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By *alfSmile OP   Man
over a year ago

Yate

Hiya.

Just for fun, I'm curious on peoples picky nature?

Could it be someone wearing orange socks puts you off.

Please keep it fun and light hearted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm overly picky, but i do have limitations and the attraction and personality must be there, as it were for most I'm sure

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, I am. Everyone is they just have different things they're prepared to accept or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incredibly! Nothing in particular, but if the general package (as it were) doesn't wow me within the first ten seconds, it ain't happening.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Extremely, hence why I have only had sex once this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say I'm overly picky, but i do have limitations and the attraction and personality must be there, as it were for most I'm sure "

Cdnt of said it any better. Kay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm cool with orange socks, but I can't stand yellow ones. Or leather jackets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very picky apparently... i told someone i wasn't attracted to them and got told i'm just being picky.... pretty sure its the same thing haha

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Yes... Quite hypocritical really because I'm no oil painting myself! But it goes a lot further than physical appearance.

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By *ust fun9TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

Probably just looking for compatability than picky...does limit your meet options though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not picky. .but I have specific tastes. I couldn't give a fuck about socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are probably upset a few people, but don't need notches on the bedpost, just fun with the right people

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Very - hence the strapline on my profile x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not picky, I just know what I like.

However anyone wearing a polo shirt, especially if the buttons are done up, will go to the bottom of the list.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"I wouldn't say I'm overly picky, but i do have limitations and the attraction and personality must be there, as it were for most I'm sure "

When horny and would prefer company to sorting myself out then not really

But when properly going out for the night yes- very picky as I crap company can easily ruin a night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socks....I don't mind my wife wearing them, if she ever did, but for me if I'm wearing socks then I have to take them off....I don't know why but I feel odd with them on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who put 'lol' at the end of every sentence. It drives me batty. Other than that I'm quite easy going

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Picky is good, it requires one to have standards.

Orange socks wouldn't bother me unless they tried to wear them to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite picky...I can fall in love with a face on the train but that's just aesthetics..If I'm going to fuck or even kiss then there's a few nots..

Like chewing fucking loudly!!

Or bad dirty talk...

Etc etc.

But saying that...if she has big full natural tits then she chew as loud as she pleases...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picky is good, it requires one to have standards.

"

See picky to me implies being bothered about someone's socks for example. It doesn't say much to me about standards

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire

Im VERY picky someones shoes can put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im VERY picky someones shoes can put me off "

Yeah see that's what I understand picky to be. Not how others seem to interpret it.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

I don't think I'm picky, I just know what does it for me. If I'm going to make the effort of making sure everything is looking nice and tidy then it has to be for somebody who's ticking my boxes. We all want the fantastic sex so it's no surprise we have certain things we want/look for wether that's picky or self respect is up to the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it is just a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm going to meet privately off of here then I'm picky. If I'm in a club or party then I just go with the flow. Don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Im VERY picky someones shoes can put me off

Yeah see that's what I understand picky to be. Not how others seem to interpret it. "

In that case I'm not picky at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant deal with a big Adam's apple. He could be the most attractive guy in the world but if that lump sticks out Im not going near it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say picky. I just know the kind of guy i like.

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By *ugatits76Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

Yes very picky sorry to say, I annoy myself sometimes but if I don't find someone attractive or strike up a connection then I could not bring myself to meet them which is a shame as they are probably lovely in person but first impressions count online i.e profile pics

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By *ugatits76Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"I cant deal with a big Adam's apple. He could be the most attractive guy in the world but if that lump sticks out Im not going near it "

Haha that's proper made me giggle

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"I wouldnt say picky. I just know the kind of guy i like. "

Im same but if that guy has awful shows or trainers on then im well put off lol

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"I cant deal with a big Adam's apple. He could be the most attractive guy in the world but if that lump sticks out Im not going near it "

lmao

Picky is good to help you filter if your are attractive to the person, is the time worth it etc.

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"Yes very picky sorry to say, I annoy myself sometimes but if I don't find someone attractive or strike up a connection then I could not bring myself to meet them which is a shame as they are probably lovely in person but first impressions count online i.e profile pics "

This same for me if theres no attraction then even if its just a shag i cant bring myself to meet them

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a real issue with people using Oxford commas. If they are hot and wiling to overlook my predilection for splitting an infinitive, however, then I can just about agree to disagree and have lovely sex provided we don't discuss it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a real issue with people using Oxford commas. If they are hot and wiling to overlook my predilection for splitting an infinitive, however, then I can just about agree to disagree and have lovely sex provided we don't discuss it further."

I take Oxford commas very seriously. I honestly can't stand when they aren't used....

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/465321

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have a real issue with people using Oxford commas. If they are hot and wiling to overlook my predilection for splitting an infinitive, however, then I can just about agree to disagree and have lovely sex provided we don't discuss it further.

I take Oxford commas very seriously. I honestly can't stand when they aren't used....

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/465321"

I know. Agree to disagree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya.

Just for fun, I'm curious on peoples picky nature?

Could it be someone wearing orange socks puts you off.

Please keep it fun and light hearted "
yes everyone is picky here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a real issue with people using Oxford commas. If they are hot and wiling to overlook my predilection for splitting an infinitive, however, then I can just about agree to disagree and have lovely sex provided we don't discuss it further.

I take Oxford commas very seriously. I honestly can't stand when they aren't used....

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/465321

I know. Agree to disagree? "

Of course

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Facial hair, beards etc and bushy eyebrows are a turn off for me. I'm wincing at the thought now.

So yes I'm picky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes were picky we and not ashamed to admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we're not picky, but we have standards. There's a difference for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know myself and I know my needs. I don't want to waste my time or anybody elses. So yes, I'm now extremely "picky" but in a healthy way.

I think there would be a problem if I wasn't. My pickiness is like a giant blob of defence mechanisms and self-protection. I'm very careful who I meet now; was very niave when I first joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya.

Just for fun, I'm curious on peoples picky nature?

Could it be someone wearing orange socks puts you off.

Please keep it fun and light hearted "

Have you actually been online for more than 5 minutes

ARE YOU PICKY

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Hiya.

Just for fun, I'm curious on peoples picky nature?

Could it be someone wearing orange socks puts you off.

Please keep it fun and light hearted "

If you have sock on when we get on the bed then it is not happening. No sock on for sex regardless of colour.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah, I have some strict criteria of what I like and don't like, some strong views then other things that I haven't thought of prior to noticing them and the same thing could be good with one person and a total turn off when applied to another - it's certainly a case of 'je ne sais quoi' with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is complexed for sure!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope only thing I don't like is if I talk to a couple and bloke says what he will do to me even after I said I am OK with a threesome but I am 100 percent straight no guy tendencies at all that is the only thing I am picky about but profile clearly says straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am picky, which probably explains the lack of meetups, but I'd rather meet with someone I'll have a great time with than just going with someone for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 1 GF

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I would guess most would see us as not being very picky . Well you couldn't be more wrong , as we are , but we don't put ourselves on a pedestal .

There are many types of people we enjoy meeting , and looks , personality , open mindedness , and general character are always important .

So although we meet so many people , the selection criteria is as high with us as anyone else .

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By *alfSmile OP   Man
over a year ago

Yate


"Hiya.

If you have sock on when we get on the bed then it is not happening. No sock on for sex regardless of colour."

I fear I may of accidentally given the impression I wear socks (regardless of colour) when having sex... this is not the case. But loving some of the answers! :D


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Have you actually been online for more than 5 minutes

ARE YOU PICKY "

Oh I am very picky, sadly it isn't so much a choice I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picky in terms of who I find attractive? Not overly.

Picky about having a connection with someone? Most definitely.

I fancy a lot of people but unless there's a connection I probably wouldn't shag them. Sounds cliche but for me personally, sex with no spark makes for bad sex and I'm not here for bad sex

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Very selective, choosy, picky, particular. You might also say cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picky in terms of who I find attractive? Not overly.

Picky about having a connection with someone? Most definitely.

I fancy a lot of people but unless there's a connection I probably wouldn't shag them. Sounds cliche but for me personally, sex with no spark makes for bad sex and I'm not here for bad sex "

Exactly the way I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why limit yourself....no one is perfect!!!

(I do mention this alot)

I guess couples it's a different dynamic issue!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can understand personality or hygiene being deal breakers.

But bushy eyebrows and choice of shoes? Seems very shallow and smacks of playground politics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's in my profile, I'm very careful with who I'll meet. Then there's that initial first impression whether in message, profile or forum. If they come across aggressive in anyway then I'm immediately put off and that'll probably not change no matter how much they may try afterwards. There was one exception and I was right in my first institutions.

Socks...she can wear woollen fluorescent with bells ones....It'll not make a difference. ..I'm not kissing her toes nor fingering them nor fucking them....just not my fetish. Now if she had a flashing woolly fluorescent foofoo then I draw the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can understand personality or hygiene being deal breakers.

But bushy eyebrows and choice of shoes? Seems very shallow and smacks of playground politics. "
there are a lot of smelly fannies about...I can smell a rat for miles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can understand personality or hygiene being deal breakers.

But bushy eyebrows and choice of shoes? Seems very shallow and smacks of playground politics. there are a lot of smelly fannies about...I can smell a rat for miles.. "

???

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

I am very picky. But i can overcome things I'm picky about if other things are preferable. Just being a nice person is most important. Initially I'm quite shallow so I'm hopeless with pictures. It's best i meet people face to face, because i can become attracted to you if you're a nice person. Alternatively i can be attracted to you, meet you, and if you are acting like a looser then i will stop being attracted to you. Can't help it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personnel hygiene oh yes that one!!!!who wants to play with someone who is grubby,stinky and so on get my drift!!!

(nowt worse then walking into house thats well lets say could do with more than a spring clean)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite picky...I can fall in love with a face on the train but that's just aesthetics..If I'm going to fuck or even kiss then there's a few nots..

Like chewing fucking loudly!!

Or bad dirty talk...

Etc etc.

But saying that...if she has big full natural tits then she chew as loud as she pleases..."

Those are the standards we're talking about, couldn't fault you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Extremely picky, but saying that, I don't meet many as my time is limited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya.

Just for fun, I'm curious on peoples picky nature?

Could it be someone wearing orange socks puts you off.

Please keep it fun and light hearted "

People with no pictures generally put me off....

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