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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys...

I've been on fab a few years... single at first... but then have actually met the love of my life on here through a meet.

We now have a couple profile but are just taking it slowly.

My boyfriend would like a ffm (what man wouldn't hehe) and I have always wanted to explore my bi side.. for all you seasoned couples how did you go about finding the right woman for that first meet as a couple!

I would like to just chat to someone get to know them and meet for a drink first etc on my own..

So if we get on and can have a laugh.

What do you guys think? Xx

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

The story of our first FFM is in the fab forum...see what you think: https://www.literotica.com/s/swingers-first-ffm-threesome

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Good luck it's an amazing experience with the right lady just be patient in your search and give the lady time to get to know you both and feel comfortable

I would think any lady would want to meet you both together from the start to see if everybody gets on

We have always made sure that any lady we have met for fun is the centre of both our attentions with equal time with both of us and all 3 playing together

Hope that helps x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys it does help! Will Pm you if that's ok xx

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Pm anytime you like xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally id make sure that you have discussed boundaries with your other half about what you both want/expect, what to do if it goes wrong or one of you is not feeling it, then once all that is sorted you can start looking for the ideal playmate. Clubs, socials or messaging. Take it at the other females pace and check all your boundaries/needs/desires are in synch. Do not just treat her as a sex toy to be used. We pick up on that very quickly. We are there for our fun too. When it works it is fantastic for all involved. When it doesn't then things can get v ugly.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey strawberry

Thank you xx

That's why I was asking.. its a big step for me but something I would really like to do... that's why I would like to meet a woman who I can connect with and get on with.

H and I have talked a lot and the big thing would be no kissing I think... he loves the idea of watching me/ us to begin with and then joining in which I kinda like the thought of too..

So that's why I wanted to ask you guys!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey strawberry

Thank you xx

That's why I was asking.. its a big step for me but something I would really like to do... that's why I would like to meet a woman who I can connect with and get on with.

H and I have talked a lot and the big thing would be no kissing I think... he loves the idea of watching me/ us to begin with and then joining in which I kinda like the thought of too..

So that's why I wanted to ask you guys!! xx"

No kissing would be a big no no for alot of people on here, myself included.

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