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Be honest - it's not personal!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always felt that those of us on the scene are pretty honest people. 1/ You're openly saying I like sex and 2/ You can say No to someone because you don't fancy them.

It's still annoying, disappointing etc when you've emailed someone and they delete without replying - ego slightly crushed! But that's how it works here, they're just being honest.

Saying that, I reading posts about false profiles etc so obviously not everyone is honest. Maybe they can't take rejections using their own profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes pal some of these women get 400-500 messages over a 2/3 day period, it's inevitable sometimes your messages don't even get read.

One lass recently sent me a wink, so I sent a message saying thanks for the wink and it's not even been read! So I'll give it a few days and message again but I'm presuming (hoping haha) it's just got missed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd say that lots of people are less than honest within swinging and some dress unkindness up as honesty too but that's true in wider life.

Of course there are genuinely honest people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes pal some of these women get 400-500 messages over a 2/3 day period, it's inevitable sometimes your messages don't even get read.

One lass recently sent me a wink, so I sent a message saying thanks for the wink and it's not even been read! So I'll give it a few days and message again but I'm presuming (hoping haha) it's just got missed."

Whispers... was that me?

It dropped off the visible page

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I've always felt that those of us on the scene are pretty honest people. 1/ You're openly saying I like sex and 2/ You can say No to someone because you don't fancy them.

It's still annoying, disappointing etc when you've emailed someone and they delete without replying - ego slightly crushed! But that's how it works here, they're just being honest.

Saying that, I reading posts about false profiles etc so obviously not everyone is honest. Maybe they can't take rejections using their own profile. "

Hi! Looks like you're new here. Welcome!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Not sure why there is an assertion that honesty and replying to messages are somehow linked?

I'm honest...

I often don't reply to messages

V x

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Not sure why there is an assertion that honesty and replying to messages are somehow linked?

I'm honest...

I often don't reply to messages

V x

"

I like you.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Not sure why there is an assertion that honesty and replying to messages are somehow linked?

I'm honest...

I often don't reply to messages

V x

I like you. "

I replied to you

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Not sure why there is an assertion that honesty and replying to messages are somehow linked?

I'm honest...

I often don't reply to messages

V x

I like you.

I replied to you "

I know. I'm just being honest.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Not sure why there is an assertion that honesty and replying to messages are somehow linked?

I'm honest...

I often don't reply to messages

V x

I like you.

I replied to you

I know. I'm just being honest. "

Did we just prove or disprove the assertion

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Sometimes pal some of these women get 400-500 messages over a 2/3 day period, it's inevitable sometimes your messages don't even get read.

One lass recently sent me a wink, so I sent a message saying thanks for the wink and it's not even been read! So I'll give it a few days and message again but I'm presuming (hoping haha) it's just got missed."

100% correct

My experience on fab has made me more thick skinned and taught me how to deal with rejection. Remember your not gonna be everyone's cup of tea.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Not sure why there is an assertion that honesty and replying to messages are somehow linked?

I'm honest...

I often don't reply to messages

V x

I like you.

I replied to you

I know. I'm just being honest.

Did we just prove or disprove the assertion "

Neither.

You know, this mail system is so crap. I can't even go back and see what we said.

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes your never everybody's cup of tea but also as a previous comment said,; Ladies and couples get lots of messages and your up against a lot of competition..

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