FabSwingers.com forum: When is a swinger... A swinger

By *anmjmoses OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Just a question that crossed my mind the other day. Do you all label yourself as swingers i.e. In the same way a person would say I'm a smoker or I'm a runner. At what point did you accepts /define or knowingly class yourself as a swinger as opposed to someone who just likes sex. I don't think I would class myself as a swinger although been on the scene a while. Does going to swingers events etc automatically mean you are a swinger? Interested to hear your responses and experience.

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By *ire X IceCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We actually don't like the term swingers. So no we don't classify ourselves as one, but I guess we probably are?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Swingers are people who meet and have sex with other like minded people.

Anything else is simply misguided ideological illusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are just filthy deviants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should never be up to people to have to fit a definition - it's the definition that has to change to fit the people that choose to use it!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"It should never be up to people to have to fit a definition - it's the definition that has to change to fit the people that choose to use it!

Cool, I'm a triathlon champion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a question that crossed my mind the other day. Do you all label yourself as swingers i.e. In the same way a person would say I'm a smoker or I'm a runner. At what point did you accepts /define or knowingly class yourself as a swinger as opposed to someone who just likes sex. I don't think I would class myself as a swinger although been on the scene a while. Does going to swingers events etc automatically mean you are a swinger? Interested to hear your responses and experience. "

A quick skim of your verifications would lead me to believe that you are a swinger because you do things that swingers do and mix with other swingers, and attend swing parties. What I don't know is if you are a swinger as a lifestyle choice or if swinging is a stopgap for you. Maybe the latter as you acknowledge you don't consider yourself to be a swinger?

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