FabSwingers.com forum: How do people react when you say you're a swinger?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The most positive I've had is people wanting to give it a go

The most negative is "well if you'd shag anyone where do you draw the line? You might as well shag kids"!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are inquisitive at first then finish by being a little disgusted

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Seeing as I only tell swingers that I'm a swinger, the usual reaction is 'me too!'.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Erm. It has varied. Some have laughed and said they're not surprised. A couple were genuinely shocked as they thought I was too innocent.

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By *angzMan
over a year ago

Manchester, London & sometimes Newcastle

I just don't tell anyone

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Most are inquisitive at first then finish by being a little disgusted "

I find the opposite. They start by saying "thats disgusting, how could you share your wife?" then it turns to "so whats it like to watch???"

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

They don't.

Because I don't feel the need to tell people.

My private life is just that, .....private.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

My friends thought I was coming out lol

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Shhhhhh they don't know!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

They usually think i am lying

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"They don't.

Because I don't feel the need to tell people.

My private life is just that, .....private."

They did say it was an unusual hobby to state on the job application form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't told anyone! Well apart from one of our friends but they are swingers too! I'm not sure we will ever say anything to be honest.

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

A guy at work got sacked .he wasnt popular anyway. Stories got out that he and his wife were swingers and made jokes out of them.

I just smiled to myself. If only they knew

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton

The few people that I have told all reacted the same. Complete an utter shock. Then disgust then intrigued lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't broadcast the fact like a badge of honour,few close friends have Sussed it and are fine if not a little jealous ot the fact our relationship is strong enough to allow us to do it

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I only ever told my boss and that was only because I bumped into a colleague and his wife at a club. Not that he would have told anyone, but I thought, just in case

She just went, "J, I would never have thought that you could do that". Didn't know whether to take it as a compliment (I am such a good girl) or as an insult (who on Earth would want you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only people we have told is the nurses at the GUM clinic.

We wouldn't care what others think. We aren't hurting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't tell anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The most positive I've had is people wanting to give it a go

The most negative is "well if you'd shag anyone where do you draw the line? You might as well shag kids"!!!

I have no idea..

I wouldn't introduce myself to anyone by saying 'hi, my names Scarlett and I'm a swinger'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tell people outside of this funny little world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say 'THAT'S why you're always so happy on a Monday!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't.

Because I don't feel the need to tell people.

My private life is just that, .....private."

And I'm not a swinger!!

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