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By *rnortholt OP   Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

When I first started swinging I had a couple of meets at people's homes where they would have porn playing on the TV.

I never understood it, as thought, if being with these folks isn't a turn on, having people shagging on screen wont pep things up any.

Does it still happen and does it work for others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does help break the ice so to speak.

It's kinda hard to explain sometimes (very few times) on meets it can be alot of beating round the bushes not knowing what to say how to phrase stuff, so it helps break that tension when there's two people or more fucking on the TV lol xx

Just from our P.O.V

But may be different for others xxx

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By *rnortholt OP   Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Cheers Box n Boox, I get you, but guess despite being shy, I have a degree of self-confidence on meets so the beating about the bush thing has never been an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of people it isn't Hun but now and again it can be, one of the other things we also find (don't know if it's the same for anyone else).

Is that despite they have just been fucking your face they say things like can i cum on your breast please xx lol which ways makes us giggle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn on the tv is good for meets, instantly breaks down any barriers or uneasiness i find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a bit of porn but once had a meet where we stayed in their lounge with their massive tv on.

A threesome in front of the Antiques Road show was very odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tv is off at mine except for maybe a radio channel- hoping nobody would notice what was on anyway

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By *kexpat81Man
over a year ago

Aldgate

Prefer a bit of music myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Background music normally does it for me.

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By *rnortholt OP   Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"tv is off at mine except for maybe a radio channel- hoping nobody would notice what was on anyway "

As a Radio 4 listener, does the shipping forecast mean it's time for everyone to go home?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"tv is off at mine except for maybe a radio channel- hoping nobody would notice what was on anyway "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not for us. Sounds a bit awkward.

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By *rnortholt OP   Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"Certainly not for us. Sounds a bit awkward. "

Glad I'm not the only one!

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By *andfCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd feel really awkward if I went round to someones house and they had porn on the TV. I'd most likely have a polite drink and chat and then leave.

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By *rnortholt OP   Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"I'd feel really awkward if I went round to someones house and they had porn on the TV. I'd most likely have a polite drink and chat and then leave."

I think I was fairly new to all this and just thought it was par for the course - but yes it did make me feel awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No on a first meet. If i have met them before then it could be fun x

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

This happened to me fairly recently, except it was really bland low quality porn. We got straight to playing anyway so it was more of a distraction than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually have music on....why would you be playing with someone ta felt uncomfortable with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to me once. Felt really awkward sat there watching porn with a couple,but it didn't take long for things to warm up

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By *rnortholt OP   Man
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"I usually have music on....why would you be playing with someone ta felt uncomfortable with? "

Depends on the choice of music!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it could be awkward too. I would prefer music!

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never had a private meet with porn playing, that would probably be awkward though.

We've been to clubs and parties with it playing and to be honest we don't pay it much attention but we understand why they do play it.

H xx

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