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Dear unicorn. Would you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Forgive my cynicism but.....

As a supposed unicorn. Which I'm not, as quickly as I meet someone and have kinky times, no sooner have I got my meet done or even not. Part way thru a social, coffee or even at exchange of numbers the would you starts.

Would you let me.....

Would you do this scenario

Would you meet me and a female for a three some.

Would let me watch you do?

It gets tiring. All the things I'm asked I can and will sort myself as a "unicorn"

Anyone else have this problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgive my cynicism but.....

As a supposed unicorn. Which I'm not, as quickly as I meet someone and have kinky times, no sooner have I got my meet done or even not. Part way thru a social, coffee or even at exchange of numbers the would you starts.

Would you let me.....

Would you do this scenario

Would you meet me and a female for a three some.

Would let me watch you do?

It gets tiring. All the things I'm asked I can and will sort myself as a "unicorn"

Anyone else have this problem. "

No, unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or "would you meet me and my mate?"

Erm nah!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or "would you meet me and my mate?"

Erm nah!"

Yeah. This too

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By *i-DottyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Or "would you meet me and my mate?"

Erm nah!

Yeah. This too"

........Let my boyfriend watch and join in if we all feel comfortable...... NO - F@@K OFF!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give my partner pleasure but your not allowed to fk him and he can't touch you......NO...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fav is want to come be our play thing...... I'm not a toy there for just them.

I do play with cpls alone and yes hubby knows, I also meet ladies alone and would never assume this would lead to a threesome unless they suggested it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had the problem of a unicorn. Still learning new jargon, haven't been around for a long while so forgive me.

Anyway, I would of thought the would you's be answered when they looked at your profile or chatted before meeting up?

Guess not on here. A shame, makes it worse for everyone else looking for something genuine. It's not perfect but maybe shifting to bring the initiator with looking for meets would help reduce the number of "would you"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never had the problem of a unicorn. Still learning new jargon, haven't been around for a long while so forgive me.

Anyway, I would of thought the would you's be answered when they looked at your profile or chatted before meeting up?

Guess not on here. A shame, makes it worse for everyone else looking for something genuine. It's not perfect but maybe shifting to bring the initiator with looking for meets would help reduce the number of "would you"?"

I am the initiator. I'm saying this is what happens as soon as you meet. I don't know why. You meet one on one and it's like they've unlocked a key to a magic Kingdom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your input. So it's not just me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dislike the label , dislike any label frankly , but some , I guess help people understand what we are looking for . But unicorn I resist strongly . So much about Fab drives me crackers , but the ocassional gem keeps me strong !

More times than not I'll be chatting to someone and the 'can I bring a mate or a couple' question comes up . It infuriates me . If I was looking for a group at the time I'd have said so , if I'm looking for 1-1 that's what I'll have approached them for .

I know we can always say no thanks and leave it there , but so often so much time has already been invested in the conversation and to realise they actually aren't interested in what you are , well , it's annoying .

It's insulting too. That never ends well !

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

What intrest me is it highlights to a certain extent the different attitudes on her from people/couples. Some people want to have friendship and sexy fun. But some people are just looking for a human sex toy to play with and dispose when done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how they ask. People want to know if you're compatible so it's fine to ask questions. But if they are rude or insistent it puts me right off. No problem though, just stop talking to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What intrest me is it highlights to a certain extent the different attitudes on her from people/couples. Some people want to have friendship and sexy fun. But some people are just looking for a human sex toy to play with and dispose when done. "

Easy to spot and fuck them right off.

Let the sex toys meet each other and be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unicorn"

These type of terms make me cringe, same with most of the jargon and code words in the fet scene.

Why don't people learn to talk properly and have a conversation that flows?

"Hurpa derp, sub met up with some vanilla friends the other day, one of them's a unicorn in serious need of a master-daddydom!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone for your input. So it's not just me x "

Thanks for the interesting topic. It's nice to see the chat on these things, reminds you that not everyone is D-bag lol.

PS: 'magic kingdom' - Priceless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will you be our unicorn and leave you husband at home to come play. "

Fuck off you looser!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the couples who message with a one liner and when you ask why they are interested in you, they say 'you are female and bi'. That's it. FFS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on how they ask. People want to know if you're compatible so it's fine to ask questions. But if they are rude or insistent it puts me right off. No problem though, just stop talking to them. "

You're right ....I figure I can't possibly control people's behaviour or questions towards me , the only thing I can control is my response to it and I try not to allow my irritation to spill into the fun that I'd like to have from fab

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

mrs mischief gets some right corkers message wise.Seems you ladies are all in the same boat here regarding messages.For us its no pressure so should a single fem want to meet mrs alone thats fine we wouldnt even question a single fem.But where not ones really to send messages anyway unless someone takes our eye.(We do have single and joint accounts)

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Entitled couples are the worst at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Will you be our unicorn and leave you husband at home to come play. "

Fuck off you looser! "

Yeah just go around, shove a horn up his arse and then leave.

Dumbest term ever unicorn is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone for your input. So it's not just me x

Thanks for the interesting topic. It's nice to see the chat on these things, reminds you that not everyone is D-bag lol.

PS: 'magic kingdom' - Priceless."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or the couples who message with a one liner and when you ask why they are interested in you, they say 'you are female and bi'. That's it. FFS. "

Ah ah. Yeah. Like going into Leeds and throwing myself on any man cause he's male and has man bits.

You made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Will you be our unicorn and leave you husband at home to come play. "

Fuck off you looser!

Yeah just go around, shove a horn up his arse and then leave.

Dumbest term ever unicorn is."

Absolutely. I didn't know it til I joined here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Unicorn"

These type of terms make me cringe, same with most of the jargon and code words in the fet scene.

Why don't people learn to talk properly and have a conversation that flows?

You should write a book. I have no clue what this means but hell, it beats enmerdale

"Hurpa derp, sub met up with some vanilla friends the other day, one of them's a unicorn in serious need of a master-daddydom!""

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone for your input. So it's not just me x

Thanks for the interesting topic. It's nice to see the chat on these things, reminds you that not everyone is D-bag lol.

PS: 'magic kingdom' - Priceless."

Yeah. It's Disneyland.

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