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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon

What is it with some folk demanding face pix but have none for anyone to see themselves?in that situation I ask for theirs and some get really shitty about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy to move on from, no dramas.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I don't get it either. I have chatted to people who request a face pic, then when I say it would be nice to see what they look like they say they don't share face pics!

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon

It's a bit rude to get stroppy about showing your own when requesting the same though right?or is that just me?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Glad I am not interested in what someone looks like..

I only want the cock..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agreed it is all a bit strange...

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"It's a bit rude to get stroppy about showing your own when requesting the same though right?or is that just me?"
It sure is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...

Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...

Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them "

What I do is go into ninja mode . Wait till they go offline.. except their friends request,fab some pictures..especially if they have a face picture and then unfriend them ..sneaky I know but hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...

Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them

What I do is go into ninja mode . Wait till they go offline.. except their friends request,fab some pictures..especially if they have a face picture and then unfriend them ..sneaky I know but hey "

More often than not there are no face pics in their private ones lol.. But good point!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...

Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them

What I do is go into ninja mode . Wait till they go offline.. except their friends request,fab some pictures..especially if they have a face picture and then unfriend them ..sneaky I know but hey

More often than not there are no face pics in their private ones lol.. But good point! "

And I suspect that..hence why I go into ninja mode!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit rude to get stroppy about showing your own when requesting the same though right?or is that just me?"

If they get stroppy I wouldn't want to meet them anyway so it wouldn't bother me. I have no pics and won't ever send first. I ask nicely though. If people don't want to send theirs first that's fine we just won't ever be meeting. Zero angst.

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon


"I get this a lot - the majority of opening messages to me are requesting a face pic. When I explain that they are in my friend only pics for serious fabbers or that it's a two way street and they need to send me one I either get blocked or they try to trick me by sending a friend invite...

Unfortunately some believe that single men are at the bottom of. The Fab chain and must adhere to their rules... Not for me. It works the other way around. If you want to interact with me about what I do then you need to earn my Trust just as much as I earn yours. It also shows that people don't read profiles or just choose to ignore the information in them "

Well said that man

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By *ubbynwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon


"It's a bit rude to get stroppy about showing your own when requesting the same though right?or is that just me?

If they get stroppy I wouldn't want to meet them anyway so it wouldn't bother me. I have no pics and won't ever send first. I ask nicely though. If people don't want to send theirs first that's fine we just won't ever be meeting. Zero angst. "

My exact attitude...get stroppy in my inbox then you can do one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit rude to get stroppy about showing your own when requesting the same though right?or is that just me?

If they get stroppy I wouldn't want to meet them anyway so it wouldn't bother me. I have no pics and won't ever send first. I ask nicely though. If people don't want to send theirs first that's fine we just won't ever be meeting. Zero angst.

My exact attitude...get stroppy in my inbox then you can do one!!! "

If they are abusive report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't request a face pic if I had no intention of sending them one in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We believe etiquette is that if they approach us first, we would expect them to send face pics first.

If we approached them first, then we would send them first.

We'll ignore anyone who messages us first, asking for face pics without supplying their own. Whether they appear genuine or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We believe etiquette is that if they approach us first, we would expect them to send face pics first.

If we approached them first, then we would send them first.

We'll ignore anyone who messages us first, asking for face pics without supplying their own. Whether they appear genuine or not.

"

I think this is a great rule to go by... Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is paramount for some people. If you're a couple, then your discretion isn't at risk as much as someone whose partner doesn't know they are on here for example.

If that can't be understood, or it's such an issue for you, move on to the next person.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton


"We believe etiquette is that if they approach us first, we would expect them to send face pics first.

If we approached them first, then we would send them first.

We'll ignore anyone who messages us first, asking for face pics without supplying their own. Whether they appear genuine or not.

"

This is how we approach the site also and it works for us.

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