FabSwingers.com forum: Mr wanting me to meet with an old fling

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The mr has been getting all horny while asking questions about an old fling I had years ago, Now he wants me to contact him and ask. I don't understand why as we happy to meet new people but he wants me to go and have a meet with this guy as if I'm single and come home and tell him what happened. The thought of it sounds good but why a old fling? I've asked him and he said it's naughty the fact he wanted a full relationship with you years ago.. don't know what to do?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Sounds like he is turned on by the thought of you being fucked by someone who was important in your life.

He may want to get off on the risk that you would renew your feelings for the old flame

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Sounds like he wants you to find an fb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what if feelings were renewed... seems a little bit off to me and a little sinister to mess with someone else's life and genuine feelings for the sake of hubby getting off on it sexually.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Doesn't sound like a good idea to me.

Meet someone new, someone you have never had any feelings for is one thing. But someone you once had a thing with....

Or he could be doing the 'he still want to fuck the woman that I have' thing.

Men, who knows.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Terrible idea in my opinion. Swinging should about no strings without emotions. It could of course be great sex for you, nice dirty story for him later with his cock in your hand, but.....could have an adverse effect on your relationship.

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By *eneral_NoStringsMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"And what if feelings were renewed... seems a little bit off to me and a little sinister to mess with someone else's life and genuine feelings for the sake of hubby getting off on it sexually. "

This!.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We had a similar scenario a while back .

We found the guy my wife first slept with when she was 16 on here . I wanted her to meet him , but not on her own . We made contact , chatted for a bit , he wanted to meet her , but didn't want me there so it didn't happen . Mind you , although meeting separately isn't our thing , that was the closest we came to having this kind of meet . I encouraged her to go through with it , but we always said we wouldn't meet separately and stuck to it . It's still a fantasy that gets me so hard every time I think of it !

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

The whole scenario sounds like it will end in tears to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not sure, then don't do it. Talk to your husband about why he wants you to do this, and maybe find a way of having the excitement of meeting someone new, without risking developing an emotional connection to your old fling.

We've always agreed that if we ever feel ourselves developing feelings for anyone, other than just friendship, then we stop meeting them. We have a great relationship, we're really happy together, and we feel that to risk damaging that in any way would be really stupid.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only do what sits right with you and you only...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Decided to do it for his birthday I'm truly in love with him and sex with any other guys I have is just sex not anything for them no matter how good it is lol so I've sorted it and will be screaming the hotel roof off lol

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Potentially the husband feels more comfortable with a person you know because he doesn't have to worry about your safety and you know what to expect sex wise.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Dont do anything you are not comfortable with op,if you don't want to meet him,your hubby should respect this.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to do it for his birthday I'm truly in love with him and sex with any other guys I have is just sex not anything for them no matter how good it is lol so I've sorted it and will be screaming the hotel roof off lol "

good luck with it all

hope it all turns out good x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe be prepared for him to drop the bombshell that he still has the hots for an old flame/wants to fuck an old flame/is fucking an old flame. Sounds sinister to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So guy your meeting is being set up and lied to as he's being told your single... so apparently his feelings, choices and boundaries are completely irrelevant to you and your husband so long as your happy and getting what you want.

Quality!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Sounds like a person who wants to enjoy risk.

Everyone has their own level of risk. For most of the population swinging is far too risky to want to try it or mention it to their partner.

Some people enjoy risk in their sex life.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"So guy your meeting is being set up and lied to as he's being told your single... so apparently his feelings, choices and boundaries are completely irrelevant to you and your husband so long as your happy and getting what you want.

Quality!"

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Sounds like a person who wants to enjoy risk.

Everyone has their own level of risk. For most of the population swinging is far too risky to want to try it or mention it to their partner.

Some people enjoy risk in their sex life. "

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Does not sound good. Tbh. I we would give that one a miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave well alone, sounds very unfair on the old fling and potential for it all to get very messy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i missed the bit about them not knowing.... hmmmm

could turn out nasty

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Go with your gut it's normally right

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