FabSwingers.com forum: Going against your fab rules

By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Since I've been on here I've been very strict with myself regarding my rules that I follow .... However today I'm actually putting some effort into having a same day meet which is something I never thought I'd do, good choice or bad choice ? Thoughts please

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Good choice x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

It depends how far out of your comfort zone it is as to whether you will actually enjoy it.....

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

I do prefer to get to know people first if I'm honest I do try a few times when I first joined but found it just exposed more timewasters and that's when I decided against it, guess time will tell today

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have set rules for fab but they are for our protection rather than anything else.

If your happy then go for it and enjoy

Boo x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Only do what you feel comfortable with op,the rules you make for yourself are usually there for a reason.

Have fun if you do!

Miss

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Sometimes we can over think thing's just do it!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Hope it goes well for you and you have great chemistry together.

Nothing as bad as meeting someone and it's like ... awww nothing..

Let us know how you get on!

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rules are for the total obedience of fools and the guidance of the wise

Just use your common sense.

If you get that "this doesn't feel right feeling" stop think make an informed decision then act upon it.

The world would be quite staid if you didn't push yourself every now and then

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

I will definitely keep you lot posted

Fingers crossed it will a good day for me and I'll enjoy a new experience with some good company, I'll still have to have that connection I'll not just meet anybody that side will never change for me as meeting would be pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck op

And remember have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a lottery, hope you're lucky! I've had both good and bad luck with same day meets. Last one was amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some rules are good.. but they all should be subject to bending at least.. where's the fun otherwise

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Well I was up early went to the gym got showered and shaved put my shirt and tie on and then got a email saying my appointments today are cancelled so thought what else can I do today

And here I am sat waiting having a look through profiles and meets I can see me just being here all day commenting on this post hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if the meet happens will give you something to start the chat with - good luck in pushing those boundaries - you dont know if you dont try and all that

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I have a meet later and it's breaking one of my rules (not the same as yours) but I feel pretty good about it

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Well it's part of why I'm here to push my boundaries and enjoy new experiences

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

"I have a meet later and it's breaking one of my rules (not the same as yours) but I feel pretty good about it

Hopefully I'll get as lucky as you could be a first for us both.

Hope you have a great time I'm excited about it and I'm got nothing arranged hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since I've been on here I've been very strict with myself regarding my rules that I follow .... However today I'm actually putting some effort into having a same day meet which is something I never thought I'd do, good choice or bad choice ? Thoughts please "

Good luck ! He who dares , WINS !!! Hope to hear all about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could stumble across the perfect partner.

I was messaged and met my long term buddy within two hours-that was 7 years ago, and we're still meeting.

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

I will keep you posted on how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a meet later and it's breaking one of my rules (not the same as yours) but I feel pretty good about it

Hopefully I'll get as lucky as you could be a first for us both.

Hope you have a great time I'm excited about it and I'm got nothing arranged hahahaha"

So you don't have anything planned? Just looking for a meet today if something catches your eye?

Impromptu meets can be fun, a bit of a buzz.

Good luck op hope something comes along for you.

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Nope absolutely nothing planned totally last minute thing this morning I'm hoping it pays off and I find some good company to share it with, I'm in the right frame of mind and putting some effort into making it happen. Time will tell if it pays off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the same OP and never done a same day meet. I know people do them often though...

Will be interesting to hear how you got on after. If you don't log back in for 2 days do you want us to send the search party?

For safety where are you meeting and what time?

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Hahahaha if I do make this happen maybe my meet will comment on here to

Thankfully it's still early because it very quite so far

My only offer is some fun on Skype which again is something i have never ever done as don't really see the point, however today I've really got the horn thinking about meeting and looking at profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it and good luck

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

Rules are meant to be broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever done a meet planned in advance, not that I can think of. I prefer spontaneous, spur of the moment, i'm horny now, kind of meets. If i spend too much time chatting I either lose interest or they become too much like a friend for me to want to fuck their brains out. If I stumble across someone i like the look of i tend to add them as a friend and keep them on the back-burner, so when i do fancy a meet they're the first ones I'll think of.

Go for it, spontaneity is a good thing.

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Thanks

Im really hoping I can share a new experience I get today with you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing goes in my cock. So far I haven't broken that rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hahahaha if I do make this happen maybe my meet will comment on here to

Thankfully it's still early because it very quite so far

My only offer is some fun on Skype which again is something i have never ever done as don't really see the point, however today I've really got the horn thinking about meeting and looking at profiles

I have never done Skype/cam either just not my thing.

I know the North East well. It is a big place so please make sure you give accurate location details

I like the way you said 'my meet' not giving away anything are you OP...

Very clever indeed

Why can't 'your meet' comment at the same time? Why can't we have live commentary from both of you... infact can you both login to Fab when you meet and tell us how you are getting on?

This is your first time so we need to be there with you.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Same day meets are good .... saves all the messaging and waiting.... hope it goes well

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

I still haven't actually got a meet planned

If it doesn't happen it work be through a lack of trying on my side but I won't just meet anybody not my thing at all, I need a connection or no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still haven't actually got a meet planned

If it doesn't happen it work be through a lack of trying on my side but I won't just meet anybody not my thing at all, I need a connection or no point."

You might struggle to combine making a connection and having a last minute meet, depending on how much of a connection you're after... if that makes sense?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I still haven't actually got a meet planned

If it doesn't happen it work be through a lack of trying on my side but I won't just meet anybody not my thing at all, I need a connection or no point.

You might struggle to combine making a connection and having a last minute meet, depending on how much of a connection you're after... if that makes sense?"

I was thinking the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still haven't actually got a meet planned

If it doesn't happen it work be through a lack of trying on my side but I won't just meet anybody not my thing at all, I need a connection or no point."

That is the reason why I choose not to have same day meet because you can't build a connection. I suppose meeting in person quicker rather then chatting online can speed up the process.

Soo many factors at play with location, distance, timing etc I think this could be one of the main reasons why soo many people get no shows... because if they can say yes within a few hours they can vanish even quicker

It is still early for you OP so plenty of time to see who is out there and looking to meet today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Totally agree that's why it not something I would usually consider as for me I need that connection as I like it to be about the mind and body but I did join here for new experiences and if I'm honest don't really get the time to try this so thought why not ?

Thinking about something and it happening are 2 very different things as I'm sure we all know on here

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Already done both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put what you you would like most to happen today , hope you find someone

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was thinking the same!"

This reminded me OP ...

Make sure your phone is fully charged and not on 2%

Don't forget your wallet unless you want her to pay for snacks and take a condom just incase.

Anyway I have no experience in same day meets so there is my contributation to your thread because I love small talk

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Only time will tell.

Our rules are in place because we've developed them over time, tested them, kept the ones that we want and discarded the ones we don't. You can make that decision after your meet.

Hope it goes well

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Our rules are in place because we've developed them over time, tested them, kept the ones that we want and discarded the ones we don't. You can make that decision after your meet.

Hope it goes well

This is how sensible rules in any arena are applied. It's never a static thing, and exceptions should be encouraged to test the rules...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're allowed to bend your own rules now and again ... enjoy

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Thought I was in luck then just had a Skype conversation with a lovely couple but me is bi and wants bi fun ... So it was a polite no thank you from me ( thanks guys if your reading this ) hope you have a fun day to

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Go for it!

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Do it ! X

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

They want bi fun and that's not for me, we are all different and want different things I respected. what they are looking for as they did and appreciate them being honest about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Our rules are in place because we've developed them over time, tested them, kept the ones that we want and discarded the ones we don't. You can make that decision after your meet.

Hope it goes well

This is how sensible rules in any arena are applied. It's never a static thing, and exceptions should be encouraged to test the rules...

Yep! We've tested ours and despite frequent flaming they're the ones we stick with.

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Best way although I'm looking to bend mine slightly today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our rules are in place because we've developed them over time, tested them, kept the ones that we want and discarded the ones we don't."

I love that and it is exactly how my journey has been so far. Therefore the statement below is technically not copy and paste

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My rules are in place because I have developed them over time, tested them, kept the ones that I want and discarded the ones I don't.

I will add:

I am open to suggestions, recommendations and make my decisions based on the communication I have with people. I never pre judge and understand we all have different circumstances/interests.

Life is full of mystery and adventure. Fab is the platform I chose to enhance my experiences with like minded compatible people

P.s. Fab is full of surprises and there is never a dull moment. Everything I want and more in one place.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"I still haven't actually got a meet planned

If it doesn't happen it work be through a lack of trying on my side but I won't just meet anybody not my thing at all, I need a connection or no point."

How about I get the train and message you on the way

Mine has been postponed unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rules are meant to be bent sometimes. Have fun

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

"I still haven't actually got a meet planned

If it doesn't happen it work be through a lack of trying on my side but I won't just meet anybody not my thing at all, I need a connection or no point.

How about I get the train and message you on the way

Mine has been postponed unfortunately

Now that's an offer I cant refuse

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Jackdaniels2016 if you want to actually chat whilst your on route

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Ffs if you add me on Skype please message me on here first and no I don't want to see guys wanking !!! What the hell is wrong with people !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs if you add me on Skype please message me on here first and no I don't want to see guys wanking !!! What the hell is wrong with people !!! "

Someone's got their hands full

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

"Ffs if you add me on Skype please message me on here first and no I don't want to see guys wanking !!! What the hell is wrong with people !!!

Someone's got their hands full

Lol na I'm only adding those who message me first now !! Doesn't look like I'm getting that meet !!

Days not over yet but same day meets just don't seem to happen

Oh well best flick my cam on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it couple of weeks ago, broke some of my other rules, I met a nice chap who I have met a couple of times since, and hopefully more times to come,

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Lucky you

I've nearly given up on today was a good idea but hasn't paid off and doesn't look like it will

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not got yourself sorted yet?!

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

"Not got yourself sorted yet?!"

Nope I haven't not for a meet anyway !!

Have a few listed for Skype but obviously I'm wanting to meet in the flesh I haven't given up yet though, well not quite x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well the day isn't over yet!

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Nope not yet

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

when i broke my own rules regarding meeting i regretted it dearly ..on 2 occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lucky you

I've nearly given up on today was a good idea but hasn't paid off and doesn't look like it will

Shame

I've only ever managed to find one same day meet. I walked into the hotel room and swiftly walked out

not sure I'd do it again tbh

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

I won't be doing this again I've literally wasted a full day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breaking your rules could be the best thing you can do. You never know unless you throw caution to the wind.

I break rules.

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Made me question what I'm actually doing on here a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever managed to find one same day meet. I walked into the hotel room and swiftly walked out

not sure I'd do it again tbh "

Omg what made you swiftly walk back out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I broke my fab rules and messaged a guy without seeing his face once....we met 2 days later and he has now been my fwb for the last 7 months, so can work out pretty well sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever managed to find one same day meet. I walked into the hotel room and swiftly walked out

not sure I'd do it again tbh

Omg what made you swiftly walk back out?

He didn't exactly look like his pictures. I'm not the kind of lady to take one for the team so made a sharp exit!

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Don't blame you at all !

I would do exactly the same, what do people actually expect when they do that ???

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"I won't be doing this again I've literally wasted a full day x"

I know that feeling. Its not good sadly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever managed to find one same day meet. I walked into the hotel room and swiftly walked out

not sure I'd do it again tbh

Omg what made you swiftly walk back out?

He didn't exactly look like his pictures. I'm not the kind of lady to take one for the team so made a sharp exit!"

I have met women/couples at their hotel bar, but not expecting to go straight into the room... that comes after a bit of banter and * giggles *

If I book a hotel we meet go together. Never ever straight into the room...

That is not safe

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Going to have to take a look at these Skype addys I think and see who's who's

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Best it's going to get today I think I've not had the horn like this for a long long time and not had a play on cam since I was about 18 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever managed to find one same day meet. I walked into the hotel room and swiftly walked out

not sure I'd do it again tbh

Omg what made you swiftly walk back out?

He didn't exactly look like his pictures. I'm not the kind of lady to take one for the team so made a sharp exit!

I have met women/couples at their hotel bar, but not expecting to go straight into the room... that comes after a bit of banter and * giggles *

If I book a hotel we meet go together. Never ever straight into the room...

That is not safe

It was when I first joined. I was naive and excited. That's why now I will only do a social first

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

I was the same when I first started I literally put up a meet everyday and the first 3 I arranged all turned out timewasters so I said never again.

A few months have past since I joined and because I won't meet straight away the chat and banter seems to die down and fizzle out.

I'm going to have to take a time out I think and have a long hard think about what I'm doing here and my approach

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've only ever managed to find one same day meet. I walked into the hotel room and swiftly walked out

not sure I'd do it again tbh

Omg what made you swiftly walk back out?

He didn't exactly look like his pictures. I'm not the kind of lady to take one for the team so made a sharp exit!

I have met women/couples at their hotel bar, but not expecting to go straight into the room... that comes after a bit of banter and * giggles *

If I book a hotel we meet go together. Never ever straight into the room...

That is not safe

Oh I like being marched to the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have fab rules, I have more than Adam ha ha. Not so much sexual but more to do with morals, priorities and comfort really.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck da rules!

But seriously, I've found most peoples fab requirement and rules go out the window if you just meet em in a club before fab as well haha. Example, if I met someone I really liked over 55 in a club I'd give em a chance.

If someone doesn't take my fancy then I don't pursue anything, simple.

As for the meet today, just give it a try. Spur of the moment can be amazing, as last Saturday proved for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever managed to find one same day meet. I walked into the hotel room and swiftly walked out

not sure I'd do it again tbh

Omg what made you swiftly walk back out?

He didn't exactly look like his pictures. I'm not the kind of lady to take one for the team so made a sharp exit!

I have met women/couples at their hotel bar, but not expecting to go straight into the room... that comes after a bit of banter and * giggles *

If I book a hotel we meet go together. Never ever straight into the room...

That is not safe

But it's fun when there's trust that's been built.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have met women/couples at their hotel bar, but not expecting to go straight into the room... that comes after a bit of banter and * giggles *

If I book a hotel we meet go together. Never ever straight into the room...

That is not safe

But it's fun when there's trust that's been built.

I know what you mean because I have been lucky enough to experience that level of intimacy on a few occasions. If you have the patience to build trust, the experience you share is mind blowing.

I am going to share one example of what I mean. This is real and actually happened.

PLEASE NOTE - Safety is the number one priority when meeting strangers and I recommend you do not do this unless you have taken the neccessary precautions.

It happened a long time ago:

I had been chatting to a woman who is far up North 100s of miles away from me. We had been chatting for months on the phone. We knew almost everything about each others sexual interests and what works for maximum pleasure.

I knew what she looked like because she sent me a pic of her pretty face. When I saw her red hair and piercing blue eyes... that was it for me. I knew no matter what happens I need to meet her. I really was under her spell!!

She resisted many times at first because I was and still i'm just a headless suit. She was and still is Fab royalty.

We used to laugh and joke about anything and everything. Laughter and happiness to the point where I would get the *giggles* then the tears followed

But then...

Things started to become competitive. She has a high threshold for pain and said she can take anything. All the Doms in her local clubs have tried. I said I am no Dom, but I have my own style... way of doing things if you like.

She used to laugh at me and tease me all the time. And I told her I am stubborn as fuck... don't tempt me because I will brake you!! Did she listen... Nooooooooo she refused to take me seriously!!

Fastforward to the day of the meet:

She still has no clue what I look like. She invited me to her home to stay for a week. I travelled 100s of miles to meet her...

Her front door was open. She was in her bedroom sitting on the bed blindfolded. Wearing a long black coat and heels. No other clothing. Red lipstick, red nails. Everything I had requested. Her bedroom door was closed.

As I entered her home there were written signs for me to follow. I went into the kitchen first and had the food that was prepared for me (it was a long journey

)

Then followed the signs to her bedroom. It said "Welcome to Wonderland" ... I opened the door ...

My god there she was just sitting on the bed exactly how I had requested... we had been waiting for this moment for months. All I said was "hello" she literally stopped breathing and only took a breathe when I touched her for the first time. And that was the first time I saw her smile... everything just felt like it was a dream... it couldn't be real and actually happening!!

She still does not know what I look like...

We touch and kiss several times. I direct her hands to help her undo my shirt and take all my clothes off. I take her coat off...

After hours of hot passionate intimacy I finally took her blindfold off...

Lucky for me she said I was handsome

otherwise I would have ended up homeless for a few days!!

It was non stop action for the duration of our time together.

Soo...

Did I brake her?? As I said she is Fab royalty and has built a massive rep on here so I can't tell you. The only thing I will say is...

Mission accomplished

In other words...

I am stubborn as fuck. She understands that now

That was a once in a lifetime opportunity and the dynamics/circumstances/timing all made it possible. I can never forget that. It was a special connection.

For those who know me for a long time will remember the verifications and all the extra bits floating around in the Fab archives. Plus the adventures that followed after...

Trust is something that can take a very long time to build, but can be broken in an instant.

The real magic begins when you have that special bond...

* * * TRUST * * *

P.s. Trust only starts to build when your friendship becomes stronger.

In other news...

I have done longer posts then this you know...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Did you get to have a meet?

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Go with gut instincts xx but life is to enjoy not worry xx ebjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a spur of the moment same day meet once and it was brilliant, was lucky she was lovely. But it really was luck as had no idea until i met her.

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over a year ago

"I have met women/couples at their hotel bar, but not expecting to go straight into the room... that comes after a bit of banter and * giggles *

If I book a hotel we meet go together. Never ever straight into the room...

That is not safe

But it's fun when there's trust that's been built.

I know what you mean because I have been lucky enough to experience that level of intimacy on a few occasions. If you have the patience to build trust, the experience you share is mind blowing.

I am going to share one example of what I mean. This is real and actually happened.

PLEASE NOTE - Safety is the number one priority when meeting strangers and I recommend you do not do this unless you have taken the neccessary precautions.

It happened a long time ago:

She resisted many times at first because I was and still i'm just a headless suit. She was and still is Fab royalty.

We used to laugh and joke about anything and everything. Laughter and happiness to the point where I would get the *giggles* then the tears followed

But then...

She used to laugh at me and tease me all the time. And I told her I am stubborn as fuck... don't tempt me because I will brake you!! Did she listen... Nooooooooo she refused to take me seriously!!

Fastforward to the day of the meet:

She still has no clue what I look like. She invited me to her home to stay for a week. I travelled 100s of miles to meet her...

As I entered her home there were written signs for me to follow. I went into the kitchen first and had the food that was prepared for me (it was a long journey

)

Then followed the signs to her bedroom. It said "Welcome to Wonderland" ... I opened the door ...

She still does not know what I look like...

We touch and kiss several times. I direct her hands to help her undo my shirt and take all my clothes off. I take her coat off...

After hours of hot passionate intimacy I finally took her blindfold off...

Lucky for me she said I was handsome

otherwise I would have ended up homeless for a few days!!

It was non stop action for the duration of our time together.

Soo...

Did I brake her?? As I said she is Fab royalty and has built a massive rep on here so I can't tell you. The only thing I will say is...

Mission accomplished

In other words...

I am stubborn as fuck. She understands that now

That was a once in a lifetime opportunity and the dynamics/circumstances/timing all made it possible. I can never forget that. It was a special connection.

For those who know me for a long time will remember the verifications and all the extra bits floating around in the Fab archives. Plus the adventures that followed after...

Trust is something that can take a very long time to build, but can be broken in an instant.

The real magic begins when you have that special bond...

* * * TRUST * * *

P.s. Trust only starts to build when your friendship becomes stronger.

In other news...

I have done longer posts then this you know...

Bloody hell I did all that last night...

I am surprised the forum saviours did not come in and dissect that with all the FTFY business

Still don't know who the saviours are yet, probably because they wear fancy helmets for protection so I can't figure it out!

Anyway...

Another example in * Trust *

My recent meet was a year in the making although I only knew about it for a few months

So you could imagine the 24hrs intensity... I made a right mess in the bedroom with crumbs and chocolate. Then splashed everwhere while washing the dishes

I wonder what it would be like having a threesome with a fiery readhead and a blonde bombshell!!

Hmmm I guess I will never know...

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

"Did you get to have a meet?"

Nope unfortunately I didn't

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Did you get to have a meet?

Nope unfortunately I didn't

That's a shame,maybe next time stick to your tried and tested way,saves a whole lot of wasted time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never break your rules. They're there for a reason and when the horn disease kicks in they protect you!

I broke them and boy did I get a shock recently

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

" Never break your rules. They're there for a reason and when the horn disease kicks in they protect you!

I broke them and boy did I get a shock recently

I need details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The never contact local rule was broken. The dreaded I know you,work colleague pic exchange took place.

Whilst no details were given, I was informed of several other work colleagues on here. Now I feel like I'm playing russian roulette every time I talk to someone on here

Never go local!!

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

"Did you get to have a meet?

Nope unfortunately I didn't

That's a shame,maybe next time stick to your tried and tested way,saves a whole lot of wasted time

Yes I will be the horn took over that day but I will be keeping it a bay

Not sure how it would of worked out for me doing same day as I really like to have a connection with who I meet it has to be about the mind and the body !

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not sure how it would of worked out for me doing same day as I really like to have a connection with who I meet it has to be about the mind and the body !"

I remember doing exactly as you did once putting a same day meet up something I'd never done before,but thought what the hell normally I prefer to have a fair bit of chat first,but felt really horny that particular day.

Anyway there used to be a guy that messaged me a lot,one min he'd be on the site the next he'd disappear everytime remessaging me. I found him attractive,but his messages were really short so I never felt a connection toward's him. He replied to my status so I though bugger it I was just after the sex that day so why not.

Got myself all primmed and ready,45 minutes before he was due he sent me a text saying I see you like bi men. I presumed he was 'fab straight' and replied yes. Well say's him I don't really like that so I need to cancel

Right so I replied all those countless time's you've looked at my profile over the last two year's you're telling me you've only just read my profile what the f*ck! I will add that he messaged some time after asking for a second chance as he'd changed his mind. I don't give second chances.

So that was my one and only time I've done it. Although someone else responded to the status as well saying he would come when I told him I'd had someone change his mind. I was too naffed of by then,although I did go on to meet him and he's been a great meet since

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

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over a year ago

Yarm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done a same day meet, similar to this, I don't normally but fancied something a bit different and a bit of excitement. It worked out pretty ace lol xx

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over a year ago

Yarm

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Very similar to my experiences as like I said when I first joined I would try for same day meets that only ever ended in wasting my time and letting me down I honestly can't get my head round why people lead people on and then back out last minute although I can appreciate things do happen and sometimes a genuine reason to cancel could take place but not when it's done to purely liking the idea of meeting rather than having the meet itself. If people wanted to chat about the meeting scenario say a couple I would on certain times be up for doing that if we had a connection and the chat was stimulating for all involved again I had a lovely chat with a lovely couple when I was looking the other day and yes we didn't meet because mr wanted bi fun and that's not for me but clearly they had been watching my post on here and after I'd give up trying to find a meet I do go back on cam with them both and chatted more via Skype which did end a little naughty which again is not usually for me but I quite enjoyed taking a bath for them on cam it felt a little naughty being watched although not the same as a in the flesh me I did get enjoyment from this and I might do a little more often rather than rule it out completey.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Sometimes you have to put yourself out of your comfort zone don't overthink things and just go for it,I'm sure there's lots of pleasure to be had when we do that.

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarm

100% agreed !! Joining here was all about new experiences for me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I broke my own rules and enforced them this week

I won't chase anyone - enforced

I trust my instincts - enforced

No spur of the moment meets - broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have fab rules, I have more than Adam ha ha. Not so much sexual but more to do with morals, priorities and comfort really.

Eve. X"

I am the same in terms of morals, priorities and comfort for private meets.

Although in clubs you don't really know much about people in there unless it is pre-arranged. Sometimes you don't even know their name and you are hot, sweaty and out of breathe.

Gasping for air or water!

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By *akahCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Rules are made to be broken though, right?!

I think that what started off as your initial rules when you joined fab will change over time depending on your experiences you've had.

That and also the fact we all get a little braver and start looking for more of a thrill out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to suggest u create guidelines rather than rules and therefore you have more flexibility on different situations.

Fab is like learning to play a sport say ruggers where u might start with tag and progress ...and eventually playing the big game ..... x

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