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By *assionatelovers87 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have had threesomes before ffm, discussed last night MMF - want to start slowly no fucking any advice? Serious comments please

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Sounds like you're not sure about it. What are your concerns ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume you're after soft swing to begin with?... Main advice is make sure the guy you pick is fully aware of this and completely happy with it.

But otherwise have fun and enjoy!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We have played mmf soft swing many times....it can be great fun....just be clear about your limits up front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find that Hotwife being blindfolded and laid on a bed with hubby softly stroking and carresing her tends to draw a crowd. Then hubby can pick the guy to join that he knows HW will fancy and explain it's only a stroke/teasing session. If the gent agrees then play can continue. If the invited gents fingers work their magic then HW may escalate the session into more but it's entirely her choice.

May not work for everyone but this way HW feels safe, secure and is more comfortable being passively in control.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Maybe try finding an easy going guy who's not going to ask you to rush into anything.

Someone with experience, verifications, a gent, not a dickhead. Someone who doesn't mind a social first or would play soft if that's what you wanted to see if it's for you.

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By *assionatelovers87 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Sounds like you're not sure about it. What are your concerns ?

It will be our first time with that dynamic so want it to be the best it can be where we are both comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started off with an 'above waist only' rule. We weren't short of offers, but it soon became apparent that all the men were intending to eventually get sex. Is your 'no fucking' rule permanent, or just whilst you find your feet? If the latter, then it's a question of finding a guy who is prepared to wait. If the former, from my experience, I personally have my doubts whether many men would be prepared to join a couple for soft swing only with no hope of it ever leading to sex. They might try it once or twice. But you'd have to ask the guys what their view is - prepared to be wrong. The other issue is would you and your partner be having sex with each other in front of your playmate, or would you refrain?

Mrs

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By *assionatelovers87 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We started off with an 'above waist only' rule. We weren't short of offers, but it soon became apparent that all the men were intending to eventually get sex. Is your 'no fucking' rule permanent, or just whilst you find your feet? If the latter, then it's a question of finding a guy who is prepared to wait. If the former, from my experience, I personally have my doubts whether many men would be prepared to join a couple for soft swing only with no hope of it ever leading to sex. They might try it once or twice. But you'd have to ask the guys what their view is - prepared to be wrong. The other issue is would you and your partner be having sex with each other in front of your playmate, or would you refrain?

Mrs"

This would just be first meet while we find our feet could be more in the heat of the moment but seems better to set ground rules first before going further. And yes we would be fucking

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

"Sounds like you're not sure about it. What are your concerns ?

It will be our first time with that dynamic so want it to be the best it can be where we are both comfortable "

Take your time finding the right chap Spend some time looking at profiles as an initial process. The person youre looking for is likely to be more than happy chatting online for a little while first.

Then, as others have said, make clear what your limits are and get him to acknowledge he's happy with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs

This would just be first meet while we find our feet could be more in the heat of the moment but seems better to set ground rules first before going further. And yes we would be fucking"

Yep a lot happens in the heat of the moment. With our first threeesome, we told him no sex on the first meet, although we didn't intend to have sex either. He invited us back to his flat, and we said no sex. By the end I begged him to take me. He knew exactly what he was he was doing. You might have more will-power than I did. I do feel it's a bit harsh to expect a guy to watch you guys fuck when he has to go without, but if the man in question genuinely doesn't mind then that's fine. As long as the feelings of all three people in the equation have been respected.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had mmf with a couple who love to fuck with me underneath and it doesnt bother me at all.

We all three still get to have a fun time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We find that Hotwife being blindfolded and laid on a bed with hubby softly stroking and carresing her tends to draw a crowd. Then hubby can pick the guy to join that he knows HW will fancy and explain it's only a stroke/teasing session. If the gent agrees then play can continue. If the invited gents fingers work their magic then HW may escalate the session into more but it's entirely her choice.

May not work for everyone but this way HW feels safe, secure and is more comfortable being passively in control."

......this is a lovely way to get things started, with or without the blindfold....have fun.....we enjoy many soft swing sessions with one or more extra males and the feel of four or more hands roaming my body can often tip me delightfully over the edge! (Mandy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had threesomes before ffm, discussed last night MMF - want to start slowly no fucking any advice? Serious comments please "

If there is no fucking Amy...then your idea of an mmf may be very different to most people's?

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By *assionatelovers87 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We have had threesomes before ffm, discussed last night MMF - want to start slowly no fucking any advice? Serious comments please

If there is no fucking Amy...then your idea of an mmf may be very different to most people's?"

Hence the post....

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

I.ve had mmf a few times..and its great..I have soft swung in couple of them too...just to be that extra pair of hands..that cock she plays with while hubby fucks her...us males are out there..lol

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

As others have said sounds like soft swing is what you are looking for and the only advice would be ensure you are clear to whoever you invite...but that is really no different to any meet arrangements...

An evening of soft fun can be just as much fun as full swing and sometimes even more erotic. Personally i prefer it.

Choose wisely, set your boundaries, perhaps discuss roleplay or ideas for switching it up throughout the night and things should work out fine.

Let us know on here

a good update is always interesting to read.

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