FabSwingers.com forum: Attached unless they say otherwise!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you assume someone is attached unless they state in their profile that they are single?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you assume someone is attached unless they state in their profile that they are single?

No, and I don't assume they are single just because they state it.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

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By *orkmalewithPAMan
over a year ago

York

I had a meet the over week with a very lovely lady who I was just about to meet in the next two days. Her profile said she was single..... and she showed no hints of having a partner! but after that grate full night in a hotel the next next day we bump into each over in town and she had her husband and kids with her!

I did not feel happy at all that she did not tell me before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a meet the over week with a very lovely lady who I was just about to meet in the next two days. Her profile said she was single..... and she showed no hints of having a partner! but after that grate full night in a hotel the next next day we bump into each over in town and she had her husband and kids with her!

I did not feel happy at all that she did not tell me before hand."

it's a dangerous game she plays unless hubby knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you assume someone is attached unless they state in their profile that they are single?

not interested either way

the fun i seek is no strings and my interest in them starts with the first message and ends as they close the door behind them on their way out.

if we repeat the act, then again that's where the interest starts and finishes.

don't want to be involved in their life and certainly not interested in them being involved in mine.

an arrogant stance to take maybe but one i am steadfast in.

while i am with you, you have my full attention be it in conversation or the bedroom. once we part company, we assume our own seperate lives.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

But you are in a relationship with permission to play!

My morals will not allow me to play with someone behind the wifes' back...I just could not do it, been there and done that years ago and never ever again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it doesnt bother me I dont assume anything.. but I prefer my men attached..

Katie.x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Do you assume someone is attached unless they state in their profile that they are single?

I assume they are attached if it says they are single but have 'cannot accommodate'.

PS Yes I know thats what my profile says, but I tell people why if they ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it is a single profile, we assume they are single, unless they explain otherwise (some have FBs).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont assume anything about people, I dont even assume they are the sex they say they are, id have to look up their skirt first

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By *oveshell74Man
over a year ago

ealing

assume makes an ass out of u and me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their private life is nowt ta do with me

So personally i aint bothered either way

If the are cheating and get caught thats their look out

I want ta shag em not marry em xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't assume, but it's not rocket science working out if they are.

My reason for not playing with married men had nothing to do with taking the moral high ground to be fair, I just liked my playmates available when they say they can be and married men can't be in the main.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont assume but it doesnt take long to know whether they are attatched or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if they are or not but it always helps if they tell the truth it just makes life easier all round I find but end of the day am not looking to settle down with them so not my heart ache if they get caught out!!!!

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

like i say in my profile if i choose to play with a person i do like to have all the information- ie attached means only contact made thru fab mail etc no unwanted txts or calls .

and if they are it is their life and happiness in it they risk if found out by their partners not mine

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

No, but it doesn't take Einstein or Sherlock Holmes to work out if they are attached. Just nice to know in advance before the wife finds out and contacts you!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So basically, pretty mixed reaction then. I personally don't have a problem playing with attached peeps. It's just recently I've seen many profiles that say they don't meet attached men but then I look at who they have met and verified!!!! Time to stop being so nosey I guess. Lol.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

We never assume a so-called single is actually single and so we check them out as best we can. We wouldn't knowingly assist someone betraying their partner.

I dare say we've missed out on some who might have been genuine who we thought might not be. Equally its possible we've been duped by someone who is attached but nevertheless we try as best we can to avoid.

A slightly amusing but true story, a guy I'll call 'Fred' thought it was always fair game to shag other men's wives. This one time (not the only time) that he got caught the offended husband told him, "You will have to look over your shoulder for the rest of your/my life". He remained true to his word... to this day you could be stood at a bar having a drink with Fred when the next thing you know this hand will appear from nowhere. grab him by the scruff of the neck and drag him outside for another good beating.

While I do not agree with violence, in Fred's case... it couldn't happen to a nicer bloke

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