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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon

as a couple my missus has to feel some sort of attraction to a guy before she will consider anything else,why do guys seem to think they will get anywhere without showing a face pic?if we turned up and the guy wasn't what she was after or they portray themselves to be she would most likely laugh at them and tip them bollox....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too, it's one of the first things I ask for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon

Hahaha I put wrong heading for post sorry guys....ffs we only wanna see a pic then we can say there and then if interested but guys seem to be getting really shifty about showing them lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha I put wrong heading for post sorry guys....ffs we only wanna see a pic then we can say there and then if interested but guys seem to be getting really shifty about showing them lately"

Lol if he ain't showing its there loss

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By *ybtMan
over a year ago

Derby

It is odd men aren't willing to show face pics. I understand not having them on show but if you are genuinely going to meet someone they will see your face anyway so send them a private pic!

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon


"Hahaha I put wrong heading for post sorry guys....ffs we only wanna see a pic then we can say there and then if interested but guys seem to be getting really shifty about showing them lately

Lol if he ain't showing its there loss "

Absolutely mate and they get told exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha I put wrong heading for post sorry guys....ffs we only wanna see a pic then we can say there and then if interested but guys seem to be getting really shifty about showing them lately

Lol if he ain't showing its there loss

Absolutely mate and they get told exactly that"

Respect and honesty goes a long way

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon

Or the old I only share on whattsapp or kik so they can get your number.,.dafuq

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon


"It is odd men aren't willing to show face pics. I understand not having them on show but if you are genuinely going to meet someone they will see your face anyway so send them a private pic!"

Exactly that...I put it down to them being pic collectors

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"as a couple my missus has to feel some sort of attraction to a guy before she will consider anything else,why do guys seem to think they will get anywhere without showing a face pic?if we turned up and the guy wasn't what she was after or they portray themselves to be she would most likely laugh at them and tip them bollox...."

If they don't send one on the first message, ask for one, if they still don't, move on to the next one.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Or the old I only share on whattsapp or kik so they can get your number.,.dafuq"

KIK doesn't use numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is odd men aren't willing to show face pics. I understand not having them on show but if you are genuinely going to meet someone they will see your face anyway so send them a private pic!

Exactly that...I put it down to them being pic collectors"

It's a couples right in my opinion it's there choice after all

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon


"as a couple my missus has to feel some sort of attraction to a guy before she will consider anything else,why do guys seem to think they will get anywhere without showing a face pic?if we turned up and the guy wasn't what she was after or they portray themselves to be she would most likely laugh at them and tip them bollox....

The very first message we reply with is a face pic request

If they don't send one on the first message, ask for one, if they still don't, move on to the next one."

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon


"Or the old I only share on whattsapp or kik so they can get your number.,.dafuq

KIK doesn't use numbers. "

I dunno I thought it was a kids thing tbh never had it never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the old I only share on whattsapp or kik so they can get your number.,.dafuq

KIK doesn't use numbers.

I dunno I thought it was a kids thing tbh never had it never will"

It's personal choice I guess

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I would never consider a social without exchanging pictures let alone a meet.

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon


"I would never consider a social without exchanging pictures let alone a meet."

Ikr...some odd guys on here to think otherwise really,thing is you know instantly if the attraction is there or not,otherwise you could spend forever chatting back n forth then find out the guy has 2 heads or something,which equates to wasted hours lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would never consider a social without exchanging pictures let alone a meet.

Ikr...some odd guys on here to think otherwise really,thing is you know instantly if the attraction is there or not,otherwise you could spend forever chatting back n forth then find out the guy has 2 heads or something,which equates to wasted hours lol"

Then don't chat until you have seen a pic, no waste of time there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are important but our mixed experiences have taught us that interaction and chemistry/banter socially and in the 'bedroom' also make a massive difference. We had a really good looking chatty whitty guy for a meet but when he was fucking Mrs Rope he was just Mr Metronome!! And another was just rabbit in headlights didn't know what to do and couldn't get it up. There's a knack to a great meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're newbies and unfamiliar with the world of swinging and its etiquettes.. they probably assume all swinger's are unfussy nymphos that will allow anyone that expresses interest to knock boots with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get pic or view cam before agree to meet.

For own safety and cos need to have a bit of attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask for face pics if we have chatted for, say, 5 or 6 messages on Fab. If they say they don't have any on here I suggest they upload one as I won't be the only one asking. If that doesn't work I don't bother carrying on the conversation. If they do have one and I like the look of all of them, face, body etc, I will give them my Kik info, never WhatsApp. Dreamcatcher Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the old I only share on whattsapp or kik so they can get your number.,.dafuq

KIK doesn't use numbers.

I dunno I thought it was a kids thing tbh never had it never will"

WhatsApp uses your phone number so definitely avoid if you don't want to share. Kik however does not so is worth exploring if you don't want to use Fab as the main messaging portal for arranging meets.

Also, although it's already been said I also live by a simple rule... If you contact them, send you face pic first and if they contact you get them to send you one first.my opinion is that you should do this almost straight away as there is no point wasting each others time. Looks are not important, I'd agree-but this is, only mainly successful when you meet in clubs. If someone won't share their face when trying to meet, I'd smell a rat!

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