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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Serious question here

Beer belly - more cushion for the pushin or blockin for the rockin??

Seen plenty of profiles saying not looking for males with 'beer bellys' from women/couples who lets be honest dont do too bad in the belly dept!

Dont get me wrong I like my women big/small/large/thin etc but surely if your ruling out one type of body then shouldnt you at least practice what you preach so to speak??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put on your tin hat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

different strokes different folks my friend eveybody looking for their thing , some only want black men , some only vwe , if the profile aint to your liking then ignore it and move on . as for the tin hat comment think what he means is you going to get a lot flack for it . best of luck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have to disagree with you there.

this site enables people to select whoever they want. As a larger lady it doesn't mean i have to be attracted to bigger men.. personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger hammer to hit the nail with?

To be fair, many people are on here to meet strangers/friends as a kinda fantasy.... and their fantasy may be to meet a 6 foot, 6 packed adonis. If they dont get any luck then am sure in time they 'may' replax their standards or what they are looking for. As long as people meet their requirments though, they will continue to have their preferences.

Steve

(who happens to come from the not average sized torso club, lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever tried to put two weebles together? just doesn't work. You need a slinky to wrap round the weeble. Or a Mr Potato head and a Mrs Potato chip to get the best fit.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

lol - agree with the op, pots, kettles and black springs to mind at times! Ah well, not to worry, it's all subjective, we all have preferences ad nauseum (sic) Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever tried to put two weebles together? just doesn't work. You need a slinky to wrap round the weeble. Or a Mr Potato head and a Mrs Potato chip to get the best fit.

"

ha ha ha ha ha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever tried to put two weebles together? just doesn't work. You need a slinky to wrap round the weeble. Or a Mr Potato head and a Mrs Potato chip to get the best fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question here

Beer belly - more cushion for the pushin or blockin for the rockin??

Seen plenty of profiles saying not looking for males with 'beer bellys' from women/couples who lets be honest dont do too bad in the belly dept!

Dont get me wrong I like my women big/small/large/thin etc but surely if your ruling out one type of body then shouldnt you at least practice what you preach so to speak??"

It's not different on here than it is in wider society. Some people prefer the fuller figure, some people like lithe / athletic, some people aren't fussed either way.

As regards practicing what you preach, again what you prefer is a personal choice. Just because you are big doesn't mean you should fancy big people too and the same thing goes for thin people.

I have 2 people in my life. My Mrs is a biggish girl and she likes stocky / rugby / big built men.

I also have a long standing male fb. He is 29/30 waist, goes to the gym 5 times a week and has got muscles upon muscles but he is only attracted to fat men.

He knows he looks good but what he looks like isn't attractive to him.

I've been out with him socially and he literally could have pretty much anyone he wanted but he shows absolutely zero interest in anyone unless they are B.I.G !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the op. We look after ourselves physically and hygiene wise....but we do not judge others on their appearance, although hygiene should go without saying!!

With us it is peronality all the way....

We have seen some profiles where "Pot Kettle calling and Black" could be put into a well known saying...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i have to disagree with you there.

this site enables people to select whoever they want. As a larger lady it doesn't mean i have to be attracted to bigger men.. personal preference "

fair comment, was just curious thats all, maybe some people are just concerned with the 'logistics' of the situation lol!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with the op. We look after ourselves physically and hygiene wise....but we do not judge others on their appearance, although hygiene should go without saying!!

With us it is peronality all the way....

We have seen some profiles where "Pot Kettle calling and Black" could be put into a well known saying...

now hygiene is a totally different story . . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with the op. We look after ourselves physically and hygiene wise....but we do not judge others on their appearance, although hygiene should go without saying!!

With us it is peronality all the way....

We have seen some profiles where "Pot Kettle calling and Black" could be put into a well known saying...

now hygiene is a totally different story . . . .

"

meaning ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iso.. does the like big girls?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one likes a smelly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"iso.. does the like big girls?? lol"

i like round faces and big boobs - just so happens that a lot of big girls have both, which makes iso all kinds of happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no one likes a smelly!!"

i didn't mean you tease

i just thought the OP was suggesting that bigger people have hygiene issues

that's my achilles heel - ever wanna wind me up, that's the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bigger people have hygiene issues

Joking!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like a man with a bit of weight behind him, it dont matter if you got a four inch cock if youve got 20 stone to bang it in with.

But i also like smaller guys.

Different people like different things and you cant force someone to be attracted to something there not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bigger people have hygiene issues

Joking!! "

please don't - it is thursday after all

and u know how people get on a thursday !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have "naked Tuesdays"...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no one likes a smelly!!

i didn't mean you tease

i just thought the OP was suggesting that bigger people have hygiene issues

that's my achilles heel - ever wanna wind me up, that's the way forward "

didnt mean bigger people have hygiene issues lol!! just meant thats a whole other thread! ive met skinny people in the past who have stunk to high heavan, met some larger ladies who have smelled good enough to eat (and no they didnt smell of cake or bacon butties lol!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their type, doesnt mean they have to look like that....otherwise I would be looking for a woman who is 5'10 with short hair, no boobs and a penis

On a serious note though everyone has preference and if i dont think im what they are looking for I dont email....I tend to stay away from profiles that state must be vwe, good looking, six pack, good body etc as feel far too pressured to live up to their standards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no one likes a smelly!!

i didn't mean you tease

i just thought the OP was suggesting that bigger people have hygiene issues

that's my achilles heel - ever wanna wind me up, that's the way forward "

i've re read and cant find where the OP made that reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was perhaps some humour... just maybe a joke or similar....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again, someone taking umbrage because they're some how excluded!

I'm not attracted to big men and I don't play with black men either. As I'm very big we'd never meet in the middle, I like my men slim, so they can fit snuggly into my nook and crannies.

My personal preference doesn't mean I think any less of a big man. By the OP reckoning I should only play with big black blokes.

The things I read on these forums on a daily basis makes me miss the intelligence of the "would you" type threads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no one likes a smelly!!

i didn't mean you tease

i just thought the OP was suggesting that bigger people have hygiene issues

that's my achilles heel - ever wanna wind me up, that's the way forward

didnt mean bigger people have hygiene issues lol!! just meant thats a whole other thread! ive met skinny people in the past who have stunk to high heavan, met some larger ladies who have smelled good enough to eat (and no they didnt smell of cake or bacon butties lol!!)"

that's a good do - sorry that i misinterpreted your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no one likes a smelly!!

i didn't mean you tease

i just thought the OP was suggesting that bigger people have hygiene issues

that's my achilles heel - ever wanna wind me up, that's the way forward

i've re read and cant find where the OP made that reference "

he made a comment along the lines of

'now hygiene that's another issue'

i misinterpreted it in the context of this forum and have apologised for that, good boy that I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here we go again, someone taking umbrage because they're some how excluded!

I'm not attracted to big men and I don't play with black men either. As I'm very big we'd never meet in the middle, I like my men slim, so they can fit snuggly into my nook and crannies.

My personal preference doesn't mean I think any less of a big man. By the OP reckoning I should only play with big black blokes.

The things I read on these forums on a daily basis makes me miss the intelligence of the "would you" type threads! "

not really, think you have taken it to the far extreme there!

the original question was basically do you think beer bellys get in the way ***questions intelligengce and ability to read before jumping on bandwagon to have a go*** yeeeeee haaaa!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no one likes a smelly!!

i didn't mean you tease

i just thought the OP was suggesting that bigger people have hygiene issues

that's my achilles heel - ever wanna wind me up, that's the way forward

didnt mean bigger people have hygiene issues lol!! just meant thats a whole other thread! ive met skinny people in the past who have stunk to high heavan, met some larger ladies who have smelled good enough to eat (and no they didnt smell of cake or bacon butties lol!!)

that's a good do - sorry that i misinterpreted your comment"

apology accepted thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just rise above it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

the original question was basically do you think beer bellys get in the way "

it's never stopped me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

the original question was basically do you think beer bellys get in the way

it's never stopped me "

nor me, though mine is still in the process of becoming a fully fledged beer belly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favorite saying is its not the size of the nail its the size of the hammer - as a fat guy with a small cock that makes me happy

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By *ingmasterMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I think the point that the OP was trying to make , (and i agree with him here) because ive sen many a profile with such requests . Why use a derogatory discription like 'beer belly'or use it as a discription of unnatractiveness when the person fits that description themselves . why not say fuller figured or BBM or a million other ways to describe someone with a xxl waistline ? just my take on it . dont want to put words in OPs mouth .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the point that the OP was trying to make , (and i agree with him here) because ive sen many a profile with such requests . Why use a derogatory discription like 'beer belly'or use it as a discription of unnatractiveness when the person fits that description themselves . why not say fuller figured or BBM or a million other ways to describe someone with a xxl waistline ? just my take on it . dont want to put words in OPs mouth ."

I agree with what you say, though my comments were an after thought from the original question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent thousands of pounds on mine over the years...it's taken a lot of effort so if people dont like it, they can naff off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I spent thousands of pounds on mine over the years...it's taken a lot of effort so if people dont like it, they can naff off."

here here lol! dont people realise the effort, time and money that goes into producing such a fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" but surely if your ruling out one type of body then shouldnt you at least practice what you preach so to speak??"

No

im nothing special, ive had 3 kids, got saggy boobs, baggy belly and stretch marks but i like fit, toned guys and i have every rights to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots and lots of men chasing a small number of women. Result?: the women can afford to have big bellies but the men can't. c'est la vie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots and lots of men chasing a small number of women. Result?: the women can afford to have big bellies but the men can't. c'est la vie!"

see there is a god

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

Lol I think they are fine, I have had fun with guys with a beer belly before....although to he was not hairy (bears are not my thing lol).

I also don't mind women who have extra and really doesn't think it gets in the way.

It it everyones preference. Personally I don't judge a person on their size but on their face and smile and above all personality.

p.s

I think the smile is the thing that attracts me the most.

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over a year ago

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