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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're wondering how much interest there is for swapping partners (i.e. separate meets) but for a whole evening/weekend where the partners each act as a "couple" with the other couple!

We love the thought of each other spending time on dates and more intimate time with others than just meeting for sex! Definitely not the same as polyamory, just occasionally seeing other people.

We just don't seem to come across many singles/couples who are into it

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

would be great- having the intimicy without the dear of it being seen as more than it is...

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I think it would only work if you had 3/4 previous meets with them, Most peoples personalities slowly come out as you get know them, How awkwardly would a weekend be if you didn't get on.

I would love to find a couple who I clicked with and have weekends away with the Female as I love staying in hotels

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We could think of nothing worse, our enjoyment is seeing the other enjoying their "new" partner.

It is witnessing the moment rather than listening to a historical account later

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we agree that meeting together beforehand is a smart thing to do, it's necessary for the female(s) to trust the guy(s) before meeting alone anyway so a few meets together is never a bad idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We could think of nothing worse, our enjoyment is seeing the other enjoying their "new" partner.

It is witnessing the moment rather than listening to a historical account later"

There are always plenty of pics/vids to send to each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We could think of nothing worse, our enjoyment is seeing the other enjoying their "new" partner.

It is witnessing the moment rather than listening to a historical account later"

Me too. Id be jealous as hell if I am honest. We have done it a few times but definitely not for us. Tried it but nooo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is something we've dabbled with, and might explore more.

It's amusing to us how hostile some other swingers get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never done it before - it hasn't seemed quite as interesting as having group sex. But I am planning an overnight meet with a single guy without Marc there (videos for Marc after, of course), so I guess it's something we are exploring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've watched couples do this at a club.

It's interesting when then don't even acknowledge each other. I'm not sure what to make of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something we're keen to try. Good to meet others open to such adventures xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea. Then I can get rid of him for the whole weekend; bliss

- Mrs. J -

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We could think of nothing worse, our enjoyment is seeing the other enjoying their "new" partner.

It is witnessing the moment rather than listening to a historical account later"

Same for us. We love watching each other with other people. But of course do what makes you happy. Jack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically ,i would get rid of the Mrs for a night or weekend,but to do so I have to put up with someone elses Mrs?

No thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we agree that meeting together beforehand is a smart thing to do, it's necessary for the female(s) to trust the guy(s) before meeting alone anyway so a few meets together is never a bad idea."

We'd suggest separate socials too as it gives the excitement of dating or having a fling. You can also get a much better gauge of whether you're likely to get on in your new couplings.

There's absolutely nothing risked by letting your partner meet someone else in a bar for a couple of hours. Would you not let them have a solo vanilla drink? And yet many couples on here treat such a suggestion as completely outrageous and immoral. Luckily there are others, like those who are up for what the op suggested, who get it. Separate socials really divides the wheat from the chaff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So will they have to do the cooking/ cleaning and DIY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time we had a guy around.. wife sent me to the pub to watch football for an hour.. its only 50 yards from home but felt so exciting knowing she was being fucked by this guy.. I waited the hour and went home for clean up duties... I must admit however exciting it was I much prefer same room participating or watching.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We're wondering how much interest there is for swapping partners (i.e. separate meets) but for a whole evening/weekend where the partners each act as a "couple" with the other couple!

We love the thought of each other spending time on dates and more intimate time with others than just meeting for sex! Definitely not the same as polyamory, just occasionally seeing other people.

We just don't seem to come across many singles/couples who are into it "

We've sort of got to this stage naturally with one or two couples. We see each other socially in vanilla nights (e.g. theatre), we've met each others families and take occassional weekend holidays together too. Oh and we fuck too. But it's definately not polyamory as you say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we agree that meeting together beforehand is a smart thing to do, it's necessary for the female(s) to trust the guy(s) before meeting alone anyway so a few meets together is never a bad idea.

We'd suggest separate socials too as it gives the excitement of dating or having a fling. You can also get a much better gauge of whether you're likely to get on in your new couplings.

There's absolutely nothing risked by letting your partner meet someone else in a bar for a couple of hours. Would you not let them have a solo vanilla drink? And yet many couples on here treat such a suggestion as completely outrageous and immoral. Luckily there are others, like those who are up for what the op suggested, who get it. Separate socials really divides the wheat from the chaff "
to be honest id be really pissed off if Mr wanted to take someone else out for a meal etc.. but then ive already said i cant handle seperate meets. I like to be there and be able to join in if need be.

But i guess its all about meeting people that fit what your looking for. And if you like separate meets then seperate socials would seem sensible x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're wondering how much interest there is for swapping partners (i.e. separate meets) but for a whole evening/weekend where the partners each act as a "couple" with the other couple!

We love the thought of each other spending time on dates and more intimate time with others than just meeting for sex! Definitely not the same as polyamory, just occasionally seeing other people.

We just don't seem to come across many singles/couples who are into it "

Yep. Me and my wife will swap with you.

Only down side is she isn't into females.

Me and your fella will enjoy our time together though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We could think of nothing worse, our enjoyment is seeing the other enjoying their "new" partner.

It is witnessing the moment rather than listening to a historical account later"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nearly all of our meets are together, we still love meeting new people together and getting to know them (in and out of the bedroom)! The separate meets are usually people we know and trust

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"We're wondering how much interest there is for swapping partners (i.e. separate meets) but for a whole evening/weekend where the partners each act as a "couple" with the other couple!

We love the thought of each other spending time on dates and more intimate time with others than just meeting for sex! Definitely not the same as polyamory, just occasionally seeing other people.

We just don't seem to come across many singles/couples who are into it "

It's a great idea.. . Think it would make a hell of a story time come bedtime when you're back with your own partner's .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" It's a great idea.. . Think it would make a hell of a story time come bedtime when you're back with your own partner's . "

That's always the most exciting part!

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