FabSwingers.com forum: How common is it for a single to play with a couple on the first meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a single male or female, what are your feelings about playing on a first meet with a couple?

What do you think about the couple ?

Do you think they are just in a horny mood that night and would have fucked anyone they met that night?

Are you flattered that they asked you?

Now this is assuming that you all have sat and talked for a while and there is an attraction there.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

not a single...but as we dont really do social meets bloody glad plenty of single men are willing to play on first meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never do social meets . I can chat and gossip with family and friends

Why drink coffee when you can be having hot sweaty sex instead

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

I think you have to take every meet as it comes, and not go in with expectations of anything more than a chat and a drink, or a huge slab of cake, or whatever it is you've agreed to meet for!

If I'm meeting a couple (or a single lady, for that matter!) and everybody obviously is happy for things to go further at that first meet, then all well and good.. but if it doesn't happen, c'est la vie

Seem to be lots of threads on here lately determined to analyse all the fun out of the site - just enjoy whatever (whoever?) you're doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didnt used to do social meets first, but now do, I never ever play on a first meet..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had both situations. It depends on what each of you are looking for as to whether it is appropriate to play on first meet. As long as you are all happy to, then it is fine, if not, then a social only is also fine. Having said that... a couple of socials would have become playtime if the faciltiy had been available

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i do like tyo meet socially for the first time with any one new - but if there a sexual spark there be it a single or couple play has been known to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both couple meets I have had it's been basically walk in say hi to the man and he says follow me, both times to the lady waiting for me and him to start, not sure if this is the norm or I got lucky, never been like that with single fens always a long chat at the very least, as well as sometimes no more than a kiss on first meet, I thank you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, when i was playing as a single i always did a social setting first, even if i travelled. Who's to know if you'll get on if you havent met before in person? Luckily for me drinks and dinner have led to more intimate situations...

As for couples, my meets have been in clubs, so often played after chatting for a while. If you get on, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hopefully my first meet will be a couple

(i wish)

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Well, when i was playing as a single i always did a social setting first, even if i travelled. Who's to know if you'll get on if you havent met before in person?

If that happens you can say " you are not for me after all " and walk away

We normally meet with the intention of playing, if however either party are not happy , then the option is to say so with no questions asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am meeting someone then its usually for sex, thats not to say if I met with someone and they were not what I expected I would play, I wouldnt.

However I have my friends, and am on here for sex. I dont need a life history, or chat up lines.

I am not looking for a f buddie either, so if its a yes from both parties its a 'lets go'.

Some of the hottest meets I have had, have been meet, god yes, sex, thanks and a little chitchat then goodbye....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, when i was playing as a single i always did a social setting first, even if i travelled. Who's to know if you'll get on if you havent met before in person?

If that happens you can say " you are not for me after all " and walk away

We normally meet with the intention of playing, if however either party are not happy , then the option is to say so with no questions asked.

true, but so much easier to leggit from a pub than the hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we as a couple play on 1st meet. we dont meet that often but when we do its normally a pretty interesting night..

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Well, when i was playing as a single i always did a social setting first, even if i travelled. Who's to know if you'll get on if you havent met before in person?

If that happens you can say " you are not for me after all " and walk away

We normally meet with the intention of playing, if however either party are not happy , then the option is to say so with no questions asked.

true, but so much easier to leggit from a pub than the hotel room

lol true..assuming people meet in a hotel room of course

We meet at a pub...then anyone can do a runner if they want to haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman i do not meet couples off here, simply because i just find it to intimidating meeting a couple as i always feel the odd one out, they have each other to lean on if things go wrong, i have noone, i feel much more relaxed meeting on a one on one basis where i feel our situations are equal

I will play with couples at clubs, parties etc but i would never arrange a meet with a couple i had never met before off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots do play on first meet ...... after all thats what swinging about sex .. i know some like to get to know people a click but i meet singles for sex and thats what i am after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i can only say as I appear to meet more couples than singles, that ur already on a lucky meet if ur chosen....of course its a two way thing, U might not wanna play...I personally like to make sure the female is making her own choice and not just her hubby wanting to push her into play(thats why i very much prefer to have some chat/phonecall with the female half before a meet is due or just about to happen lol

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

If the click is there we play on first meets.

Got a feeling if there is a guy from glasgow, who makes a trip to meet us play would be on the cards ;o)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, based on the fact that I have little free time so use it for sexual meets, not social.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

99% of all the meets ive had with cpls ive played on the first meet no socials only one and that was time of the month so i would say yes most do play on the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would, based on the fact that I have little free time so use it for sexual meets, not social."

Exactly us!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

As a single guy i go with what the couple or lady wants, i like to play but i also like socialising.

So for me it depends on the time, the place, and the company.

Easy am i ? probably !!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

What do you think about the couple ?

Do you think they are just in a horny mood that night and would have fucked anyone they met that night?

I am more likely to have that thought cross my mind if I am meeting a single guy.

But to answer the question....

If they just happen to be horny that night and I am too... great! Can't see the point of playing if one or more isn't feeling horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we meet someone if we like the person Shaz will always play on first meet.

Pointless wasting time

Tony

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"As a single male or female, what are your feelings about playing on a first meet with a couple?

What do you think about the couple ?

Do you think they are just in a horny mood that night and would have fucked anyone they met that night?

Are you flattered that they asked you?

Now this is assuming that you all have sat and talked for a while and there is an attraction there.

happy to do either...although even when invited to their home straight off there still has to be an attraction for all...and an understanding that play may not happen.

whats said here on cam or by messages doesn't mean an attraction face to face is gtee'd

the only rules to how a meet is structured is the ones you set yourselves and if you want to play first meet there shouldn't be an 'issue'

And is the same for not playing on the first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that couples have a secret code or was told so after a good session to say if either of them are not happy. I guess i have been lucky though and nearly always its been play on first meet.

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