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Which is the most important relationship?

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By *ere2pleasureU OP   Man
over a year ago

Kington

The person you want in your life, your life partner, spouse or other significant.

Or

The dominant sought due to need to be dominated.

And how does the one wanted come to terms with their significant other needing the dominant more than them?

Deep I know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The person you want in your life, your life partner, spouse or other significant.

Or

The dominant sought due to need to be dominated.

And how does the one wanted come to terms with their significant other needing the dominant more than them?

Deep I know..."

Why can't various partners be as important as each other? Why does there have to be a hierarchy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most important relationship I have is with myself. It's the person I have to live with 24/7. Ok we might not always understand each other all of the time, but it's who I'm with constantly

Ps I hope this doesn't make me sound like a nutter

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"The person you want in your life, your life partner, spouse or other significant.

Or

The dominant sought due to need to be dominated.

And how does the one wanted come to terms with their significant other needing the dominant more than them?

Deep I know..."

Doesn't sound that deep.....a couple where one of them wants a dominant more than their partner....seems you have answered the question as to who is more important to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not have both in the same person, as I do?

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By *ere2pleasureU OP   Man
over a year ago

Kington


"The person you want in your life, your life partner, spouse or other significant.

Or

The dominant sought due to need to be dominated.

And how does the one wanted come to terms with their significant other needing the dominant more than them?

Deep I know...

Doesn't sound that deep.....a couple where one of them wants a dominant more than their partner....seems you have answered the question as to who is more important to you."

Not to me, this is about a relationship I ended as she needed her dom more than I featured as her life partner.... but the hurt still kills me and I'm still figuring it out in my head.

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By *ere2pleasureU OP   Man
over a year ago

Kington


"Why not have both in the same person, as I do?"

Because I can't commit acts of violence towards anyone, let alone the one I love.

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By *ere2pleasureU OP   Man
over a year ago

Kington

Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not have both in the same person, as I do?

Because I can't commit acts of violence towards anyone, let alone the one I love."

Ah, right, you're talking masochism rather than submission. I couldn't combine love with that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The person you want in your life, your life partner, spouse or other significant.

Or

The dominant sought due to need to be dominated.

And how does the one wanted come to terms with their significant other needing the dominant more than them?

Deep I know...

Doesn't sound that deep.....a couple where one of them wants a dominant more than their partner....seems you have answered the question as to who is more important to you.

Not to me, this is about a relationship I ended as she needed her dom more than I featured as her life partner.... but the hurt still kills me and I'm still figuring it out in my head."

You're overthinking it, logic doesn't always apply to people's motivations. Just accept it and move on, you weren't what she needed.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"The person you want in your life, your life partner, spouse or other significant.

Or

The dominant sought due to need to be dominated.

And how does the one wanted come to terms with their significant other needing the dominant more than them?

Deep I know..."

Sounds shallow to us.

What you are really asking is what should be more important the parenter one is committed to or ones own wants?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The person you want in your life, your life partner, spouse or other significant.

Or

The dominant sought due to need to be dominated.

And how does the one wanted come to terms with their significant other needing the dominant more than them?

Deep I know...

Sounds shallow to us.

What you are really asking is what should be more important the parenter one is committed to or ones own wants?"

Of course the answer is that you should make yourself happy before making other people happy.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

No brainer. The life partner is the most important. I can't see how having a dom who isn't one of the partners can work (for couples).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No brainer. The life partner is the most important. I can't see how having a dom who isn't one of the partners can work (for couples). "

I don't understand how you think it couldn't work?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"No brainer. The life partner is the most important. I can't see how having a dom who isn't one of the partners can work (for couples).

I don't understand how you think it couldn't work?"

Because you are single /poly. I can't understand a dom who is not one of the established couple working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most important relationships in my life are between me, myself and I.

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