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The difference between men and women on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me thats noticed that a lady could write absolutely anything on here profile and still get as many meets as she wanted but a man could have the most respectful well written humorous profile and could still struggle?

(Feel free to add your own differences)

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It's more to do with the fact that the number of men far out weigh the number of women, so the ladies can be very choosy.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ratio, there's far more men on fab then women.

PTU XXX

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Supply and demand blah blah blah. There are around fifteen single men for every single woman on here. It follows that single women just need to be in possession of a vagina to get a shag whilst single men need to be buff, handsome and charming.

No point moaning about it. It's not going to change until such times as male and female numbers are rough equal.

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Women dont have to try hard to get a meet , there is alot more men on fab who out number women , by far. They can pick n choose. N alot of men will do nearly anything to get a meet up Not all but most. N we know that there are some great guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me thats noticed that a lady could write absolutely anything on here profile and still get as many meets as she wanted but a man could have the most respectful well written humorous profile and could still struggle?

(Feel free to add your own differences)"

As long as there are men who will message any female profile, there will be women who make no effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me thats noticed that a lady could write absolutely anything on here profile and still get as many meets as she wanted but a man could have the most respectful well written humorous profile and could still struggle?

(Feel free to add your own differences)"

Yep true

I change mine most days and it makes no odds what it says

The only thing I've noticed is if I put that I want to date then I get significantly less messages haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me thats noticed that a lady could write absolutely anything on here profile and still get as many meets as she wanted but a man could have the most respectful well written humorous profile and could still struggle?

(Feel free to add your own differences)

As long as there are men who will message any female profile, there will be women who make no effort"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men post significantly more whinging threads on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By design, men are often less choosy than women, when it comes to releasing their load. Take into consideration the amount of men on here, and that they are usually proactive in sending out messages, and women will get many more messages than men. If I had to do the searching and messaging myself I doubt I would have met any of the men I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fifteen men to every woman???? I think it's more like 200 guys to every girl!!!

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

The main difference is the ladies are genuine and can string sentences together possibly without using the works, big, cock, fuck you and now.

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

I still struggle to meet. It takes a lot to filter out the "can I get your pregnant" type men and then there is still the risk of them being timewasters or just chat shit with no intention of meeting. We may get plenty more offers, but they don't equate to meets!

And now I just want to see this pic everyone is talking about!!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Very true.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It is true unfortunately

When i first joined on my old single prof,i had about 100 messages within no time.I didntvhave any pics up or much profile txt either.

Miss

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Fifteen men to every woman???? I think it's more like 200 guys to every girl!!!"

We've done a couple of surveys. Percentage wise its roughly this

Men 75

Couples 15

Women 5

TV/TS 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and women can pout

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Fifteen men to every woman???? I think it's more like 200 guys to every girl!!!

We've done a couple of surveys. Percentage wise its roughly this

Men 75

Couples 15

Women 5

TV/TS 5"

Works for me!!

Never realised how valuable a vagina was until I joined fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main difference is the ladies are genuine and can string sentences together possibly without using the works, big, cock, fuck you and now."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is down to ratios and the fact that guys often couldn't care less what is writen in a profile...if they like the look of your pics, they will message...usually without a glance at said profile...and ladies know what pics guys like too...pretty much anything tbf....if you see a play pic on a womans profile, but it says she doesn't like to see them on yours, this is because 1) she knows you will like them and 2) they are of her and as much as I hate play pics...I like mine...just not on here lol...plus...you can bea new fem on here...30 minutes in n no pics or profile to speak of but still 100 odd messages so ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just natural. Women are the brightly colored birds. They only need put up some pics, write "blah blah blah", and men will still come flocking. Men, on the other hand, are the drab brown birds, even good looking guys look quite similar to each other, so nice photos are just a prerequisite, it's what they write that either begins to weave an interesting alluring story or not.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

if you look at how many men think you need nothing on your profile except their dick then this explains a lot actually.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

oh not this again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's great! I'm a lazy fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman could have nothing on her profile and no pics and still be inundated with messages saving how gorgeous she is. Says alot about those that send the messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's great! I'm a lazy fucker "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fifteen men to every woman???? I think it's more like 200 guys to every girl!!!

We've done a couple of surveys. Percentage wise its roughly this

Men 75

Couples 15

Women 5

TV/TS 5"

This explains why straight men turn bi on fab - their target market increases fivefold overnight!

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Can we take into collaboration the crap end of single males

The blank profile, with "suck me" as their only written words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still struggle to meet. It takes a lot to filter out the "can I get your pregnant" type men and then there is still the risk of them being timewasters or just chat shit with no intention of meeting. We may get plenty more offers, but they don't equate to meets!

And now I just want to see this pic everyone is talking about!!! "

Very true. We meet single guys but rarely due to struggling to find ones that are compatible with us.

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By *arngreyCouple
over a year ago

london

Most of the men put up cock shots as a profile picture...yes the ladies do like the cock (sometimes) but much prefer a well groomed male pic .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So apparently someone has reported the very nice lady who criticised my cum shot and she's been given a 48 hr forum ban lol, if you don't like what someone says don't report them and take it with a pinch of salt put on your big boy pants and deal with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of the men put up cock shots as a profile picture...yes the ladies do like the cock (sometimes) but much prefer a well groomed male pic ."

I see there are no public face pics on your profile and I bet you still get loads of attention whereas men get none if they have no face pics public

(Not a critique btw just using you as an example sorry )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fifteen men to every woman???? I think it's more like 200 guys to every girl!!!

We've done a couple of surveys. Percentage wise its roughly this

Men 75

Couples 15

Women 5

TV/TS 5

Works for me!!

Never realised how valuable a vagina was until I joined fab! "

Actually; I think it's the heels and smoking hot outfits that attract the interest. I don't have a real vagina but, as you know, the offers still flood in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined my profile had the standard 27 year old looking to meet...I had no pics either but got swamped with messages. The word "female" is enough to do it for some!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do struggle to get meets on fab due to the huge number of profiles that are just looking to get their kicks on cam or by picture swapping or just those who genuinely bottle it and go unlos..just having a vagina does not mean you get meets...some of us want quality meets and as such put in the effort to find those genuine profiles and then go through the chatting and social meets to find the ones they want to play with who in turn also want to play with us...the whole point is that it's all about the effort you put in...failing that try clubs where all the above can happen in one night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the men put up cock shots as a profile picture...yes the ladies do like the cock (sometimes) but much prefer a well groomed male pic .

I see there are no public face pics on your profile and I bet you still get loads of attention whereas men get none if they have no face pics public

(Not a critique btw just using you as an example sorry )"

I don't display face pics on my profile, and I do alright

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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For people to send a first message,

For most Women

80% on his pics/looks

20% based on his profile text, As long as it says something about him and doesn't come across as a dick.

For most Men

98% on her pics/looks

2% based on her profile text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the men put up cock shots as a profile picture...yes the ladies do like the cock (sometimes) but much prefer a well groomed male pic .

I see there are no public face pics on your profile and I bet you still get loads of attention whereas men get none if they have no face pics public

(Not a critique btw just using you as an example sorry )"

I have no face pics but get plenty of attention

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Is it just me thats noticed that a lady could write absolutely anything on here profile and still get as many meets as she wanted but a man could have the most respectful well written humorous profile and could still struggle?

(Feel free to add your own differences)"

Women don't even need anything written on their profile or any pics and we will still get messages saying we seem nice, look hot and asking us to meet.

Think this says more about some men than it does us vagina owners.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Man you can get to meet in one message usually and doesnt have to be a good or long message either. Woman takes dozens. And needs to special.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of the men put up cock shots as a profile picture...yes the ladies do like the cock (sometimes) but much prefer a well groomed male pic .

I see there are no public face pics on your profile and I bet you still get loads of attention whereas men get none if they have no face pics public

(Not a critique btw just using you as an example sorry )

I have no face pics but get plenty of attention "

Yeah I can see that with all your verifications.........

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley


"For people to send a first message,

For most Women

80% on his pics/looks

20% based on his profile text, As long as it says something about him and doesn't come across as a dick.

For most Men

98% on her pics/looks

2% based on her profile text

"

For me it's actually the other way round. I look at the profile before I decide whether to even look at the pics.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Is it just me thats noticed that a lady could write absolutely anything on here profile and still get as many meets as she wanted but a man could have the most respectful well written humorous profile and could still struggle?

(Feel free to add your own differences)

Yep true

I change mine most days and it makes no odds what it says

The only thing I've noticed is if I put that I want to date then I get significantly less messages haha"

Are you suggesting some people really do read the profiles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men post significantly more whinging threads on the forums"

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