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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read with interest an article defining a "Stag cuckold" from a cuckold. It differentiates the Stag and cuckold and I think adds great value and understanding to the Hotwife/cuckold/guys who just love seeing their Wives/GFs with other guys.

I'll summarise it below.

Stag cuckolds are typically heterosexual men who get off on the idea of their wives or girlfriends being with other men but do not really fit the historical term cuckold.

They share with general cuckolds the desire to see their partners take on extra lovers while they remain monogamous but for the stag cuckold this is always by consent and any humiliation aspect is just a playful erotic teasing game with his wife rather than any real desire to be humiliated. He will never be humiliated or intimidated by his partner’s lovers. He is a strong type that simply derives huge erotic pleasure from seeing his wife or girlfriend being so alluring that nobody could resist her and considers it only natural and very arousing that she'll need and deserve sexual satisfaction from others as well as him. For this reason the proper term for the partner of most hotwives is a Stag cuckold or just STAG rather than cuckold. This behavior ranges from merely sharing the fantasy and acting out role play scenarios to full on Hotwifing. It is just one part of a relationship and many couples only dabble occasionally.

I think there are alot of cuckold couples on here who are more Stag/Hotwife.

Admin, we need another definition in the drop down menu!!!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

The article sounds misinformed to be honest. What you've described just sounds like a hot wife and a research into the subject showed that only half of cuckolds enjoy any form of humiliation.

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

The historical definition of cuckold is simply the husband of a wife that has sex with other men.

The term cuckold is used in many different ways and it would be wise not to make assumptions but rather to chat to people about their expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adam is a Stag of sorts. He is a very strong, dominant man that won't be humiliated but he is very turned on by me being with other men that have big cocks and will use me and fuck me veeery well.

I don't meet men alone though and he we still have foursomes and such so he isn't monogamous either.

Eve. X

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By *ose CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Adam is a Stag of sorts. He is a very strong, dominant man that won't be humiliated but he is very turned on by me being with other men that have big cocks and will use me and fuck me veeery well.

I don't meet men alone though and he we still have foursomes and such so he isn't monogamous either.

Eve. X"

Emma and I are exactly this. God help the guy that plays the humiliation card with us. He'd be put straight in no uncertain terms.

Unfortunately the word 'cuckold' has become distorted and misunderstood to the point that even people who do know what it actually means don't want it applied to them.

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Tbh. Call it whatever anyone wants ,,, But i love seeing my wife with other guys. Ide call it heaven. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbh. Call it whatever anyone wants ,,, But i love seeing my wife with other guys. Ide call it heaven. Lol. "

Ha ha!! yeah very true. We do always feel the need to categorise and define everything when there isn't really a need!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here we are more stag and hotwife than cuckold couple shame the term is not an option to choose on fab as your interest.

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By *inkykouple1985Couple
over a year ago

Spalding-ish

Me and hubby are defo a stag and hot wife couple!

He gets off watching me with other men,

But I also get of watching my husband with another woman

MrsKinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh. Call it whatever anyone wants ,,, But i love seeing my wife with other guys. Ide call it heaven. Lol.

Ha ha!! yeah very true. We do always feel the need to categorise and define everything when there isn't really a need!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The historical definition of cuckold is simply the husband of a wife that has sex with other men.

The term cuckold is used in many different ways and it would be wise not to make assumptions but rather to chat to people about their expectations. "

This exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say hubby is a stag. We normally have 3sums where everyone joins in but I also have a couple of good male friends that hubby gets turned on by talking about and letting me play with them on my own and before anyone asks their not on fab and we're not looking for anyone to be like that with on site

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Adam is a Stag of sorts. He is a very strong, dominant man that won't be humiliated but he is very turned on by me being with other men that have big cocks and will use me and fuck me veeery well.

I don't meet men alone though and he we still have foursomes and such so he isn't monogamous either.

Eve. X"

sounds like us too

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Whilst I agree that we don't need to define everything all the time the word cuckold has generally become accepted? as a guy that enjoys the humiliation side of sharing your wife.

This is not me.

I enjoy watching her play, threesomes (mmf) are our favourite thing. I avoid any cuckold/humiliation as it doesnt arouse me. I enjoy the view, seeing her getting pleasure, seeing him enjoy her. It's like showing her off.

I wish more single guys understood this aspect. I am not weak for sharing my wife, it's because we are strong and I adore her that we play. It appeals to her submissive nature. She enjoys being adore and played with.

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield


"Whilst I agree that we don't need to define everything all the time the word cuckold has generally become accepted? as a guy that enjoys the humiliation side of sharing your wife.

This is not me.

I enjoy watching her play, threesomes (mmf) are our favourite thing. I avoid any cuckold/humiliation as it doesnt arouse me. I enjoy the view, seeing her getting pleasure, seeing him enjoy her. It's like showing her off.

I wish more single guys understood this aspect. I am not weak for sharing my wife, it's because we are strong and I adore her that we play. It appeals to her submissive nature. She enjoys being adore and played with."

I don't think there is acceptance of the term cuckold but there is no accepted terms for all the variations.

I think what you describe is more like us... I like seeing her with other guys, she enjoys being with other guys, it is showing her off, it is her being my own porn star. There isn't humiliation or submission involved, it is about mutual enjoyment for all three involved.

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I enjoy watching wife with other guys. Sometimes i join in. Im the one who sez what can happen n not. And who with. Im the one in charge. If i dont want anything or anyone to happen. Then it wont. N of coarse. If the wife dosent want anything or any one. Then same story. But if i say no. Then thats it.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Whilst I agree that we don't need to define everything all the time the word cuckold has generally become accepted? as a guy that enjoys the humiliation side of sharing your wife.

"

No, in the largest survey of people identifying as cuckold husbands only half had any interest in humiliation

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield


"Whilst I agree that we don't need to define everything all the time the word cuckold has generally become accepted? as a guy that enjoys the humiliation side of sharing your wife.

No, in the largest survey of people identifying as cuckold husbands only half had any interest in humiliation "

I thought that's what he was saying if you read the post as a whole.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Whilst I agree that we don't need to define everything all the time the word cuckold has generally become accepted? as a guy that enjoys the humiliation side of sharing your wife.

This is not me.

I enjoy watching her play, threesomes (mmf) are our favourite thing. I avoid any cuckold/humiliation as it doesnt arouse me. I enjoy the view, seeing her getting pleasure, seeing him enjoy her. It's like showing her off.

I wish more single guys understood this aspect. I am not weak for sharing my wife, it's because we are strong and I adore her that we play. It appeals to her submissive nature. She enjoys being adore and played with."

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By *esicupidsCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Whilst I agree that we don't need to define everything all the time the word cuckold has generally become accepted? as a guy that enjoys the humiliation side of sharing your wife.

This is not me.

I enjoy watching her play, threesomes (mmf) are our favourite thing. I avoid any cuckold/humiliation as it doesnt arouse me. I enjoy the view, seeing her getting pleasure, seeing him enjoy her. It's like showing her off.

I wish more single guys understood this aspect. I am not weak for sharing my wife, it's because we are strong and I adore her that we play. It appeals to her submissive nature. She enjoys being adore and played with."

Amazing how many still don't understand this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whilst I agree that we don't need to define everything all the time the word cuckold has generally become accepted? as a guy that enjoys the humiliation side of sharing your wife.

This is not me.

I enjoy watching her play, threesomes (mmf) are our favourite thing. I avoid any cuckold/humiliation as it doesnt arouse me. I enjoy the view, seeing her getting pleasure, seeing him enjoy her. It's like showing her off.

I wish more single guys understood this aspect. I am not weak for sharing my wife, it's because we are strong and I adore her that we play. It appeals to her submissive nature. She enjoys being adore and played with.

Amazing how many still don't understand this "

This is exactly what my post is about. The difference between a cuckold couple and a couple where the guy enjoys watching his wife with another guy. The definition of the stag and hotwife defines what you have described perfectly. It empowers the hotwife and does not degrade or humiliate the husband.

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By *obinhood-maidmarionCouple
over a year ago

Near Birmingham

I like seeing marion with 1 guy. 2 guys. 5 guys or women. I like to see her enjoy herself in anyway shape or form. I also like to watch sometimes, join in sometimes, or find out afterwards sometimes.

So am i cuckold, cuckold humiliated, cuckold stag or just damn right perverted!

Really dont get why everything to do with sex has to be tagged and bagged. Bbw, bbc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Adam is a Stag of sorts. He is a very strong, dominant man that won't be humiliated but he is very turned on by me being with other men that have big cocks and will use me and fuck me veeery well.

I don't meet men alone though and he we still have foursomes and such so he isn't monogamous either.

Eve. X"
mmn sounds great.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"

Really dont get why everything to do with sex has to be tagged and bagged. Bbw, bbc etc"

What is language other than a bunch of labels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like seeing marion with 1 guy. 2 guys. 5 guys or women. I like to see her enjoy herself in anyway shape or form. I also like to watch sometimes, join in sometimes, or find out afterwards sometimes.

Really dont get why everything to do with sex has to be tagged and bagged. Bbw, bbc etc"

It doesn't have to be labelled. I'm the same - just love seeing the Mrs being fucked, and love hearing about it if she's gone out to be fucked. I really don't give a rat's arse what people might like to call this. The enjoyment comes from the act, not from feeling part of a group of like-minded people.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"

Really dont get why everything to do with sex has to be tagged and bagged. Bbw, bbc etc

What is language other than a bunch of labels? "

Dunno cos the label fell off my language book lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I agree that we don't need to define everything all the time the word cuckold has generally become accepted? as a guy that enjoys the humiliation side of sharing your wife.

No, in the largest survey of people identifying as cuckold husbands only half had any interest in humiliation "

Isn't this the very point the OP is making?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Whilst I agree that we don't need to define everything all the time the word cuckold has generally become accepted? as a guy that enjoys the humiliation side of sharing your wife.

No, in the largest survey of people identifying as cuckold husbands only half had any interest in humiliation

Isn't this the very point the OP is making?"

I disagree that the word has generally become accepted to mean that.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We don't like the word cuckold, it seems demeaning to the man. Apart from being swingers, I suppose when we're not both playing with someone else (which is the usual way we play) we're a hotwife and stag. I love seeing R with another man and especially when she's clubbing and has one after another - she sometimes goes into her 'altered state' as she calls it and genuinely loses count of how many she's had. I do like to get actively involved however rather than just watching and she prefers that.

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