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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heights never bothered me lol. In fact as Im 6 foot in heels I like to think ( he he )I look like a supermodel when out next to a less tall guy ! x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some folk prefer taller people, no biggie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally"

kinda answers your own question op

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally"

I personally do yep but my friend makes up for it in other ways!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally

I personally do yep but my friend makes up for it in other ways!"

as chistos said " you answered your own question" !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally

I personally do yep but my friend makes up for it in other ways!

as chistos said " you answered your own question" !! "

Yep but it's good to hear other folks views on this as well as my friend has a complex about it

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Some ladies love heels, Some ladies want to feel petit, Some ladies want to be picked up and thrown about the room. There are many reasons why ladies want a taller guy. But as someone with a short partner/FWB, you are best placed to answer your own question. You have a short guy yet love tall guys.

My answer: there's no rhyme nor reason. Some women are firm on their preferences while others are more flexible. But at least you now understand the frustration.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally

I personally do yep but my friend makes up for it in other ways!

as chistos said " you answered your own question" !!

Yep but it's good to hear other folks views on this as well as my friend has a complex about it"

Sorry to hear that. I hope it's not due to bad comments.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally

I personally do yep but my friend makes up for it in other ways!

as chistos said " you answered your own question" !!

Yep but it's good to hear other folks views on this as well as my friend has a complex about it"

probably not helped by you stating you prefer taller men!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5.5 is just too short for us, L is 6ft so that would just look a bit silly, 5.9 would the shortest we would go i would say,

Ideally she would prefer taller than both of us

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By *nEnglishmanAbroadMan
over a year ago

Holborn

As someone who is 6'7" I have had a lifetime of people making comments about my height, mostly entirely unoriginal and insensitive, and even downright offensive at times. The only thing that matters is what you have between your ears, not how far off the ground you carry it. There are plenty of tall guys with petite girls, and plenty of shorter guys with tall girls, to show that height doesn't make any difference to whether someone is a good lover (or a good person).

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By *hicagoWalesWoman
over a year ago

Back in the States now

Hehe im only 4ft 11

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep I personally prefer guys taller than myself but sometimes other qualities.come into play hence the attraction. I do know my friend is touchy about the subject. He had snide comments.hence the post regarding height.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I prefer tall,jack is 6ft3

Wouldnt be keen on a man just my height ,they would need to be at least a bit taller than me.Just my preference.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who is 6'7" I have had a lifetime of people making comments about my height, mostly entirely unoriginal and insensitive, and even downright offensive at times. The only thing that matters is what you have between your ears, not how far off the ground you carry it. There are plenty of tall guys with petite girls, and plenty of shorter guys with tall girls, to show that height doesn't make any difference to whether someone is a good lover (or a good person). "

Nobody is saying short people are bad people or shit lovers it is all just a matter of taste and what you Kre lookinp for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...

I've dated tall and shorter men. If they are fun and make me laugh then who cares

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

We all have our preferences..each to their own.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"No...

I've dated tall and shorter men. If they are fun and make me laugh then who cares "

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?"

Has he got a broad chest? Big arms?

If yes, I'll let my heightest prejudice pass.

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By *amdacarrCouple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

Personalities are bigger and TBH I'd quite like to have fun with "whatever the pc term for someone under 4'6")

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been knocked back so many times because of it and had snidey remarks thrown my way.in society it is ok to knock a shorter person even though its not their fault and there is nothing they can do about it yet mention a persons weight and its considerd out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shorter than most males (not by a lot though), and yeah it's a bit disheartening when people get put off by it, but nothing you can do about so you just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?"

I am put off by men who are under 6ft...

and I don't see why I should compromise on something that just isn't a turn on for me, regardless of the fact that I am 6ft myself..

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?"

It's not Fab that has the issue with it, it's the people using Fab and yep, I simply don't find men the same height or shorter than me attractive, the power balance is all wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been knocked back so many times because of it and had snidey remarks thrown my way.in society it is ok to knock a shorter person even though its not their fault and there is nothing they can do about it yet mention a persons weight and its considerd out of order"

Very true. But don't let the few idiots ruin your confidence. As I've found out, if they don't like any physical part of you, that's their issue not yours. There'll be plenty of people out there who will be attracted to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have the same problem with my FWBs height of around 5'7"...never found height to make any difference to me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily for me there's not too many men that are shorter than me

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Petite probs!

We cant all be lanky supermodels

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?

Has he got a broad chest? Big arms?

If yes, I'll let my heightest prejudice pass. "

Yep he has a great build and lovely hands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get tons more meets if I was a little bit taller.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing how many guys who are allegedly my height only come up to my eyes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Petite probs!

We cant all be lanky supermodels"

lanky yes..

supermodel no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd get tons more meets if I was a little bit taller. "

Bloody hell!! If your height puts people off....some people just ain't right!!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I like taller guys myself .. my reasons I guess are I'm pretty tall and wear ridiculous heels making me 6'2 but I have actually met guys my own height and been amazing

I guess it is just a preference thing not always set in stone but being honest about what you tend to look for ... same as I like men with hair on their head but if Jason Statham messaged me on here I would chew my arm off haha but that's because his attraction is voice, smile and eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been knocked back so many times because of it and had snidey remarks thrown my way.in society it is ok to knock a shorter person even though its not their fault and there is nothing they can do about it yet mention a persons weight and its considerd out of order

Very true. But don't let the few idiots ruin your confidence. As I've found out, if they don't like any physical part of you, that's their issue not yours. There'll be plenty of people out there who will be attracted to you. "
thank you but believe me it happens so much that its hard not to let it knock your confidence.after only one meet i think its time to give the site up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Kelly Jones.

He's hot and most definitely not tall.

Basically if you have dark smouldering eyes and play the guitar, who cares.

Can we really tell how tall someone is in bed? I'm sure a lot of men under 6 foot could be just as sexy between the sheets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Kelly Jones.

He's hot and most definitely not tall.

Basically if you have dark smouldering eyes and play the guitar, who cares.

Can we really tell how tall someone is in bed? I'm sure a lot of men under 6 foot could be just as sexy between the sheets "

oh dear...

that's the line most vertically challenged people give but I wouldn't want to compromise my enjoyment of certain positions if a man with a shorter leg measurement than me couldn't quite reach his target whilst giving me doggy from behind, as I only do it standing up

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I like Kelly Jones.

He's hot and most definitely not tall.

Basically if you have dark smouldering eyes and play the guitar, who cares.

Can we really tell how tall someone is in bed? I'm sure a lot of men under 6 foot could be just as sexy between the sheets "

Of course they can but *I* don't find it sexy.

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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york

A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Kelly Jones.

He's hot and most definitely not tall.

Basically if you have dark smouldering eyes and play the guitar, who cares.

Can we really tell how tall someone is in bed? I'm sure a lot of men under 6 foot could be just as sexy between the sheets

oh dear...

that's the line most vertically challenged people give but I wouldn't want to compromise my enjoyment of certain positions if a man with a shorter leg measurement than me couldn't quite reach his target whilst giving me doggy from behind, as I only do it standing up "

Isn't that what the yellow pages are for? (or were, before global warming).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a guy I meet who's not as tall as me by quite a bit. He has the most amazing body and looks and a confidence that melts me.

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By *unseeker64Woman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"some folk prefer taller people, no biggie "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height is an issue with some

Weight is an issue for some

Race is an issue for some

How many verifications and who someone has had sex with is an issue with some.

That's Fab for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Kelly Jones.

He's hot and most definitely not tall.

Basically if you have dark smouldering eyes and play the guitar, who cares.

Can we really tell how tall someone is in bed? I'm sure a lot of men under 6 foot could be just as sexy between the sheets

oh dear...

that's the line most vertically challenged people give but I wouldn't want to compromise my enjoyment of certain positions if a man with a shorter leg measurement than me couldn't quite reach his target whilst giving me doggy from behind, as I only do it standing up

Isn't that what the yellow pages are for? (or were, before global warming). "

I doubt you would have need of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Kelly Jones.

He's hot and most definitely not tall.

Basically if you have dark smouldering eyes and play the guitar, who cares.

Can we really tell how tall someone is in bed? I'm sure a lot of men under 6 foot could be just as sexy between the sheets

oh dear...

that's the line most vertically challenged people give but I wouldn't want to compromise my enjoyment of certain positions if a man with a shorter leg measurement than me couldn't quite reach his target whilst giving me doggy from behind, as I only do it standing up "

But my point to the OP was just to say not everyone feels that way. Yes you do, but that's your own choice.

There'll always be someone who really doesn't mind either way, whether it is because height isn't an issue or because they feel attraction to who that person is inside.

Oh no, all the cliches are coming out of my mouth now!

Just trying to boost his confidence here. Not everyone will think that way. X

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Im 0nly 5"2 so anything over that to me is tall lol

But Im like the majority of women who do prefer tall men.

The taller the better for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 0nly 5"2 so anything over that to me is tall lol

But Im like the majority of women who do prefer tall men.

The taller the better for me "

There is too tall though..have known that a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 0nly 5"2 so anything over that to me is tall lol

But Im like the majority of women who do prefer tall men.

The taller the better for me

There is too tall though..have known that a few times"

Really?

What a strange world we live in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with shorties...i am neither short nor tall. I do find though that a lot of guys have SMS..and try and kick off at every opportunity

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By *lwaysdiscreetMan
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

Well i am 6ft 4ins and it seem to me that ladies dont seem to like tall guys like me.

Which i thought the ladies would really love as they get to wear those killer 6ins heels.

So ladies if you like a tall guy that lives in the south east give me a call wink wink xx

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By *ft4TallGuyMan
over a year ago

London and Amsterdam

6ft4 here, never had any complaints-

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Isn't this another preference thread?..some like tall people,some don't and some it doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally

I personally do yep but my friend makes up for it in other ways!

as chistos said " you answered your own question" !!

Yep but it's good to hear other folks views on this as well as my friend has a complex about it"

Tell him to buy some stacked shoes, or a very tall hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have preferred types weather small/tall fat/thin big boobs/boobs. Its what makes you attracted to different people. Name your choice find a match! Lol if only it was that easy!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Im 0nly 5"2 so anything over that to me is tall lol

But Im like the majority of women who do prefer tall men.

The taller the better for me

There is too tall though..have known that a few times"
Explain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 0nly 5"2 so anything over that to me is tall lol

But Im like the majority of women who do prefer tall men.

The taller the better for me

There is too tall though..have known that a few timesExplain?"

7ft 8

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?"

Haha it could be worse

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?

Haha it could be worse "

I have the opposite problem being female and 6ft tall! I think it puts off some men approaching me in clubs but then I much prefer the confident type anyhow and I usually do the approaching LOL

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?

Haha it could be worse

I have the opposite problem being female and 6ft tall! I think it puts off some men approaching me in clubs but then I much prefer the confident type anyhow and I usually do the approaching LOL"

I wouldnt be out off by a woman's height. To me it's a challenge

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?

Haha it could be worse

I have the opposite problem being female and 6ft tall! I think it puts off some men approaching me in clubs but then I much prefer the confident type anyhow and I usually do the approaching LOL

I wouldnt be out off by a woman's height. To me it's a challenge "

All the more legs to pull you in deeper Soon put me in my place

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?

Haha it could be worse

I have the opposite problem being female and 6ft tall! I think it puts off some men approaching me in clubs but then I much prefer the confident type anyhow and I usually do the approaching LOL

I wouldnt be out off by a woman's height. To me it's a challenge

All the more legs to pull you in deeper Soon put me in my place"

Haha..a girl after my own heart

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I'm not sexually attracted to short men so I won't consider meeting them. They also have very long fingers

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

If I met a tall girl I will tell her , baby I wish I could get a step ladder , climb onto it and give you a kiss. I won't let height stop me from talking to any lady I like .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I prefer tall men, but I assess each case on its merits

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

well I am fairy short and get neck ache of I have to look up too much... saying that - problem solved after changing into a more horizontal position...

it's certainly not a criteria for me though

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Im 0nly 5"2 so anything over that to me is tall lol

But Im like the majority of women who do prefer tall men.

The taller the better for me

There is too tall though..have known that a few timesExplain?

7ft 8"

Manute Bol...He can block the ball...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a criteria for me if a woman's taller than myself at 5ft 8...

Taller women who date shorter men, it's an acquired choice, it shows the woman is extremely confident, doesn't have a complex in herself and doesn't need a man of equal stature, it conveys she clearly sees more in her partners personality...look at Sophie Dahl and Jamie Cullam...

As for me, the old adage "good things come in small packages" spring to mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who is 6'7" I have had a lifetime of people making comments about my height, mostly entirely unoriginal and insensitive, and even downright offensive at times. The only thing that matters is what you have between your ears, not how far off the ground you carry it. There are plenty of tall guys with petite girls, and plenty of shorter guys with tall girls, to show that height doesn't make any difference to whether someone is a good lover (or a good person). "

I think you look great! Ive dated guys who are 6,5 6,6 and 6,7 and they've all been the nicest guys

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I'm 5'0" so not hung up on height

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"I'd get tons more meets if I was a little bit taller. "

says who?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally"

Excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

choice's choice's and choice's oh and dont forget preference preference and preference

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By *onJazzyMan
over a year ago

UKwide

Its a matter of preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see so many female profiles stating a preference for tall men that I sometimes wonder if short guys find this place extra tough to get meets? Almost feel bad for them!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I must say (in the vanilla dating world.. not so much fab) that as a 5 footer if i am aware of someones height, say on tinder for example, i do base my choice on it... but in the opposite way... if it starts with a 6 they get knocked back... shorter is better for me. That said if i met the love of my life and he was 6'1 then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get him some stilts

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By *eeAndrewMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Petite is good but everyone as different views personally height does not matter to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I met a tall girl I will tell her , baby I wish I could get a step ladder , climb onto it and give you a kiss. I won't let height stop me from talking to any lady I like ."

If you called me baby, I'd knock you off the ladder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is more important than height to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tall man is my prefrence. I'm 5'7 so not really tall I just like someone to tower over me a bit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming from a tall family where the shortest man is 6'2" and the tallest, 6'7", my partner looks like an imp at 6'5". I am willing to meet any short man as long as he is 6' or over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction is more important than height to me"

Snap..

It just so happens I'm attracted to tall men

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I prefer guy's to be at least 5'7",so I need to be looking at profiles that say they're 5'11" then I may actually get someone of 5'7"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't found it an issue, I'm only 5'6 and have had meets with taller ladies

Tell your friend to keep positive

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"I haven't found it an issue, I'm only 5'6 and have had meets with taller ladies

Tell your friend to keep positive "

It was once said "I'd rather be someone's shot of whisky than everyone's (tall) cup of tea!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't found it an issue, I'm only 5'6 and have had meets with taller ladies

Tell your friend to keep positive

It was once said "I'd rather be someone's shot of whisky than everyone's (tall) cup of tea!" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women just prefer taller men. Funnily, it's mainly height and not size that I seem to be desired.

Just like how men in general prefer small waist and broad hips.

Some traits are universally attractive.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I'd get tons more meets if I was a little bit taller.

says who?"

I assume the women who he's spoken to?

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

Height's got nothing to do with who I'm attracted to I've met guys 6'6 who are shy and lacking in confidence and guys much shorter than me with bags of confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Height's got nothing to do with who I'm attracted to I've met guys 6'6 who are shy and lacking in confidence and guys much shorter than me with bags of confidence"

Well said

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

My wit and charm usually make the women forget while we're talking (Skype, phone, texting) or don't even check on my profile. then we meet up and the same statement always "your quite short" so I think your male friend just has to wing it really and be very chatty and funny. How I've got my meets hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like to look down on men

- Mrs. J -

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By *ommon_usernameMan
over a year ago

home

Iv had women of the same height not wanting a meet because they would be slightly taller if they put heels on......

I honestly don't get it personally height doesn't bother me

We're all the same height lying down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv had women of the same height not wanting a meet because they would be slightly taller if they put heels on......

I honestly don't get it personally height doesn't bother me

We're all the same height lying down "

No, we are not. Honestly. Next time take a tape measure. A tall woman will still be taller whether she is laying down or standing up

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short/tall who cares it's about clicking and having fun, never worried about height but we are a couple of short arses! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height is a thing for me, it always has been and it always be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv had women of the same height not wanting a meet because they would be slightly taller if they put heels on......

I honestly don't get it personally height doesn't bother me

We're all the same height lying down "

that's a rumour put about by the vertically challenged ....and its not true either

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It shouldn't be an issue but it is most definitely a preference.

Height is one of the first things I look at on a profile. If they're less than 5'10 then it's unlikely I'll be interested in chatting with them, especially if I've also got a 6'4 beast to flirt with!!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

height for women is what size(figure) is for men.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Maybe there should be an option next to height, waist size lol

6'0" 183cm

waist**33**

athletic/curvy/ample

Non smoker

blah blah

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I don't have a height preference really as long as there's a nice face, nice cock and in good shape it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just described me too

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London


"I don't have a height preference really as long as there's a nice face, nice cock and in good shape it's all good "

well I tick then boxes

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

I shouldn't read these threads . I'm genuinely beginning to believe I'm the shortest man in fab history. On the bright side though, atleast I have a USP haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Sighs)

Love to say height shouldn't be an issue but it definitely is. Being 5'4 isn't easy around here but everyone's here to indulge in their own tastes - it's just a shame that I like women taller lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's because I'm hardly dinky, in all areas...can be 6ft in heels! So like a man that is taller and bigger than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's because I'm hardly dinky, in all areas...can be 6ft in heels! So like a man that is taller and bigger than me "

Ooo very tall

Though I suppose you can adjust your height if you meet a shorty.. Guys, (that don't wear heels), are a little stuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 foot 7 here height is a issue when i forget to duck under a door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?"

Probably the same thoughts as when you asked before a while back

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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago

Preston

Being on the short side for a guy, I can certainly empathise with how people might feel if they are deemed too short. But at the end of the day I can't change my height.

Just as being short for a male might restrict partners for a male does being tall for a women restrict their partners?

At what point does height difference become an issue, a couple of inches, half a foot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me "

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst part of being a short guy is being able to see right up a tall woman's nostrils.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's because I'm hardly dinky, in all areas...can be 6ft in heels! So like a man that is taller and bigger than me "

Thank God we never met then lol

I do remember you saying about a 5.7" fb you used to have being an awesome fuck though

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit "

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing."

I'm 5.7 come and take a look when i go the gym. I far stronger then most of the taller guys. Sadly that blows you're theory out the window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing."

That's why I like being short. It's easier to curl up and hide.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?"

Seeing that meets on here are usually held in a private place, why should someone's height be an issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing."

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality "

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength."

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Your singles profile says you prefer tall guys.

Sally

I personally do yep but my friend makes up for it in other ways!

as chistos said " you answered your own question" !!

Yep but it's good to hear other folks views on this as well as my friend has a complex about it"

I'm not surprised if he's read your profile

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Only when your let down, the shorter you are the easier the drop.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact "

It does when we are discussing sexual attraction and that's what we are doing here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

It does when we are discussing sexual attraction and that's what we are doing here."

Yes sexual. Not physically though. I'm glad you cleared that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this issue the day. I was too short to be physically intimdating... luckily I have seen the Karate Kid and I assumed the position for the Flamingo Kick. Works every time.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

It does when we are discussing sexual attraction and that's what we are doing here.

Yes sexual. Not physically though. I'm glad you cleared that up "

You were the one beating your chest about how physically sting you are when the question was always about attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

It does when we are discussing sexual attraction and that's what we are doing here.

Yes sexual. Not physically though. I'm glad you cleared that up

You were the one beating your chest about how physically sting you are when the question was always about attraction."

You missed out big with the strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact "

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no"

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one"

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match"

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with "

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

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over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not"

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do "

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short "

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i "

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I'm quite tall but I never see height as an issue. It's irrelevant to me but I have seen couples and ladies who prefer taller guys. I suppose it's all about preference, as long people aren't offending or insulting people because of their height then it's fair enough to only want tall guys.

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By *0yovirginMan
over a year ago

one of them

Try being 5'3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down "

Reading that above statement believe me with that and you're attitude I'm surprised anyone meets you. Well at least ppl can see what kind of a person you are from this thread

Imagine if gym fit guys said i don't wanna be seen with a bigger girl because i would look ridiculous,silly etc. World ear 3 would break out. But height. It's game on for the insults to start, i mean banter. Unless you're a women or a so called short person that wears heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down "

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50 "

And you can tell that from a heavily blurred photograph??? I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong.

If someone ain't for you just move on. No need to put anyone down. If you feel a need to you must have some serious issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I even consider my own height is when I fly long distance economy class and I wonder what it's like to sit in a seat for 12 hours with your knees under your chin.

I think I'm shorter than the average lady I meet on fab. I've never found it to be a limitation. I can repect it when a lady wants a partner taller than herself though. If that's a preference then like all preferences on fab they should be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height doesn't matter to me as I'm only 5 feet nothing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong.

If someone ain't for you just move on. No need to put anyone down. If you feel a need to you must have some serious issues. "

Well, then don't tell taller women that they have issues with their height . People in glass-houses ...

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

I'm 5"10... so I'm heels I'm basically 6"2/3... growing up I despised it.. especially when I was 18 and first going out and enjoying life and a dickhead lad came over and asked if I was a man.... seriously?!?!?!

And then as I got older I embraced it.. wear the highest stripper shoes and say fuck it!! The majority of men love the legs and the height and the fact they are face level with my tits... and then you get some men that want a little petite doll.. everyone has different tastes...

But for me I always said in order for me to feel sexually dominated I would need at least 6"2 because I still like to feel like a little subbie but I've realised over the years that some of my best experiences guys have been 5"6 even and it's blown my mind...

Honestly who cares when I'd rather be on my knees all night anyway

From one tall swinging giraffe xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping hight isn't really an issue lol I'm only 5 ft 3

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over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50

And you can tell that from a heavily blurred photograph??? I sense that the SMS is in overdrive "

He dosent look 42 maybe he is tho.

Seen 1 profile earlier they were down as 39 and and were at least 60.

Just thought id mention it def looks older

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

I must add that even at meets and clubs we still get "wow you really are tall"... which annoys me as it clearly states in our profile that if it's a turn off please bear it in mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 5"10... so I'm heels I'm basically 6"2/3... growing up I despised it.. especially when I was 18 and first going out and enjoying life and a dickhead lad came over and asked if I was a man.... seriously?!?!?!

And then as I got older I embraced it.. wear the highest stripper shoes and say fuck it!! The majority of men love the legs and the height and the fact they are face level with my tits... and then you get some men that want a little petite doll.. everyone has different tastes...

But for me I always said in order for me to feel sexually dominated I would need at least 6"2 because I still like to feel like a little subbie but I've realised over the years that some of my best experiences guys have been 5"6 even and it's blown my mind...

Honestly who cares when I'd rather be on my knees all night anyway

From one tall swinging giraffe xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong.

If someone ain't for you just move on. No need to put anyone down. If you feel a need to you must have some serious issues.

Well, then don't tell taller women that they have issues with their height . People in glass-houses ..."

You're the one making a issue out of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50

And you can tell that from a heavily blurred photograph??? I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

He dosent look 42 maybe he is tho.

Seen 1 profile earlier they were down as 39 and and were at least 60.

Just thought id mention it def looks older "

OK little fella; you got x-ray vision. I wouldn't recognise my own parter from that photograph but you can even determine his age; like I said; I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

I wish he was older as it makes me conscious that I am 4 years older than him. I wish he was atleast 50 because then we would not just be the perfect height for each other, but the perfect age too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrr..... as long as she is shorter or equal with heels I'm good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong.

If someone ain't for you just move on. No need to put anyone down. If you feel a need to you must have some serious issues.

Well, then don't tell taller women that they have issues with their height . People in glass-houses ...

You're the one making a issue out of it lol"

Really???

"Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i'

So what was that then, huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong.

If someone ain't for you just move on. No need to put anyone down. If you feel a need to you must have some serious issues.

Well, then don't tell taller women that they have issues with their height . People in glass-houses ...

You're the one making a issue out of it lol

Really???

"Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i'

So what was that then, huh?"

A few posts up you said it looked silly with you and the shorter guy. I was just repeating you're words. I can sense tps here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your right sorry about that.

It was more profile i seen earlier like im 36 if people can lie about thier age how can you beleive anything they say

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over a year ago


"I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong.

If someone ain't for you just move on. No need to put anyone down. If you feel a need to you must have some serious issues.

Well, then don't tell taller women that they have issues with their height . People in glass-houses ...

You're the one making a issue out of it lol

Really???

"Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i'

So what was that then, huh?

A few posts up you said it looked silly with you and the shorter guy. I was just repeating you're words. I can sense tps here "

And I did with that guy. What has that to do with you in as much as you then told me that I look silly with my height?

Come on, if you can't take it then don't try and dish it out and then plead about, "I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the average English man is 5ft9. The average English woman is 5ft3.

In general height differences are usually because of femur and shin bones. Adult torsos are usually more or less the same length which is where the "same height lying down" comment comes from.

Where does this SMS syndrome come from? Because someone has a shorter shinbone it determines their character?

If you are taller than your partner and you think it makes you look rediculous then why are you wearing heels? If there's only 2" difference between you then there is more rediculousness added by the heels than the barefoot height difference. If he were wearing heels and you were in flat soles the he would be taller. At 5ft10 he's still taller than the average Emglishman.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I have a couples profile as well and ladies/couples are always put off by my male friend's height of 5'5. This has been mentioned on a few.occasions and while my height seems to be ok it isn't on a guy - thoughts?"

something you wrote in the Cuddly man thread seems very apt to put here....

"my personal choice"........

so is there really a difference between choosing someone based on "height"....as opposed to choosing someone based on "build"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the average English man is 5ft9. The average English woman is 5ft3.

In general height differences are usually because of femur and shin bones. Adult torsos are usually more or less the same length which is where the "same height lying down" comment comes from.

Where does this SMS syndrome come from? Because someone has a shorter shinbone it determines their character?

If you are taller than your partner and you think it makes you look rediculous then why are you wearing heels? If there's only 2" difference between you then there is more rediculousness added by the heels than the barefoot height difference. If he were wearing heels and you were in flat soles the he would be taller. At 5ft10 he's still taller than the average Emglishman."

If that is directed at me then let me say that whether I want to wear heels or not is none of your business

I can now wear heels and stand at 6'2" and my partner is still taller than me. I am not bothered about averages. Only about being with a man who is right for me

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By *uziebabyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

All physical aspects can appeal to some and repulse others until we start forcing people to have sex with others then it should be down to the choice of the individual on what attracts them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong.

If someone ain't for you just move on. No need to put anyone down. If you feel a need to you must have some serious issues.

Well, then don't tell taller women that they have issues with their height . People in glass-houses ...

You're the one making a issue out of it lol

Really???

"Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i'

So what was that then, huh?

A few posts up you said it looked silly with you and the shorter guy. I was just repeating you're words. I can sense tps here

And I did with that guy. What has that to do with you in as much as you then told me that I look silly with my height?

Come on, if you can't take it then don't try and dish it out and then plead about, "I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong""

I'm out. You can't reason with some ppl

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50

And you can tell that from a heavily blurred photograph??? I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

He dosent look 42 maybe he is tho.

Seen 1 profile earlier they were down as 39 and and were at least 60.

Just thought id mention it def looks older

OK little fella; you got x-ray vision. I wouldn't recognise my own parter from that photograph but you can even determine his age; like I said; I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

I wish he was older as it makes me conscious that I am 4 years older than him. I wish he was atleast 50 because then we would not just be the perfect height for each other, but the perfect age too"

'Little fella' ?? Wow that's not patronising at all is it ?

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over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50

And you can tell that from a heavily blurred photograph??? I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

He dosent look 42 maybe he is tho.

Seen 1 profile earlier they were down as 39 and and were at least 60.

Just thought id mention it def looks older

OK little fella; you got x-ray vision. I wouldn't recognise my own parter from that photograph but you can even determine his age; like I said; I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

I wish he was older as it makes me conscious that I am 4 years older than him. I wish he was atleast 50 because then we would not just be the perfect height for each other, but the perfect age too

'Little fella' ?? Wow that's not patronising at all is it ?

"

Prefixing, "no offence but ..." to a sentence doesn't make it less patronising; ok??

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50

And you can tell that from a heavily blurred photograph??? I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

He dosent look 42 maybe he is tho.

Seen 1 profile earlier they were down as 39 and and were at least 60.

Just thought id mention it def looks older

OK little fella; you got x-ray vision. I wouldn't recognise my own parter from that photograph but you can even determine his age; like I said; I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

I wish he was older as it makes me conscious that I am 4 years older than him. I wish he was atleast 50 because then we would not just be the perfect height for each other, but the perfect age too

'Little fella' ?? Wow that's not patronising at all is it ?

Prefixing, "no offence but ..." to a sentence doesn't make it less patronising; ok??"

Less so than a direct hit about someone's height on a forum post about whether height is an issue !!

Wonder if such patronising terms would be used on a thread about race or sexual preference ?

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over a year ago


"So the average English man is 5ft9. The average English woman is 5ft3.

In general height differences are usually because of femur and shin bones. Adult torsos are usually more or less the same length which is where the "same height lying down" comment comes from.

Where does this SMS syndrome come from? Because someone has a shorter shinbone it determines their character?

If you are taller than your partner and you think it makes you look rediculous then why are you wearing heels? If there's only 2" difference between you then there is more rediculousness added by the heels than the barefoot height difference. If he were wearing heels and you were in flat soles the he would be taller. At 5ft10 he's still taller than the average Emglishman.

If that is directed at me then let me say that whether I want to wear heels or not is none of your business

I can now wear heels and stand at 6'2" and my partner is still taller than me. I am not bothered about averages. Only about being with a man who is right for me"

No it wasn't directed at you. It's directed at anyone who identifies a problem. Deliberately makes it worse. Then complains about it.

You're right it is your business. Stand on stilts. I couldn't care less. I still think its a reasonable question to ask why women who are unusually tall feel the need to feel taller.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the average English man is 5ft9. The average English woman is 5ft3.

In general height differences are usually because of femur and shin bones. Adult torsos are usually more or less the same length which is where the "same height lying down" comment comes from.

Where does this SMS syndrome come from? Because someone has a shorter shinbone it determines their character?

If you are taller than your partner and you think it makes you look rediculous then why are you wearing heels? If there's only 2" difference between you then there is more rediculousness added by the heels than the barefoot height difference. If he were wearing heels and you were in flat soles the he would be taller. At 5ft10 he's still taller than the average Emglishman.

If that is directed at me then let me say that whether I want to wear heels or not is none of your business

I can now wear heels and stand at 6'2" and my partner is still taller than me. I am not bothered about averages. Only about being with a man who is right for me

No it wasn't directed at you. It's directed at anyone who identifies a problem. Deliberately makes it worse. Then complains about it.

You're right it is your business. Stand on stilts. I couldn't care less. I still think its a reasonable question to ask why women who are unusually tall feel the need to feel taller."

I don't think I am tall compared to my partner; he is 7" taller than me. I am only tall when compared to shorter men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50

And you can tell that from a heavily blurred photograph??? I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

He dosent look 42 maybe he is tho.

Seen 1 profile earlier they were down as 39 and and were at least 60.

Just thought id mention it def looks older

OK little fella; you got x-ray vision. I wouldn't recognise my own parter from that photograph but you can even determine his age; like I said; I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

I wish he was older as it makes me conscious that I am 4 years older than him. I wish he was atleast 50 because then we would not just be the perfect height for each other, but the perfect age too

'Little fella' ?? Wow that's not patronising at all is it ?

Prefixing, "no offence but ..." to a sentence doesn't make it less patronising; ok??

Less so than a direct hit about someone's height on a forum post about whether height is an issue !!

Wonder if such patronising terms would be used on a thread about race or sexual preference ? "

That is just your opionion and you are welcome to it. My opinion is that it is more patronising when casting aspersions on someone's age

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50

And you can tell that from a heavily blurred photograph??? I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

He dosent look 42 maybe he is tho.

Seen 1 profile earlier they were down as 39 and and were at least 60.

Just thought id mention it def looks older

OK little fella; you got x-ray vision. I wouldn't recognise my own parter from that photograph but you can even determine his age; like I said; I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

I wish he was older as it makes me conscious that I am 4 years older than him. I wish he was atleast 50 because then we would not just be the perfect height for each other, but the perfect age too

'Little fella' ?? Wow that's not patronising at all is it ?

Prefixing, "no offence but ..." to a sentence doesn't make it less patronising; ok??

Less so than a direct hit about someone's height on a forum post about whether height is an issue !!

Wonder if such patronising terms would be used on a thread about race or sexual preference ?

That is just your opionion and you are welcome to it. My opinion is that it is more patronising when casting aspersions on someone's age"

Yes you are right I am very welcome to it ...

Always a pleasure to be blocked when expressing an opinion that differs from a fellow fabber too

When you run out of argument hit the old block button for effect lol

Peace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the average English man is 5ft9. The average English woman is 5ft3.

In general height differences are usually because of femur and shin bones. Adult torsos are usually more or less the same length which is where the "same height lying down" comment comes from.

Where does this SMS syndrome come from? Because someone has a shorter shinbone it determines their character?

If you are taller than your partner and you think it makes you look rediculous then why are you wearing heels? If there's only 2" difference between you then there is more rediculousness added by the heels than the barefoot height difference. If he were wearing heels and you were in flat soles the he would be taller. At 5ft10 he's still taller than the average Emglishman.

If that is directed at me then let me say that whether I want to wear heels or not is none of your business

I can now wear heels and stand at 6'2" and my partner is still taller than me. I am not bothered about averages. Only about being with a man who is right for me

No it wasn't directed at you. It's directed at anyone who identifies a problem. Deliberately makes it worse. Then complains about it.

You're right it is your business. Stand on stilts. I couldn't care less. I still think its a reasonable question to ask why women who are unusually tall feel the need to feel taller.

I don't think I am tall compared to my partner; he is 7" taller than me. I am only tall when compared to shorter men"

Good for you. I'm glad ypu found your match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...

I should be taller!

It's not fun having to use a ladder to paint the top panels of your garden shed you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man must be taller than me sorry I just like to feel safe & secure and tall does that for me

This is the same as the' were all the same height in bed'

A guy who is taller then you don't mean there be able to make you feel safe secure anymore then a shorter guy lol.

I respect prefences but don't accept bullshit

Only it's not bullshit, it's how she feels about short men and I feel exactly the same too.

Short men make me feel as if I'm the one that needs to protect them, that they are weaker than me (even if they are not) and there is zero sexual attraction. It feels awkward and a tad embarrassing.

I'll also add that's all in you're head. It's not Reality

You're still not getting this are you. It is reality, it's my reality. I don't care how strong you are, how wonderful you are in bed or any other of the male stuff that attracts other women, because you are short, all those things don't matter because my reality of you is that you are none of those things.

How much you can press has bugger all to do with how I perceive your strength.

Exactly, you. It's still not reality though. I'm sorry to burst you're fantasy. A guys height does not make him any more or less stronger then the next guy. Fact

I don't need a weight-lifter; a fork-lift truck can do that. I want a man who is taller than me so that he doesn't look ridiculous standing next to me

I once dated a small man; at 5'10", he looked like a child with me towering over him at 6'2" in my heels. I learnt my lesson and now anyone under 6' is a no-no

Why did the man look ridiculous? Maybe you were the ridiculous one

No, he looked silly; like he was a little child. Now with a 6'5" partner, we are a match

If you're insucure about you're height I'd say thats you're problem not the guy you was with

That is what every little man says Just like the, "we are all the same height when laying down" No, we are not

I have no issues with my height. You on the other hand obviously do

I have no issues with my height or with my partner's height. The issues only start when a guy writes to us and I have to tell him that he is not my type as he is too short

Well I'm not that guy am i. I wouldn't wanna make you look silly being next to me now would i

Don't flatter yourself . I am well-matched with my partner and probably would even notice you unless I looked down

No offence but your husband dosent look 42 he looks at least 50

And you can tell that from a heavily blurred photograph??? I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

He dosent look 42 maybe he is tho.

Seen 1 profile earlier they were down as 39 and and were at least 60.

Just thought id mention it def looks older

OK little fella; you got x-ray vision. I wouldn't recognise my own parter from that photograph but you can even determine his age; like I said; I sense that the SMS is in overdrive

I wish he was older as it makes me conscious that I am 4 years older than him. I wish he was atleast 50 because then we would not just be the perfect height for each other, but the perfect age too

'Little fella' ?? Wow that's not patronising at all is it ?

Prefixing, "no offence but ..." to a sentence doesn't make it less patronising; ok??

Less so than a direct hit about someone's height on a forum post about whether height is an issue !!

Wonder if such patronising terms would be used on a thread about race or sexual preference ?

That is just your opionion and you are welcome to it. My opinion is that it is more patronising when casting aspersions on someone's age

Yes you are right I am very welcome to it ...

Always a pleasure to be blocked when expressing an opinion that differs from a fellow fabber too

When you run out of argument hit the old block button for effect lol

Peace "

I haven't run out of 'arguments'. There is no argument when it comes to my personal preferences or when it comes to what I find patronising

I blocked you along-with a couple of hundred other profiles simply because we are looking for a different type of person. It is not meant as anything more than that, so please don't take it as such; just that we don't want those profiles coming up in our searches

Peace to you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that any size,race etc was free to use fab without ridicule. Being a open minded site and all that. Sadly this thread proves that wrong.

If someone ain't for you just move on. No need to put anyone down. If you feel a need to you must have some serious issues. "

I can't believe you think this is an open minded site!

Height differences Do make a difference lying down because of the mismatch in the length of bodies.

If you are a shorter guy with a taller girl it's very difficult when you are sat on his face to give a blow job to his knee! (Ok, I am exaggerating slightly to make my point, but it really is a logistical difficulty)

 (closed, thread got too big)

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