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By *aughty Starz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cumbria

How many of you guys are on here? married and not sure how to ask your mrs to join the fantasy, or scared of her reaction?

belive me the best thing you could ever do is ask her

Mr H was once in the same predicament

we both love it now, he loves the attention i get and the sex is amazing

so just do it boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of you guys are on here? married and not sure how to ask your mrs to join the fantasy, or scared of her reaction?

belive me the best thing you could ever do is ask her

Mr H was once in the same predicament

we both love it now, he loves the attention i get and the sex is amazing

so just do it boys"

I don't think it would go down favourable with some of the wives to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did ask and he said yes and backed out and wont even talk about it now so I have an appetite to feed and im hungry lol

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By *aughty Starz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cumbria

yeah but if you explain your reasons at the end of the day they will never know unless they try will they i understand its not for everyone but some people need to grow a pair and actually tell there partners what theyre thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs is game for a woman to join us. But not interested in any other men, she also love me meeting other couples and women. Basically bit of a cuck queen. Lucky me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mrs is game for a woman to join us. But not interested in any other men, she also love me meeting other couples and women. Basically bit of a cuck queen. Lucky me "

very similar to our relationship. My cuckquean is a little younger than me and is still trying to find exactly what works for her...she has a couple of female fuck buddies but is still not ready to dive into Fab. We're always honest and open with each other though and I never do anything she doesn't feel comfortable with (which is a very short list)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah but if you explain your reasons at the end of the day they will never know unless they try will they i understand its not for everyone but some people need to grow a pair and actually tell there partners what theyre thinking "

It could also end marriages to tell other halves one is on Fab, just because it worked for you doesn't mean it's the right thing for others to do. If a woman doesn't want sex with her husband she is likely to not be pleased he's on an adult site looking for sex.

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

I did and she dived into it after some hesitation. We had fun with couples and single guys. She dressed to please and was horny as for months. Then one day she just stopped and that was it so obviously got it out of her system.

On here alone now..

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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

I asked mine in a round about kind of way and he said its not for him. Even when I asked him for a ffm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While it's a nice thought OP, I think it's more likely that the married guys here can predict their partners' reactions a little more accurately than you can...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked mine in a round about kind of way and he said its not for him. Even when I asked him for a ffm "

The fool..lol That has to be the ultimate fantasy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless he would preferably have a fmm ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once suggested that I had been dreaming about us going to a club just to watch.

By the look on her face, you'd think I'd waved the headless corpse of a kitten in front of her face

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"yeah but if you explain your reasons at the end of the day they will never know unless they try will they i understand its not for everyone but some people need to grow a pair and actually tell there partners what theyre thinking

It could also end marriages to tell other halves one is on Fab, just because it worked for you doesn't mean it's the right thing for others to do. If a woman doesn't want sex with her husband she is likely to not be pleased he's on an adult site looking for sex."

This!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"While it's a nice thought OP, I think it's more likely that the married guys here can predict their partners' reactions a little more accurately than you can..."

...and this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are married and we used an online questionnaire. If you google mojo upgrade it's a quiz that each partner takes seperately and then shows you both only the answers you agree on. So if one of you has a desire that the other is truly turned off by it won't show up - however if you both would like to "have sex in front of other people" for instance - it does. That then leads to sexual exploration.

Well it worked out very well for us

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By *ouple4couple7Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Same here, although recently my wife keeps on teasing me saying she's ready for another go . . . I live in hope

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By *ouple4couple7Man
over a year ago

Swindon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are married and we used an online questionnaire. If you google mojo upgrade it's a quiz that each partner takes seperately and then shows you both only the answers you agree on. So if one of you has a desire that the other is truly turned off by it won't show up - however if you both would like to "have sex in front of other people" for instance - it does. That then leads to sexual exploration.

Well it worked out very well for us "

Some fairly extensive questions there

Did either of you say yes to the 'brown shower' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were going through a hard patch last year and I suggested we try this..she agreed due to her high sex drive and we've never looked back.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"We are married and we used an online questionnaire. If you google mojo upgrade it's a quiz that each partner takes seperately and then shows you both only the answers you agree on. So if one of you has a desire that the other is truly turned off by it won't show up - however if you both would like to "have sex in front of other people" for instance - it does. That then leads to sexual exploration.

Well it worked out very well for us "

I think that's brilliant. Never heard about that before

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By *ustooCouple
over a year ago

East Fife

After spending about a year trying to convince my wife to meet and finding the right guy she finally agreed and she was very nervous but really enjoyed it and so did I watching and she has since had a few meets of her own and our own sex life has exploded, an experience you'll never regret

Have fun xx

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By *orny.hottieWoman
over a year ago

near the hornyness xx

I'm utterly baffled by some of the responses here

Surely sex is one of if not the biggest factor in a relationship if you don't share similar desires it's doomed from the start is it not

I couldn't imagine agreeing to spend my entire life with someone who wasn't as Horny and sexually greedy as me ....... Probably explains why I remain forever single though lmfao ! X

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Myself and the lady who has been my wife for the last 19 years discussed her desires to have more than one man in her life before we married. I think that such open communication is healthy no matter the nature of your relationship.

Though at the time I wasn't interested in seeing anyone else, it was always implicit that I could if we discussed it. So when I also wanted to spread my wings, it wasn't a problem.

As for spending one's life with a partner with different sexual desires and drives.....these vary and change over time. It is very rare for two people to retain the same drive, and sexual interests over time. My wife and I continue to enjoy intimacy together while also seeing other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of you guys are on here? married and not sure how to ask your mrs to join the fantasy, or scared of her reaction?

belive me the best thing you could ever do is ask her

Mr H was once in the same predicament

we both love it now, he loves the attention i get and the sex is amazing

so just do it boys"

Marriage? Not sure about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a non starter for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked my ex if he wanted to try it, mainly to let him have sex when I wasn't feeling well enoght. He said no but tbh there were far worse things wrong in the marriage then just the lack of sex. We are both far happier now we are apart and we get on well again.

PTU XXX

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I once suggested that I had been dreaming about us going to a club just to watch.

By the look on her face, you'd think I'd waved the headless corpse of a kitten in front of her face "

Pmsl that was a no then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are married and we used an online questionnaire. If you google mojo upgrade it's a quiz that each partner takes seperately and then shows you both only the answers you agree on. So if one of you has a desire that the other is truly turned off by it won't show up - however if you both would like to "have sex in front of other people" for instance - it does. That then leads to sexual exploration.

Well it worked out very well for us "

That's a brilliant idea. You win my internet for today!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah but if you explain your reasons at the end of the day they will never know unless they try will they i understand its not for everyone but some people need to grow a pair and actually tell there partners what theyre thinking

It could also end marriages to tell other halves one is on Fab, just because it worked for you doesn't mean it's the right thing for others to do. If a woman doesn't want sex with her husband she is likely to not be pleased he's on an adult site looking for sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are married and we used an online questionnaire. If you google mojo upgrade it's a quiz that each partner takes seperately and then shows you both only the answers you agree on. So if one of you has a desire that the other is truly turned off by it won't show up - however if you both would like to "have sex in front of other people" for instance - it does. That then leads to sexual exploration.

Well it worked out very well for us

That's a brilliant idea. You win my internet for today!! xx"

Trying this today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are married and we used an online questionnaire. If you google mojo upgrade it's a quiz that each partner takes seperately and then shows you both only the answers you agree on. So if one of you has a desire that the other is truly turned off by it won't show up - however if you both would like to "have sex in front of other people" for instance - it does. That then leads to sexual exploration.

Well it worked out very well for us

That's a brilliant idea. You win my internet for today!! xx"

Happy to help - we redo it sporadically as...... y'know..... tastes can change and boundaries move (further away)

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