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Cucqueaning....the hardest gig for a husband!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After years of talking about cuckolding and a few actual happenings, my wife started to really appreciate the dynamic and started harbouring the feelings of a cuckold husband.

The major difference being, a "hot wife" has no lack of offers whatsoever. A husband trying to find a willing lover/playmate has a lot of hoops to jump through.

A former colleague of mine who just happened to fancy me, jumped at the chance and we had some incredible times together, including 3 way with her husband! I think that the planets made an exceptionally rare alignment.

Trying to find a woman who is single and adventurous enough to step into the bedroom shoes of a wife is a rare unicorn indeed. I'm hoping to find one such unicorn on here!

How many women on here are aware of cucqueaning, I wonder???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not uncommon within the fetish scene. I know quite a few cuckquean couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckqueans are more common than you think... It's just a little more hidden than cuckholding on sites like Fab.

Usually (but not always) the dynamics in cuckquean relationships are a little different... Quite often the cuckquean will often be the recruiter of talent for her man. Those recruited are referred to as cuckcakes...Commonly someone younger who can be taught the Ropes...

This is it always the case but it's your most published dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's definitely a growing fetish as women generally feel more empowered and also, probably as a result of the massive growth in cuckolding over recent years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It makes some sense that the cucquean procures the second woman. It would be easier for her to put across the role requirements to said 3rd party. It could also be seen as topping from the bottom though? Like I said, it's a tough gig for a man....unless you look like Brad Pitt in his hey-day and have the charm to back it up!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I've never heard of this situation ever..wow I've learnt something interesting today! .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what tray does for me and she loves me going off with other women and we've been lucky to find two or three willing participants who are unfortunately busy thus weekend as she is trying to set a meet up for the weekend for me so any willing participants please contact tray

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Our dynamic has always been me watching my wife have fun , but last year she developed a pang to watch me . Did it a few times but strangely got a bit if performance anxiety .

Anyway done it a few times this year and although I am better than I was , I still struggle a bit

So while not ruling it out totally , I'm happier watching her and joining in with group scenarios than performing for her delectation .

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Our dynamic has always been me watching my wife have fun , but last year she developed a pang to watch me . Did it a few times but strangely got a bit if performance anxiety .

Anyway done it a few times this year and although I am better than I was , I still struggle a bit

So while not ruling it out totally , I'm happier watching her and joining in with group scenarios than performing for her delectation ."

That's interesting. Is the fact she's watching or you feel you have to perform to a certain level that causes the anxiety?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Our dynamic has always been me watching my wife have fun , but last year she developed a pang to watch me . Did it a few times but strangely got a bit if performance anxiety .

Anyway done it a few times this year and although I am better than I was , I still struggle a bit

So while not ruling it out totally , I'm happier watching her and joining in with group scenarios than performing for her delectation .

That's interesting. Is the fact she's watching or you feel you have to perform to a certain level that causes the anxiety?"

A bit of both I think

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