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"Hello all from Scotland I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx" They're sexy, the mark of a woman embrace them or let me | |||
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"Never had children so don't think I've got any." Stretch marks aren't exclusive to women who have had children. I got my first stretch marks at puberty. Men get them too. Anyone who gains weight can get stretch marks. You would be very lucky to never have any stretch marks. | |||
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"As daft as it might sound, someone being conscious of them/trying to hide them is far more unattractive than a few stretch marks. I know it's easier said than done but just forget about them, nobody is going to care/bring them up and there's nothing hotter than a confident naked woman. " What he said. | |||
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"Yes. I don't see how you can really enjoy sex unless you feel happy in and confident with your body. A shame that pornography has caused such self-doubt in people " I'm not sure porn is the big culprit. | |||
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"Yes. I don't see how you can really enjoy sex unless you feel happy in and confident with your body. A shame that pornography has caused such self-doubt in people I'm not sure porn is the big culprit. " Not exclusively, but I think it plays a big part. What's your view? | |||
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"Yes. I don't see how you can really enjoy sex unless you feel happy in and confident with your body. A shame that pornography has caused such self-doubt in people I'm not sure porn is the big culprit. Not exclusively, but I think it plays a big part. What's your view? " Oh don't get me wrong, it's a big factor, but I enjoy porn and it hasn't had that effect on me. I could get into it more but I wouldn't want to derail this thread. | |||
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"i had really bad stretch marks while pregnant 15 years on you can still see what they have done to my stomach in one of my pics, I've had 3 fucktards make comments on them on fab but never when I'm out in clubs or have pulled. I have stretch marks on my breasts, stomach, arse and hips and never has a men said anything expect how hot I was otherwise he wouldn't be in my bed. But I don't have a problem being naked in clubs and love myself plenty I know I'm still hot so don't care about the men who think otherwise but yeah most men don't give a shit and the ones that do won't even talk to us so we aren't missing out. Love yourself and so will the men. " Good for you for being so confident and proud of your stretch marks. I would love to be a confident as you. I also have some from pregnancy especially from my 4.6kg son I usually try and hide my belly but I should remember more people will be checking out my arse than my belly.. | |||
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"i had really bad stretch marks while pregnant 15 years on you can still see what they have done to my stomach in one of my pics, I've had 3 fucktards make comments on them on fab but never when I'm out in clubs or have pulled. I have stretch marks on my breasts, stomach, arse and hips and never has a men said anything expect how hot I was otherwise he wouldn't be in my bed. But I don't have a problem being naked in clubs and love myself plenty I know I'm still hot so don't care about the men who think otherwise but yeah most men don't give a shit and the ones that do won't even talk to us so we aren't missing out. Love yourself and so will the men. Good for you for being so confident and proud of your stretch marks. I would love to be a confident as you. I also have some from pregnancy especially from my 4.6kg son I usually try and hide my belly but I should remember more people will be checking out my arse than my belly.. " Bloody hell women hope you make him suffer It is what is you can either spend all the time hating on yourself or loveself and have more fun | |||
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"Hello all from Scotland I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx" I think you look amazing. But I do the same and cover mine with sexy lingerie. But if that makes you feel sexy then I can't see anything wrong with that but really do not think any guy is going to go eergh if you got naked, I think they would be too busy checking out your sexy body.. S x | |||
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"I'm off aboard to have a Tummy Tuck in 3 months. First time I've ever put this on fab because I'm so embarrassed It's for me though. And it goes further than just having babies. I've lost nearly 4 stone in weight too. Actually feels quite relieving to admit it on here.. It's also nice to read the guys reactions to stretch marks. Thank you " Congratulations on your achievement, you should be rightly proud. Good luck for your forthcoming surgery. As to stretch marks, only shallow people would be put off by them. We embrace them and their beauty in signifying birth and motherhood. Show 'em off, be proud and bollocks to the haters. XX | |||
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"Hello all from Scotland I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx" Nothing wrong with them. Its about the person. Hell if someone likes me enough to play I am going to let a small thing like streach marks ruin it? | |||
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"Hello all from Scotland I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx" Hat here. Firstly I'd like to echo everybody else's comments here: stretch marks are nothing to worry about and, apart from a few numpties, we men will hardly even notice them while we admire your naked body . A lot of sexiness is confidence. If you don't feel confident being completely naked, go with that lingerie that gives you your confidence boost. I think you may find that admiration of your naked body will help to boost that confidence too. Maybe do it a bit at a time with less and less covered. Secondly, we've both been admiring that beautiful, curvy, sexy body of yours as we see the pics go by in our local updates section. You are damned hot and you should be proud. | |||
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"I'm off aboard to have a Tummy Tuck in 3 months. First time I've ever put this on fab because I'm so embarrassed It's for me though. And it goes further than just having babies. I've lost nearly 4 stone in weight too. Actually feels quite relieving to admit it on here.. It's also nice to read the guys reactions to stretch marks. Thank you " i'd do the same, good luck. had 5 kids and lost 5 stone here. it's shrunk a fair bit since losing weight but i'd love to see what my body looked like before i had kids (i can't remember). | |||
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"Hello all from Scotland I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx" For what it's worth we think you look stunning. Stretch marks are just another chapter in the story of a woman's body. | |||
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"i had really bad stretch marks while pregnant 15 years on you can still see what they have done to my stomach in one of my pics, I've had 3 fucktards make comments on them on fab but never when I'm out in clubs or have pulled. I have stretch marks on my breasts, stomach, arse and hips and never has a men said anything expect how hot I was otherwise he wouldn't be in my bed. But I don't have a problem being naked in clubs and love myself plenty I know I'm still hot so don't care about the men who think otherwise but yeah most men don't give a shit and the ones that do won't even talk to us so we aren't missing out. Love yourself and so will the men. Good for you for being so confident and proud of your stretch marks. I would love to be a confident as you. I also have some from pregnancy especially from my 4.6kg son I usually try and hide my belly but I should remember more people will be checking out my arse than my belly.. Bloody hell women hope you make him suffer It is what is you can either spend all the time hating on yourself or loveself and have more fun " Very very true.. Ha ha.. He looked like a 3 month old.. He will here about it for ever more. Actually it was an incredible experience xx | |||
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"Hello all from Scotland I was wondering what all you lovely guys think about stretch marks .... after having kids I unfortunately have a lot of them and I must say I hate them .... I won't pose naked ( plus I'm chubby too) and I have a fear that it may put men off especially when there are so many women on here with gorgeous young figures ( jealous much lol) ... I know I should just accept them and wear them with pride etc but truthfully I'd worry that the guy would go eergh and run a mile ... I have had meets but always wear nice lingerie because I'm so scared to go naked ... thanks for your thoughts xxxx" They are your battle scars. Be happy with your body and if someone has a problem, too damn bad. Wear them proudly sweetheart. | |||
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"Stretch marks are a sign of your femininity and your ability to create life. Anyone who finds pregnancy stretch marks a problem really isn't worth your time. Mr. Rogue " | |||
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"Men can have them. Anyone can. It's not a badge for mothers. It's a minor blemish, so what? " Yeah i have a few from when i was much bigger than i was dont bother me a bit if im attracted to a woman its because i like all of her inc any blemishes we are not all perfect but to other peoples eyes we are xxx | |||
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"i had really bad stretch marks while pregnant 15 years on you can still see what they have done to my stomach in one of my pics, I've had 3 fucktards make comments on them on fab but never when I'm out in clubs or have pulled. I have stretch marks on my breasts, stomach, arse and hips and never has a men said anything expect how hot I was otherwise he wouldn't be in my bed. But I don't have a problem being naked in clubs and love myself plenty I know I'm still hot so don't care about the men who think otherwise but yeah most men don't give a shit and the ones that do won't even talk to us so we aren't missing out. Love yourself and so will the men. " Took a long while for me to accept this myself, and still have times when i feel bad about some of the scars and marks I have from motherhood and an abusive ex husband. | |||
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