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How to sustain your hard-on.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.....after the condom goes on. I'm really struggling with this one.

No problems at all right up to the moment the rubber mac goes on, but then......

Any tips (no pun intended) would be most welcome.

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


".....after the condom goes on. I'm really struggling with this one.

No problems at all right up to the moment the rubber mac goes on, but then......

Any tips (no pun intended) would be most welcome."

I found getting the right size condoms helped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends which one I use and yes, usually the hard on goes down when using them, but I have found out that the durex fetherlite ones works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right size condom makes so much difference as mentioned above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try XL Skyn condom. Even if you aren't that big, it gives you the extra room so the condom doesn't cut off the circulation.

Failing that, try bringing actually putting the condom on part of the sex.

Instead of stopping, opening the packet, rolling it on and then getting ready to go, looking down and it's gone. Lol.

Hope this helps.

Craig.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Bareback..

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By *ungcock180Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Stop drinking so much lager... ??

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Message from the Master Guru Motherfucker again.

Use a small pea sized of lube, as when you put them on the silly amount they put on dries out on your hand and, unless she's ultra wet, will not slide in too well. A decent lube like liquid silk will not go tacky and will mean you can roll in easier.

Thank me later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think its the lack of sensation, no sliding feeling, nor wet feeling that just stops it all dead for me. I was thinking of lubing inside the condom,, anyone tried that?

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By *aughtyangieCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Message from the Master Guru Motherfucker again.

Use a small pea sized of lube, as when you put them on the silly amount they put on dries out on your hand and, unless she's ultra wet, will not slide in too well. A decent lube like liquid silk will not go tacky and will mean you can roll in easier.

Thank me later."

On your cock or condom once on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them to put it on with their mouth

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Message from the Master Guru Motherfucker again.

Use a small pea sized of lube, as when you put them on the silly amount they put on dries out on your hand and, unless she's ultra wet, will not slide in too well. A decent lube like liquid silk will not go tacky and will mean you can roll in easier.

Thank me later.

On your cock or condom once on ?"

On the condom. If you are hard putting it on, you should be fine until fucking. It could be the size being too tight making it hard to get on quick as people have said but some lube on it will help loads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".....after the condom goes on. I'm really struggling with this one.

No problems at all right up to the moment the rubber mac goes on, but then......

Any tips (no pun intended) would be most welcome.

I found getting the right size condoms helped "

This.

I've done a couple of threads on this. You'd be surprised how many guys struggle because the condomis too tight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them to put it on with their mouth "

You been watching inbetweeners mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its the lack of sensation, no sliding feeling, nor wet feeling that just stops it all dead for me. I was thinking of lubing inside the condom,, anyone tried that?"

Do this, I've had the problem a couple of times. Also incorporate putting the condom on into the sex and get her to do it. You really need to be into it before putting it on too so get her to grind her pussy and clit against you before putting it on to get you rock hard, lots of kissing and foreplay. I usually get them to ride me for a bit before fucking em doggy. It's a burden wrapping up sometimes but necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them to put it on with their mouth

You been watching inbetweeners mate? "

One of my playmates could do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".....after the condom goes on. I'm really struggling with this one.

No problems at all right up to the moment the rubber mac goes on, but then......

Any tips (no pun intended) would be most welcome."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".....after the condom goes on. I'm really struggling with this one.

No problems at all right up to the moment the rubber mac goes on, but then......

Any tips (no pun intended) would be most welcome."

use a cock ring , they keep you hard when you lose the feeling when you may loose concentration ect,

when you get back in the mood makes you really hard and you cum so hard its awesome,

make sure you don't get one too tight as it hurts after a while , too big and it has little or no effect,

works well for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, some good ideas to try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the lady to put it on for you..... the extra stimulation will help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all psychological, at the minute it's a trigger and it's breaking that which will cure the problem. Yes condoms suck but sex can still be awesome. I can't tell you how to break that trigger but if it was me I would try using a condom when wanking, there's no pressure on you then and hopefully if you can manage to have a few good wanks with a condom on you will start to think about them differently and have more confidence using them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its the lack of sensation, no sliding feeling, nor wet feeling that just stops it all dead for me. I was thinking of lubing inside the condom,, anyone tried that?"

Yes, lube inside does enhance the feeling. A small blob on the bell-end, before putting it on (not too much, or it might slip off), makes for a much more enjoyable sensation, because the upper half can slide with your thrusts.

Also, a larger size does help. Undersized condoms can give a death-grip, which kills the stiffy. Goes down like a punctured tyre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock ring

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Cock Ring

Nipples being bitten while someone else puts it on for you

As above but a ring up your arse

As above but someone sucking your balls

As above but having a mouth full of pussy, or cock

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Finger up your arse ffs 'nana fingers

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