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Does winking work?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it?

Does anyone reply to a wink I do if theyre local to me, beyond that I dont see the point as to me a wink is the first step in an introduction and highly unlikely I'll be meeting with someone from Orkney anytime soon.

I send winks and do get some response - maybe 20/80 which is shit statistic really.

So are winks worth it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What impression do you get from the other thread currently running on this topic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman winks then they're guaranteed a response, if a guy winks then no chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman winks then they're guaranteed a response, if a guy winks then no chance!"

I had a great meet when I was here before from a wink. Mind you she sent it, on the rare occasions I've winked - nothing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had many a meet that started with a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use winks for making first contact. Use them to say hello to people you've met or corresponded with before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks work for us, we've met lots of lovely couples through a casual wink xx

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"If a woman winks then they're guaranteed a response, if a guy winks then no chance!"

Only if we find them attractive, we feel that we have to respond to ANYONE that we're not interested in... although we will always respond to messages.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman winks then they're guaranteed a response, if a guy winks then no chance!"

Bollocks. I respond to those I like the look of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What impression do you get from the other thread currently running on this topic?"

I did scroll through to see if there was already a thread but couldnt see one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think winks are lazy, the only resonce from us is a block

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

i dont tend to look at winks very often if i am honest... was different when i was on a couples profile due to less messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think winks are lazy, the only resonce from us is a block"

They aren't lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.....more likely to work for females.

I've had a couple of meets that started with a wink being sent my way!

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

Most would say no as there is mass confusion on what they are actually for and everyone is different.

I, myself, use winks to register interest in another's profile and if I get a wink back, I see it as a green light for sending a message.....of course this method is ok, but sometimes I will just send a message outright

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

Winks...

Just a bit of fun

Says I looked and liked

Reply or not doesn't matter

If you get a reply....result

If not you've lost nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking me works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman winks then they're guaranteed a response, if a guy winks then no chance!

Bollocks. I respond to those I like the look of"

You reply to bollocks that you like the look of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use winks. If we receive a wink that we like we will send one back (our generosity knows no bounds). We would then expect a message if the winker was interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One wonders how many winks that ladies or couples will get from posting in this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking works, but wanking is probably the more predictable route to achieving relief

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Hardly ever check them!

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By *ainbow_RoadWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

I Don't look at them....

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

Yes most definitely. I've blocked single men but if they wink me, i will look at their profile and anyone else who winks me. I prefer them to messages. There's no awkward messaging. You don't have to say no to anyone. Really cuts down on the work you have to do. I don't know why anyone wouldn't like them.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby


"Depends.....more likely to work for females.

I've had a couple of meets that started with a wink being sent my way!"

All my meets started with winking.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby


"If a woman winks then they're guaranteed a response, if a guy winks then no chance!"

Not true. All the guys I've met have winked me.

I've winked many men. About a third get back to me.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby


"We think winks are lazy, the only resonce from us is a block"

I don't get this logic. We wink. We are not lazy. Why would you assume we are lazy. I really dont think people deserve blocking for it. You could be missing out on so many gems with your attitude.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"We think winks are lazy, the only resonce from us is a block

I don't get this logic. We wink. We are not lazy. Why would you assume we are lazy. I really dont think people deserve blocking for it. You could be missing out on so many gems with your attitude. "

Its their loss -I guess.

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

It's on here for a reason and I use them and respond to them !!

Being totally honest a wink is better than half the junk mail I get

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I look at winks and reply to them if they are compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman winks then they're guaranteed a response, if a guy winks then no chance!

Bollocks. I respond to those I like the look of"

;-) ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.....more likely to work for females.

I've had a couple of meets that started with a wink being sent my way!

All my meets started with winking."

Winks from you or to you? Or both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I wink I sometimes get a response, and when other people wink at me I certainly look at their profiles to see if I want to do anything.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We use winks as an ice breaker for couples and single ladies.

As for single blokes, if we get a wink then generally they get checked out....if we think they fit what we are looking for we get in touch....same with couples and ladies who wink at us first

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