FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

New relationship with non fab lady but still chatting here - is it wrong?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently started a relationship with a lady who has no connection to this site, has no fab leanings but with who I am having fun and we are getting closer.

But...

I'm still here, still chatting to men and women and am meeting a guy next week.

Is that wrong (I feel it's wrong but can't stop).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Guess it depends if your new friend finds out how will that affect your relationship.... Or it could also mean you don't really think much of her, how would you feel if she was doing the same thing?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guess it depends if your new friend finds out how will that affect your relationship.... Or it could also mean you don't really think much of her, how would you feel if she was doing the same thing? "

If she was incredibly turned on as used to do exactly that with ex wife.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been seeing a non fab guy, for almost a year now, I still chat on here, with friends, and find the forum addictive, but........I've never met anyone, since I met him.

So I think meeting someone, is a bit naughty, even though some woukd I'm been naughty, still having a profile on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say* ffs.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need an honest chat then, if you've no intention of been exclusive.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

why do you feel it's wrong?

i agree with you but my reasons might be different from yours.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Guess it depends if your new friend finds out how will that affect your relationship.... Or it could also mean you don't really think much of her, how would you feel if she was doing the same thing?

If she was incredibly turned on as used to do exactly that with ex wife."

I would say don't lead her on if you have no intention of making a go of it or being faithful,if that what shes looking for.

Miss

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Does she know you're bisexual? If so does she expect you not to act on that while you're in a relationship with her?

If you haven't had that conversation, you might consider doing so.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it may be time to have a little chat with her,

explain your situation while the time is right while the relationship is new and you are both getting to know eachother, leave it too long and it could be a dealbreaker,

you never know she may like the idea of swinging

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently started a relationship with a lady who has no connection to this site, has no fab leanings but with who I am having fun and we are getting closer.

But...

I'm still here, still chatting to men and women and am meeting a guy next week.

Is that wrong (I feel it's wrong but can't stop)."

Well yeah, you're cheating on her. Chatting is fine, but you're going to shag a bloke behind her back I'd have a chat with her. You're essentially placing her feelings on the firing line by going behind her back.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top