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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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Hi guys first time posting a thread here im thinking of getting a pa piercing and would like to know what women think of them and also would love to hear from any guy's who have them to get more info thanks for any replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them but a lot of a women don't.

Hurts like hell, can't have sex for weeks and it snaps your banjo string.

I think when you stretch the hole and put bigger rings in it looks better

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Makes no difference to sex as, when you wear a condom, it may as well not be there. And having it clacking against my teeth during a BJ is annoying.

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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It hurts who the man or woman or just getting it done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like them. I met a guy with one and i hated giving him a bj because it felt horrible in my mouth and banged against my teeth. It was like having tin foil in my mouth and made me gag.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

What do you want to know?

More women seem to dislike them than like them but MissK likes mine and that's all that matters to me. (although I haven't worn one for a while. Only because I got a bit bored of it myself. May pop something back in thinking about it as a surprise for her)

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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Would love to know the pros and cons what's it like to piss with in or out does it make wanking or sex any better etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to know the pros and cons what's it like to piss with in or out does it make wanking or sex any better etc "

My ex had his done, he said it hurt like hell it bled a lot and we couldn't have sex for ages as it hurt him every time we tried.

Eventually it snapped his banjo string.

He had to sit down to piss as it squirted everywhere.

The sex was the same if I'm honest it didn't make a difference.

I got used to the ring for blowjobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never used condoms as we were monogamous but they can break condoms which you don't really want being on here, it will put people off.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

They freak me out tbh, i wouldn't want to go near one. Makes me squeeze my legs together even thinking about it

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

me too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like them but a lot of a women don't.

Hurts like hell, can't have sex for weeks and it snaps your banjo string.

I think when you stretch the hole and put bigger rings in it looks better "

My ex had it done and he was out for 2 weeks... It also did not snap the banjo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never used condoms as we were monogamous but they can break condoms which you don't really want being on here, it will put people off."

Well fitting and good quality jewellery shouldn't break condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like them but a lot of a women don't.

Hurts like hell, can't have sex for weeks and it snaps your banjo string.

I think when you stretch the hole and put bigger rings in it looks better

My ex had it done and he was out for 2 weeks... It also did not snap the banjo!"

My ex must of needed to man up then as it was about 6 week before he managed without complaining it hurt lol.

I know 3 people with it done and they've all snapped their banjo string, maybe just unlucky.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Got a PA a few years ago and love it! Yes I was "out of action" for a month which can be a deal breaker for some but I was going through a quiet time.

The main thing is to go slow with increasing the jewelry size and I nearly always take mine out for sex. Don't fancy snapping my banjo.

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

I have one.

Some like and some don't but most are a little curious. Its not the big problem most make it out to be though as it takes just seconds to remove and seconds to put back in once healed

Does it hurt having it done? Yes very much so lmao.

Does sex hurt for her? Sometimes it can improve sex, sometimes it can rub her internally causing her to become sore. The wetter she gets the better it will be.

Never had to sit down to pee but then I do have a forskin so that could be why. Never had a condom break on me.

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By *isexycockMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I've had my Pa done 9 years now, yes i broke bango once in the beginning but never since .its never broke a condom yet and as I've still got my foreskin I can pee as normal. Ive always found it enhances the pleasure of both parties involved .no ones ever says it hurts just the opposite infact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like them

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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Any more info or opinions still trying to decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any more info or opinions still trying to decide "

Get it done for *you*. Not because some random strangers on an internet forum do or don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its an awful piercing. From experience, sex and oral were very uncomfortable.

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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Of course that would be the reason for getting it done but wondering what women's opinions are on them and if they're worth it for me I wouldn't put a hole in my body without some info first I think its the smart thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course that would be the reason for getting it done but wondering what women's opinions are on them and if they're worth it for me I wouldn't put a hole in my body without some info first I think its the smart thing to do"

Yes, but that info should be based on more than 'do some women who I don't know like it?'

Go and talk to a piercer, ask about the procedure, ask them to asses you for suitability (not all men are suitable). Talk to them about the healing times and the healing regime that they recommend. Ask them about how the wider community receives the piercing. They are the people who will know.

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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I would have thought a site like this would be a good place to start with people being so open about things I can't imagine a woman telling someone who pierces randomly telling them what they think or even many guys going back and saying how they felt and how its going for them maybe they do I just can't imagine it

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I've had mine for about 15 years and met anyone that did not enjoy it or had a different kind of feeling. I'd never give mine up. Start small and see how you go.

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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"I've had mine for about 15 years and met anyone that did not enjoy it or had a different kind of feeling. I'd never give mine up. Start small and see how you go. "
thank you thats the kind of info im looking for had you any problems initially after getting it done

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Not at all, it's quite straightforward and like I said not met a girl that didn't think it better. Do a bit of research and go to a proper piercer.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I love them bareback but point less with a condom.

Wouldn't do anal with one and as previously mentioned not great for bjs certainly no deep throat

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Not at all, it's quite straightforward and like I said not met a girl that didn't think it better. Do a bit of research and go to a proper piercer. "
have you any problems taking a piss etc ive heard of a shower head effect spraying everywhere

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes that can be a down point. It doesn't always happen but I tend to sit down!

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I think the benefits outweigh the disadvantages

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Yes that can be a down point. It doesn't always happen but I tend to sit down! "
that would be one thing that would put me off especially when out and about, are you circumcised

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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"I think the benefits outweigh the disadvantages "
what in your opinion do you think the benefits are apart from looking nice

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Northampton

It feels better for both parties, not had any problems with anal, it's great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought a site like this would be a good place to start with people being so open about things I can't imagine a woman telling someone who pierces randomly telling them what they think or even many guys going back and saying how they felt and how its going for them maybe they do I just can't imagine it"

Many piercers and their friends with have piercings themselves. Many will have clients who go back to them time and time again (I've been back to my piercer six times in the last ten years and we always catch up and talk about my piercings). But they are likely to be extremely knowledgable about how people are likely to react to them. It's their job to know this stuff.

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By *iercedyvonneTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Despite my appearance I don't have one but getting one is on the todo list.

Sex with another t-girl with one is high up on my bucket list.

As for damaging your banjo. I think you must be referring to frenulum piercings, which are made through the frenulum, not PA's.

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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Thank you guys surprised I didn't get more feedback still 50/50 on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any more info or opinions still trying to decide

Get it done for *you*. Not because some random strangers on an internet forum do or don't like it."

Exactly the right sentiment.

I had it done five years ago because we wanted it.

Did it hurt? Not as much as my nipple.

Did it bleed? Yes, a lot and I had to pee into bowls of warm water for two days and sit down to pee for a week.

After that, we had gentle sex two weeks after the piercing.

I don't sit to pee now (possibly due to foreskin) and I've gone from 2.5mm to 3.2 to 4mm where it is now.

Would I remove it to get a meet for us? No, its part of who we are. There's plenty of our personal friends that love it and that's good enough for us.

Do what feels right for you. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mine done about in 2000.... the actual pain is short and sharp but it bleeds like a bastard for a couple of days. If you have a foreskin it can be uncomfortable when its forward as it presses on your japseye. Mine took ages to heal but when it did it was a winner... Never had any problems or complaints about it and I would take it out if someone didn't like it. I've not had a ring through for a couple of years but could still get one through now. Pissing takes practice! its a nightmare to start with but then you learn how to without it going everywhere. A lot of it depends on how its pierced as theres a few different ways of going about it.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Seems a complete 50/50 split x

Il be watching this thread as it's definitely something I'm considering x

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"Yes that can be a down point. It doesn't always happen but I tend to sit down! "

I always sit down to pee now. I think it's an upside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one for almost 10 year. Only had one person say that they didn't like it. I've increased size to a 5mm ball closure and it's easier to pee but that's something you yourself must master and do what's best for you.

Didn't hurt getting pierced. A small nip and?it was all over. 2 weeks i was out for but again, the length of time to being fully healed varies. Aftercare is key.

Go for it, if it's not for you just remove it

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Top tip:

Don't let your other half give you a blowjob after she's been drinking white wine the day day after you have it done.

Ask me how I know this

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By *oromakotMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I had mine done in 2012 and really enjoyed having it in for a couple of years! Stretched it up to about 8mm.

For the first few months before beginning to stretch up I was occasionally a little uncomfortable during sex. But once I moved up to a 4mm ring, the extra surface area solved all that!

I recommend getting a ring with a screw in ball of you're stretching up! Sometimes as people have mentioned you may have a partner who doesn't like the ring, or you're doing anal and it gets in the way.

The screw ball rings make it a doddle to whip it off and continue without having to struggle with a captive ball ring.

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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By *jw horny OP   Man
over a year ago

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Still considering this people seem to be 50/50 on this

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


"Hi guys first time posting a thread here im thinking of getting a pa piercing and would like to know what women think of them and also would love to hear from any guy's who have them to get more info thanks for any replies"

So OP have you done it yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys first time posting a thread here im thinking of getting a pa piercing and would like to know what women think of them and also would love to hear from any guy's who have them to get more info thanks for any replies"

I had one done around 23 years ago, but took it out 15 years ago when I met my wife, as she wasn't keen on the idea. Now we're divorcing, I've thought about putting it back in (yeah, amazingly the hole is still there).

It did initially heighten sensation, but you get used to it over time. The main effect was people's curiosity once they knew. I had it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to know the pros and cons what's it like to piss with in or out does it make wanking or sex any better etc

My ex had his done, he said it hurt like hell it bled a lot and we couldn't have sex for ages as it hurt him every time we tried.

Eventually it snapped his banjo string.

He had to sit down to piss as it squirted everywhere.

The sex was the same if I'm honest it didn't make a difference.

I got used to the ring for blowjobs.

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It didn't hurt me, didn't bleed that much, certainly didn't snap anything and I was wanking within a couple of days (I wasn't seeing anyone at the time).

So sounds like your ex just had a bad experience.

I'll concur on the sitting down to piss thing, but not altogether a drawback. Have you seen the state of toilets after men have been in there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Top tip:

Don't let your other half give you a blowjob after she's been drinking white wine the day day after you have it done.

Ask me how I know this "

I'm guessing you know that because the day after you had it done you let your other half give you a blowjob after she had been drinking white wine.

Am I right?

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