FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting..why is it so hard?????!!!!

By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

Perhaps part of the problem is that you're looking for "verified people"?

In rural areas, it can be difficult for men to find women who will see them, and therefore get verified (other than photo-verification, of course).

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Maybe there aren't enough of the people you're looking for locally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the same when I put up a meet, nobody local is interested. X

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Yet you have recent verification's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

lots of people prefer not to meet locally..

personally I tend to block anyone within a 20 mile radius

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Yet you have recent verification's? "

Yes from a few I've met before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Stick to your guns as far as Verified is concerned

You're doing the right thing

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Because when it comes down to meeting s lot of people "bottle it". For all sorts of reasons.

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Got to the point of meeting and arranging, boom! the guys I've been talking to go offline or stop talking, another is married accommodates while Mrs and kids are out, the rest unverified too far or don't accommodate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends where you live, i live on the outskirts of Liverpool so there's literally hundreds of verified people nearby.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

lots of people prefer not to meet locally..

personally I tend to block anyone within a 20 mile radius

Well I'm at least 20 miles from you lol

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By *allfithung7Man
over a year ago

kingscross

Perhaps getting rid off the "I'm only here for the forums" would stop peeps reading straight away. also 20mins isn't very far especially around St Austal as maybe for some it maybe to close as for your pics and stuff you look amazing .hope it helps

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Perhaps getting rid off the "I'm only here for the forums" would stop peeps reading straight away. also 20mins isn't very far especially around St Austal as maybe for some it maybe to close as for your pics and stuff you look amazing .hope it helps "

Thanks I'll lose that bit as for driving I do 300+ miles a week working that's why I have a limit

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By *allfithung7Man
over a year ago

kingscross

I agree always better to have a verified person or couple as they are always genuine I have found. And some of us guys will travel long distance for the right woman or couple I like to make a little trip of it and get a nice hotel to .but yes stick to your guns x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

I know your struggle

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By *allfithung7Man
over a year ago

kingscross

It may be worth your while going halfs on a cheap hotel you sound and look amzing would be very up for a few nights in or around St Austel xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

I think you mean difficult. Hard is usually a good thing

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Widen your search?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/04/17 14:20:45]

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

50% of that area is under water - just saying

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Widen your search?"

I drive all day for work and don't want to be driving too far for meets the guys I've spoken to have gone AWOL when it comes to arrange meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And from your meets your looking for a tag team

i used to do that a lot when i was in the army me snd my 2 mates called ourselfs the three muscateers

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"And from your meets your looking for a tag team

i used to do that a lot when i was in the army me snd my 2 mates called ourselfs the three muscateers

I prefer it but not essential

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

For a meet, you would think most men would make an effort. I know I would.

Personally if given enough notice I am willing to go beyond a normal distance if its worth it...and by that i mean we have talked lots, chatted in text and maybe a few calls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried a club sweetheart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We struggle for meet as quite rural but live in hope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

lots of people prefer not to meet locally..

personally I tend to block anyone within a 20 mile radius

Well I'm at least 20 miles from you lol

so?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Who else thought it was a guy that created the thread.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We travel to the nearest big city , and have no problem getting meets . However it has to be said most of them aren't on fab !

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Have you tried a club sweetheart

Yes swinger's quay in Torquay but it's three hours drive lol

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Who else thought it was a guy that created the thread.

Definitely not a guy I had a mff meet this afternoon with a lovely couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a minefield!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We struggle for meet as quite rural but live in hope lol"

Might be the house by a river, with soundproofing ??, someone might be unsure if that was too block out screams of ectasy or murder .

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It's a minefield!!

Lol tell me about it

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By *oggingdillemaMan
over a year ago

west cumbria

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By *oggingdillemaMan
over a year ago

west cumbria

"Perhaps part of the problem is that you're looking for "verified people"?

In rural areas, it can be difficult for men to find women who will see them, and therefore get verified (other than photo-verification, of course).

exactly that once people see your not verified the just don't bother tlkn back to u ive been her over a year now and still not had any luck with a mee

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Wow! They even bottle out of phone sex lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Stick to your guns as far as Verified is concerned

You're doing the right thing"

It doesn't mean a thing, I have been verified before but do not want to meet the same people just to get verified, its bullshit and no guarantee of a good meet.

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Stick to your guns as far as Verified is concerned

You're doing the right thing

It doesn't mean a thing, I have been verified before but do not want to meet the same people just to get verified, its bullshit and no guarantee of a good meet."

It's my preference to only meet verified single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *mkmjn2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

you live in cornwall, thats why

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Patience is the key lol"

Getting beyond patience with the dreamers on here lol

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"you live in cornwall, thats why"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much easier in big cities. Great when I was in London, dead in Norwich by comparison.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I know how you feel OP

Thought I'd found a nice one, turns out he's a bunny boiler

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I know how you feel OP

Thought I'd found a nice one, turns out he's a bunny boiler

Crikey are you ok?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I know how you feel OP

Thought I'd found a nice one, turns out he's a bunny boiler

Crikey are you ok?"

Yes, thanks. Just disappointed in myself

but I'm over it

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I know how you feel OP

Thought I'd found a nice one, turns out he's a bunny boiler

Crikey are you ok?

Yes, thanks. Just disappointed in myself

but I'm over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

Getting beyond patience with the dreamers on here lol

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That is right too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the same when I put up a meet, nobody local is interested. X"

You look amazing and i'am not far from you il be up for a social meet first if you like and hope you have a wonderful weekend,

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Patience is the key lol

Getting beyond patience with the dreamers on here lol

That is right too lol

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I find the same when I put up a meet, nobody local is interested. X

You look amazing and i'am not far from you il be up for a social meet first if you like and hope you have a wonderful weekend,

Thanks x

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Widen your search?

I drive all day for work and don't want to be driving too far for meets the guys I've spoken to have gone AWOL when it comes to arrange meet"

Got you,but just because you widen your search doesn't mean you'd have to travel far. Just meet at a hotel if you can't accommodate. Haven't looked at your profile so just speculating

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Only asking for local verified people who can accommodate within 20 mins drive from me!!!

Widen your search?

I drive all day for work and don't want to be driving too far for meets the guys I've spoken to have gone AWOL when it comes to arrange meet

Got you,but just because you widen your search doesn't mean you'd have to travel far. Just meet at a hotel if you can't accommodate. Haven't looked at your profile so just speculating

Thanks for advice xx

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Thank you all for help on here have all my filters on now and taking advice given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread was more civil than these types usually are.

Generally the OP gets accused of expecting people to jump into bed with them and giving rubbish first messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread was more civil than these types usually are.

Generally the OP gets accused of expecting people to jump into bed with them and giving rubbish first messages."

Only if the OP is a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet today is useless unless you know how to use it properly, you have to put it on for the day you want in advance, giving plenty of time for people to see it, short, sweet and to the point and open to flexibility.

Thankfully I have a regular playmate now and ain't bothered about that shit.

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