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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're both trying to slim down a bit as we feel really conscious when naked with others and deep down we're not happy with our ever expanding waistlines.

I know I feel so much happier inside and I'm not so judgemental of other people when I feel ok about myself.

One of the joys of getting older xx

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By *angzMan
over a year ago

Manchester, London & sometimes Newcastle

Just seen your pics. Wouldn't say you're overweight at all. (your photos look great btw).

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Lol no hope for me then.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nothing to worry about - all looks good from here.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If your overweight I am obese Jesus

TBH I need to loose a stone or two and tone up but at the end of the day I have a smiley face and decent attidue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look fantastic on your pics

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By *inkyandperky555Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Here here

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Confidence and being comfortable with how you are is far more attractive than skinny.

Your pics look wonderful too x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I know exactly what you mean,I think I've gone up two skirt sizes in the last year

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I need to lose a couple of stone but that's more about health than looks as I really don't care if other people don't like the look of me.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I could do with losing a stone for health reasons...I had my first Over 50s Health MOT check, recently. .. apart from hat I'm comfy with how I look to other Fabbers

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Lol no hope for me then..... "

They didn't mention anything about other people, just how they felt about being overweight themselves.

If you are happy and confident the size you are then there is every hope for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost 4 stone and changed dress size from a 22 to a 14...my confidence hasn't changed in the slightest however I understand the pressures some ladies and gemts feel on here...i have always felt that there is someone who will find you attractive so no one should worry...jusy go about being yourself with natural confidence and what will be will be...huge hi to people of all sizes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're both trying to slim down a bit as we feel really conscious when naked with others and deep down we're not happy with our ever expanding waistlines.

I know I feel so much happier inside and I'm not so judgemental of other people when I feel ok about myself.

One of the joys of getting older xx"

You look unbelievably hot in your pics, amazing ass

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Lol no hope for me then.....

They didn't mention anything about other people, just how they felt about being overweight themselves.

If you are happy and confident the size you are then there is every hope for you. "

(I've missed your sensible posts...and predictive text funnies).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to lose 2 more stone to be a bit more body confident myself,very rarely show my belly in pics.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also trying to slim down. It's not easy. I let myself down by letting myself get fat in the first place.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Cant see any extra weight on your photos and curves are so much fun. Looking good there.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Good luck, OP. I too have let myself go but am back in the gym with a PT; week 3 and everything aches [again] but am already lowering my resting heart rate

Please don't listen to the sycophants. Only you know if you are overweight/unfit or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're both trying to slim down a bit as we feel really conscious when naked with others and deep down we're not happy with our ever expanding waistlines.

I know I feel so much happier inside and I'm not so judgemental of other people when I feel ok about myself.

One of the joys of getting older xx"

We're the same op, and can definitely relate! Both on diets as we speak, well, I should say "back on the diets" after the usual weekend binge!! The problem we have is "weekend weakness!". We lose on average of at least 4-5 pounds during the week, but put about 6-8 back on over the weekend!! Madness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look terrific.

It seems from my experience of swing clubs, that the majority of swingers carry a few extra pounds exactly the same as the majority of the uk do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're both trying to slim down a bit as we feel really conscious when naked with others and deep down we're not happy with our ever expanding waistlines.

I know I feel so much happier inside and I'm not so judgemental of other people when I feel ok about myself.

One of the joys of getting older xx

We're the same op, and can definitely relate! Both on diets as we speak, well, I should say "back on the diets" after the usual weekend binge!! The problem we have is "weekend weakness!". We lose on average of at least 4-5 pounds during the week, but put about 6-8 back on over the weekend!! Madness! "

Not really. Sounds as though you are losing water weight, rather than fat weight. Hence why you fluctuate so dramatically.

Are you dropping carbs by any chance? Drastically cutting carbs reduces water, as carbs hold on to water. Again, hence the fluctuations.

Lean meats and leafy greens are usually the way to go. Up protein intake regardless of whatever diet you go on. Protein enhances satiety and increases something called thermogenesis. Basically your body will burn calories while processing the carbs.

When it comes to exercise weight training and HIIT are the way to go, along with a calorie controlled diet and readjustment of your macro nutrient ratio's. Basically drop calories, reduce carbs, increase protein and fat ratio's and drink plenty of water. eat a small amount of carbs only pre and post exercise only ( along with some protein) and follow an intermittent fasting strategy.

LOL! I'll stop there as this is not a fitness or nutritional site. I do get carried away sometimes.

But stick to these rules and you should see a drop in body fat.

Oh, and use an online calorie intake requirement calculator to estimate your daily calorie requirements for weight loss.

That's about it, except don't do hours of cardio, it makes you hungry and reduces lean muscle mass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful couple.....No need to worry at all!!

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria


"Lol no hope for me then..... "

Pfffft says miss sexiness herself. I wouldn't change one tiny part of you. You always get my motor running!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're not as trim as we look in the pictures. The OH is very good at taking photos and cropping them well. But thanks for the lovely comments, still need to get this diet and exercise sorted though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need to lose 2 more stone to be a bit more body confident myself,very rarely show my belly in pics.x"

I'm still perving over your pictures. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me i can feel sexier when ive got a few pounds on - depends on my mindset - although generally im happier when there is less of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I agree, it's not for anyone else, just for me, clothes fit better, I feel happier and I'm more chilled out. Just gotta get a stone or two off before summer xx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"We're both trying to slim down a bit as we feel really conscious when naked with others and deep down we're not happy with our ever expanding waistlines.

I know I feel so much happier inside and I'm not so judgemental of other people when I feel ok about myself.

One of the joys of getting older xx

We're the same op, and can definitely relate! Both on diets as we speak, well, I should say "back on the diets" after the usual weekend binge!! The problem we have is "weekend weakness!". We lose on average of at least 4-5 pounds during the week, but put about 6-8 back on over the weekend!! Madness!

Not really. Sounds as though you are losing water weight, rather than fat weight. Hence why you fluctuate so dramatically.

Are you dropping carbs by any chance? Drastically cutting carbs reduces water, as carbs hold on to water. Again, hence the fluctuations.

Lean meats and leafy greens are usually the way to go. Up protein intake regardless of whatever diet you go on. Protein enhances satiety and increases something called thermogenesis. Basically your body will burn calories while processing the carbs.

When it comes to exercise weight training and HIIT are the way to go, along with a calorie controlled diet and readjustment of your macro nutrient ratio's. Basically drop calories, reduce carbs, increase protein and fat ratio's and drink plenty of water. eat a small amount of carbs only pre and post exercise only ( along with some protein) and follow an intermittent fasting strategy.

LOL! I'll stop there as this is not a fitness or nutritional site. I do get carried away sometimes.

But stick to these rules and you should see a drop in body fat.

Oh, and use an online calorie intake requirement calculator to estimate your daily calorie requirements for weight loss.

That's about it, except don't do hours of cardio, it makes you hungry and reduces lean muscle mass."

Phew that sound's like much to hard work to me,I'm exhausted reading it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no way you guys should be worried about being overweight, from what I've seen of your profile pics you look fantastic and should be proud to be naked with others, I for one would be more than happy to see you as nature intended!!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both just started our summer diet, whatever size anyone is it's about spark & personality more....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the things I love about fab is that a great majority of the ladies in couples are quite curvy. I love women who are around a 16-18 dress size and so did everbody else till the mainstream media started bombarding us with images of slimmer and slimmer women from the 90s onwards.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"One of the things I love about fab is that a great majority of the ladies in couples are quite curvy. I love women who are around a 16-18 dress size and so did everbody else till the mainstream media started bombarding us with images of slimmer and slimmer women from the 90s onwards."

Oh it's a good job I'm working my way up to a 16 then I suppose,I've kinda gone up 2 skirt sizes in just over a year so I'm well on my way . I didn't realise everyone prefered the more curvy woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys you look fantastic. I haven't read all posts so forgive me if I'm repeating. I think the problem stems from what society has decided to call "normal." Society being the media and Hollywood. The beauty of us humans is the natural variation so embrace what you have. And curves are hot! I'd sooner curves than a skeleton. No offence to the really skinny ladies there - you guys are gorgeous too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing wrong with wanting to shed a few pounds n look good,,good ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics are amazing trust me I'm a vertically and dimensionally challenged and your figure is lovely. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have issues with my body but I also dont have issues with anyone else's! Attractiveness is about much more than a body. Someone with confidence and a naughty glint in their eye will win me over no matter what their body looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look great but if you want a change in lifestyle I'd recommend eating paleo....but it can be tough to stick to 100%. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging from some of the threads over the weekend I'd say there wasn't any, everyone on the Forum at least seems to be losing weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find lots of curvy or bbw type ladies on the scene that it can seem that the leggy slim catwalk model types are in the minority.

As for men though, I think that a lot of people are looking for the tall six packed adonis to fulfil their fantasy rather than the plump bald bloke with the darts player physique. Although a good positive attitude and personality will go a long way to unlocking the doors to swinging success.

It's worth remembering that attraction comes in many forms and beauty is only skin deep. Some of the most pretty and visually pleasing people can very quickly become repulsive once you talk to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking good op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a lovely lady sucking my old chap or her allowing me to taster her or enter her the last thing I would be thinking is. Blimey girl you old bloater. You need to lay off the seconds at the dinner table.

I think this just might be a look at me tell me I'm great thread.

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

I'm a stone down since February! Whoop!

Oh and my flexibility is great

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"We're both trying to slim down a bit as we feel really conscious when naked with others and deep down we're not happy with our ever expanding waistlines.

I know I feel so much happier inside and I'm not so judgemental of other people when I feel ok about myself.

One of the joys of getting older xx

We're the same op, and can definitely relate! Both on diets as we speak, well, I should say "back on the diets" after the usual weekend binge!! The problem we have is "weekend weakness!". We lose on average of at least 4-5 pounds during the week, but put about 6-8 back on over the weekend!! Madness!

Not really. Sounds as though you are losing water weight, rather than fat weight. Hence why you fluctuate so dramatically.

Are you dropping carbs by any chance? Drastically cutting carbs reduces water, as carbs hold on to water. Again, hence the fluctuations.

Lean meats and leafy greens are usually the way to go. Up protein intake regardless of whatever diet you go on. Protein enhances satiety and increases something called thermogenesis. Basically your body will burn calories while processing the carbs.

When it comes to exercise weight training and HIIT are the way to go, along with a calorie controlled diet and readjustment of your macro nutrient ratio's. Basically drop calories, reduce carbs, increase protein and fat ratio's and drink plenty of water. eat a small amount of carbs only pre and post exercise only ( along with some protein) and follow an intermittent fasting strategy.

LOL! I'll stop there as this is not a fitness or nutritional site. I do get carried away sometimes.

But stick to these rules and you should see a drop in body fat.

Oh, and use an online calorie intake requirement calculator to estimate your daily calorie requirements for weight loss.

That's about it, except don't do hours of cardio, it makes you hungry and reduces lean muscle mass.

Phew that sound's like much to hard work to me,I'm exhausted reading it "

I can 'gym-share'. I'll do the first two paragraphs if someone else does the rest

Being serious; very good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're both trying to slim down a bit as we feel really conscious when naked with others and deep down we're not happy with our ever expanding waistlines.

I know I feel so much happier inside and I'm not so judgemental of other people when I feel ok about myself.

One of the joys of getting older xx"

You both look amazing as you are !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with your bodies OP

Just smile and wave at the haters while you're getting your mojo on

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're both trying to slim down a bit as we feel really conscious when naked with others and deep down we're not happy with our ever expanding waistlines.

I know I feel so much happier inside and I'm not so judgemental of other people when I feel ok about myself.

One of the joys of getting older xx

We're the same op, and can definitely relate! Both on diets as we speak, well, I should say "back on the diets" after the usual weekend binge!! The problem we have is "weekend weakness!". We lose on average of at least 4-5 pounds during the week, but put about 6-8 back on over the weekend!! Madness!

Not really. Sounds as though you are losing water weight, rather than fat weight. Hence why you fluctuate so dramatically.

Are you dropping carbs by any chance? Drastically cutting carbs reduces water, as carbs hold on to water. Again, hence the fluctuations.

Lean meats and leafy greens are usually the way to go. Up protein intake regardless of whatever diet you go on. Protein enhances satiety and increases something called thermogenesis. Basically your body will burn calories while processing the carbs.

When it comes to exercise weight training and HIIT are the way to go, along with a calorie controlled diet and readjustment of your macro nutrient ratio's. Basically drop calories, reduce carbs, increase protein and fat ratio's and drink plenty of water. eat a small amount of carbs only pre and post exercise only ( along with some protein) and follow an intermittent fasting strategy.

LOL! I'll stop there as this is not a fitness or nutritional site. I do get carried away sometimes.

But stick to these rules and you should see a drop in body fat.

Oh, and use an online calorie intake requirement calculator to estimate your daily calorie requirements for weight loss.

That's about it, except don't do hours of cardio, it makes you hungry and reduces lean muscle mass.

Phew that sound's like much to hard work to me,I'm exhausted reading it

I can 'gym-share'. I'll do the first two paragraphs if someone else does the rest

Being serious; very good advice"

I agree too! I do resistance exercise. Have to be honest, I've lost maybe 8lb but I'm toning and lost a dress size.

OP have a look at Emily Skye. She knows exactly what she's talking about when it comes to using weights and loosing fat/toning.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't realise you had to be a certain size to swing?

*leaves the site*

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"

Phew that sound's like much to hard work to me,I'm exhausted reading it

I can 'gym-share'. I'll do the first two paragraphs if someone else does the rest

Being serious; very good advice"

Well for some reason he's now taken out the paragraph which says eat as much chocolate as you want so I'll take that one

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking "

You're a cynic . In all seriousness I know what they're saying. I've alway's been slim,but in the last year or so I've really put on weight around my tummy,which is not normal for me. I wouldn't mind so much if it gave me bigger boob's but it doesn't it just settles around my waist. Over a year ago I was a size 8,now I'm more like a size 12 in jeans,but my boob's are still the same.

It make's me feel uncomfortable and bloated and it certainly doesn't make me want to get undressed for a man!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"

Phew that sound's like much to hard work to me,I'm exhausted reading it

I can 'gym-share'. I'll do the first two paragraphs if someone else does the rest

Being serious; very good advice

Well for some reason he's now taken out the paragraph which says eat as much chocolate as you want so I'll take that one "

My PT texted me this morning to ask how I was feeling; said to her that my ears and nose were ok but everything else hurt. She told me to remember that next time I head for the fridge; b*tch

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

TBH everyone on here looks great, it's true what someone mentioned earlier about being happy in your own skin and I agree that no matter what someone's size or shape, it's how you carry it off that makes you hot.

Losing weight can be difficult, I've lost 16lb in 10 weeks, mainly down to food portion size and cutting down on alcohol. On top of that I've been doing various 30 day exercise apps, you do them in the comfort of your own home and no weights or equipment are required, perfect for those who don't fancy subscribing to a gym membership that probably won't be utilised.

Good luck..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"

Phew that sound's like much to hard work to me,I'm exhausted reading it

I can 'gym-share'. I'll do the first two paragraphs if someone else does the rest

Being serious; very good advice

Well for some reason he's now taken out the paragraph which says eat as much chocolate as you want so I'll take that one

My PT texted me this morning to ask how I was feeling; said to her that my ears and nose were ok but everything else hurt. She told me to remember that next time I head for the fridge; b*tch "

See I need someone like that,but to take it really easy on me . My energy levels have seriously gone down I haven't been to the gym in week's

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking "

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it? "

Says the bloke with the ripped six pack xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If I lose weight it won't be because of this site. I lost a lot a couple of years ago and it made no difference to my meet success whatsoever. I'm not saying most men are pre-disposed towards the larger lady, but most men don't seem to care about what a woman looks like compared to what we think we look like. As long as you are comfortable and can still get your legs up its probably all fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking "

Not touting for anything, but as you'll see from the tread there's lots of men and women that feel the same. Some of the comments have been really helpful xx

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it? "

To be fair , I can't see the point in most of the threads posted on here .

This thread doesn't come across as overly attention seeking , lots of us see this time of the year as an ideal time to get fit and healthy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking "

I don't see it as that, but I suppose it wouldn't bother me even if they were. I know people who have great figures, but are vocally unhappy about certain parts... They're just starting a thread about something they're currently doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some people just like to look on negative side of life. I find I'm more like that when I'm feeling rubbish about myself, hence wanting to get a bit trimmer for the summer. But thank you for your positive comment it's very much appreciated xx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Some people just like to look on negative side of life. I find I'm more like that when I'm feeling rubbish about myself, hence wanting to get a bit trimmer for the summer. But thank you for your positive comment it's very much appreciated xx"

Nope not remotely a negative person

Not feeling shit about myself in any way presently

Just stating an opinion on these type of threads

Sorry you clearly didn't like it

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By *enfold75Man
over a year ago

hemel hempstead

Hi I've just seen your pics and you fantastic the way you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont mind at all, it's your opinion, that's cool. I try not to be negative on people's threads, I try and find the good in people, but that's just me.

It would be a boring world if we were all the same xx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I dont mind at all, it's your opinion, that's cool. I try not to be negative on people's threads, I try and find the good in people, but that's just me.

It would be a boring world if we were all the same xx"

That it would

Most have disagreed with me anyway so shouldn't let it phase you

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Need to lose 2 more stone to be a bit more body confident myself,very rarely show my belly in pics.x"

bloody tasty as you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly how you feel op. I am far bigger than I feel comfortable with and will only meet certain people at the moment because of it. Until I am at a size I feel happy and comfortable with I just don't feel confident enough to meet new people. ..not because of what I think they'll say or what they might think but because of how I feel about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have about four stone to lose (guy ) and Ive been trying to do that forever but If people judge you because of how you look and not who you are ,, are they really worth getting to know anyway ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont mind at all, it's your opinion, that's cool. I try not to be negative on people's threads, I try and find the good in people, but that's just me.

It would be a boring world if we were all the same xx

That it would

Most have disagreed with me anyway so shouldn't let it phase you

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You haven't phased me, why would you think youve phased me? xx

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it?

Says the bloke with the ripped six pack xx"

Haha,thanks..again i don't see the point. What's my physique got to do with anything?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know exactly how you feel op. I am far bigger than I feel comfortable with and will only meet certain people at the moment because of it. Until I am at a size I feel happy and comfortable with I just don't feel confident enough to meet new people. ..not because of what I think they'll say or what they might think but because of how I feel about me. "

Thank you, yes that's exactly how we feel, there's so many couples we'd love to play with but we would feel fat and rubbish in front of them. So we've decided to use this site as an incentive to lose a few of the wobbly bits xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it?

Says the bloke with the ripped six pack xx

Haha,thanks..again i don't see the point. What's my physique got to do with anything? "

You've got a lovely body. I'd like a lovely body too, perhaps not as lovely as yours but just not as wobbly as I am at the moment xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have about four stone to lose (guy ) and Ive been trying to do that forever but If people judge you because of how you look and not who you are ,, are they really worth getting to know anyway ? "

It's not how others see me or us, but how we feel about ourselves xx

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I know exactly how you feel op. I am far bigger than I feel comfortable with and will only meet certain people at the moment because of it. Until I am at a size I feel happy and comfortable with I just don't feel confident enough to meet new people. ..not because of what I think they'll say or what they might think but because of how I feel about me.

Thank you, yes that's exactly how we feel, there's so many couples we'd love to play with but we would feel fat and rubbish in front of them. So we've decided to use this site as an incentive to lose a few of the wobbly bits xx"

OP, I really cannot understand the negative comments on this thread. It is your body and it is up to you if you wish to get fitter or fatter. You have chosen to get fitter and all the best in achieving your goal; x

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

We all have sonething we don't like about ourselves...that's why certain people will only meet certain types of people because we are very conscious of what others will think about us..hence why all of us try to take complimentary pictures and not just upload the first one we take lol. It's very f@#ked up that a lady can start a thread like this and get advice/positive comments but if a single guy did he'd be slated as fishing for compliments etc..I've seen the posts and I just cringe at the site of some of the comments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think some people equate being nasty to making themselves feel slightly better. I don't get it either. But thank you for you positive words xx

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP it sounds as though what you are both doing is making you happy,so carry on. When you are happy the world does seem a better place.

I am currently loosing weight and going to the gym. I feel great as well, so know how you feel

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it?

Says the bloke with the ripped six pack xx

Haha,thanks..again i don't see the point. What's my physique got to do with anything?

You've got a lovely body. I'd like a lovely body too, perhaps not as lovely as yours but just not as wobbly as I am at the moment xx"

I personally don't believe there is anything wrong with your physique. Is it toning up you'd like to achieve or loose weight or both? X

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it?

Says the bloke with the ripped six pack xx

Haha,thanks..again i don't see the point. What's my physique got to do with anything? "

The point is that to them they feel overweight and so feel uncomfortable getting naked in front of other people. It is not about whether or not you think they are.

I wouldn't day they were overweight myself but if they are used to being a certain weight /size it can knock your confidence being even a few lbs over.

Every time anyone posts on here they are hoping someone will look at them.... Even you so stating its a look at me thread is what is really pointless, not the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all have sonething we don't like about ourselves...that's why certain people will only meet certain types of people because we are very conscious of what others will think about us..hence why all of us try to take complimentary pictures and not just upload the first one we take lol. It's very f@#ked up that a lady can start a thread like this and get advice/positive comments but if a single guy did he'd be slated as fishing for compliments etc..I've seen the posts and I just cringe at the site of some of the comments. "

Of course we all have insecurities, but I think some of the comments on here have been really helpful and positive. One of the guys is willing to help with our diets and exercise. It's been great and really helpful and motivating for us both xx

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"We all have sonething we don't like about ourselves...that's why certain people will only meet certain types of people because we are very conscious of what others will think about us..hence why all of us try to take complimentary pictures and not just upload the first one we take lol. It's very f@#ked up that a lady can start a thread like this and get advice/positive comments but if a single guy did he'd be slated as fishing for compliments etc..I've seen the posts and I just cringe at the site of some of the comments.

Of course we all have insecurities, but I think some of the comments on here have been really helpful and positive. One of the guys is willing to help with our diets and exercise. It's been great and really helpful and motivating for us both xx"

You won't have to go too far..youve got a great foundation to start with..just remember its a process and not a quick fix you're after yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look amazing from your pictures. I feel very sexy in clothes and underwear but very self-conscious being naked. I have a fat wrinkly belly after 4 children. But I know it's my insecurities and others would probably not even notice..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, it has to be consistent, we're at that age where the weight doesn't drop off as easily xx

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it?

Says the bloke with the ripped six pack xx

Haha,thanks..again i don't see the point. What's my physique got to do with anything?

The point is that to them they feel overweight and so feel uncomfortable getting naked in front of other people. It is not about whether or not you think they are.

I wouldn't day they were overweight myself but if they are used to being a certain weight /size it can knock your confidence being even a few lbs over.

Every time anyone posts on here they are hoping someone will look at them.... Even you so stating its a look at me thread is what is really pointless, not the OP. "

Okay..so now I'm being told why I comment in the forums lol..didnt have to wait long ay haha. I actually did so because it's about loosing weight and wanted people to look at my comments. I'm not bothered one bit if people"look at me". I certainly don't come to the forums for that. But thanks for the throw away comment

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"No, it has to be consistent, we're at that age where the weight doesn't drop off as easily xx"

Start as you mean to go on and you won't go wrong.. any advice needed. Pm me guys. I'm outta here. Good luck on your journey. I know how hard it can be x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it?

Says the bloke with the ripped six pack xx

Haha,thanks..again i don't see the point. What's my physique got to do with anything?

The point is that to them they feel overweight and so feel uncomfortable getting naked in front of other people. It is not about whether or not you think they are.

I wouldn't day they were overweight myself but if they are used to being a certain weight /size it can knock your confidence being even a few lbs over.

Every time anyone posts on here they are hoping someone will look at them.... Even you so stating its a look at me thread is what is really pointless, not the OP.

Okay..so now I'm being told why I comment in the forums lol..didnt have to wait long ay haha. I actually did so because it's about loosing weight and wanted people to look at my comments. I'm not bothered one bit if people"look at me". I certainly don't come to the forums for that. But thanks for the throw away comment "

You wrote the second paragraph accusing the op of purely looking for compliments and being a look at me thread and agreeing with someone else saying they were fishing for compliments.

Of course you want people to look at you, maybe subconsciously but it's what we are all here for otherwise you would have no pictures up. Every interaction we ever make invites people to look at us and notice us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Black, white, unite, don't fight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overweight ? Youre crazy, youre jaw droppingly,red hot, sex goddess ! Yum yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats good you know others wont see it because again i think youre a sex goddess and mums are hot x

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost just shy of 3.5 stone since last June. More importantly my body shape has changed significantly with my waist dropping almost 5 inches. I've still got a bit to go weight wise. However I think that will.be very gradual as the muscle continues to build.

I do a version of 5:2, but because I'm in the gym 4-5 times a week I am careful not to overdo the diet. Basically I eat far less carbs and more protein and vegetables with a very simple whole body routine involving compound movements, weights and some cardio to build my aerobic stamina. It has also enabled to reduce my anti-hypertension medication dramatically.

I still enjoy a more relaxed approach at the weekends but don't over indulge and workout at least once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good for you, and you look great for it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good for you, and you look great for it xx"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could do with losing a stone for health reasons...I had my first Over 50s Health MOT check, recently. .. apart from hat I'm comfy with how I look to other Fabbers"

Buy a new hat then!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking

Most definite. Is this a thread to get some compliments or a (look at me thread) as I don't really get the point of it?

Says the bloke with the ripped six pack xx

Haha,thanks..again i don't see the point. What's my physique got to do with anything?

The point is that to them they feel overweight and so feel uncomfortable getting naked in front of other people. It is not about whether or not you think they are.

I wouldn't day they were overweight myself but if they are used to being a certain weight /size it can knock your confidence being even a few lbs over.

Every time anyone posts on here they are hoping someone will look at them.... Even you so stating its a look at me thread is what is really pointless, not the OP.

Okay..so now I'm being told why I comment in the forums lol..didnt have to wait long ay haha. I actually did so because it's about loosing weight and wanted people to look at my comments. I'm not bothered one bit if people"look at me". I certainly don't come to the forums for that. But thanks for the throw away comment

You wrote the second paragraph accusing the op of purely looking for compliments and being a look at me thread and agreeing with someone else saying they were fishing for compliments.

Of course you want people to look at you, maybe subconsciously but it's what we are all here for otherwise you would have no pictures up. Every interaction we ever make invites people to look at us and notice us. "

You seem like a educated person..so check again before you come storming in..i asked a question..hence the said question Mark. Chill yuh beans yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind at all, it's your opinion, that's cool. I try not to be negative on people's threads, I try and find the good in people, but that's just me.

It would be a boring world if we were all the same xx

That it would

Most have disagreed with me anyway so shouldn't let it *phase you

"

*faze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me a cynic but when I see thread like this from people with pics like the OPs I can't help but think they're just touting for compliments/attention seeking "

Yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is a great way to burn calories... but you need to keep a regular exercise regime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

overweight swingers,,too many of em

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