others, e.g. BBW, MILF etc."

I believe the porn industry, media and music all help to build up the stereotypes and people's prejudice. I do state in my profile that I'm looking for someone who obviously likes black guys but only as I know ow it's not everyone's cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont like the term BBC and would never meet anyone that referred to themselves as it.

The same applies to women that call themselves cumslutfuckbucket

Just no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop press!!!

there are black men out there who aren't hung like a horse!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

Make your mind up! If you don't want to play up to the "black thing" why have "black" in your username at all?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I generally have stayed away from Black BBC guys because my experience is they are selfish in bed foreplay wise because they think a big cock is all they need or they send opening messages like "had BBC before?"

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

I know a lot of black guys that don't do foreplay as it's seen as a bit of a taboo within the black community for some reason much like homophobia is too. So a lot of black guys are guy, bi or whatever but never admit it, same with foreplay, some will do it but never admit it. It's quite sad if I'm honest but it what it is.

I for one love pleasing a women and can literally spend hours flicking my tongue everywhere and love nothing more than feeling you writhing around from my tongue. Lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Exactly!

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By *azlargepenisMan
over a year ago

about

I can understand why black people would find BBC demeaning. But better than those names like chocolate lover or mandingo which are far more reductive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

I for one love pleasing a women and can literally spend hours flicking my tongue everywhere and love nothing more than feeling you writhing around from my tongue. Lol"

Well you learn something new everyday!

And that makes a lot of sense now Haha. In my younger days I always attracted the black guys (fat lasses usually do haha ) but one or two I've met over the years we're all about fucking only which is such a shame. Gotta love a prolonged foreplay sesh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

Make your mind up! If you don't want to play up to the "black thing" why have "black" in your username at all?

The name was inspired by a Black Magic event I went to at Cupids and had a great time.

Don't get me wrong I'm not complaining about being black or having a "niche" attraction if you like. I'm just trying to gain some understanding in the difference between being a "big black cock" and a man who happens to be black. It's not bashing or getting at anyone, as I don't judge and believe it's each to their own.

When I first joined Fab I went in like a typical "single man" I went in as a "bbc" sending out "I got a big dick if you want it" type messages. Not because I was that type of guy but because I assumed Fab was an easy sex site. I soon learned how it works but my overall point was a lot of guys haven't figured out how it works and I just don't want to be associated with them guys.

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It does add undue pressure. You're expected to be a porn star.

Nice social meets that grow into having a laugh, swapping stories actually holding a conversation are the essence of horn.

If it happens due to chemistry all the better.

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

Never understood the term BBC

And never hear BWC (big white cock) being bantered about! ....

My personal experience is I've had bigger white cock than some who have seemed themselves BBC .... and most black guys jump on that BBC bandwagon ... when clearly they are not

Jojo x

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By *uziebabyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

The whole BBC or BWC just puts me off if its size then there are far bigger dildos about who are less demanding. If a guy thinks its all about his cock then no I am just not interested as it tells me he is also BST (boring stunted personality) and I like a guy to have a personality as well as a cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can understand why black people would find BBC demeaning. But better than those names like chocolate lover or mandingo which are far more reductive."

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I much prefer the more endowed man no matter his ethnicity but it's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean lol. I've been with a few BBC and they've been great and certainly knew how to pleasure a woman but others were very arrogant and it was all about them and obviously were not aware that if you satisfy a woman you'll get the best from her lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The whole BBC or BWC just puts me off if its size then there are far bigger dildos about who are less demanding. If a guy thinks its all about his cock then no I am just not interested as it tells me he is also BST (boring stunted personality) and I like a guy to have a personality as well as a cock."

BST loving that. Yes I quite agree with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

I was at Cupids MOTd too and I met some lovely men of all colours....I did notice that all the black men were smiling, were friendly and respectful too.....I'm not bothered about size or skin colour - what I like is pleasant people

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

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could be worse you could be a black man with a small cock lol the parception of black men's apendages on here could drive a brother over the edge lol

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

I've steered clear of the BBC/Black thing.

I'm not my skin nor cock size. The sad thing is that I live these stereotypes and preconceptions everyday when I'm just trying to be me.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"I've steered clear of the BBC/Black thing.

I'm not my skin nor cock size. The sad thing is that I live these stereotypes and preconceptions everyday when I'm just trying to be me.

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well said

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't meet black men for their willies. I meet them because I find them attractive and, as stated above, usually pleasant company.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Exactly!

OP, while it is better than your previous name, you're still focusing on something which is clearly obvious. But fair play for discussing this as it bugs me a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet black men for their willies. I meet them because I find them attractive and, as stated above, usually pleasant company."

It is a bit off putting when you're asked if you enjoy sucking on his big black cock. I enjoy sucking all cocks I meet

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

I for one love pleasing a women and can literally spend hours flicking my tongue everywhere and love nothing more than feeling you writhing around from my tongue. Lol"
most of my black mates won't bow down so to speak or do they lol

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Saw you at cupids on Thursday!

I totally agree about the whole BBC label Whilst I much prefer black or mixed race men I like to have a connection and get on with whomever I play with they're nit just a walking cock

The label BBC just makes a guy sound like a piece of meat rather than a person

Great choice in new username

Some great pics Hun - just fabbed a few!

Re the BBC label - I find it a turn-off when any guy, black or otherwise, feels that the best way to promote himself is with his penis. I like to meet the whole man - not the willy - and if they turn out to have an average sized willy then that's fine - luckily I have a 'shrink to fit' vagina!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Exactly!

OP, while it is better than your previous name, you're still focusing on something which is clearly obvious. But fair play for discussing this as it bugs me a lot.

i was thinking the same thing. I'm assuming he's not a magician?

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"Saw you at cupids on Thursday!

I totally agree about the whole BBC label Whilst I much prefer black or mixed race men I like to have a connection and get on with whomever I play with they're nit just a walking cock

The label BBC just makes a guy sound like a piece of meat rather than a person

Great choice in new username

Some great pics Hun - just fabbed a few!

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shrink to fit vagina lol you fibber ....rumour has it it'slike ddipping your cock into a bucket of wallpaper paste lol

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Well if you have it flaunt it

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -"

The big black cock pedigree has treckled down from the days of slavery. When black slaves were being hosed down after months of being on slave ships, the wives and mistresses of the slave owners/ traders would not miss any opportunity to point out the bigger than average black cocks.

This of course infuriated the slave owners and as time went on, the most preferred method of punishment for black slaves was castration( in this case, chopping off their penises).

With time this big penis notoriety gained ground and partly fuelled the ban on inter race sexual relations for fear of the white girls/ladies/ young women being "damaged".

Historically, black sex offenders have received stiffer sentences than their white counterparts. It sounds unbelievable but once again, the "damage" caused by a black penis was seen as more than that caused by a white penis.

Now let's come down to earth! We all know that not all black cocks are huge but on the average black cocks are bigger.

As to whether the term BBC is endearing or off putting, all I can guess is that it has the double edged effect of the N word. When both have been used in days gone by, they have been used as insults and ways of rilling and humiliating the black person/male. However, as a way of hitting back at the oppressor, they started using such terms/ names freely among the inner group. In simple terms, if I call myself a BBC, it makes the white male jealous and the white female curious thus making the white male more angry; and if I call myself the N word, it makes the White slave master powerless as he realises that his words have no effect on me.

BBC is here to stay. And all the Ns in the hood are happy to call themselves so but my dear friends Mathew and Smith can't join in for obvious reasons. Small price to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -

This of course infuriated the slave owners and as time went on, the most preferred method of punishment for black slaves was castration( in this case, chopping off their penises).

With time this big penis notoriety gained ground and partly fuelled the ban on inter race sexual relations for fear of the white girls/ladies/ young women being "damaged".

Now let's come down to earth! We all know that not all black cocks are huge but on the average black cocks are bigger.

BBC is here to stay. And all the Ns in the hood are happy to call themselves so but my dear friends Mathew and Smith can't join in for obvious reasons. Small price to pay. "

I always said it went back to the slave trade days. I was right then

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -

This of course infuriated the slave owners and as time went on, the most preferred method of punishment for black slaves was castration( in this case, chopping off their penises).

With time this big penis notoriety gained ground and partly fuelled the ban on inter race sexual relations for fear of the white girls/ladies/ young women being "damaged".

Now let's come down to earth! We all know that not all black cocks are huge but on the average black cocks are bigger.

BBC is here to stay. And all the Ns in the hood are happy to call themselves so but my dear friends Mathew and Smith can't join in for obvious reasons. Small price to pay. "
obviously didn't watch Lionel Ritchie on piers morgan last night . If not watch it on catch u andtetell me if you still feel the n word appropriate even in black circles

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -

This of course infuriated the slave owners and as time went on, the most preferred method of punishment for black slaves was castration( in this case, chopping off their penises).

With time this big penis notoriety gained ground and partly fuelled the ban on inter race sexual relations for fear of the white girls/ladies/ young women being "damaged".

Now let's come down to earth! We all know that not all black cocks are huge but on the average black cocks are bigger.

BBC is here to stay. And all the Ns in the hood are happy to call themselves so but my dear friends Mathew and Smith can't join in for obvious reasons. Small price to pay.

I always said it went back to the slave trade days. I was right then

As right as you've got nice pedicure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally we don't like the term BBC as my partner is so much more than what he has attached to his body

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -

This of course infuriated the slave owners and as time went on, the most preferred method of punishment for black slaves was castration( in this case, chopping off their penises).

With time this big penis notoriety gained ground and partly fuelled the ban on inter race sexual relations for fear of the white girls/ladies/ young women being "damaged".

Now let's come down to earth! We all know that not all black cocks are huge but on the average black cocks are bigger.

BBC is here to stay. And all the Ns in the hood are happy to call themselves so but my dear friends Mathew and Smith can't join in for obvious reasons. Small price to pay.

I always said it went back to the slave trade days. I was right then

As right as you've got nice pedicure."

Thank you

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I love the whole BBC thing, one thing you have to realise is you will always have fans and you are playing only to please your fans, players play for their fans not the fans of the opposing team. So if a lady is not my fan for whatever reason I just brush her aside and look for the ladies that are my fans, they are the ones who are important to me. Do you know how ladies who love you will make you feel? You walk into a club and sit down among ladies who are your fans and your cock is getting sucked without much talk, please forget all ladies who are not fans and locate your fans, then it won't matter if you are Bbc, Bb , Black mamba or magic

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

its an interesting question....

the answer..... its a 2 way answer....

As it is known here I hate the whole "BBC" tag.... and it is something that sends me going in the opposite direction of any meet.....

i think that couples/singles wouldn't use it as much if people were more vocal about it (i get it in pm's all the time where people wished they were more confident to say something) i've said that there are probably as many people who loathe it as love it....

the other issue is black men who try and play up the whole "BBC" thing because they see it as some sort of advantage to get their leg over..... (this is the bit where i normally get called a hater!)

i was in correspondance with a couple once and she sent me a note saying how she was looking forward to my "N Cock"....... me, I just shut it down there and then and said i no longer wanted to meet.... and for the life of her she could not realise why....

its kinda like the "nice guy, who happens to be black" and opposed to the "black guy, who happens to be nice"......

the onus is on the thing i can control... the "nice" as opposed to the thing i can't , the "black"

it doesn't mean i am not proud of who i am, and what i am, because it wouldn't make me me.... but it is not the only part of me people should see.......

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By *JJ2Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

It's obviously great that you are a handsome, well hung guy and a beautiful colour but size or colour shouldn't define you.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Schulz, nobody is talking about appropriate so I don't know where u got that from. All I gave was an intelligent historical cum academic account spiced with a bit of personal opinion. I never said A B or N was appropriate. Anyway life goes on.

Talking of life, any party going on anywhere close?

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -

This of course infuriated the slave owners and as time went on, the most preferred method of punishment for black slaves was castration( in this case, chopping off their penises).

With time this big penis notoriety gained ground and partly fuelled the ban on inter race sexual relations for fear of the white girls/ladies/ young women being "damaged".

Now let's come down to earth! We all know that not all black cocks are huge but on the average black cocks are bigger.

BBC is here to stay. And all the Ns in the hood are happy to call themselves so but my dear friends Mathew and Smith can't join in for obvious reasons. Small price to pay. "

So in light of the history behind the "N" and the whole BBC thing, you still want to use it?

During slavery, Black people were basically seen as animals. Sold, traded and bred as such like horses and cows. The N word contributed to making us less than human.

So while I appreciate that people have their fantasies, please don't act like black people own it. they don't.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"its an interesting question....

the answer..... its a 2 way answer....

As it is known here I hate the whole "BBC" tag.... and it is something that sends me going in the opposite direction of any meet.....

the other issue is black men who try and play up the whole "BBC" thing because they see it as some sort of advantage to get their leg over..... (this is the bit where i normally get called a hater!)

its kinda like the "nice guy, who happens to be black" and opposed to the "black guy, who happens to be nice"......

the onus is on the thing i can control... the "nice" as opposed to the thing i can't , the "black"

it doesn't mean i am not proud of who i am, and what i am, because it wouldn't make me me.... but it is not the only part of me people should see......."

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over a year ago

On the flip side, I get men who notice I've met black men and assume I only meet black men. And black men who assume I fetish them.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -

This of course infuriated the slave owners and as time went on, the most preferred method of punishment for black slaves was castration( in this case, chopping off their penises).

With time this big penis notoriety gained ground and partly fuelled the ban on inter race sexual relations for fear of the white girls/ladies/ young women being "damaged".

Now let's come down to earth! We all know that not all black cocks are huge but on the average black cocks are bigger.

BBC is here to stay. And all the Ns in the hood are happy to call themselves so but my dear friends Mathew and Smith can't join in for obvious reasons. Small price to pay.

So in light of the history behind the "N" and the whole BBC thing, you still want to use it?

During slavery, Black people were basically seen as animals. Sold, traded and bred as such like horses and cows. The N word contributed to making us less than human.

So while I appreciate that people have their fantasies, please don't act like black people own it. they don't."
and black men sold there own

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

The is a very interesting topic and important for guys who don't know their value or how to carry themselves , I love the BBC thing, of course I might not be some ladies or couples cup of tea but to me they don't even count, I tell you no lie BBC is sweet , there are extremely beautiful ladies and couples who love Bbc and to me they are the ones who count.

Guys (bbc or not)please don't bother yourself about someone who will not see you for whatever reason, you should thank them and appreciate them for not wasting your time, know that you are a superstar and when you find your people they will give you everything you need, this goes for ladies too, if someone treats you bad thank them for they have done you a favour by showing their hands and getting out of the way to allow that guy you have always wanted to come in.

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over a year ago

I see BBC as just purely a sexual term for which I reference stigmatized or not, I do not reference the person as BBC, just the cock size and colour as it is preference... The person at the end of the day is the exact same as me and you, a human being!

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Lol on the intellectual side of things I do not argue with someone who is not intellectually strong enough to make an argument or does not understand facts , neither do I argue in a forum that is not designed to support that argument.

Now that aside,it does not matter what anybody thinks about you, what matters is what you allow your brain to think about yourself and the action you take to get yourself to be what you think about yourself.

Every successful person first of all has to have the thought first , so please guys carry yourself the way you think and find people who agree with you, why do you have to allow a lady telling you no bother you when there are 20 other ladies out there who are far more beautiful and sexy looking for you. Infact I tell ladies you are talking to guy who has been told no by ladies in the past so if your answer is no , quickly say it so I can move on because your no is not going to bother me one bit , its as good as you not saying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh who cares, idiots on the forum love to wax philosophical about the political correctness of different terminology. At this point, who cares? I already see people who have jumped in here to state their various issues with black male behavior...threads like these tend to provide ample cover for those types so I have no idea why people make them.

There are plenty of black men happy to embarass themselves for a shag with white/asian/various non-black mugs looking for an experience. So be it. I have come to realize that I wont hold it against a white person for using politically incorrect terminology in sex as sex is a highly charged and, in many ways, politically incorrect activity in itself. You only need to venture to a pornsite to see partakings in any number of racially/criminally charged fetishism.

I am black, I am muscular, I have a big dick. Thats a turn on for those who like that sort of thing. Does that make me a fetish? Maybe. But then I get turned on by muscular women or those with large asses. Am I fetishising them too? All that should matter when meeting on here is whether said meet comes at their expense of your well being, dignity or safety. If not, then I fail to see why anyone should care.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"Meh who cares, idiots on the forum love to wax philosophical about the political correctness of different terminology. At this point, who cares? I already see people who have jumped in here to state their various issues with black male behavior...threads like these tend to provide ample cover for those types so I have no idea why people make them. It's called opinion you are entitled to yours as I am to mine ....lozells till I die

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"Meh who cares, idiots on the forum love to wax philosophical about the political correctness of different terminology. At this point, who cares? I already see people who have jumped in here to state their various issues with black male behavior...threads like these tend to provide ample cover for those types so I have no idea why people make them. Everybody interperets things different its our choice our opinion ...brum born and bred here lozells Handsworth and some very fickle peeps there

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Strong words! But I understand.

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By *mkmjn2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

if you dont wanna play up the black thing, why have black in your name at all? dont really see the difference

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

My man, exactly what I was thinking , you see guys putting themselves on the floor for a shag or feeling bad because some chic told them no she does not do bbc, when their response should be thats cool . Do you have any clue the kind of women and couples that do bbc? On my, if you only knew you would walk with your head up and your chest out, please guys learn, it is important to learn the things that will take you where you want to be.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

"if you dont wanna play up the black thing, why have black in your name at all? dont really see the difference"

I thought that too

I'm playing up to the wanting to meet blackmen,guilty as charged

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

"My man, exactly what I was thinking , you see guys putting themselves on the floor for a shag or feeling bad because some chic told them no she does not do bbc, when their response should be thats cool . Do you have any clue the kind of women and couples that do bbc? On my, if you only knew you would walk with your head up and your chest out, please guys learn, it is important to learn the things that will take you where you want to be."
might want to reword this makes no sense

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

That's why its written like that, its for a select elite

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

"Saw you at cupids on Thursday!

I totally agree about the whole BBC label Whilst I much prefer black or mixed race men I like to have a connection and get on with whomever I play with they're nit just a walking cock

The label BBC just makes a guy sound like a piece of meat rather than a person

Great choice in new username

Hey you, yh I remember seeing you, though your hard to miss with those lovely legs and lovely ass. Lol.

Aww thx! Looks like I'll be coming up for the next one too! Can't keep away

Nothing wrong with being a piece of meat so long as it's on your terms!

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By *ife4blackCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Interesting, I'd not really thought about this one, for me it is the overall package, charm, whit, friendly and fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the great responses guys, brilliant read. I appreciate the historical input and this knowledge is not new to me but always good to hear other people's perspective on the matter at hand.

Although the name change still leans towards my ethnicity, I prefer it as "less is more" and BBC 4 YOU was too much in hindsight.

I put in my profile that I'm looking for women who like black guys so I know what I want to attract and I also put what my preference is. I understand people bias and prejudices and my OP was more to find clarification on the term BBC and people's different viewpoints. Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why its written like that, its for a select elite

I got what you were saying...

women who go after black men are the select elite?

that's news to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why its written like that, its for a select elite

I got what you were saying...

women who go after black men are the select elite?

that's news to me

Well I guess they are. .to someone who's looking for women who want black men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why its written like that, its for a select elite

I got what you were saying...

women who go after black men are the select elite?

that's news to me

Well I guess they are. .to someone who's looking for women who want black men

lol true .. but he could have said small minority...its the same difference

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

The only time I use the term BBC is when I'm googling for porn cos it's quicker

other than that, it really puts me off, especially when people use the term when referring to a man, as if all they are is a walking talking cock.

I like black guys because I find more black guys than white guys attractive. Certainly nothing to do with cock size as that has nothing to do with colour.

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By *rbane PlayerMan
over a year ago

London

This comment just cuts through all the irrelevant nonsense. Sex and desire can be as complex or as simple as anyone wants to make it. No need to make it complex. Know what you want and meet those who want the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally find it's those that feel the need to understand others' desires that make it complex. Others just get on with it.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm not black. But if I was, I don't think I'd appreciate being boxed as BBC. Some status and profiles that say, looking for BBC and that kind of thing.

Does the person not matter, are they just a toy?!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

if fat women can fetishize their size, why shouldn't black guys embrace their sex appeal like wise?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm not black. But if I was, I don't think I'd appreciate being boxed as BBC. Some status and profiles that say, looking for BBC and that kind of thing.

Does the person not matter, are they just a toy?!"

Nice one curvylover...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bbc bwc black white who cares as long as its cock and the person who owns the cock knows how to use his cock along with the rest of his body and mind then who really cares ... i dont i just see a man with a cock

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I'm not black. But if I was, I don't think I'd appreciate being boxed as BBC. Some status and profiles that say, looking for BBC and that kind of thing.

Does the person not matter, are they just a toy?!

Nice one curvylover...

Just because I like curvier women does not mean I am attracted to all women who are curvy.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm not black. But if I was, I don't think I'd appreciate being boxed as BBC. Some status and profiles that say, looking for BBC and that kind of thing.

Does the person not matter, are they just a toy?!

Nice one curvylover...

Just because I like curvier women does not mean I am attracted to all women who are curvy. "

Right o mate.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

"I'm not black. But if I was, I don't think I'd appreciate being boxed as BBC. Some status and profiles that say, looking for BBC and that kind of thing.

Does the person not matter, are they just a toy?!

Nice one curvylover...

Just because I like curvier women does not mean I am attracted to all women who are curvy. "

Yeah but that's like me calling myself BBClover. ..what's the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should call yourself what you like, whether that is having BBC in your username or the word black . It appears, given your responses on this thread, that you are easily swayed by others' thoughts and preferences.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Interesting thread.

To me any mention of a mans cock in his profile name puts me off. If that's all that is on offer then you are not for me. I will openly admit I am more sexually attracted to black men than any other ethnicity, but I want a man who is more than just his cock. Hence why I avoid anyone with the term BBC or any cock related name in their profiles.

But as others have stated. Some just are after big black cocks and nothing more. I suppose OP it all depends what you want.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"You should call yourself what you like, whether that is having BBC in your username or the word black . It appears, given your responses on this thread, that you are easily swayed by others' thoughts and preferences.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an instant turn off for me to get a "fancy a BBC?" message. If the color of your skin and size of your package is all you have to offer then Im not interested. Im not here to tick off a bucket list or to meet a specific type of person. Im here to chat and get to know people I think Id get on with.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

In my opinion, there is always going to be natural selection in choices but one good thing is you will always have people that like you irrespective of who you are.

Now when it comes to ladies, some ladies fancy brothers, at the same time you find some ladies that don't and as far as I am concerned this is natural selection and it is fine.

I am here to make the ladies who fancy me happy , I would make them feel on top of the world , they are the elite ladies, I would bring them pleasure and keep telling them they are the most beautiful women to grace the surface of the earth, no woman compares to them, they are the true definition of what a woman should be.

If a lady does not fancy me all I would say is ,that's cool. Everyone cannot fancy everyone. I am only here for my fans and my fans like me just the way I am.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Ha hahaaa, I tell you what an INSTANT TURN OFF IS: put punk pie at the top of your message to show u read profile.

Can't accom plus can't travel,

Not looking much and yet looking for much with a huge list of DONTS.

I'd rather state coolly that I am brown/black/green. If that comes with a certain sized dick, so be it.

Nobody takes issue with the Oriental, blonde, rugby build etc!! Why shd a black man not be bold to declare who he is? Was taking this lightly but now I am PISSED OFF! Goddamn it!!

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

The truth is people should hope to get to a position in life where your choices are not determined by another person .

In the circle of ladies and comparing ladies irrespective of what you do, you can't be bigger than the biggest female columbian Queen pin and this lady with all her money and power is dating a brother.

Guys ,If a chic does not like you thats cool, if a chic does not like you and says some things that are not nice I would not get upset, the truth is she is no elite and has not reached the level of women that are qualified to like brothers

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By *indingDeemoMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally I hate the BBC thing. But it is what it is ans it aint gonna stop in Thai site any time soon.

I prefer to not to bother with people who say they want a BBC as it seems more like a fetish. Same as people that say they dont meet black men or BBC. Dont know their reason whether good or bad not my concern, simply coolio have your fun and off ill skip in the opposite direction.

Also I have seen the term BWC thrown about a lot usually more in forums or chat but men do that.

Now look at this BBC n BWC is just a way that some men see as a way to stand out from the rest to some women or couples on this site as a fair amount of people on here only want a fella for the chap dangling in his boxers.

Its just down to how people see the world both on and off this site what some see as feasible other see as fickle.

All I can say is have your fun and enjoy the company of the people you gel with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

Hate it, total turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The truth is people should hope to get to a position in life where your choices are not determined by another person .

What's a Columbian Queen pin?

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"The truth is people should hope to get to a position in life where your choices are not determined by another person .

What's a Columbian Queen pin?"

Research what a columbian king pin is , the queen pin is the female version of that

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"Personally I hate the BBC thing. But it is what it is ans it aint gonna stop in Thai site any time soon.

Also I have seen the term BWC thrown about a lot usually more in forums or chat but men do that.

Its just down to how people see the world both on and off this site what some see as feasible other see as fickle.

All I can say is have your fun and enjoy the company of the people you gel with.

It takes all sorts to make the world go round.People are different and we must respect that we can not all be the same.

Some people would like the BBC thing, some won't like it and some are not bothered.

But whatever your view is, BBC is here to stay, and that's a fact that won't change.

So like you say: it is better to have your fun and enjoy the company of the people you gel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder why people declaring themselves as bbw don't get so much stick on the forum as those who call themselves BBC. Ffs there are hundreds (I lost count how many..260 are we on? ) of bbw threads. That is seemingly ok. Hypocritical springs to mind. If that's how people want to refer to well hung black guys and that's what they want to be labelled who the fuck is affected? ??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Most of the black men I meet couldn't give the tiniest fuck about this sort of thing. We meet, we fuck, job done. In fact some of my most regular and reliable meets in London are lovely black guys, and they don't seem to mind the fact I find them attractive just because they are black.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm black and I think there is no harm wanting a big black cock..unless you expect or refer to all black men as bbc..what I hate most is being legally called negroid by scientists.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"Most of the black men I meet couldn't give the tiniest fuck about this sort of thing. We meet, we fuck, job done. In fact some of my most regular and reliable meets in London are lovely black guys, and they don't seem to mind the fact I find them attractive just because they are black."

I like your take on this issue.

It seems to me that those who criticise the use of the term BBC, seem to be more obsessed with it than some of us black men who are not bothered about it. All we want is to meet nice people and have mutual fun.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't have the biggest cock, I accept that, there are people who have natural gifts I would like to have , I accept that, but instead of being unhappy and start hating, look at what swinging has done for you, you can now fuck the guys who have the big cocks and stay in a perfect relationship with your guy, aint that wonderful.

I love fucking multiple slim women with big ass and boobs, I don't want to be in a relationship with them or have them texting me all the time, some of them might already be married but hey look at what swinging has done for me ,now we can fuck without stress, they only need to contact me when we want to fuck , is that not wonderful.

In a nutshell everbody is different but there is enough of what you like to go round, pick what you like and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally a post I can relate to. I absolutely hate the term bbc. We've had messages for guys that I would have been otherwise interested in if they hadn't described themselves as BBC.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Finally a post I can relate to. I absolutely hate the term bbc. We've had messages for guys that I would have been otherwise interested in if they hadn't described themselves as BBC. "

So let's get this straight; you got a message along the lines " I have a big black cock, would you like to meet/ see it?" ?

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

Ahh the BBC debate rears its head again. Yet another topic that has the capacity to polarise opinion. Once upon a time back when I was single one of the best ways a couple couple put me off meeting them was having the term BBC in their profile.

Over time and after meeti_g couples via clubs and socials first as opposed to meeting via their profiles, I concluded that although some couples do indeed over fetishise black men I decided to categorise it as nothing more than lazy txt speak.

I think its a little like using the term coloured instead of black. Most of us find it offensive but some don't. It must be confusing trying to figure out what offends and what doesn't. So with both words I decided not to wait to be offended, not to give the words too much importance but focus on the person saying it. If the person or couple was well meaning and didn't just see me as a THING I didn't hold it against them if they used the term BBC.

That said I never have used the term BBC even in the days when I was cuckoldi_g couples. An area in which the size of a black cock is probably most heavily fetishised.

I don't have a BIG Big Cock. But do happen to be the very proud owner of a rather BEAUTIFUL Black Cock lol. My many years of experience taught me that although it is is no doubt an overall advantage to have a large juicy looking cock in the world of swinging and cuckolding. It is only one piece of the jigsaw

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over a year ago

It's just a label like BBW. It's not one I choose to use but I'm not going to judge others or choose to be offended if others use it.

If they want to try a black man who happens to be well endowed that's their business.

This scene is about fantasies, be it threesomes or whatever. I don't think most think any deeper about it than that.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

I don't like to be refered as a BBC...im not a channel and I'm a person..not a appendage. People who have said it to me have got some serious cussing. And will always get cussed..but each to their own I guess. But not for me no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I wonder why people declaring themselves as bbw don't get so much stick on the forum as those who call themselves BBC. Ffs there are hundreds (I lost count how many..260 are we on? ) of bbw threads. That is seemingly ok. Hypocritical springs to mind. If that's how people want to refer to well hung black guys and that's what they want to be labelled who the fuck is affected? ??

The people who don't want to be seen or called as a BBC..but because some guy's use it as a usp then others think it's fine to label all black guys with a big cock a BBC and it's not on..we're individual's..

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"It's just a label like BBW. It's not one I choose to use but I'm not going to judge others or choose to be offended if others use it.

If they want to try a black man who happens to be well endowed that's their business.

This scene is about fantasies, be it threesomes or whatever. I don't think most think any deeper about it than that."

You're missing the point!..im not sure you're grasping the idea of what the OP is saying. The question isn't if people want to meet a well endowed man.. it's what people call that well endowed man. C'mon now stay with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being someone else's fetish I quite like it

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I don't mind being someone else's fetish I quite like it"

That's fine but don't label the person..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I get that and agree. But so what if others want to use the label? You just avoid those that use it if it offends surely?

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over a year ago

"It's just a label like BBW. It's not one I choose to use but I'm not going to judge others or choose to be offended if others use it.

If they want to try a black man who happens to be well endowed that's their business.

This scene is about fantasies, be it threesomes or whatever. I don't think most think any deeper about it than that.

No, you're missing my point and I know exactly what the Op is saying.

Clearly no well endowed black man is completely defined by that label, no women is completely defined by the word women. The truth is that some labels are more lazy than others, this doesn't necessarily mean that there is any intention of offence.

All labels are inconsistent with individualism, don't you see that?

C'mon, maybe you should stay with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finally a post I can relate to. I absolutely hate the term bbc. We've had messages for guys that I would have been otherwise interested in if they hadn't described themselves as BBC.

So let's get this straight; you got a message along the lines " I have a big black cock, would you like to meet/ see it?" ?"

Yea many times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I get that and agree. But so what if others want to use the label? You just avoid those that use it if it offends surely? "

Absolutely right.

I have never referred to myself as BBC in any way but I do refer to myself as a black man. Some people are not comfortable with that because of the reference to colour. I don't care whether they feel uncomfortable or not because although it does not completely define me it's an important part of the way I see myself.

I don't want it to be censored by others who choose to find offence in some way. This is not regressive thinking and I do not attempt to impose my point of view on others.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Sad to see some black folks become very sensitive to acronym.I don't see anything wrong with bbc or bwc or bbw.this is not a dating site.anything goes.I don't see the words bbc as profanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never seen, although there might be, a White man's profile with a name like WhiteMagic85 or White_is_Bright or anything like that. Do black men need to to get attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people take this site way too seriously........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people take this site way too seriously........"

Way way too seriously

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"Sad to see some black folks become very sensitive to acronym.I don't see anything wrong with bbc or bwc or bbw.this is not a dating site.anything goes.I don't see the words bbc as profanation."

Yes very sad indeed @ the sensitivity to the term BBC. Many women on here use the BBW label and they don't get so much stick for it. In fact there are threads on here for BBW admirers.

As some have said: some people take this site way too seriously.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

No I get that and agree. But so what if others want to use the label? You just avoid those that use it if it offends surely? "

I do avoid them. I never said I didn't,I'm just saying my opinion on the subject. Otherwise that would make me a hypocrite

. It doesn't offend me as such,I just don't like it

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Some people take this site way too seriously........

Way way too seriously"

Just because someone has an opinion on a subject doesn't necercerially mean they take said subject seriously.. it simply means they have an opinion

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I have never seen, although there might be, a White man's profile with a name like WhiteMagic85 or White_is_Bright or anything like that. Do black men need to to get attention?"

There was a White Daddy. I don't know what happened to him

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have never seen, although there might be, a White man's profile with a name like WhiteMagic85 or White_is_Bright or anything like that. Do black men need to to get attention?"

No reason not to capitalise on a USP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read all the above posts...

but I have always been more attracted to black men. Just the way I was made. Nothing to do with the size of your equipment though. I just find black men more attractive then any other ethnicity. That's what I put on my profile anyway... "if all you have to offer me is your BBC then pass me by..." I prefer a deeper connection with someone than just a huge dick (though both together help

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I have never seen, although there might be, a White man's profile with a name like WhiteMagic85 or White_is_Bright or anything like that. Do black men need to to get attention?"

What like everyone on here isn't trying to get attention in some shape or form?..we all put up certain pictures to get attention don't we?. A username is no different in my opinion

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

BBC only??...What's wrong with channel4..5.. (lol

Jokes apart..we're all guilty for putting everything in boxes...who think doesn't is kidding him/herself!

Personally I try to keep my boxes open

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over a year ago

"I have never seen, although there might be, a White man's profile with a name like WhiteMagic85 or White_is_Bright or anything like that. Do black men need to to get attention?

There was a White Daddy. I don't know what happened to him

Really? Everyone is free to do what they want. I was just wondering why people do this. I guess we are just unimaginative

- Mrs. J -

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

For a deeper connection, I'd visit a monastery.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"For a deeper connection, I'd visit a monastery. "

Haha Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never seen, although there might be, a White man's profile with a name like WhiteMagic85 or White_is_Bright or anything like that. Do black men need to to get attention?"

This is your second comment in this thread despite you saying you have no interest in playing with black men. I wonder what concerns you so much about the habits of men you dont play with.

This was my earlier point. A lot of people use these threads as a way to hide behind their bizarre race based hang ups.

Sounds to me like a strong case of denial.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

And those who stay too long in the Nile get eaten by crocs; unless a black mamba gets to them first.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

"I'm not black. But if I was, I don't think I'd appreciate being boxed as BBC. Some status and profiles that say, looking for BBC and that kind of thing.

Does the person not matter, are they just a toy?!"

You don't understand. Nobody boxes you in unless you let them. You don't have to get into a box created to fetishise a group. It's that simple. Anyone that has self worth and self esteem knows that. It's those that struggle with who they are feel they have to fit into someone's skewed definition of who they should be..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its an interesting question....

the answer..... its a 2 way answer....

As it is known here I hate the whole "BBC" tag.... and it is something that sends me going in the opposite direction of any meet.....

the other issue is black men who try and play up the whole "BBC" thing because they see it as some sort of advantage to get their leg over..... (this is the bit where i normally get called a hater!)

its kinda like the "nice guy, who happens to be black" and opposed to the "black guy, who happens to be nice"......

the onus is on the thing i can control... the "nice" as opposed to the thing i can't , the "black"

it doesn't mean i am not proud of who i am, and what i am, because it wouldn't make me me.... but it is not the only part of me people should see......."

I am so going to steal the quote above. As a female who happens to be black ,I absolutely detest being fated for my colour as opposed to being fated because I'm female and the few men who use that as an opening line and think that I would be flattered...NOT; very quickly get binned!

I'm a woman first and foremost who just happens to be black.

FYI the term BWC is bandied about on other sites

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Our preference is black guys, not BBC.

From our own experiences black guys seem more friendly, confident and easier to get on with and more honest.

That is just our own experiences

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

There is always a reason why there is attention on something, ladies will never want to be straight forward so as not to offend, but ladies like big cocks that is the honest truth.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

"There is always a reason why there is attention on something, ladies will never want to be straight forward so as not to offend, but ladies like big cocks that is the honest truth."

Not all black guys are hung like horses

Not all white guys are hung like baboons

For us it's the person.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"There is always a reason why there is attention on something, ladies will never want to be straight forward so as not to offend, but ladies like big cocks that is the honest truth.

Not all black guys are hung like horses

Not all white guys are hung like baboons

For us it's the person. "

I almost had this argument stating the point you quoted above with a female friend and I would admit is the first debate I lost. She shut me down saying "who is fucking them, you or me ? So why would you argue with a pussy that has been fucking different cocks for dunken years" with that statement from her, I kept silent.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

When any company is successful in the market place to a large customer base, the company doesn't need to spell out it's name anymore, once you see the trademark you know the company and that is what is happening in this case.

The companies competition will always argue their product is better or as good but customer satisfaction weighs more in the customers mind than argument.

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -"

Absolutely! The only black guy we have ever met in a club where his size could be remarked upon distinctly failed to measure up to the "Big" category. However, his ego went way past the "Cock" label!

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

There might be one or two defective products with manufacturers faults but on the whole a successful product will still remain a successful product in the market place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never seen, although there might be, a White man's profile with a name like WhiteMagic85 or White_is_Bright or anything like that. Do black men need to to get attention?

This is your second comment in this thread despite you saying you have no interest in playing with black men. I wonder what concerns you so much about the habits of men you dont play with.

This was my earlier point. A lot of people use these threads as a way to hide behind their bizarre race based hang ups.

Sounds to me like a strong case of denial."

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"There might be one or two defective products with manufacturers faults but on the whole a successful product will still remain a successful product in the market place."

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I'm not black. But if I was, I don't think I'd appreciate being boxed as BBC. Some status and profiles that say, looking for BBC and that kind of thing.

Does the person not matter, are they just a toy?!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"its an interesting question....

the answer..... its a 2 way answer....

As it is known here I hate the whole "BBC" tag.... and it is something that sends me going in the opposite direction of any meet.....

the other issue is black men who try and play up the whole "BBC" thing because they see it as some sort of advantage to get their leg over..... (this is the bit where i normally get called a hater!)

its kinda like the "nice guy, who happens to be black" and opposed to the "black guy, who happens to be nice"......

the onus is on the thing i can control... the "nice" as opposed to the thing i can't , the "black"

it doesn't mean i am not proud of who i am, and what i am, because it wouldn't make me me.... but it is not the only part of me people should see.......

I'm a woman first and foremost who just happens to be black.

FYI the term BWC is bandied about on other sites

Yes yes..preach it

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I know some men do play up to the whole "Black" thing but it does wind me up as I hate being in a box or someone's fetish.

Just wanted some clarification on people thoughts of the whole black thing. Be honest I'm not easily offended. Lol

Make your mind up! If you don't want to play up to the "black thing" why have "black" in your username at all?

The word can be about something other than skin colour.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

As with all labels, if you choose to use it for yourself then go ahead. If someone doesn't like it, you won't probably be friends.

If they do like it, you may have a chance of a connection.

These labels are not designed to offend anyone and being offended on behalf of others is the most ridiculous thing possible.

It may be that you can write a 20 page thesis on why someone could possibly be offended by something, but we would all be better off if people just got on and let people define themselves as they see fit.

As a point of order, I hate labels and I do my best not to use them, but everyone has the option to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave us the impression that Black men have nothing more to offer than a cock

- Mrs. J -

This of course infuriated the slave owners and as time went on, the most preferred method of punishment for black slaves was castration( in this case, chopping off their penises).

With time this big penis notoriety gained ground and partly fuelled the ban on inter race sexual relations for fear of the white girls/ladies/ young women being "damaged".

Now let's come down to earth! We all know that not all black cocks are huge but on the average black cocks are bigger.

BBC is here to stay. And all the Ns in the hood are happy to call themselves so but my dear friends Mathew and Smith can't join in for obvious reasons. Small price to pay. "

Wow thanks for that info . Interesting

Am I in trouble for putting I live BBC in my profile ???

*runs for cover*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get me out of the shit though and in my defence ...later on in my 7 mile long profile I do state "just being BBC doesn't cut it. I have a type, you must be it " is .... have to click... find attractive .... just a big cock isn't enough xx

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"To get me out of the shit though and in my defence ...later on in my 7 mile long profile I do state "just being BBC doesn't cut it. I have a type, you must be it " is .... have to click... find attractive .... just a big cock isn't enough xx"

I would say thats the same for majority of people on here?. A cock is just that..unless it can talk and it's got banter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

I for one love pleasing a women and can literally spend hours flicking my tongue everywhere and love nothing more than feeling you writhing around from my tongue. Lol"
what exactly is the black community I'm black and I didn't know there was one ..do all black people have the same culture? The same likes and dislikes? I'm from the Caribbean and I have african freinds and there culture is totally different to mine

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

I for one love pleasing a women and can literally spend hours flicking my tongue everywhere and love nothing more than feeling you writhing around from my tongue. Lolwhat exactly is the black community I'm black and I didn't know there was one ..do all black people have the same culture? The same likes and dislikes? I'm from the Caribbean and I have african freinds and there culture is totally different to mine "

What??? But you all look so similar???

/sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

very good point,well said...stupid thread on here the other day about eastern european women was very similar...people seemed to have no conception that its a huge continent...no-one is the same,its like trying to say ' all white men are cheats'..all arabs are plumbers'..ridiculous! people are people . and i dont deny they have different cultural aspects,but to lump all black men in one group is as dumb as saying anyone with red hair has a bad temper...juvenile..surely,in a multicutural society we should be a bit more knowledgeable?

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

In the same way that not all Black men will act in a similar way which is why the term is ridiculous.

Also, as someone highlighted earlier, the term also has behavioral traits that are expected that some will play to and some won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an egotistical post. More than that; scary and disturbing too. A guy who cannot take "no" for an answer. A bit creepy, for a woman who says "no" to a black man *must* be in denial

I guess when I say "no" to short or fat me, I must be in denial then too

I guess by the same token he must be in denial too as he is on a thread started by a white couple and is quoting my post; a white woman. Must be desperate as so many don't want want his type

- Mrs. J -

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

That's just my experience but have met a few guys over the years who are an exception to that rule. I couldn't care less about colour and scertainly not a BBC hunter.

It's a little known fact that all people born in the Middle East are actually tremendous plumbers.

Not really germane to the overall discussion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As with all labels, if you choose to use it for yourself then go ahead. If someone doesn't like it, you won't probably be friends.

If they do like it, you may have a chance of a connection.

These labels are not designed to offend anyone and being offended on behalf of others is the most ridiculous thing possible.

As a point of order, I hate labels and I do my best not to use them, but everyone has the option to do so."

Well written

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Agree and very honest

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