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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Why is it so hard to find a genuine guy that wanna get to know you a lil better before sex happens and all so get stand up a lot so disheartening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bastards. All of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly think that the genuine guys are not meeting the genuine women

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why is it so hard to find a genuine guy that wanna get to know you a lil better before sex happens and all so get stand up a lot so disheartening "

there are genuine guys on here but you have to realise that on the net anyone can tell you anything...and they will.

Look out for mens profiles that are saying they want more than just sex and tread warily.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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dunno, i've met loads of bullshitters. when sex enters the equation, and is the primary cause of a guy interacting with you, what more can you expect?

hence i cba any more.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I honestly think that the genuine guys are not meeting the genuine women"

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I'm a genuinely nice person with pure intentions and when I say I wanna get to you know first their all start going weird on me like I said something in a foreign language and nothing but pure abuse and being racist to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what your definition of genuine is and what your looking for?

If it's just sex..do you really need their life story?

If it's more than sex

..maybe try a dating site?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Can't say I've noticed, all of my meets have been happy to chat and we usually make a night of it when we meet so there's a nice social and sexual balance to the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a genuine guy that wanna get to know you a lil better before sex happens and all so get stand up a lot so disheartening "

Because you haven't messaged me?

Also you say you want an "older" man...but have quite a young cut-off age on your preferences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what your definition of genuine is and what your looking for?

If it's just sex..do you really need their life story?

If it's more than sex

..maybe try a dating site?"

I agree you are on the wrong site. This is a hook up site really

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Even those who appear to be a knight in shinning armour to restore your faith; turn out just to be picks wrapped in tinfoil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try finding a woman..

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I don't think it is. I don't think there's many people that would want to have sex with someone they couldn't tolerate long enough to have a cup of tea with.

I think the best way of finding out what people are really like, and what what their intentions are is to chat on the phone. You get months worth of messages in 5 minutes..

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Why is it so hard to find a genuine guy that wanna get to know you a lil better before sex happens and all so get stand up a lot so disheartening "

Well the clue is in the name of the site .

Swinging is a nsa sex site for the majority of single guys , so that's what they are after .

As soon as there's a whiff of more being involved they run a mile , and who can blame them ? They are only her for the fun .

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Depends what your definition of genuine is and what your looking for?

If it's just sex..do you really need their life story?

If it's more than sex

..maybe try a dating site?

I agree you are on the wrong site. This is a hook up site really"

Don't agre with either of you but I attend and run organised socials so I know there's more to swinging than just hooking up

Out of curiosity, What do you think people do at a swingers club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it is. I don't think there's many people that would want to have sex with someone they couldn't tolerate long enough to have a cup of tea with.

I think the best way of finding out what people are really like, and what what their intentions are is to chat on the phone. You get months worth of messages in 5 minutes.."

Totally agree, phone calls are the way forward

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I don't think it is. I don't think there's many people that would want to have sex with someone they couldn't tolerate long enough to have a cup of tea with.

I think the best way of finding out what people are really like, and what what their intentions are is to chat on the phone. You get months worth of messages in 5 minutes..

Totally agree, phone calls are the way forward "

Again something I disadgeee with I've been on here 6 years never once had a phone call with a fellow fabber and I've not had a bad meet that either

What works for one doesn't for others

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yup I will definitely try the phone call lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it is. I don't think there's many people that would want to have sex with someone they couldn't tolerate long enough to have a cup of tea with.

I think the best way of finding out what people are really like, and what what their intentions are is to chat on the phone. You get months worth of messages in 5 minutes..

Totally agree, phone calls are the way forward "

Chat, drink then swing

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Even those who appear to be a knight in shinning armour to restore your faith; turn out just to be picks wrapped in tinfoil"

they're just as fucked up as we are, or more so in some cases and they use a place like this to predate on women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Predate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what your definition of genuine is and what your looking for?

If it's just sex..do you really need their life story?

If it's more than sex

..maybe try a dating site?"

Very succinctly put

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I don't think it is. I don't think there's many people that would want to have sex with someone they couldn't tolerate long enough to have a cup of tea with.

I think the best way of finding out what people are really like, and what what their intentions are is to chat on the phone. You get months worth of messages in 5 minutes..

Totally agree, phone calls are the way forward

Chat, drink then swing"

So in other words you are looking for the same as the OP a nice social meet with sex thrown in

So why should she be the only one on a dating site?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Predate? "

hunt, but in a predatory way.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Depends what your definition of genuine is and what your looking for?

If it's just sex..do you really need their life story?

If it's more than sex

..maybe try a dating site?

I agree you are on the wrong site. This is a hook up site really

Don't agre with either of you but I attend and run organised socials so I know there's more to swinging than just hooking up

Out of curiosity, What do you think people do at a swingers club? "

Well I know what used to happen in swinging clubs , until a few years ago when they became more of a social get together , than a place to meet up and have sex with like minded folk .

Hence the reason we stopped going to them , there's more action in a nightclub or a pub than a swinging club these days

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I think people do want more but just sex as way to feel close to a person because don't wanna go through that pain again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Predate?

hunt, but in a predatory way."

Not all men are predators on here

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Predate?

hunt, but in a predatory way.

Not all men are predators on here"

yeah i get #NotAllMen aren't and never even said all men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is if you send a normal nice msg on here your not going to catch anyone's eye so the nice ones are slipping through the net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are for sex...not many go to a club to get to know someone and just have a chat?

As for phone calls...no thanks done that 1 time and the guy was wanking while I chatted!!! Quickly hung up and never again

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"The thing is if you send a normal nice msg on here your not going to catch anyone's eye so the nice ones are slipping through the net"

i think once we've been on here a while, and met some of the 'nice' guys, we just end up cynical as fuck and all nice men aren't really nice. that's how it is for me anyway.

especially as in this environment every guy approaches you for sex, even the ones who approach you as friends (and nothing more coz they KNOW you don't meet married guys or whatever) end up trying to get sexual.

it's why i blocked all men. i know my attitude surrounding men goes to so fucking cynical i have to take myself out of meeting them on here or even talking to them. this site is never gonna restore my faith in men, ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a genuine guy that wanna get to know you a lil better before sex happens and all so get stand up a lot so disheartening "

Judging from the forum I'd say the woman appear to be selecting unwisely. We are out there but your heads appear to be turned by the "leather clad six pack motorcycle jock types". We may be mundane but at least we're honest, thoughtful and as interested in your mind as your body

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Clubs are for sex...not many go to a club to get to know someone and just have a chat?

As for phone calls...no thanks done that 1 time and the guy was wanking while I chatted!!! Quickly hung up and never again "

I've been to a club and just chatted on several occassions because no one took my fancy should I not be going unless I'm willing to open my legs for sake of if just being somewehere where sex occurs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men shy away from a spiritual bond, and on here certainly aren't looking for an emotional one.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Most men shy away from a spiritual bond, and on here certainly aren't looking for an emotional one."

All I can see she's asking for is a friend with benefits not a ring a house with a white picket fence and 2.4 children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are for sex...not many go to a club to get to know someone and just have a chat?

As for phone calls...no thanks done that 1 time and the guy was wanking while I chatted!!! Quickly hung up and never again

I've been to a club and just chatted on several occassions because no one took my fancy should I not be going unless I'm willing to open my legs for sake of if just being somewehere where sex occurs? "
hey...whatever way you wanna spend your evening...and your money that's completely up to you..me...I'm here for sex..nothing more yip I agree I need to chat to a guy and feel a spark...but I do that on here...then meet for a coffee then it's a sex meet

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Clubs are for sex...not many go to a club to get to know someone and just have a chat?

As for phone calls...no thanks done that 1 time and the guy was wanking while I chatted!!! Quickly hung up and never again

I've been to a club and just chatted on several occassions because no one took my fancy should I not be going unless I'm willing to open my legs for sake of if just being somewehere where sex occurs? hey...whatever way you wanna spend your evening...and your money that's completely up to you..me...I'm here for sex..nothing more yip I agree I need to chat to a guy and feel a spark...but I do that on here...then meet for a coffee then it's a sex meet

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And the OPs looking for someone that's interested in finding that spark for sex in a similar way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


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especially as in this environment every guy approaches you for sex, even the ones who approach you as friends (and nothing more coz they KNOW you don't meet married guys or whatever) end up trying to get sexual.

it's why i blocked all men. i know my attitude surrounding men goes to so fucking cynical i have to take myself out of meeting them on here or even talking to them. this site is never gonna restore my faith in men, ever."

Why do you think they're here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are decent men on fab,if you find yourself stuck in a pattern of being stood up,used and cast aside afterwards perhaps it's inevitable to conceive - on some level you're subconsciously choosing those men who ultimately behave that way toward you and perhaps in turn serve to validate your low opinion of men and you as a perennial victim of sorts.

You look like an attractive lady , he's out there. You just have to open your eyes wider (so to speak) to recognise him when he presents himself to you.

Good luck.

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


" I wanna get to you know first "

Sorry it's the male half here can someone translate to English please?

We like to get to know people first, find that connection were here to fulfill a few fantasies but look for the social side aswell, with single guys the profile has to have some effort put in, a dick pic straight off = block and if they can't string a sentence together then oh well - bye. Guys are going to be after one thing on the whole, we wouldn't say this was a dating site per say so we do bear this in mind and they soon themselves out without us seeking their imperfections lol

We've been on her 8 weeks and have found some lovely genuine guys 1 in 1000 though

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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especially as in this environment every guy approaches you for sex, even the ones who approach you as friends (and nothing more coz they KNOW you don't meet married guys or whatever) end up trying to get sexual.

it's why i blocked all men. i know my attitude surrounding men goes to so fucking cynical i have to take myself out of meeting them on here or even talking to them. this site is never gonna restore my faith in men, ever.

Why do you think they're here!"

didn't know i signed up to a site of liars and manipulators? if that's what this place it is then i'm not ok with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a hard 1 because I look at myself as a normal guy. I havent once sent a dic pic or come out with anything to do with sex messaging people, if I get asked about it I will answer. And do I get any replies, .... I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a genuinely nice person with pure intentions and when I say I wanna get to you know first their all start going weird on me like I said something in a foreign language and nothing but pure abuse and being racist to "
id love to chat and get to know you but I'm older than you're profile allows ! Maybe you're looking for men took young ??? Lol. Feel free to drop me a line ? Rich x

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??"

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site? "

Who knows, maybe because people can't comprehend that they may find there forever partner on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site? "
because it is a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site? because it is a sex site "
no further comment required

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site? because it is a sex site "

To you maybe

To most that define themselves as swingers it's a lot more

Abdvthe site is called fabswingers not fabsex, some can therefore argue you're in the wrong place and tinder is more your style

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site? because it is a sex site no further comment required "

Beg to differ but by all means feel free to fuck each other, he'll marry each other you seem well suited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site? because it is a sex site no further comment required

Beg to differ but by all means feel free to fuck each other, he'll marry each other you seem well suited "

Can't swipe right to get married

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

But to answer the OPs question the reason it's so hard is e equine usurs tgesute as they see fit and they rarely accept the Ines that use it differently from them

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site? because it is a sex site no further comment required

Beg to differ but by all means feel free to fuck each other, he'll marry each other you seem well suited

Can't swipe right to get married "

Cause you can

Usually find it when you aren't looking like that anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site? because it is a sex site

To you maybe

To most that define themselves as swingers it's a lot more

Abdvthe site is called fabswingers not fabsex, some can therefore argue you're in the wrong place and tinder is more your style"
but swinging does involve sex ...so maybe Facebook is more required for some also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view is that this is a sex site, people want to meet up, please and be pleased, no strings. If your after a relationship start looking on a different site. Who knows, a long term relationship might come out of something from here but I wouldn't count on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus...hate to dissapointed anyone

I'm already married

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"I honestly think that the genuine guys are not meeting the genuine women"

This

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"But it's a sex site

Surely most are on here looking for sex?

Why does everyone get so offended when someone suggests it??

Why do people get so offended when people don't just view it as a sex site? because it is a sex site

To you maybe

To most that define themselves as swingers it's a lot more

Abdvthe site is called fabswingers not fabsex, some can therefore argue you're in the wrong place and tinder is more your stylebut swinging does involve sex ...so maybe Facebook is more required for some also "

Swinging can involve sex it isn't a requirement unless you desperate enough to go with anyone

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Plus...hate to dissapointed anyone

I'm already married "

Doesn't mean your above letting emotions get involved through sex

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"My view is that this is a sex site, people want to meet up, please and be pleased, no strings. If your after a relationship start looking on a different site. Who knows, a long term relationship might come out of something from here but I wouldn't count on it "

And what if you want a swingers relationship Not a monogamous one? Then where do those people belong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view is that this is a sex site, people want to meet up, please and be pleased, no strings. If your after a relationship start looking on a different site. Who knows, a long term relationship might come out of something from here but I wouldn't count on it

And what if you want a swingers relationship Not a monogamous one? Then where do those people belong? "

I hope u sleep well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus...hate to dissapointed anyone

I'm already married

Doesn't mean your above letting emotions get involved through sex "
wanna bet

It's sex no feeling required...I'm a married chick that swings with and without my husband only feelings I have are lust...anything is for my husband

Hence why actual swingers will always be cpls 1st and foremost

Way back in the day when this site 1st started I'd say it was 95% cpls

Slowly but surely I'd say it's more singles than cpls now

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"My view is that this is a sex site, people want to meet up, please and be pleased, no strings. If your after a relationship start looking on a different site. Who knows, a long term relationship might come out of something from here but I wouldn't count on it

And what if you want a swingers relationship Not a monogamous one? Then where do those people belong?

I hope u sleep well "

Always do

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Plus...hate to dissapointed anyone

I'm already married

Doesn't mean your above letting emotions get involved through sex wanna bet

It's sex no feeling required...I'm a married chick that swings with and without my husband only feelings I have are lust...anything is for my husband

Hence why actual swingers will always be cpls 1st and foremost

Way back in the day when this site 1st started I'd say it was 95% cpls

Slowly but surely I'd say it's more singles than cpls now

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Seen plenty of couple that split due to one person developing feelings for other outside the relationship and funnily enough it usually happens s once they start playing separately more and more

That's of course not always going to happen butseem it happen a hell of a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then they shouldn't have started in the 1st place and obviously the marriage was on a shaky nail to start with

Hence only strong solid cpls can genuinely call themselves swingers

Been on and off this site for 10yrs

Still very happily married

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Theres a hell of a lot that use it's a sex site as a line that have the cliche line "quality over quantity" in their profiles.

If it's just a sex sure surely quantity is the goal itsjust a fuck after all

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Then they shouldn't have started in the 1st place and obviously the marriage was on a shaky nail to start with

Hence only strong solid cpls can genuinely call themselves swingers

Been on and off this site for 10yrs

Still very happily married "

So where do FB swing couples come into this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no

If that's the case why use the site when you would be easier going down your local to get a shag?

Swinging is a lifestyle

Not instashag

I wish folk would actually look up the word swinging in a dictionary

Or maybe that's too old fashioned lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then they shouldn't have started in the 1st place and obviously the marriage was on a shaky nail to start with

Hence only strong solid cpls can genuinely call themselves swingers

Been on and off this site for 10yrs

Still very happily married

So where do FB swing couples come into this? "
if you look at genuine swingers profiles...alot actually state no FB cpls only gen married cpls

Me I couldn't care less if your married or not none of my buisness

But all I'm saying is...fabswingers is a sex site 1st and foremost

Yes some use it as a chat room or virtual sex chat

But...there no getting away...it's a sex site

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Hell no

If that's the case why use the site when you would be easier going down your local to get a shag?

Swinging is a lifestyle

Not instashag

I wish folk would actually look up the word swinging in a dictionary

Or maybe that's too old fashioned lol "

So you agree there is more to swinging than sex then?

Considering you you refer to it now as a lifestyle choice,

sex sites generally focus on the INstashag aspect only

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Then they shouldn't have started in the 1st place and obviously the marriage was on a shaky nail to start with

Hence only strong solid cpls can genuinely call themselves swingers

Been on and off this site for 10yrs

Still very happily married

So where do FB swing couples come into this? if you look at genuine swingers profiles...alot actually state no FB cpls only gen married cpls

Me I couldn't care less if your married or not none of my buisness

But all I'm saying is...fabswingers is a sex site 1st and foremost

Yes some use it as a chat room or virtual sex chat

But...there no getting away...it's a sex site "

Sex sites guarantee sex, fab doesn't

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Shit got real just saying

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Shit got real just saying "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

No site garentee anything

Its a lifestyle choice as in..a couple chooses to have sex with others

Not just any old random that asks

No feelings involved chat meet have sex

Simple if it's good hell even do it again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit got real just saying "
lol its great discussion

As in how diffrent folk see this site

I just don't get why folk come on a sex site looking for more? Then moan when guys ask for sex?

It's why most guys are on here

Only reason I'm on here

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Nope

No site garentee anything

Its a lifestyle choice as in..a couple chooses to have sex with others

Not just any old random that asks

No feelings involved chat meet have sex

Simple if it's good hell even do it again lol "

Actually yea I know a few paid sex sites that can guarantee sex

Fab prevents me from naming them but they exist

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Shit got real just saying lol its great discussion

As in how diffrent folk see this site

I just don't get why folk come on a sex site looking for more? Then moan when guys ask for sex?

It's why most guys are on here

Only reason I'm on here "

I'm not bothered about a guy asking for sex but if he can't offer me a good social laugh and natter he ain't getting it from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously hookers then

As how can anyone garentee that?

Fat old ugly 80 yr old man

Yip...il have a go...I think not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit got real just saying lol its great discussion

As in how diffrent folk see this site

I just don't get why folk come on a sex site looking for more? Then moan when guys ask for sex?

It's why most guys are on here

Only reason I'm on here

I'm not bothered about a guy asking for sex but if he can't offer me a good social laugh and natter he ain't getting it from me"
feck...nor me lol

I'm not a robot lol

Even my hubby says I'm too picky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope

No site garentee anything

Its a lifestyle choice as in..a couple chooses to have sex with others

Not just any old random that asks

No feelings involved chat meet have sex

Simple if it's good hell even do it again lol

Actually yea I know a few paid sex sites that can guarantee sex

Fab prevents me from naming them but they exist "

Ha ha who knew

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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"Why is it so hard to find a genuine guy that wanna get to know you a lil better before sex happens and all so get stand up a lot so disheartening "

In all honesty...may be is the time you change your parameters of search????? Good and bad have no gender...it just that you keep on doing copy and paste

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Shit got real just saying lol its great discussion

As in how diffrent folk see this site

I just don't get why folk come on a sex site looking for more? Then moan when guys ask for sex?

It's why most guys are on here

Only reason I'm on here

I'm not bothered about a guy asking for sex but if he can't offer me a good social laugh and natter he ain't getting it from mefeck...nor me lol

I'm not a robot lol

Even my hubby says I'm too picky lol "

And I think that's all the OP really wants but most have took it as she's looking for a relationship.

I've got along standing fwb for 6 years now. I know him really well he's a good friend, we have great sex but I'm not romantically interested in him, but we do have a connection, it's what swinging is about for me and why I'd never consider swinging to be just about sex. That connection makes for bloody better sex than random fab hook ups too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what has came out of this discussion...and a great 1 it has been

Is that everyone is diffrent and uses this site in diffrent ways

Yes most guys on here are on here looking for hook ups...hell some status updates make me cringe..

3 day loads needs emptied

And some chicks and guys are on here looking for a wee bit more

Some message then meet

Some chat for months and then meet

Some don't meet at all

But hey...

As long as everyone's up front and happy

Who cares

Too much shit happening in the real world to get upset on a sex site

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I must admit I've enjoyed the discussion on this one myself tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think what has came out of this discussion...and a great 1 it has been

Is that everyone is diffrent and uses this site in diffrent ways

Yes most guys on here are on here looking for hook ups...hell some status updates make me cringe..

3 day loads needs emptied

And some chicks and guys are on here looking for a wee bit more

Some message then meet

Some chat for months and then meet

Some don't meet at all

But hey...

As long as everyone's up front and happy

Who cares

Too much shit happening in the real world to get upset on a sex site

"

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I'm very aware this a sex is site I'm not dumb I'm just looking for s connection before I let any one have the goodies and a few people Get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bastards. All of them"

Once you accept this, your Fab life will be fulfilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit I've enjoyed the discussion on this one myself tonight "
lol oi Mrs...Iv just looked at your profile...

I'm ment to be the no feelings instashag chick...you have more veris than me!!! I'm well jealous now!!

Lol lol

2 chicks having a great discussion without name calling and bitchy comments on here..

I thank you miss x

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I think what has came out of this discussion...and a great 1 it has been

Is that everyone is diffrent and uses this site in diffrent ways

Yes most guys on here are on here looking for hook ups...hell some status updates make me cringe..

3 day loads needs emptied

And some chicks and guys are on here looking for a wee bit more

Some message then meet

Some chat for months and then meet

Some don't meet at all

But hey...

As long as everyone's up front and happy

Who cares

Too much shit happening in the real world to get upset on a sex site

"

So pretty much what I said earlier it's so hard because everyone uses the site differently to adhere to their own agendas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bow to your knowledge

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I must admit I've enjoyed the discussion on this one myself tonight lol oi Mrs...Iv just looked at your profile...

I'm ment to be the no feelings instashag chick...you have more veris than me!!! I'm well jealous now!!

Lol lol

2 chicks having a great discussion without name calling and bitchy comments on here..

I thank you miss x"

No feelings - check

We're they instashag meets - not really

And yea it's been a frefreshing chick on chick debate in that regard

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I bow to your knowledge

"

My comment was easily missed in the several talents we took the discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shows it can be done

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I do like to bring people together lol and you is welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol Cheers Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol Cheers Mrs "

Aww

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Lol Cheers Mrs "

Bet someone reads this soon though and thinks damn those bitches had their claws out

That's if they haven't already

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"I'm very aware this a sex is site I'm not dumb I'm just looking for s connection before I let any one have the goodies and a few people Get that "

is not the fact that people don't *Get that...or dump...or that this website is for Sex.

If all the time you go out for a man that don't give you what exactly you want...that means that the pattern is repeatin...so..your parameters of *Type of Partner* you keep on choosing is faulty!! (just my opinion )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol Cheers Mrs

Bet someone reads this soon though and thinks damn those bitches had their claws out

That's if they haven't already "
or do what I do ...skip most of it and read the last 3 posts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thread ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thread ever "

Easily pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi...

This was way better than

What's your favourite easter eggs!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thread ever

Easily pleased "

Or just a fucked up sense of humour, and a taste for popcorn.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo the 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do "
just go with instant attraction and gut instinct lol

Shag him and no need for small talk in the hope he's good in bed

That is a joke by the way

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do "

need to learn the difference between a good guy and a 'good' guy.

idk how you find one either really, i stopped meeting weeks ago now. i have really pretty nails, look years younger, and my skin looks lovely from the stress of not looking for sex.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I'm not even looking for sex if I'm honest I just come here to chat to people in the hopes we meet and become friends what ever happens happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wit!!!!

Lol I'm saying nowt lol

But I do hope things pick up for you

Whatever your looking good for x

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Wit!!!!

Lol I'm saying nowt lol

But I do hope things pick up for you

Whatever your looking good for x"
thanks I'm sure it will

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do just go with instant attraction and gut instinct lol

Shag him and no need for small talk in the hope he's good in bed

That is a joke by the way "

Bleeeesssss

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do "

Thanks...I appreciate a good exchange of opinions. No harm on it I believe !!

I use to chat with a woman: she complained that men are all dickheads. When I asked what type of men she likes she replied that she likes man that takes charge and loves when they treat her rough (errrr... yes those are dickheads!! My opinion )

Do I make any sense??

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do

Thanks...I appreciate a good exchange of opinions. No harm on it I believe !!

I use to chat with a woman: she complained that men are all dickheads. When I asked what type of men she likes she replied that she likes man that takes charge and loves when they treat her rough (errrr... yes those are dickheads!! My opinion )

Do I make any sense?? "
yes you do make sense well if she wants some one to treat her rough why moan about it when you getting what you ask for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said my lovely

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Well said my lovely"
well you know like

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do

Thanks...I appreciate a good exchange of opinions. No harm on it I believe !!

I use to chat with a woman: she complained that men are all dickheads. When I asked what type of men she likes she replied that she likes man that takes charge and loves when they treat her rough (errrr... yes those are dickheads!! My opinion )

Do I make any sense?? yes you do make sense well if she wants some one to treat her rough why moan about it when you getting what you ask for "

well..more like *if she doesn't like dickheads..why she choose to go with dickheads?? (or maybe is the same the way you said..lol )

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do

Thanks...I appreciate a good exchange of opinions. No harm on it I believe !!

I use to chat with a woman: she complained that men are all dickheads. When I asked what type of men she likes she replied that she likes man that takes charge and loves when they treat her rough (errrr... yes those are dickheads!! My opinion )

Do I make any sense?? yes you do make sense well if she wants some one to treat her rough why moan about it when you getting what you ask for

well..more like *if she doesn't like dickheads..why she choose to go with dickheads?? (or maybe is the same the way you said..lol )"
it's hard to change a habit but you got to if you wanna see any real change and I know because that's what I'm trying to at the moment I hate moaning because I just find my self moaning about the same shit when I can simply just change

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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most dickheads aren't dickheads when they approach you. it's when they think you like them and will accept shitty behaviour then their dickheadedness shows.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do

Thanks...I appreciate a good exchange of opinions. No harm on it I believe !!

I use to chat with a woman: she complained that men are all dickheads. When I asked what type of men she likes she replied that she likes man that takes charge and loves when they treat her rough (errrr... yes those are dickheads!! My opinion )

Do I make any sense?? yes you do make sense well if she wants some one to treat her rough why moan about it when you getting what you ask for

well..more like *if she doesn't like dickheads..why she choose to go with dickheads?? (or maybe is the same the way you said..lol ) it's hard to change a habit but you got to if you wanna see any real change and I know because that's what I'm trying to at the moment I hate moaning because I just find my self moaning about the same shit when I can simply just change "

HO...I don't think you are moaning..lol..

You are just wondering why you keep on banging your head on the same post (when on that post is well labelled *beware of the post* )

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"most dickheads aren't dickheads when they approach you. it's when they think you like them and will accept shitty behaviour then their dickheadedness shows.

"
that's true and which I don't get

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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"most dickheads aren't dickheads when they approach you. it's when they think you like them and will accept shitty behaviour then their dickheadedness shows.

"

I know..and I agree...but.. most they have it written on their forehead...lol (you may choose to read it or not )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Curvy

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do

Thanks...I appreciate a good exchange of opinions. No harm on it I believe !!

I use to chat with a woman: she complained that men are all dickheads. When I asked what type of men she likes she replied that she likes man that takes charge and loves when they treat her rough (errrr... yes those are dickheads!! My opinion )

Do I make any sense?? yes you do make sense well if she wants some one to treat her rough why moan about it when you getting what you ask for

well..more like *if she doesn't like dickheads..why she choose to go with dickheads?? (or maybe is the same the way you said..lol ) it's hard to change a habit but you got to if you wanna see any real change and I know because that's what I'm trying to at the moment I hate moaning because I just find my self moaning about the same shit when I can simply just change

HO...I don't think you are moaning..lol..

You are just wondering why you keep on banging your head on the same post (when on that post is well labelled *beware of the post* )"
yeah I wanna stop banging my head it hurts a lot lol and I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are genuine guys on here, ive had lots of amazing socials over the years, from going watch a meteor shower in the middle of nowhere, fancy dinners or just a bacon buttie and brew to playing xbox and having a drink.. all of these led to amazing sex as we had a connection and knew how to communicate with ease.

The meets I had when it was just straight into sex were awful on the main all bar one.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Well said Curvy "

Which part? Or just in general?

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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"And you are totally allowed to have your opinion but i go for the good guy and I just get fucked over same way so what is a woman meant to do

Thanks...I appreciate a good exchange of opinions. No harm on it I believe !!

I use to chat with a woman: she complained that men are all dickheads. When I asked what type of men she likes she replied that she likes man that takes charge and loves when they treat her rough (errrr... yes those are dickheads!! My opinion )

Do I make any sense?? yes you do make sense well if she wants some one to treat her rough why moan about it when you getting what you ask for

well..more like *if she doesn't like dickheads..why she choose to go with dickheads?? (or maybe is the same the way you said..lol ) it's hard to change a habit but you got to if you wanna see any real change and I know because that's what I'm trying to at the moment I hate moaning because I just find my self moaning about the same shit when I can simply just change

HO...I don't think you are moaning..lol..

You are just wondering why you keep on banging your head on the same post (when on that post is well labelled *beware of the post* ) yeah I wanna stop banging my head it hurts a lot lol and I will "

Get one of those furry hat...that would look rather cute on you....and they are kind of quilted (should help protecting your head...lol.. )

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"most dickheads aren't dickheads when they approach you. it's when they think you like them and will accept shitty behaviour then their dickheadedness shows.

that's true and which I don't get "

if they was a dickhead before you invested in them you probably wouldn't bother investing anything at all. and they know that.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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Seems now this thread has turned in to the Dickheads..lol

“Dickhead, or not Dickhead: that is the question:

Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer

the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,or to take arms against a sea of Dickheads (pmsl )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what your definition of genuine is and what your looking for?

If it's just sex..do you really need their life story?

If it's more than sex

..maybe try a dating site?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though have to say for the people who tell singles who want more than just a quick hook up to try a dating site you'd most likely shout if we said the people on here who are cheating should go on to an affair site instead...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Though have to say for the people who tell singles who want more than just a quick hook up to try a dating site you'd most likely shout if we said the people on here who are cheating should go on to an affair site instead... "

Ooh no that would be far too logical for the just sex masses

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

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"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack"

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing?

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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[Removed by poster at 16/04/17 03:33:29]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a nice song to cheer you op

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3_b9ILs8A0

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

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"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack"

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over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? "
Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? "

he does, turned out to be keanu reeves believe it or not, was in that matrix documentary a few years back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol"

maybe it's late but i'm struggling to make sense of that

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over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol"
Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol

maybe it's late but i'm struggling to make sense of that "

It's not just you

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated"

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that

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over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that "
haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Why is it so hard to find a genuine guy that wanna get to know you a lil better before sex happens and all so get stand up a lot so disheartening "

Probably because most women expect guys to jump through hoops to get a meet so the guys get a tad bored with this and and meet women who don't want codewords in messages etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Though have to say for the people who tell singles who want more than just a quick hook up to try a dating site you'd most likely shout if we said the people on here who are cheating should go on to an affair site instead...

Ooh no that would be far too logical for the just sex masses "

I know right... waiting for someone to say 'dont judge me' in 3,2,1....

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer"

It wasn't an angry response

Good attempt at changing the subject though

So now we've established I'm not angry why are you so concerned with "the one" if you're just here to fuck?

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer"

Easy children..easy...lol

c'mon Mama.. it does exist.. just hard to find it..that's all!! Also..hey...takes two to tango...in any type of relationship

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

Easy children..easy...lol

c'mon Mama.. it does exist.. just hard to find it..that's all!! Also..hey...takes two to tango...in any type of relationship "

No it doesn't, and I'm not a man hating cynic

If "the one" existed you'd fall in love and that would be that but I've loved 3 men in my lifetime and I don't love easily either

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Also I'm not a child nor have my responses been childish so please don't condescend me by implying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another night messed around by timewasters I don't get why they on here for.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"Also I'm not a child nor have my responses been childish so please don't condescend me by implying it "

Sorry..i wrote it as a banter..apologies if came the wrong way

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Another night messed around by timewasters I don't get why they on here for."

That Depends how you define a time waster

To some it's just label they throw around when they've spat their dummy out about things not going their way

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Also I'm not a child nor have my responses been childish so please don't condescend me by implying it

Sorry..i wrote it as a banter..apologies if came the wrong way"

I did read it that way that's the trouble with the written word online it easily can be, mainly because They're plenty that use the word banter to hide behind their dickhead ways

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"Also I'm not a child nor have my responses been childish so please don't condescend me by implying it

Sorry..i wrote it as a banter..apologies if came the wrong way

I did read it that way that's the trouble with the written word online it easily can be, mainly because They're plenty that use the word banter to hide behind their dickhead ways "

thanks for accepting my apologies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

It wasn't an angry response

Good attempt at changing the subject though

So now we've established I'm not angry why are you so concerned with "the one" if you're just here to fuck? "
lol I'm not obsessed with the so called one... You seem to be tho

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Also I'm not a child nor have my responses been childish so please don't condescend me by implying it

Sorry..i wrote it as a banter..apologies if came the wrong way

I did read it that way that's the trouble with the written word online it easily can be, mainly because They're plenty that use the word banter to hide behind their dickhead ways

thanks for accepting my apologies... "

Sarcasm?

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"Also I'm not a child nor have my responses been childish so please don't condescend me by implying it

Sorry..i wrote it as a banter..apologies if came the wrong way

I did read it that way that's the trouble with the written word online it easily can be, mainly because They're plenty that use the word banter to hide behind their dickhead ways

thanks for accepting my apologies...

Sarcasm? "

not at all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

Easy children..easy...lol

c'mon Mama.. it does exist.. just hard to find it..that's all!! Also..hey...takes two to tango...in any type of relationship

No it doesn't, and I'm not a man hating cynic

If "the one" existed you'd fall in love and that would be that but I've loved 3 men in my lifetime and I don't love easily either "
lol I'm no cynic, or hater, just expressing thoughts and feelings... Wouldn't it be s weird world if we were all the same?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

It wasn't an angry response

Good attempt at changing the subject though

So now we've established I'm not angry why are you so concerned with "the one" if you're just here to fuck? lol I'm not obsessed with the so called one... You seem to be tho"

Why would I be obsessed with something I don't believe exists?

And again you're trying to deflect by one questioning me and two trying to laugh it off. Clearly it's a bigger issue for you

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

Easy children..easy...lol

c'mon Mama.. it does exist.. just hard to find it..that's all!! Also..hey...takes two to tango...in any type of relationship

No it doesn't, and I'm not a man hating cynic

If "the one" existed you'd fall in love and that would be that but I've loved 3 men in my lifetime and I don't love easily either lol I'm no cynic, or hater, just expressing thoughts and feelings... Wouldn't it be s weird world if we were all the same?"

Wasn't calling you a cynic or an hater try to keep up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

It wasn't an angry response

Good attempt at changing the subject though

So now we've established I'm not angry why are you so concerned with "the one" if you're just here to fuck? lol I'm not obsessed with the so called one... You seem to be tho"

Dude you brought up 'the one' so stop deflecting it to curvy, she merely asked you a question, if you are just being a troll have a night off already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

It wasn't an angry response

Good attempt at changing the subject though

So now we've established I'm not angry why are you so concerned with "the one" if you're just here to fuck? lol I'm not obsessed with the so called one... You seem to be tho

Why would I be obsessed with something I don't believe exists?

And again you're trying to deflect by one questioning me and two trying to laugh it off. Clearly it's a bigger issue for you

"
Oh sorry, erm are we having a serious debate? What exactly are you picking at? The fact I mentionend I'm not into relationships, or needles in the hay stack, or is it that I just am brazen enough to hold an opinion?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

It wasn't an angry response

Good attempt at changing the subject though

So now we've established I'm not angry why are you so concerned with "the one" if you're just here to fuck? lol I'm not obsessed with the so called one... You seem to be tho

Dude you brought up 'the one' so stop deflecting it to curvy, she merely asked you a question, if you are just being a troll have a night off already!"

Oh good not just me that sees he's deflecting then

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

It wasn't an angry response

Good attempt at changing the subject though

So now we've established I'm not angry why are you so concerned with "the one" if you're just here to fuck? lol I'm not obsessed with the so called one... You seem to be tho

Why would I be obsessed with something I don't believe exists?

And again you're trying to deflect by one questioning me and two trying to laugh it off. Clearly it's a bigger issue for you

Oh sorry, erm are we having a serious debate? What exactly are you picking at? The fact I mentionend I'm not into relationships, or needles in the hay stack, or is it that I just am brazen enough to hold an opinion? "

What opinion? you keep changing it

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

Night everyone...wish you all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

It wasn't an angry response

Good attempt at changing the subject though

So now we've established I'm not angry why are you so concerned with "the one" if you're just here to fuck? lol I'm not obsessed with the so called one... You seem to be tho

Dude you brought up 'the one' so stop deflecting it to curvy, she merely asked you a question, if you are just being a troll have a night off already!

Oh good not just me that sees he's deflecting then "

Nope, all i can see if you asked a question based on something he said first and is just twisting it..

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Night everyone...wish you all the best "

Good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, some of us are genuine and OK lol, but finding the one is like looking for a needle in a hay stack

"The one" doesn't exist

Why do you think people swing? Because if they find the 'one' it hurts them unexpectedly, hence the needle in a hay stack lol Also I'm here for fun and spontaneous actions, otherwise I would be on a dating site, but I don't get or do relationships... There so overrated

Then why are you so concerned with "the one"? Afterall you're the only one to mention that haha I'm not going to dignify that angry response with an answer

It wasn't an angry response

Good attempt at changing the subject though

So now we've established I'm not angry why are you so concerned with "the one" if you're just here to fuck? lol I'm not obsessed with the so called one... You seem to be tho

Dude you brought up 'the one' so stop deflecting it to curvy, she merely asked you a question, if you are just being a troll have a night off already!

Oh good not just me that sees he's deflecting then "
wow, OK if I'm been out of order I apologise, I ain't a troll.

The one for me is a great ideology, that I would like. Its hard to find, so I gave up. Sorry for deflecting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Night everyone...wish you all the best

Good night "
night x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My cock is hard

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

And on that happy note we can end the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds bizarre to me, as even though I tend to do long distance meets I find men who are happy to chat for weeks, possibly months, until there's a mutually convenient time to meet. I've been talking to my next meet since at November (we absolutely are meeting but we live at opposite ends of the country) and we struck up a friendship, then mutual physical attraction struck up later, which is a peculiar way for things to happen on here but it feels right.

Maybe you're not picking the right men OP?

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