FabSwingers.com forum: Dating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All , newish to the site and just getting use to it all.

Rather random topic here of dating , we need to have a dating board for the singles on here who might want to find a partner. Ultimately. Leading to extra fun for both parties on the site and more

What do you think ?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yep sounds good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep sounds good!"

Can I be your first date?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it sounds a good idea too. nothing wrong with wanting to date as well as be sexually adventurous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a good idea. Have seen some Forum threads, especially the Introductions forums used for this purpose too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys , just want a relationship but the lady in that to be involved in it as well , got pof is crap I hate going on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea! I for one would LOVE to find a girlfriend who is, shall we say, is VERY adventurous sexually. But, I would like that same girl to do normal "couple" stuff with too, like anyone would with a girlfriend/boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus, in my experience, POF is full of folk who are just looking for an ego boost, which they get from messages saying "Wow, you're really pretty/sexy/fit". I have had a belly full of timewasters on that site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here."

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah just like a normal everyday couple but they are in to this stuff as well . Yeah pof is full of stuck up girls and hard to fibd someone who is into stuff like this

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really."

i've managed to get dates off there and was seeing someone last august-oct. then i fucked him and i never heard off him again.

but mostly i got messages off guys mentioning fab and expecting a fuck, one was really rude about it as well...acting like he wanted to be friends then a few messages in he mentioned seeing me on fab (and not being able to message me on here) said he wanted sex, i told him he wasn't my type for sex and then i was 'not all that myself' blah blah blah...best bit was i could report him for asking me for sex on there so i did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really.

i've managed to get dates off there and was seeing someone last august-oct. then i fucked him and i never heard off him again.

Very illuminating

. Never been a fan of POF. Too many fakes and ads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah there's alot of lads out there who just ruin it for the genuine guys , being new it's real hard to get anyone to reply or agree to meet

But just going on a date would be great

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really.

i've managed to get dates off there and was seeing someone last august-oct. then i fucked him and i never heard off him again.

Very illuminating

. Never been a fan of POF. Too many fakes and ads."

i have adblock, didn't know the site had ads.

think the men are mostly looking for sex though and not interested in taking me out on actual dates, it was really rare i got offered any. don't matter, i can get them off other sites instead.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd be up for it. It's nice to feel people want to spend time with you for more than just a vagina.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i know i've sort fo fucked up my dating chances by being on here coz that's it, if oyu stand out or have been popular at any point then people will recognise you off of here as well.

but it's kind of good too coz you know who are the guys only after sex. think i'd be gutted to be taken on a date and then pressured into sex for doing that. although i've been on dates with guys off fab and never felt pressured at least you know what their intentions are right from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really.

i've managed to get dates off there and was seeing someone last august-oct. then i fucked him and i never heard off him again.

Very illuminating

. Never been a fan of POF. Too many fakes and ads.

i have adblock, didn't know the site had ads.

think the men are mostly looking for sex though and not interested in taking me out on actual dates, it was really rare i got offered any. don't matter, i can get them off other sites instead.

Sounds like I need to get Adblock! Details? Good to hear other sites are working for you. Certainly has piqued my curiosity

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree. I am also on POF, and I've had dates that have messed me around or let me down last minute. Yes, of course there are 'no-shows' on here too, but generally speaking, people on here are more honest and more reliable....with the exception of one or two idiot's!! I think it's a great idea. Some of us singles want a 'partner' with some kinky fun included, rather than a one-off or merely a fb!!

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

I never get any replies from guys I fancy on POF i kept my profile vanilla though.

Sometimes it can be disheartening, wondering, if I don't bluntly put it out there(my views on sex) like I do on here, No man would approach me??

I'm a catch goddammit!!! So yeah, let's start this Singles thread! And OP, give us a closer look

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really.

i've managed to get dates off there and was seeing someone last august-oct. then i fucked him and i never heard off him again.

Very illuminating

. Never been a fan of POF. Too many fakes and ads.

i have adblock, didn't know the site had ads.

think the men are mostly looking for sex though and not interested in taking me out on actual dates, it was really rare i got offered any. don't matter, i can get them off other sites instead.

Sounds like I need to get Adblock! Details? Good to hear other sites are working for you. Certainly has piqued my curiosity

you have to put a lot of effort in to find the right sites for you but if you do that it can work. and then of course if these sites become known amongst lazy. no effort gits circles that's it, they will be ruined too, just like all the popular sites are as of now for anyone looking for anything of substance. so you might have to keep looking for other sites.

i still think doing stuff offline and getting out to meets ups works best for meeting genuine people.

get adblock for sure, it's in add-ons for your browser usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I totally agree. I am also on POF, and I've had dates that have messed me around or let me down last minute. Yes, of course there are 'no-shows' on here too, but generally speaking, people on here are more honest and more reliable....with the exception of one or two idiot's!! I think it's a great idea. Some of us singles want a 'partner' with some kinky fun included, rather than a one-off or merely a fb!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather stick pins in my eyes than go back to POF or Tinder! So it's highly unlikely I'll ever meet "the one"....

Maybe he's here, who knows..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really.

i've managed to get dates off there and was seeing someone last august-oct. then i fucked him and i never heard off him again.

Very illuminating

. Never been a fan of POF. Too many fakes and ads.

i have adblock, didn't know the site had ads.

think the men are mostly looking for sex though and not interested in taking me out on actual dates, it was really rare i got offered any. don't matter, i can get them off other sites instead.

Sounds like I need to get Adblock! Details? Good to hear other sites are working for you. Certainly has piqued my curiosity

i still think doing stuff offline and getting out to meets ups works best for meeting genuine people.

get adblock for sure, it's in add-ons for your browser usually.

Thank you! Will look into it & definitely agree with offline although scheduling and time are an issue to explore large numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here."

Same. Got messaged on pof by someone wanting to suck my toes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been seeking some one a long time to build something where We'd benefit from being open minded and the dating stuff but only when I'm free.

That's the main issue. I have little time to give someone but want a little bit more than a fb.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didnt think my idea would be popular at all haha , but as the lady says it's had to put stuff like that on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seeking some one a long time to build something where We'd benefit from being open minded and the dating stuff but only when I'm free.

That's the main issue. I have little time to give someone but want a little bit more than a fb. "

Very well expressed

. Exactly what I am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met Mr on POF

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met Mr on POF

Did you put in the profile you where into stuff like this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say, there are a few girls on here who I would LOVE to date properly, and if anything sexual happened, then that would be a big bonus. I have had one or two offers from girls on here who wanted a boyfriend, but alas within a day or so they just go "POOF", and they are gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to find a BF on Baddoo but they all just want sex on there too, I met 2 blokes had sex with both, then left the site. It's no use trying to find a BF on a internet site, they all just want sex not a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seeking some one a long time to build something where We'd benefit from being open minded and the dating stuff but only when I'm free.

That's the main issue. I have little time to give someone but want a little bit more than a fb.

Very well expressed

. Exactly what I am looking for. "

Aw. Is that an offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met Mr on POF

Did you put in the profile you where into stuff like this ? "

No because I wasn't . He was though ( didn't put on profile ) . He brought it up after a few months of dating and I said - hell yeah!

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really.

i've managed to get dates off there and was seeing someone last august-oct. then i fucked him and i never heard off him again.

Very illuminating

. Never been a fan of POF. Too many fakes and ads.

i have adblock, didn't know the site had ads.

think the men are mostly looking for sex though and not interested in taking me out on actual dates, it was really rare i got offered any. don't matter, i can get them off other sites instead.

Sounds like I need to get Adblock! Details? Good to hear other sites are working for you. Certainly has piqued my curiosity

Omg....Someone who can actually spell "piqued "

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

To contribute more to the discussion..... ok cupid is quite good;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's a great idea! I for one would LOVE to find a girlfriend who is, shall we say, is VERY adventurous sexually. But, I would like that same girl to do normal "couple" stuff with too, like anyone would with a girlfriend/boyfriend."

Yes, I'd like the same. So horrible when you date someone the normal way... and all is going well (personality wise)... then you discover you're not sexually compatible?? And after that, all bets are off. Couldn't contemplate a future with someone like that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well now to find a nice lady in my area who fancies a proper date one evening

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

God I cant find someone on here in my area I want to shag once, never mind have some sort of relationship with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God I cant find someone on here in my area I want to shag once, never mind have some sort of relationship with

Hahah No one reply to me as I'm new and dont have any verifications haha , good start for me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been seeking some one a long time to build something where We'd benefit from being open minded and the dating stuff but only when I'm free.

That's the main issue. I have little time to give someone but want a little bit more than a fb.

Very well expressed

. Exactly what I am looking for.

Aw. Is that an offer?"

Would be delighted if it were taken as one in addition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really.

i've managed to get dates off there and was seeing someone last august-oct. then i fucked him and i never heard off him again.

Very illuminating

. Never been a fan of POF. Too many fakes and ads.

i have adblock, didn't know the site had ads.

think the men are mostly looking for sex though and not interested in taking me out on actual dates, it was really rare i got offered any. don't matter, i can get them off other sites instead.

Sounds like I need to get Adblock! Details? Good to hear other sites are working for you. Certainly has piqued my curiosity

Omg....Someone who can actually spell "piqued "

LOL. So glad I impressed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I'd like the same. So horrible when you date someone the normal way... and all is going well (personality wise)... then you discover you're not sexually compatible?? And after that, all bets are off. Couldn't contemplate a future with someone like that!"

Oh believe me, it's a recipe for disaster, finding out that you are in no way sexually compatible. Been there, done that, didn't work.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/621535

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"just go POF, most people on fab are on there too. although none of the guys seem to be up for dating and think i'm a free prostitute on there as well as here.

POF seems far more dishonest from what my friends tell me. People say they want to date but only want to get their leg over really."

Exactly! I tried POF & another site after my couple relationship ended, but came back to fab for that reason.

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

I would definitely be interested in some kind of dating board.... having started off on fab quite a few years ago as a single lady and more recently come out of a relationship ( a living together serious one over several years) with someone I met on here.... I definitely prefer the scene as part of a couple.... now I have a lot to sort out and need to give myself some time to heal before jumping into another relationship.... but I do know that when that time comes I wont want to go back to vanilla... for me as a single person the swinging world is very shallow, as a couple it is very enriching.....

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for dates so yes,yes,yes! Any ladies contact me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think they should have a little heart or something on the profile for people looking for 'more', I'm certainly up for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they should have a little heart or something on the profile for people looking for 'more', I'm certainly up for that. "

Excellent idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single mail me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree this could be a very good idea for all us singletons xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please that's exactly what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my last partner on here. Lasted 3 years but he was very jealous and controlling. We didnt swing at all.

I didnt mind being in a relationship but couldnt forget my Fab life. So whilst I wouldnt want to "date" towards a relationship at this moment, I wouldnt mind a date and nice evening with a like minded individual rather than just a social with a view to sex

So a

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