FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think kissing is a part of swinging or should it be kept as some thing you keep to yourselves?

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

We only do f-f kissing, but its our preference.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Love kissing and to us love to kiss on a meet, what we do save for ourselves is makeing love.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Do you think kissing is a part of swinging or should it be kept as some thing you keep to yourselves?

I think whatever people choose to do will be right for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do kiss on meets! kissing to me is part of the sex, xx

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I lurrrrves kissing and wouldnt want to have a meet where it was out of bounds...a good snog is a big turn on for me.

Ive declined meets with people who prefer not to because personally I know I wouldnt enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think kissing is a part of swinging or should it be kept as some thing you keep to yourselves?

sensuality in a meet works better for me.

don't get that turned on by the 'dont touch me / dont kiss me' types

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We agree hun kissing is a turn on and you cant beat a good snog lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, for me its all part of the experience and such a turn on.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

kissing for me is part of sex,would hate to fuck without it,and wont meet ppl who dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, its a great precursor to the main event....

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

as long as I'm sitting in a tree.....

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

kissing as part of sex is verynatural to me . certainly wouldnt feel right with out it for me . want to be able to relax and enjoy the meet not keep having to stop my self from kissing the person .id be on edge whole time so pointless doing it . therefore "no kissing " is a automatic deal breaker for me . fully respect no everyone wants to but def not for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here, kissing is as natural as breathing for me. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think kissing is a good way to break the ice, help everyone feel comfortable. We find kissing another partner very sexy, erotic and natural, I suppose some couples reserve kissing for their own partners and that is entirely their right but if we were to meet up with a couple with that preference I would always feel self conscious and aware of trying to stop myself doing something that I always take for granted during sex and would detract from the enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lurrrrves kissing and wouldnt want to have a meet where it was out of bounds...a good snog is a big turn on for me.

Ive declined meets with people who prefer not to because personally I know I wouldnt enjoy it."

xxxxxx kisses for you xxxxxx

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"We only do f-f kissing, but its our preference."

Ditto - it all depends what people are after and what their preferences are. There's no right or wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I have to be kissing, it's also a good indication as to how good there tongue is. Not to kiss is like having a cock in front of me and not being able to suck it!!!! unbearable........

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I love kissing, it's part of sex and if it were out of bounds then something special would be missing!

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

wouldn't ever even consider a meet where kissing was out of bounds. I look to have wonderfully horny sex on meets...but I only make love with my partner (who I also have wonderfully horny sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we kiss on meets as we find it a big turn on, we've had one meet where we didn't and it wasn't half as much fun so it's a yes from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing, esp. frenching the hell out of a lady!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Personally, I love kissing - sex feels cold without the kiss. You can tell a lot about a person from a kiss: the excitement, the passion.. the lust!

But for those who choose not to, each to their own.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"wouldn't ever even consider a meet where kissing was out of bounds. I look to have wonderfully horny sex on meets...but I only make love with my partner"

ditto

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

So we're in a minority..but horses for courses.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Oh I could never do without kissing, I just love it so much, could never have sex without kissing being involved!

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"So we're in a minority..but horses for courses."

maybe so...but there's no right or wrong, except in terms of yourselves....for you kissing on meets is wrong, for me, not kissing on meets is wrong.

Luckily there will be enough people with each preference for it not to be an issue.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Ive never really got the point of no kissing so many wont kiss yet will perform the most intimate act of all SEX! hmmmmmmmmmmmm something im missing here ?

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By *oveshell74Man
over a year ago

ealing

I'm a strong believer in kissing. I think the free hugs movement doesn't go far enough. Free hugs, Free kisses, Free love.

I hope I'm not turning into a hippy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think kissing is a part of swinging or should it be kept as some thing you keep to yourselves?

no answer to that is there?

should full sex be kept to yourself?

should anal be kept to yourself?

its down to what you want

personally i love kissing and find it quite offensive if i meet someone whos willing to stick his cock in my mouth but turns his head away for a kiss

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Kissing says more about the person, warm, wet, firm, playful... it is a preamble to the excitement that is to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is very important to us and sex without the kissing would not be our thing

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

have to say i like a good kiss... its like foreplay for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that some swingers absolutely do not kiss,for many reasons. Kissing for me is extremely arousing if they are good at it...it is a shame more dont kiss.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Love kissing. Good way to dispel nerves and get things going... sometimes lots of it, sometimes less depending on the person and how good they are at it! lol

Mistress x

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

We don't.

Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......

We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.

He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.

I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

today is national kissing day. and yes, i agree that kissing is part of foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no kissing? hmmmmmm does that include no kissing pussies or cocks?

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By *wingersrus465Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I love a good sexy kiss, what a turn on xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"We don't.

Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......

We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.

He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.

I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing"

He can do me from behind

Ok to clarify,we dont arrange meets with people with a no kissing rule...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"We don't.

Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......

We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.

He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.

I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing"

He can do me from behind

Ok to clarify,we dont arrange meets with people with a no kissing rule...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't always kiss playmates as that wasn't how I played. I didn't give oral to all either unless I had two straight subs and would suck both cocks together for effect: their discomfort my pleasure!

My playmates didn't expect me to kiss them but hoped they'd be able to kiss my...well, you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing a must for me. In fact, I could leave the rest so long as I get a good entwined limbs pash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me(male half)kissing is something i think is all part of the fun & cant beat kissing a woman who love's it as much as i do.Can't wait for my next night of kissing

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"We don't.

Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......

We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.

He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.

I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing"

A slightly different thing though Maddie...playing for a short while in a club/party is, for me, quite different to arranging to meet a single/couple.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"We don't.

Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......

We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.

He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.

I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing"

A slightly different thing though Maddie...playing for a short while in a club/party is, for me, quite different to arranging to meet a single/couple."

I agree my lovely, but for those that say "kissing is a must", I assumed that "kissing is a must"....... regardless of where they are.

Or am I being pedantic?

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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago

sea

Love kissing, it always makes my loins stir.

Shouldn't there be a box to tick on your profile preference page that indicates you like kissing.....just a thought.

Eddie xx

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

We love a good kissing session. Made better if the kissing styles match. Can't be doing with a slobber though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing all the way, its the starting point of any good sexual encounter!!

And plus why wouldnt someone want to kiss you but happily suck/lick you to their hearts content??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for, love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course its horny

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"Do you think kissing is a part of swinging or should it be kept as some thing you keep to yourselves?

has to be for me but respect to those who dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course!- has to be OK with all parties, naturally, but its a huge part of any encounter I think.

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area

"of course!- has to be OK with all parties, naturally, but its a huge part of any encounter I think."

All part and parcel of the fun for us. I for one love seeing her engrossed in a hot horny kiss :]

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

The kissing thread again,it make us laugh coz lets be fair ppl who say they dont kiss as its to personal tickle us coz wats not personal about being ball deep in some1 elses wife so kissing for us get a big thumbs up coz what a turn on it is when in full snog wi another lady while your wife does the same with the bloke or lady or group lol,mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm we love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like it during full sex.. a little foreplay although not with every meet.. I am quite happy to play without foreplay though.. have on many occassion had a guy in, told him what we are doing and got straight down to play..

I certainly dont need kissing.. LIke it in the right circumstances.. and for me kissing is more intimate than sex.. same as with cuddles or spending the night.. both something I will not do with others.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing esp fem on fem Mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in a bit snogging to get the juices flowing nice.

But yeah totally respect others wishes ,its not a deal breaker in anyway.

and my mind is just racing now thinking of all that kissing, tongues and sucking ohhhhhhhh

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Kissing is a part of good sex, why deny yourself any pleasure when swinging?

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

For us, kissing is more than 50% of the fun....Love a good snog...Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only echo that kissing is a big part of it for me.I think you can get a feel of how someone is with how they kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is a part of good sex, why deny yourself any pleasure when swinging?"
for you it maybe but I get little from it... I would rather have my hair pulled during play with others if I'm honest... does far more to me than a kiss...

In meets with over 30 different guys I've kissed maybe 4.. and enjoyed it with two...

I miss out on no pleasure.. in fact someone constantly trying to kiss me is a turn off not on.

Because we are all different..

Katie X

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

OK pucker up all you snoggers

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

I had a meet once where there was no kissing. It felt wrong to me but obviously worked for him as he was (more than) enthusiastic in all other areas!

*Her*

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I love snogging....

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"wouldn't ever even consider a meet where kissing was out of bounds. I look to have wonderfully horny sex on meets...but I only make love with my partner (who I also have wonderfully horny sex with

Another ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the entree for foreplay and is a must for a good, three course feast of sex.

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

Think it should be one of the profile "Interests", as we wouldn't want to meet couples who didn't kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not the same with out kissing its not as good, if you got a partner who you love, you make love to your partner, thats the difference, when you swinging its adult fun a hobby,its a interest,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those that are saying kissing is essential.. are you meaning in foreplay... or during sex..

I will with regular partners kiss them on the lead up to sex.. and on my body or there body I dont mind.. but on the mouth. full on kissing, I would not use during full sex..

Katie.x

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area

Full on kissing to me during sex is part of the turn on. Two tongues or more,rather adds to the excitement

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By *elen HewieCouple
over a year ago

Gateshead

i hate seeing my hubby kissing someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and it does help to break the ice a little, massive turn on with the right peeps, but at the end of the day same as with all things got to be right for both or just no fun at all!!!!

but for me just adds to the fun!!!!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

we are in the kissing camp too, just can't get excited without a good old snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Katie. x"

We feel exactly the same...love, love, love kissing but intimacy is something we save for each other...kissing just feels too close for comfort unless it is with a lover, not a swinging meet. If that puts people off meeting us, so be it...

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

"Those that are saying kissing is essential.. are you meaning in foreplay... or during sex..

I will with regular partners kiss them on the lead up to sex.. and on my body or there body I dont mind.. but on the mouth. full on kissing, I would not use during full sex..

Katie.x"

Before, after, during, Anytime kissing is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is deffo a great part of swinging for us xxx

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"OK pucker up all you snoggers

** Lips at attention and ready **

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By *ornyTamworthCplCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

You can't beat a good snog

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By *okkerMan
over a year ago

exeter

i love the kissing part of it,but i draw a line at kissing the male of the couple,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

french kissing !!!

i love swiss kissing, its like a fench kiss but you yodel at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wud kiss women but not men. I don't care if I miss out on meets coz of it its a line I won't cross yet n I respect others lines n so expect mine to be respected to. To me kissing with a man is for those u are in a relationship with n I guess everyone has something just for relationships it stems from not quite there yet with grieving a lost one sex is sex kissing a man is different for me Kissng a woman is of no issue to me though but that's personal choice. Don't expect others to agree or even understand my decision tbh I don't always understand some others make but I play by them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think you're in the minority.

We as a couple never initiate kissing with others, we're not completely against it, but its not an important factor to swinging for us.

Kissing between each other is important to us as it signifies tenderness, loving.

There are many who say 'you let someone fuck you but you won't let them kiss you' , what people seem to not realise is that they are playmates, they are not given the exclusive rights that we enjoy as a couple.

When we have a threesome ill kiss and respond if a guy kisses me, but it will be a hot n horny snog type kiss which often precludes hot n horny sex, but it won't be a erotic, tender, loving kiss because I would be faking that type of kiss with a stranger.

As singles playing with couples, you have to accept the couple will have an extra special bond which will exclude you. you will be given hopefully what you expect which is good quality sex and fun and socially have a great time feeling comfortable and at ease with that couple, but they will give each other exclusivity in relation to each other, they won't give that to you and you should never expect it

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I love kissing, to me it can be very sensual and can be a turn on. Have never had a meet yet where there was a No Kissing rule, not sure i would like that as to me it would feel like a Wham Bam ty Mam kind of thing.

But we are all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love kissing all part of the fun for us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i love kissing, its part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do prefer meets with kissing but if it's off the menu then am ok as long as the other person tells me upfront.

having said that i've had a couple of kissing meets that have been awful because the kissing was awful.

met 1 guy who i had lusted after for ages and he just left me cold - it was like kissin a fkin budgie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it was like kissin a fkin budgie

I cant remember when i last kissed a budgie whats that like :P

I have to say i much prefer kissing on meets its probably the most sexy part of it. But i would understand if people want to keep it between themselves.

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