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Cross dressing and secret code or word

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By *urabrite OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

Hello All.. IS there a secret code or word that Cross-dresser use to see if someone cross dress or is interested in some fun. As i have a close friend and i am sure he does like myself to dare not ask incase he does not or even worse tells his wife of my fetish, it would just kill our friendship. I know he is not on here any advice please

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Try discussing something current or relevant x

Maybe a character on the television who cross dresses? That may gauge a reaction x

Or mention you would love to go and watch the Rocky horror show for a giggle - see if there is any mention of going in drag?

Currently there is a touring version of ladyboys of Bangkok x perhaps if there is similar near you it could be a relevant conversation starter x

There is no secret code word x cross dressing is not an exclusive secret club xxx

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Always hard to tell someone

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Rosebud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call them a sissy in a non sexual context.

If they drop to their knees, there's your answer

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue


"Hello All.. IS there a secret code or word that Cross-dresser use to see if someone cross dress or is interested in some fun. As i have a close friend and i am sure he does like myself to dare not ask incase he does not or even worse tells his wife of my fetish, it would just kill our friendship. I know he is not on here any advice please "

try and get a nose at his ebay account.. see if he's watching items list is full of women's stuff..

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Call them a sissy in a non sexual context.

If they drop to their knees, there's your answer"

haha

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

Turn around, drop your trousers a bit and let him see the top of your G-string. The reaction should be enough to tell you what you need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told a friend a few years back, we arnt friends no more, she was ok at first but then put distance in, I wish I hadn't said a word now but hey ho

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Lol

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By *urabrite OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

Yea that is my fear to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he isn't on here or tvcx then he is not a serious dresser, on the other hand I am lol

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

not to my knowledge..

get a few tickets for the rocky horror show ..its always a good excuse to dress up without arousing suspicion

or any fancydress event ..

i would be careful if you being found out would cause you problems tho.as im sure he would tell his wife if he wasnt a secret dresser and she of course would tell others ..people find it hard to keep juicy gossip like that secret

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I was going to say "is there not a special handshake".

Then for some reason the Crocodile Dundee moment popped into my head (crotch grab).

Not the special handshake I was initially thinking about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to say "is there not a special handshake".

Then for some reason the Crocodile Dundee moment popped into my head (crotch grab).

Not the special handshake I was initially thinking about!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I told a friend a few years back, we arnt friends no more, she was ok at first but then put distance in, I wish I hadn't said a word now but hey ho "

That's so sad that your friend has allowed society gendered clothing to define you and subsequently your friendship. So narrow minded.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"I told a friend a few years back, we arnt friends no more, she was ok at first but then put distance in, I wish I hadn't said a word now but hey ho

That's so sad that your friend has allowed society gendered clothing to define you and subsequently your friendship. So narrow minded. "

Ya I would be very careful before I told someone close. Most people are completely clueless and assume it's perverted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I told a friend a few years back, we arnt friends no more, she was ok at first but then put distance in, I wish I hadn't said a word now but hey ho

That's so sad that your friend has allowed society gendered clothing to define you and subsequently your friendship. So narrow minded.

Ya I would be very careful before I told someone close. Most people are completely clueless and assume it's perverted."

Society has much to learn. Xx

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I told a friend a few years back, we arnt friends no more, she was ok at first but then put distance in, I wish I hadn't said a word now but hey ho

That's so sad that your friend has allowed society gendered clothing to define you and subsequently your friendship. So narrow minded.

Ya I would be very careful before I told someone close. Most people are completely clueless and assume it's perverted."

Broadly similar for most FAB users I guess. The UK is not as relaxed and comfortable with sex as it pretends to be.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Yea look for a guy in a pub clearly showing VPL lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello All.. IS there a secret code or word that Cross-dresser use to see if someone cross dress or is interested in some fun. As i have a close friend and i am sure he does like myself to dare not ask incase he does not or even worse tells his wife of my fetish, it would just kill our friendship. I know he is not on here any advice please "

No secret code that I'm aware of. Why are you so sure your friend does dress? If your friendship is more important than the proof he dresses then don't broach the subject with him.

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By *urabrite OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

if he is a secret dresser, then it would be great to have fun.. but it is a thin line and if he is not i live in a small village and i think i would have to move if it wife found out.. thanks all for some of your replys

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