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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's things I'd like to change on the site & im sure we all get the good & the bad on here, I'v been on different websites but I just feel safe to meet on here as it's the only one I know that has verifications about the people you would like to meet, so it's a 10 out of 10 for fabswingers.

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Veris don't mean that much. Considering you can easily create multiple accounts and veri yourself.

But I get what you mean. Fab does feel the safest Out of most

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

But i track back, to ensure people who veri have veris themselves

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton


"But i track back, to ensure people who veri have veris themselves"

We do the exact same.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's good to check verifications to get a feel for the people you're meeting but don't just rely on that. I'm sure you have other safety precautions in place like always letting someone else know where you are etc.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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other sites i feel safer because there is no presumption i will have sex with a guy just for talking to them and they are a lot more open to chatting more as well.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"There's things I'd like to change on the site & im sure we all get the good & the bad on here, I'v been on different websites but I just feel safe to meet on here as it's the only one I know that has verifications about the people you would like to meet, so it's a 10 out of 10 for fabswingers."

But isn't annoying when ppl choose to hide there verifications lol

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Veris don't mean that much. Considering you can easily create multiple accounts and veri yourself..."

Not sure how seeing as you need to be verified to be able to leave a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's things I'd like to change on the site & im sure we all get the good & the bad on here, I'v been on different websites but I just feel safe to meet on here as it's the only one I know that has verifications about the people you would like to meet, so it's a 10 out of 10 for fabswingers."

Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it odd that people let verifications lull them into a false sense of security. They mean nothing.

Some guy is rough and hurts a woman he meets. She leaves a horrifying verification. Think he's going to show it?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm not on any other sites and this is the first and only one I've been on and it works well for me. Plenty to see and do and one can get meets from here so all good.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I find it odd that people let verifications lull them into a false sense of security. They mean nothing.

Some guy is rough and hurts a woman he meets. She leaves a horrifying verification. Think he's going to show it?! "

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city


"I find it odd that people let verifications lull them into a false sense of security. They mean nothing.

Some guy is rough and hurts a woman he meets. She leaves a horrifying verification. Think he's going to show it?! "

Obviously BUT if there are several verifications saying he's a gent ect it's more relaxing, I'm not saying it's fool proof but it's safer than dirty fish ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed. Plus the chemistry might not be same.

When you read verifications and think that's not what I was sold.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Why does anybody bother reading the verifications?

I think (in general) they are a complete waste of time. I'm fed up of reading the same cliche-ridden, back-slapping nonsense stock phrases.

Verifications are there to say that the person in the profile is the person on the doorstep. A verification from a club or a webcam is totally pointless too.

I'm increasingly frustrated with the people who think verifications are some sort of opportunity for a tripadvisor style review. Yes, mine are not public. And no, none of them that I have accepted give any explicit details.

The only people obsessed with verifications are those that don't have them. Surely an amazing profile and pictures, combined with an engaging message tone is likely to make the impression you want. And is there any better way to gauge what people are like than to actually chat to them on the phone first...?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

But... In reply to the OP. Glad you're using the site to its fullest potential..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's things I'd like to change on the site & im sure we all get the good & the bad on here, I'v been on different websites but I just feel safe to meet on here as it's the only one I know that has verifications about the people you would like to meet, so it's a 10 out of 10 for fabswingers."

I agree. I feel most comfortable on this site and would rate it a 10 as well. Well designed site & wonderful gems can be found as far as members

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Why does anybody bother reading the verifications?

I think (in general) they are a complete waste of time. I'm fed up of reading the same cliche-ridden, back-slapping nonsense stock phrases.

Verifications are there to say that the person in the profile is the person on the doorstep. A verification from a club or a webcam is totally pointless too.

I'm increasingly frustrated with the people who think verifications are some sort of opportunity for a tripadvisor style review. Yes, mine are not public. And no, none of them that I have accepted give any explicit details.

The only people obsessed with verifications are those that don't have them. Surely an amazing profile and pictures, combined with an engaging message tone is likely to make the impression you want. And is there any better way to gauge what people are like than to actually chat to them on the phone first...?"

Y u mad, bro?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But i track back, to ensure people who veri have veris themselves"

This

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"

Y u mad, bro? "

What is mad? Bro

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"

Y u mad, bro? "

What is mad? Bro

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"I find it odd that people let verifications lull them into a false sense of security. They mean nothing.

Some guy is rough and hurts a woman he meets. She leaves a horrifying verification. Think he's going to show it?! "

Would she even give a veri? I don't think so and I very much doubt most would report it to admin either, which then puts other fabbers at risk.

Verifications help but it is of course only part of the story.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I find it odd that people let verifications lull them into a false sense of security. They mean nothing.

Some guy is rough and hurts a woman he meets. She leaves a horrifying verification. Think he's going to show it?!

Would she even give a veri? I don't think so and I very much doubt most would report it to admin either, which then puts other fabbers at risk.

Verifications help but it is of course only part of the story. "

most we can do if we have a bad meet is not verify them as genuine, sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it odd that people let verifications lull them into a false sense of security. They mean nothing.

Some guy is rough and hurts a woman he meets. She leaves a horrifying verification. Think he's going to show it?!

Would she even give a veri? I don't think so and I very much doubt most would report it to admin either, which then puts other fabbers at risk.

Verifications help but it is of course only part of the story. "

Exactly. But some people think verifications keep them safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But i track back, to ensure people who veri have veris themselves

We do the exact same. "

I do too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might work if a negative veri could be compulsory to display. Perhaps if leaving a bad veri the text could be hidden and just a 'negative' rating given a little like eBay feedback? and a report to admin sent with a reason why, instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to be veri careful

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