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Hotel meet - my treat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Saw this posted in a.meet when I was down south, from a guy willing to pay all expenses for hotel. Would that be an incentive to meet someone? I didn't have time on that occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages all the time offering the same...

shame I cant do overnight meets

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By *r_BBW_LoverMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I'm a guy so this isn't really something I have to worry about but if I did have to think about it I'd never meet someone simply because they're paying for a hotel room. There has to be an attraction otherwise you're just selling your body - and if i was doing that it'd be for a lot more than a night at a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. Id feel as though i was selling myself

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

50/50 we're both using the room why should i pay for it

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i've had 2 meets in hotels, both paid for by the guy.

it's not an incentive for me but if i was skint and couldn't accommodate then it would be probably.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It wouldn't be an incentive as such but if he was hot and I was available I'd consider it

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return "

But why would you go to a hotel for a social?..so if you did go it's obvious what you'd be going for,wouldn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't be an incentive as such but if he was hot and I was available I'd consider it "

This

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

puts me off to be honest... I wouldn't meet. don't get me wrong, if someone is at a hotel anyway I am fine with him paying, otherwise its 50/50 but to use it as a selling point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return

But why would you go to a hotel for a social?..so if you did go it's obvious what you'd be going for,wouldn't it?"

I wouldn't for a social! That's what the pub is for.

I mean as in I wouldn't feel I had to do anything because he'd paid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep but WOULD you feel obliged to have sex with someone in a hotel if they made hotel cost "their treat"? Not sure I would.

I kind of interpreted the post of him paying as the actions of a guy who was desperate to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet him. I like to get to know someone before agreeing to meet.

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington


"I wouldn't meet him. I like to get to know someone before agreeing to meet. "

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Saw this posted in a.meet when I was down south, from a guy willing to pay all expenses for hotel. Would that be an incentive to meet someone? I didn't have time on that occasion"

Wouldn't be an incentive for me It's just money afterall!

There is some practically about meeting in a hotel bar for a social though I guess

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return

But why would you go to a hotel for a social?..so if you did go it's obvious what you'd be going for,wouldn't it?

I wouldn't for a social! That's what the pub is for.

I mean as in I wouldn't feel I had to do anything because he'd paid "

Nobody should feel that they should have to do anything just because someone has paid for a hotel!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at it this way,if a guy is going to go and pay for it,it would cost a minimum of £100 for 30 minutes, he could get good room for that fuck all night and you could get on very well,after all it is no different than taking her out wine and dining her,that could cost more and end up being fucked in the car lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not for me - as in the fact they have a room for a night doesnt attrct me at all unless it was someone i knew already

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield


"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return

But why would you go to a hotel for a social?..so if you did go it's obvious what you'd be going for,wouldn't it?

I wouldn't for a social! That's what the pub is for.

I mean as in I wouldn't feel I had to do anything because he'd paid "

Agreed. I'd rather go 50/50 then made to feel bad if they pay and demand something just because they paid.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Saw this posted in a.meet when I was down south, from a guy willing to pay all expenses for hotel. Would that be an incentive to meet someone? I didn't have time on that occasion"

It would be an incentive not to meet in that scenario. He obviously thinks he can simply buy a woman but wants the cheapest option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I wouldn't meet him. I like to get to know someone before agreeing to meet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet him. I like to get to know someone before agreeing to meet. "

Absolutely this. It doesn't bother me who pays tbh.I only meet when I'm ready to. And I wouldn't feel obliged to do anything I didn't want to regardless of who paid. ..but as I only meet when I'm certain I want to have sex with someone that scenario is unlikely to happen and hasn't in 5 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it wouldn't attract me at all. I like to pay my own way and then nothing is expected in return "

Same going Dutch is the best way, good on you, all about pride and independence too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arrange hotel meets all the time, but never as an incentive, only after chatting, having a social etc......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Days Inn at the Motorway Services! Yeah, lets make the lady feel special!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I pay my own way in life. To me it's like treating you as an Escort tho hell of alot of women do have this mindset on here.Hotels, gifts, perfume, shoes. Ive heard it all and they are very proud of themselves. Funnily enough they slag off Escorts when all they are doing is being paid in kind. Each to their own but at least see it for what it is. You are being paid in kind for fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would pay half as it seems fair plus I'm very independent and proud.

Plus I don't feel like I'm being used and it's an equal playing field with no comebacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That always sounds a bit creepy to me

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"My treat" makes me gip

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Im glad i can accom. I dont have loads of spare cash to be going dutch with.

Tell you what, after reading above, i wish i had the balls to be an escort/prostitute. Then maybe i would have some bloody cash! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's already staying in the hotel then of course he's paying for it, if he's booked a hotel just to accommodate a fab meet then that's his choice if he otherwise can't accommodate why not push the boat out and enjoy a nice hotel it's private, discreet, comfortable and undisturbed! It's between themselves if they have pre drinks in bar first or get straight down to it...

The hotel stay alone wouldn't be the incentive for me but simply makes meeting possible if neither of us could otherwise accommodate and him paying simply makes life easier for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wouldn't impress me. Like to pay my share. would never go straight to a hotel anyway without at least a social drink and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we can afford nice hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely idea/fantasy... I'd love to pay.

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