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By *ndybuzz1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

So ive been after meets

Spoke politely to people but get blanked. Any reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at your profile, I know you've not asked for advice but there's too much detail about why you can't accom, no one needs to know your private life.

No avatar either, maybe some more pics but none of the little fella.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us as a couple would not be interested, because I suspect, from reading your profile, that you are not really interested in couples, despite having 'couples' ticked. Also the photos you have chosen don't portray you as having sex appeal. You should put an avatar up too. I don't agree with the other poster - it's good to explain why you can't always accommodate. Your statement saying 'we're all here for the same thing' puts me off, because there is nothing worse that someone making assumptions about what someone is using Fab for. If you are looking for single women, as your profile suggests, you might find that easier to achieve on something like Tinder, as there are relative few single women on Fab. If you are looking for swinging, then that's a totally different ball game altogether.

Mrs

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Us as a couple would not be interested, because I suspect, from reading your profile, that you are not really interested in couples, despite having 'couples' ticked. Also the photos you have chosen don't portray you as having sex appeal. You should put an avatar up too. I don't agree with the other poster - it's good to explain why you can't always accommodate. Your statement saying 'we're all here for the same thing' puts me off, because there is nothing worse that someone making assumptions about what someone is using Fab for. If you are looking for single women, as your profile suggests, you might find that easier to achieve on something like Tinder, as there are relative few single women on Fab. If you are looking for swinging, then that's a totally different ball game altogether.

Mrs"

I don't think people should justify why they can't accommodate to anyone. If it puts some off too bad, none of us has universal appeal.

Other than that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us as a couple would not be interested, because I suspect, from reading your profile, that you are not really interested in couples, despite having 'couples' ticked. Also the photos you have chosen don't portray you as having sex appeal. You should put an avatar up too. I don't agree with the other poster - it's good to explain why you can't always accommodate. Your statement saying 'we're all here for the same thing' puts me off, because there is nothing worse that someone making assumptions about what someone is using Fab for. If you are looking for single women, as your profile suggests, you might find that easier to achieve on something like Tinder, as there are relative few single women on Fab. If you are looking for swinging, then that's a totally different ball game altogether.

Mrs

I don't think people should justify why they can't accommodate to anyone. If it puts some off too bad, none of us has universal appeal.

Other than that... "

I only said that from reading other forum advise where men over a certain age are assumed to be married if their profile says they can't accommodate. Also for a single guy who might have difficulty getting a meet, he probably won't want to put people off, and reduce his chances of meeting someone nice. Having said that, now Ive reread his profile, I think he should say he can accommodate, as he has explained he is willing to with enough notice.

Mrs

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Us as a couple would not be interested, because I suspect, from reading your profile, that you are not really interested in couples, despite having 'couples' ticked. Also the photos you have chosen don't portray you as having sex appeal. You should put an avatar up too. I don't agree with the other poster - it's good to explain why you can't always accommodate. Your statement saying 'we're all here for the same thing' puts me off, because there is nothing worse that someone making assumptions about what someone is using Fab for. If you are looking for single women, as your profile suggests, you might find that easier to achieve on something like Tinder, as there are relative few single women on Fab. If you are looking for swinging, then that's a totally different ball game altogether.

Mrs

I don't think people should justify why they can't accommodate to anyone. If it puts some off too bad, none of us has universal appeal.

Other than that...

I only said that from reading other forum advise where men over a certain age are assumed to be married if their profile says they can't accommodate. Also for a single guy who might have difficulty getting a meet, he probably won't want to put people off, and reduce his chances of meeting someone nice. Having said that, now Ive reread his profile, I think he should say he can accommodate, as he has explained he is willing to with enough notice.

Mrs"

I agree, it puts some people off. I don't meet anyone who can't accommodate. I don't assume they're married, I assume they don't want me in their house which is fair enough, as they won't be invited to mine. I use it as a filter.

Bottom line...damned if you do...damned if you don't.

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