FabSwingers.com forum: Female half of couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if Mrs wanted too and knew and trusted said couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played with a couple without hubby. It's not really what I'm into though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marc and I have talked about me playing alone sometimes. However, personally, I have no desire to play alone with a couple. I could imagine playing alone with a single guy to have benefits, but if I were with a couple I think I'd have more fun if Marc were there, too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've played with a couple without hubby. It's not really what I'm into though. "

We've had loads of fake profile s for single women so we thought about the female half of a couple might be abit more reliable

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

Female half here and yes I meet alone often

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It's not a case of letting my wife play alone , she can do as she wants . It's just that we prefer to be together in this journey .

We have met and played with plenty of wives / partners with their partners knowing what they were doing though , so there are plenty that do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Female half here and yes I meet alone often

If only you were closer to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is where a more fluid approach works out. For example, you might have a threesome with Mr first, just for ease and because Mrs really needs to have socials and feel comfortable with a couple. Then Mr would recommend you to Mrs and we'd all meet and maybe have a foursome. Then, when the trust is built, Mrs would be more comfortable having a threesome and because you'd already done one with Mr there'd be a fairness and balance about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Marc and I have talked about me playing alone sometimes. However, personally, I have no desire to play alone with a couple. I could imagine playing alone with a single guy to have benefits, but if I were with a couple I think I'd have more fun if Marc were there, too. "

I think a bit like this. If I'm meeting a couple I'd rather do it with hubby. I have no issues meeting single guys alone though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my wife has played with couples on her own before and possibly will again. Yes we are a rarity, we're not like most couples on the scene.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area

Mrs plays solo a lot. Only met with one couple solo though.

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By *_and_J99Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

It's not a case of the male half letting me. I simply don't want to! I am happy meeting single females alone or even a group of single females

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet "

Still a fantasy but yes would love to watch Jo with a couple as long as their chemistry was right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are open to playing solo with a single or couple but one stipulation is that both of us must meet the single or couple together first. To keep it all above board etc..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are open to playing solo with a single or couple but one stipulation is that both of us must meet the single or couple together first. To keep it all above board etc.."

We would want to meet for a drink first before any play too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a few, but it's difficult, but i don't let the Mr touch the other lady so more fellas let there women come ,,, all the better for me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just play with a couple all together, you can then indulge your FFM fantasy at some point in the play..,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we have both chose to experience everything together I wouldn't feel comfortable if she went and played with another couple without me there. However, I do have a fantasy of watching Mrs TAN with another sexy couple, especially if they are hot! We plan to try this at a club sometime in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet "

Yes I am allowed to play on my own with whoever, although I wouldn't use "allowed" it's not like I have to beg for permission I'm free to play with whoever I want. However there are a lot of fakes on this site and I would rather we struck a deal as a lot of couples don't want to meet males they want females and it's normally down to the fact that the male half of the couple is a bit selfish in my experience, they're ok to fuck other women but don't want their Mrs fucking another guy? Seems selfish to me we have desires too. But as for the deal I would ask that we did a swap as in if I met them for fun then the female part would meet me and my husband for a ffm. Seems pretty fair to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I wanted to, I would with our mutual agreement...neither of us "lets" the other do anything, we discuss and agree. Never met anyone I've been interested in doing so with in a traditional way...i wouldn't want to feel like a couple were settling for meeting me alone because they couldn't find a single woman to meet...im not second best for anyone...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet "

I'm not sure that I have the right to grant or deny permission... Anita has no interest in playing without me, but it's her choice not mine.

Cal

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By *reeneyedbuddhaCouple
over a year ago

on tees

It's not about "let" it's a choice we make to play together. We met as singles playing and when we became an official couple decided we would happily play together but the idea of singles doesn't appeal. As a couple in the journey of swinging it's sexy to plan and flirt and talk together and the knowledge of being together at the end of a meeting that makes the experience special.

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

I would let my Mrs if I had one

Although I'd want to hear every detail when she returned home to me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet

It's good to see others proposing this type of approach. I hate to be cynical but we're currently more of the "you first" persuasion when it comes to doing this kind of thing. That means either you allow us to have an FFM with your Mrs first or you have an MMF with our Mr first. That opens the trust to reciprocating. Otherwise we suspect people would have an FFM with Mrs and disappear without ever reciprocating. One couple we're currently talking to have the right attitude. She's willing to meet Mr for a date under the agreement that if they hit it off Mrs will meet him for a date. These are both no play socials but are a fun way to start the ball rolling. If more couples took this "I'll scratch your back" approach to couples there'd be a whole lot more FFM's going on

It's nice to see this alternative approach to swinging getting some air time on the forums. It's so seldom bought to light that many people lump it in with cheating when it's actually about couples opening up more erotic possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet "
Mr would love me too... but i wouldn't

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet

I'm not sure that I have the right to grant or deny permission... Anita has no interest in playing without me, but it's her choice not mine.

Cal"

We find that an interesting statement . In non swinging partnerships which let's face it are probably 99% of partnerships ,one half of a couple most definitely has the right to deny permission for their partner to fuck anyone else.

Also in swinging partnerships one half can also deny the other anything in the sense it needs both to agree to the boundaries otherwise it's purely a 'fuck buddy ' arrangement and not a partnership of any sort.

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I'd be ok with the idea but she has no desire to, I think its right for us not to as well were on this journey of new experiences together.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We prefer to play with other people together not seperatly

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Swinging is something we do together as a couple. When we both started we discussed it and agreed that playing apart felt too close to cheating on each other somehow.

We agreed however that together there were no limits and the other could enjoy whatever they wished with whoever. Or indeed as many as they wished. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer to play with other people together not seperatly "
same here. Never seperately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Let' your other half play? Surely it's a mutual decision....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can play away on my own with another female

that's fine he doesn't have to come with me. X

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland

I would be more than happy for Lucy to play with another couple. She is out playing tonight albeit with her FB, I'm sure she would be comfortable playing with a couple too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet "

We discussed it, for when I (WB) is away with work, but HB said she doesn't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of couples on here say only the lady plays and she does alone?

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

I would if Mrs felt comfortable and wanted too

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet "

It's my choice who I play with I don't Dicks permission. We trust each other and discuss what is or isn't going to happen.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

It's not a matter of letting as we don't own each other so we make our own choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet "

My wife allows me to play.

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By *otandStickyCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We come as a team, we are a couple, it wouldn't be as much fun without my best friend there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any of you men let your other half play away with another couple? We haven't come across any yet "

Do you play separately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done it plenty of times

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By *r_Mrs890Couple
over a year ago

Cibolo/Mildenhall

The wifey has chosen to seeek other couples as her mainstay. Hubby is there for the experience to contribute to her ecstacy. There is not a let, just "As you wish"

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