FabSwingers.com forum: Your biggest FAB regret

By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

what's your biggest regret since joining fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what's your biggest regret since joining fab ? "

Not getting to meet 3 sexy guys lol

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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not meeting one of the hottest couples on here, when I was part of a couple.

I thought they might be too hardcore for my ex.

Regretted it ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not joining sooner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol that was four!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"what's your biggest regret since joining fab ? "

Being too polite in the early days.

Not blocking enough.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Getting cold feet, when we first joined. Arranged a meet with a gorgeous younger guy but I bottled it and hid our profile for six months.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not finding a regular fwb to share the fun with.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Not meeting more before we started a family and had all the time in the world to do as we wished.

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By *anger69104Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Not joining sooner when I was able to drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what's your biggest regret since joining fab ?

Being too polite in the early days.

Not blocking enough.

This

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Not allowing myself to meet and have a proper sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets

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By *oliteguyMan
over a year ago

Melksham

Spoke to a couple who wanted voyeurs. Turned up at the location. Saw one guy in a car, and then I checked the woods. I regret not speaking to the guy as his girlfriend was led down in the back. Now they only meet couples and females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading threads in the Forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not meeting someone after a misunderstanding

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Having too much damage from my previous life to allow myself to explore when I first joined

4 years on and waaaay better

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

None here that I can think of off the top of my head. Maybe being too polite to some who don't deserve it. Some bloody rude and disrespectful people in here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not joining sooner so I could have more fun in my younger years before wanting to settle down

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Not joining sooner so I could have more fun in my younger years before wanting to settle down

Yes

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Well mine was arranging a scenario meet and we had set rules before meeting that I would tease her and push her limits and she could only touch me if I said so (first time experience for me) I really enjoyed the experience and we had said second meet she could finally feel me inside her but things happened after we met and I didn't get chance to make that happen and I kick myself for sticking to not fucking but we did have a lot of fun and I know I'll be stuck in her head for a long time. Still regret not fucking though but massively enjoyed teasing and pleasing i still can't believe I actually stuck to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to accommodate

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Not getting a divorce earlier and getting into swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missing out on the chance to meet someone before they left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The twat i met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not listening to what someone was telling me and making a mess of things that could have been great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is too short for regrets

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't have any regrets, it's been a huge learning and growing experience for me and every bit has been good in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not joining earlier. More local men on here than the previous site i was on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not joining earlier. More local men on here than the previous site i was on

Not meeting Miss Valiant....... YET

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"what's your biggest regret since joining fab ?

Being too polite in the early days.

Not blocking enough.

This

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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going fucking mental when my ex hurt me, i mean really stupid and meeting anyone coz i was cock hungry. had a couple of bad experiences by not thinking straight and they ruined everything.

believing guys bullshit is a close second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having too much damage from my previous life to allow myself to explore when I first joined

4 years on and waaaay better

hope to be this way very soon... no regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having enough free time x

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

"Not joining sooner so I could have more fun in my younger years before wanting to settle down

Yes

Me too.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Wading through some real weird shit threads to find good ones like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being so gay

Had so many offers of hot ladies but I'm too gay to be interested

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Not coming out as Bi curious sooner than I did...and subsequently Bi... too worried about what my Straight fab friends might think....none of them bothered in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not having enough free time x"

Not being in your age range

PM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not trusting my gut instinct on my very first meet. Should've driven straight home, but it was a lesson learned.

Also, letting a so called Dom take advantage of my vulnerabilities, control me and mentally abuse me. Another tough lesson learnt.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"Not joining sooner! "

Definitely! Wish I'd come here when I first left home in 2010 instead of getting into a bad relationship. Think my life could be very different now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not getting the wife involved

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I don't regret anything as everything that happens is part of the excitement but I am wiser and more in control of what I want and how I get it these days. I certainly don't seek to recreate some of my early meetings.

V x

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Nothing at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting a divorce earlier and getting into swinging "

This 100%!

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".

Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great.

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".

Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great."

- That must be most people's (including my own) worst nightmare - the things that pass for "news" in the gutter press.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Not joining sooner! "

me too.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not being able to spot a man pretending to be a woman sooner. I got stood up and wasted an afternoon in the process.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".

Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great."

You are so right about the "if it looks too good to be true".

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

mine is being too picky

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Being a little naive in the beginning but no major regrets

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Not being available more due to work and childcare

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By *heMarvel-ousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

That we didn't join sooner instead of just before I found out I was pregnant

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"That we didn't join sooner instead of just before I found out I was pregnant

It was 1 month before we got pregnant that we joined lol. Damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not much action haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not being able to spot a man pretending to be a woman sooner. I got stood up and wasted an afternoon in the process. "

At least "she" didn't turn up

could of been awkward !!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Not joining sooner! "

This for me too!

And also that 3 years ago when new to fab I allowed a guy on here to completely fuck with my head and heart! 2 years later his psycho girlfriend. (He wasn't with her when I knew him) found a load of messages/pictures of us (until then she'd no idea he was a swinger I assume!) and launched a spite/hate campaign against me - just because she could!

He's the only person from fab I truly regret laying eyes on! On the whole I've had an amazing time on here and hope to continue to do so! Xx

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".

Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great."

I can't believe you just dropped a statement like that and left us hangin' Man.

Seriously though, I was in the Swingfields photos in The Sun last summer so can imagine that being a Hellish situation.

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".

Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great.

I can't believe you just dropped a statement like that and left us hangin' Man.

Seriously though, I was in the Swingfields photos in The Sun last summer so can imagine that being a Hellish situation. "

Long story, but in brief a certain person who knows us from both here and real life told someone with an axe to grind about our "hobby". He did this because we wouldn't meet him, he tried wearing fem down, asking her to meet alone etc etc, so we blocked him.

The axe grinders setup a honey Trap profile and made contact, conversation flowed where we both revealed personal preferences and stuff. Then armed with screenshots went to the press and set about discrediting us in our community.

We came out of it relatively unscathed but it was a very worrying time, more so for her than I. Not had a meet since, finding it hard to trust anyone again, slowly getting better though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being proactive enough on fab at the start because now apparently I look fake because I have no meets!

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I regret not joining sooner but im sure we all think that.

I dont regret being fussy,

Ive notice with most threads i write in i normally kill the conversation. Sorry about that. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what's your biggest regret since joining fab ? "
being too scared to properly use the site for 6 years, even though we joined with the intention to.

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

Had a meet with a gorgeous looking lady last week.

Booked a table for dinner and then fell asleep on the sofa!

Table was booked for 8 but woke up at 9.

Obviously blocked and can't say that I blame her.

Bit gutted though.

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

"Not joining sooner so I could have more fun in my younger years before wanting to settle down

Not selling up everything I own and moving us down to Norwich...

Luscious is not even close my dear. Completely stunningly edible would be more appropriate

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Wasting my time in other sites, before finding this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone recently said "leaving something to the last minute"!

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By *reeneyedbuddhaCouple
over a year ago

on tees

"Not getting a divorce earlier and getting into swinging "

I second thisx

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Not joining Fab with my ex is a big regret

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Not having enough free time x"

Agreed

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".

Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great.

I can't believe you just dropped a statement like that and left us hangin' Man.

Seriously though, I was in the Swingfields photos in The Sun last summer so can imagine that being a Hellish situation.

We came out of it relatively unscathed but it was a very worrying time, more so for her than I. Not had a meet since, finding it hard to trust anyone again, slowly getting better though."

Guessing if the local press took an interest, you're job was a factor. That's seriously fucked up Man, glad to hear you didn't wind up getting sacked for it or anything.

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By *aughtyMalcMan
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *aughtyMalcMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Being too fucking old, and thus too fucking blocked!

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Not joining years ago,

Not joining a Woman for a one on one after my first club visit, The opportunity has now passed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the one attempt at a relationship with someone from here and the mess that ensued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regrets? I've had a few. But, then again too few to mention.

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By *weetChariotMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Not having enough time.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

not having the confidence to do the things I'd like to.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

No regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleting old profile after having a stalker moment

Had to convince people you know what your doing and not new to this

On wards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting a divorce earlier and getting into swinging "

Lol well funny

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

"Not following my own mantra "if it looks too good to be true, it probably is".

Followed by news reporters on the door step, yeah that wasn't great.

I can't believe you just dropped a statement like that and left us hangin' Man.

Seriously though, I was in the Swingfields photos in The Sun last summer so can imagine that being a Hellish situation.

We came out of it relatively unscathed but it was a very worrying time, more so for her than I. Not had a meet since, finding it hard to trust anyone again, slowly getting better though."

That's horrible, there really are some utterly vile people about. I can hardly believe that individuals would go to those lengths simply to prove you were swingers. It's not a crime for goodness sake!

Speaking personally, I'm pleased that you've come through this horrible situation (all the stronger I bet); I'm sure that the individuals concerned will get what's coming to them, and I'm glad that the pair of you haven't been completely deterred by all this palaver.

Looking at it positively, I suspect that you now know who your true friends are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a couples or from here on my old profile and as we was playing they started doing a number of Drugs and just the whole experience was uncomfortable, they made me leave the site for about 2 years but now back on and it's better than ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting a newbie!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting a newbie!! "

So you was fully fledged when started out then?

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