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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you do when you've exhausted all opportunities as in contacted most of the profiles in your area that meet your interests and you meet thier with average hit and miss results?

Dobyou widen the net, search further afield? Do you become an annoyance and continue banging on doors that do not answer? Do you stick with what you have and not seek out anyone new?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually bash my bishop in front of vintage porn in that case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


" Do you stick with what you have and not seek out anyone new? "

Or do you look at yourself and your profile and ask yourself... "What can I improve to increase my chances?"

Cal

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

We tend to put a meet request up when we are able to play. So any guys sending speculative messages inveyween all end up in the speculative message pile.

What i mean is, just because you think people match your requirements, doesn't mean they are free to play.

And as poster above says, you could review your profile to increase your chances, as there's not much to go on.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually bash my bishop in front of vintage porn in that case "

Oh so you're saying it still wears a hat

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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

me personally I would Review your profile.

You need some more public pics, nice smiley face pics are always good, even a fun silly pic to make a lady laugh.

When you message someone they will always look at your profile and if that doesn't interest them straight away they will move on.

The first and last Bit on your profile is rather negative so if you re word that it would read better.

Send lots of messages aswell, people lead very busy lives so just because they haven't replied doesn't mean your a definate no.

Good luck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do when you've exhausted all opportunities as in contacted most of the profiles in your area that meet your interests and you meet thier with average hit and miss results?

Dobyou widen the net, search further afield? Do you become an annoyance and continue banging on doors that do not answer? Do you stick with what you have and not seek out anyone new? "

Go to clubs.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"What do you do when you've exhausted all opportunities as in contacted most of the profiles in your area that meet your interests and you meet thier with average hit and miss results?

Dobyou widen the net, search further afield? Do you become an annoyance and continue banging on doors that do not answer? Do you stick with what you have and not seek out anyone new? "

I would look at why all my efforts haven't worked and wonder what it is I'm doing wrong...and then change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try a different tactic, alter your profile, attend a club. Don't see the point in casting the net wider - women won't be different just because they live further away. But due to the ridiculous numbers of men here though, it needs to be accepted that it is mathematically impossible for all men to get a meet. Men who can't get meets and have exhausted all possibilities may just need to consider that they are one of those men.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the chin up stay positive if it isnt working for you this isnt the only place on the internet to pull woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you found people you'd want to meet?

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