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ejaculation issue lol what would you do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

found out one of my meds is hugely delaying ejaculation at times

went to Dr's and asked to change / come off them and he said.....

"it might be thought of as a good thing by some ladies "

NOOO i didn't think of that and don't know what to do now lol

love to hear your opinions or if you been in a similar situation

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By *unseeker64Woman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Well I think firstly your GP should have advised you on the best medical option not your sexual prowess.

After that said I personally hate it when a guy pounds away for hours......does nothing for me and makes me feel like I'm not sexy enough to make them cum. So prolonged ejeculation isn't for me.

Ps o hope u get the correct medical support and you can enjoy being healthy in all ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm disabled and

Sometimes I don't cum just enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

weird thing is i have had two quick explosions but most just ages

dont mind myself but can be frustrating for some

might just drop the meds for a bit and make the most of shooting lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I think firstly your GP should have advised you on the best medical option not your sexual prowess.

After that said I personally hate it when a guy pounds away for hours......does nothing for me and makes me feel like I'm not sexy enough to make them cum. So prolonged ejeculation isn't for me.

Ps o hope u get the correct medical support and you can enjoy being healthy in all ways"

doing it for hrs also would do nothing for me either, probably why i love oral so much and switch back and fore to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be more a mental thing wording about it rather than meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could it be more a mental thing wording about it rather than meets?"

not sure, all my meets been amazing

maybe stress from daily life issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree that delayed ejaculation can come across as guy not being turned on enough to cum but with position changes and oral in between it can also look like he has great stamina. So long as erection isn't lost and it's not just a case of pounding away it's not an issue...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree that delayed ejaculation can come across as guy not being turned on enough to cum but with position changes and oral in between it can also look like he has great stamina. So long as erection isn't lost and it's not just a case of pounding away it's not an issue..."

yes it can be amazing sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree that delayed ejaculation can come across as guy not being turned on enough to cum but with position changes and oral in between it can also look like he has great stamina. So long as erection isn't lost and it's not just a case of pounding away it's not an issue..."

Agree, variety is key. Quite a common problem with medication for ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anti depressants did that to me. But could control it after a while - best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tough balance to strike. I used to struggle to cum during sex, mainly through nerves, and some women would take this as a sign I wasn't turned on by them. So I know what you're saying, you want to be able to finish! And like another lady said, they don't always enjoy being pounded for what seems like forever...

Luckily these days I have more control over my release and can usually make it happen when the time is right for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take time out from "pounding away" and also change positions, have some more foreplay, use some toys and do whatever else you can tell she enjoys. Fuck her again, have a bit of playful teasing and talking and if you're still hard/hard again then go again. Don't just stick with one type of condom either. So long as you're both comfortable and having fun you will cum believe me. It's ideal when you're not clock watching and just go with the flow.

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By *aked_ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

nearby

I (dave) can literally go months between Cumming. It doesn't mean I'm not enjoying myself it just rarely ends in a messy finish. You develop a sixth sense when the guy or girl is done playing and stop. The idea behind people thinking they're not enough for you isnt something I've really thought about as if I wasn't I wouldn't be hard!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

exactly

i stay rock hard so always turned on

not really bothered and change about lots

lowering meds now until i find right balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try some arginine and zinc as well, can give you a tingling sensation once you're accustomed to it and makes cumming so much more brilliant, same with being well hydrated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try some arginine and zinc as well, can give you a tingling sensation once you're accustomed to it and makes cumming so much more brilliant, same with being well hydrated."

ooh nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male sure your nob isn't too dry either. I get the problem cos unfortunately circumsized, the tip sopping wet either from a good, hard nasty blow job or a condom with enough lube on it that's spread it over it enough while fucking will give me a steel hard on but also feel extra stimulated and I have to hold off cumming sometimes, but do let go eventually.

Can be a blessing and a curse not cumming too soon lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just means you get your playmate to do nastier shit and play longer she will want to play again

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By *eedsbig9inMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Well I think firstly your GP should have advised you on the best medical option not your sexual prowess.

After that said I personally hate it when a guy pounds away for hours......does nothing for me and makes me feel like I'm not sexy enough to make them cum. So prolonged ejeculation isn't for me.

Ps o hope u get the correct medical support and you can enjoy being healthy in all ways"

No way sometimes its so good we wana make it last

If said person didn't think u was sexy then the old fella wouldn't get hard in the first place ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think firstly your GP should have advised you on the best medical option not your sexual prowess.

After that said I personally hate it when a guy pounds away for hours......does nothing for me and makes me feel like I'm not sexy enough to make them cum. So prolonged ejeculation isn't for me.

Ps o hope u get the correct medical support and you can enjoy being healthy in all ways

No way sometimes its so good we wana make it last

If said person didn't think u was sexy then the old fella wouldn't get hard in the first place ha"

100% true, when the attraction or mood is not there it literally is impossible lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum to quick and wish I could change it so think of it as a gd thing in a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cum to quick and wish I could change it so think of it as a gd thing in a way "

Does it matter which positions you start in or do you notice a difference between them?

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By *eedsbig9inMan
over a year ago

leeds

Long sessions with a sexy lady are just the best makes my orgasm even better and very heavy cum squirty one at that

Feels amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really I've only ever been with a guy I can cum in a min from a bj which is really embarrassing the gd thing is I can cum more then once ??It puts people off meeting tbf but I love pleasing the other person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dr's can prescribe anti-depression drugs to stop premature or quick ejaculation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had them they didn't help with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry to hear

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