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By *orthLondonGuy90 OP Man
over a year ago

Ealing

Any tips for this? I find after I cum once it's difficult to keep a raging hard on after!

And sometimes 2/3 rounds is needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Viagra

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By *ral DMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Like man above said. Go with the V

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Not really 10min break then raring to go again myself

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

You are only 29 it should be no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you tried a cock ring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips for this? I find after I cum once it's difficult to keep a raging hard on after!

And sometimes 2/3 rounds is needed!"

I find 12 hours sleep does the trick before round 2

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By *rp861Man
over a year ago

Congresbury

Im very lucky and can just put on a fresh condom and go again. Dont know how it happens but its useful! And seems to be a hit! If i knew how i did it id share!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock ring and Viagra are the best suggestions here. Take a little break, do some foreplay again, get her to suck you off, maybe massage your prostate (believe me, it's great!), rub her clit against your cock and then ride you, then you should be hard enough to do her doggy too.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"You are only 29 it should be no problem"

age has nothing to do with being able to keep and election...

It's down to either your circulation or that fact your not as horny as you think?

I had trouble when I was 16-19 when I was a heavy chain smoker, cut down, cocktail went right back up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are only 29 it should be no problem

age has nothing to do with being able to keep and election...

It's down to either your circulation or that fact your not as horny as you think?

I had trouble when I was 16-19 when I was a heavy chain smoker, cut down, cocktail went right back up

What's politics got to do with anything?

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"You are only 29 it should be no problem

age has nothing to do with being able to keep and election...

It's down to either your circulation or that fact your not as horny as you think?

I had trouble when I was 16-19 when I was a heavy chain smoker, cut down, cocktail went right back up

What's politics got to do with anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips for this? I find after I cum once it's difficult to keep a raging hard on after!

And sometimes 2/3 rounds is needed!"

Ice lolly stick and some elastic bands?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and enjoy yourself. As if your relaxed and not worried about getting hard its more likely to happen.

I wouldn't recommend viagra or cock rings.. especially as you seem to be okay to get hard the first time. Just do something else in the mean time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it hasn't anything to do with age either, as Fred has got older repeating just seems to get easier. Doesn't happen everytime but no idea what the secret to it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe it or not, pills and toys aren't the only options. Try to relax with your partner, let them know what you like and make sure they don't put any pressure on you to perform. When you're completely relaxed with someone who turns you on, and can take your time, I find the hardness naturally sustains.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"You are only 29 it should be no problem

age has nothing to do with being able to keep and election...

It's down to either your circulation or that fact your not as horny as you think?

I had trouble when I was 16-19 when I was a heavy chain smoker, cut down, cocktail went right back up

What's politics got to do with anything?

Damn never noticed that!

Bloody auto correct

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Any tips for this? I find after I cum once it's difficult to keep a raging hard on after!

And sometimes 2/3 rounds is needed!

Ice lolly stick and some elastic bands?

What's with the eye roll? OP asked a genuine question.

Some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Any tips for this? I find after I cum once it's difficult to keep a raging hard on after!

And sometimes 2/3 rounds is needed!"

Have sexy people around you doing sexy things - works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips for this? I find after I cum once it's difficult to keep a raging hard on after!

And sometimes 2/3 rounds is needed!

Ice lolly stick and some elastic bands? o-

What's with the eye roll? OP asked a genuine question.

Some people

Was ment to be

my sensor on phone is a little off sorry didn't mean to roll my eyes at u...feel free to roll ur eyes back at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this problem but hopefully sorted it now! I find that if you just really slow it down after you have cum, just slowly keep going in and out or get her to give you head but nothing to full on so you can't handle it as it's so good! Then after about 5 mins you will be rock again then if your anything like me you can go for ages after!

This seem to work for me anyway! I've been told racking off loads help as well lol

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Any tips for this? I find after I cum once it's difficult to keep a raging hard on after!

And sometimes 2/3 rounds is needed!

Ice lolly stick and some elastic bands? o-

What's with the eye roll? OP asked a genuine question.

Some people

Was ment to be

my sensor on phone is a little off sorry didn't mean to roll my eyes at u...feel free to roll ur eyes back at me

Haha, okay, fair enough. Damn smartphones. Or are they just called phones now??

Happy to eye roll you

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

A guy asks a question and all the cliche talkers are out in force.

'never had any issues'

'doesnt happen to me'

Very nice of them not to offer any advise at all rather gloat about how great they think they are in their little brains.

Hope some people helped you OP in your question.

Apparently I've heard that eating a better diet can help with this. Ie repeat performer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips for this? I find after I cum once it's difficult to keep a raging hard on after!

And sometimes 2/3 rounds is needed!"

Since you asked....

1. Practice. Buy a cheap flashlight if needs be and build up stamina. "Exercise" it if you want it to be strong

2. Do your kegels!!!!!!! Google it. Download the prostrate aerobics or kegel app. You'll gain control over erection as well your staying power

3.either by masturbating, using a flashlight (like a dildo for men lol) or having sex... TENSE your PC muscle JUST A MOMENT before that point of no return (that's the same muscle you use to stop the flow of pee). In practice you'll know the spot. It's as easy as releasing the clutch on the car to find the bite lol.

If you do it too soon you'll cum and go soft. If you do it too late, you won't be able to control the contractions and will cum.

It's nature to go soft immediately after intercourse. Cave men days you're vulnerable to attack of predators when having sex. So fast to cum and immediately to soft is "best way". But we obviously aren't under threat of predators and want to enjoy it ha

4. Once you find the sweet spot. TENSE your Pc muscle.. You'll have a non ejaculatory orgasm. It will feel like 95% of an orgasm, but you gotta TENSE and keep squeezing to prevent your penis "pulsing" and then cuming.. this is a good 20-30 seconds and is hard (no pun intended)

Result: you haven't actually cum! So you've overridden the evolutionary pre programming as you haven't signalled that you're done. So, you stay hard and carry on having sex.

6. No porn!!!!!!!!! It weaken s your penis!!!!!! This negatively effects and dumbs down your cocks ability to stay or even get hard.

You're supposed to get hard via the mental stimulation, touch stimulation, emotional connection and the real life visual stimulation (the more of the above the better!!!!)

Once you've squeezed your PC muscle and tricked your penis into not cuming.. you're gonna need as much of the above to keep you hard... kissing, touching, body Rubing against each other etc etc.

Don't you wanna last 2, 3 or 4 times without stopping and staying hard.

My record is 6 times with no break BUT it wasn't with a woman it was with my hand lol. More pressure and more skill to control it, especially if she's on top or in the moment

7. Mental. Don't even think about going soft or cuming soon or it's game over. Develop the ability to get and stay hard by talking, texting, teasing etc too.

8. Try the bath mate water penis enlarger. Who cares about bigger dick. But, it develops your penis to hold more blood and guess what that does. Also, if your penis starts too soften a bit, it will still be long and hard enough to carry on going

9. Last resort. I haven't tried this but I wish I knew when I had a bad phase. You can buy a penis extender. Essentially it looks like a really thick condom so you'll last alot longer it's structure will make you harder even when semi

plus there's a solid 1,2 or 3 inches on the end.. So technically you could be mostly flaccid and still keep on going. But, if you cum, keep on going, in practice you'll be able to do it without the piece of equipment as you want to carry on and stay hard

10. Communication, when severe stress of work got to me it literally killed my erections and staying power (hence i now know so much about lasting forever lol) and it was devasting to the relationship for obvious reasons. This then built shit loads of pressure and anxiety and took the enjoyment of sex away, it was feel like a chore or an effort and worried and so trying to pretend to be asleep to avoid embarrassment. Which doesn't help her confidence either. It only takes a few mis haps for you to mentally screw yourself over. So, communication is key, you can try the above techniques and she or you can manually squeeze tip of penis to delay and keep hard.. you can squeeze and then she can make or keep your hard then carry on.

Using the above and pratcing the kegels daily I anticipate

1. One week no change

2. 2 weeks ability to keep on going while wanking but not when having sex. (Buy a £10 flashlight to speed up your progress)

3. 4 weeks.. ability to stay hard and have 1 multiple orgasm with sex but maybe 2 or 3 when wanking

4. 2-3 months... strong enough to have 3 multiple orgasms while havimy sex and stay hard the whole time

P.S. that extender thing I mentioned will no doubt work from day one.

Dunno if you're on about with your girlfriend or with others so I've covered all bases. Long message but it's important as fuck for a man and can have a massive psychological impact which only rebounds onto the woman's confidence as well

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

maybe there is no physical attraction? nature is strange at reminding you where you are going wrong....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://www.nateliason.com/multiple-orgasms-men/ Try this link too.. he's got a tonne of articles that will really really help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and a ringo basic cock ring. Nothing fancy a basic £2 black thick band. Stick it on base of penis when hard and will do a good boost for keeping you hard.. just use common sense I.e. how long it's on for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips for this? I find after I cum once it's difficult to keep a raging hard on after!

And sometimes 2/3 rounds is needed!"

Do something else while it "recharges"?

Oral, fingering.. maybe even some sensuous massage or anything else that comes to mind you know your partner would enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are only 29 it should be no problem"

Age definitely has nothing to do with it, even younger guys cant get it up properly

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