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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

be honest...

do lots of verifications put you off?? if so why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...it's not something I'm precious about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, they don't ...

I'd rather make my own mind up about someone tbh

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Love reading verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are a bit on the nasty side and really ott with lamp post pissing ie: 'stay away he's mine' in them then I am cautious

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Nope. Why join a site like this and expect not to see people who meet for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...I have alot so would be hypocritical of me to get pissy about other peoples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get quiet a few messages...

ewww how many veris?? Slag

your must be easy how many veris

you must have a bucket with amount of veris you have....

I can't win!! I'm on a swingers site & I attend party's clubs etc I can get loads of veris from one event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get quiet a few messages...

ewww how many veris?? Slag

your must be easy how many veris

you must have a bucket with amount of veris you have....

I can't win!! I'm on a swingers site & I attend party's clubs etc I can get loads of veris from one event "

try blocking out the negativity...you don't need it and they are probably a*she*les anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't usually let it get to me. but I don't want people to be put off meeting me because I have lots of veris xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get quiet a few messages...

ewww how many veris?? Slag

your must be easy how many veris

you must have a bucket with amount of veris you have....

I can't win!! I'm on a swingers site & I attend party's clubs etc I can get loads of veris from one event "

I haven't had anything said to me...but guys I have met have had crap from other women about playing with me, because of them...don't worry about it...as long as you are being true to you then fuck the haters....or don't in this case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"be honest...

do lots of verifications put you off?? if so why?? "

I suppose they do to some people.

Its maybe the...

Who wants to fuck the local bike mentality ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't usually let it get to me. but I don't want people to be put off meeting me because I have lots of veris xx"

If it bothers you then hide them. If it doesn't just ignore those that comment. I'd personally block those that comment as you're not likely to see eye to eye enough to meet.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I agree can be outputting if loads from same person or one everyday ,otherwise doesnt bother us.

Miss

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"be honest...

do lots of verifications put you off?? if so why??

I suppose they do to some people.

Its maybe the...

Who wants to fuck the local bike mentality ?"

Kinda agree with this however it depends on how long the persons been on fab and how many veris are from the same people/or non-play veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get quiet a few messages...

ewww how many veris?? Slag

your must be easy how many veris

you must have a bucket with amount of veris you have....

I can't win!! I'm on a swingers site & I attend party's clubs etc I can get loads of veris from one event

I haven't had anything said to me...but guys I have met have had crap from other women about playing with me, because of them...don't worry about it...as long as you are being true to you then fuck the haters....or don't in this case "

I end up blocking the guys that try to play this game. What reason could they possibly have for telling you that they get crap from other women because they met you? They are spineless in my opinion.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

No unless there is a massive long string of recent ones all from the same person. That reeks of territory marking and I can't be doing with treading on someone else's supposed fab toes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get quiet a few messages...

ewww how many veris?? Slag

your must be easy how many veris

you must have a bucket with amount of veris you have....

I can't win!! I'm on a swingers site & I attend party's clubs etc I can get loads of veris from one event "

I've had the slut message yesterday, I told the narrow minded idiot to go and give his head a wobble. What I choose to do is my business and should he feel bothered by it then not to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is too promiscuous for a swinger? When should a swinger stop as that's too many partners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"be honest...

do lots of verifications put you off?? if so why?? "

Rarely look at them tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope.

it will with some people though.

no verifications will put some people off though too. in fact any number might be 'wrong' for someone out there

if you like them, keep them, it's your profile, let it attract the kind of people who like you and the things you like you like

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"be honest...

do lots of verifications put you off?? if so why??

Rarely look at them tbh. "

this. I look to see when the most recent one was. If it was 2014 that would put me off far more than 3 in the last month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get quiet a few messages...

ewww how many veris?? Slag

your must be easy how many veris

you must have a bucket with amount of veris you have....

I can't win!! I'm on a swingers site & I attend party's clubs etc I can get loads of veris from one event

I haven't had anything said to me...but guys I have met have had crap from other women about playing with me, because of them...don't worry about it...as long as you are being true to you then fuck the haters....or don't in this case

I end up blocking the guys that try to play this game. What reason could they possibly have for telling you that they get crap from other women because they met you? They are spineless in my opinion. "

The guys that have told me are friends so ya know...but have one or two local females that have been pretty shitty about me...to others aswell as slyly, in statuses etc...so much for girl power n all that...but nevermind ... I don't even know them so won't let it change me

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

It's the content of veris which might bother me, not the quantity. In fact, being so nosey, I quite like to look through a large number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get quiet a few messages...

ewww how many veris?? Slag

your must be easy how many veris

you must have a bucket with amount of veris you have....

I can't win!! I'm on a swingers site & I attend party's clubs etc I can get loads of veris from one event

I haven't had anything said to me...but guys I have met have had crap from other women about playing with me, because of them...don't worry about it...as long as you are being true to you then fuck the haters....or don't in this case

I end up blocking the guys that try to play this game. What reason could they possibly have for telling you that they get crap from other women because they met you? They are spineless in my opinion.

The guys that have told me are friends so ya know...but have one or two local females that have been pretty shitty about me...to others aswell as slyly, in statuses etc...so much for girl power n all that...but nevermind ... I don't even know them so won't let it change me "

I still don't get why they would tell you unless they're trying to stir. A true friend would tell the haters to mind their own business and spare your feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen this topic arise alot .. check out the search button on veris.. you will have your answer OP

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"What is too promiscuous for a swinger? When should a swinger stop as that's too many partners?"

not everyone on here is a swinger though ,

and number of veries only matter if its contradictory to the narrative you are using when dealing with others .

IE you cant really say your selective if the evidence of your play veries say otherwise .

i don't like or have much time for the verie system as sometimes it feels like a pissing contest and a measure of sexual prowess

when its nether because lets be honest who's going to give a bad veri to someone ..?

plus i feel those who show them are pimping out there meets to try and attract more meets

which i view as seedy behaviour if you cant get meets without the help of others through there veries of you what does that really say about you and your interpersonal skills .

then theres the whole seal of approval thing I'm old school i don't give my seal of approval to just anyone on grounds of what they do after I've given that reflects on me and my judge of character or lack of if they act like a prat after I've said there ok .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is too promiscuous for a swinger? When should a swinger stop as that's too many partners?

not everyone on here is a swinger though ,

and number of veries only matter if its contradictory to the narrative you are using when dealing with others .

IE you cant really say your selective if the evidence of your play veries say otherwise .

i don't like or have much time for the verie system as sometimes it feels like a pissing contest and a measure of sexual prowess

when its nether because lets be honest who's going to give a bad veri to someone ..?

plus i feel those who show them are pimping out there meets to try and attract more meets

which i view as seedy behaviour if you cant get meets without the help of others through there veries of you what does that really say about you and your interpersonal skills .

then theres the whole seal of approval thing I'm old school i don't give my seal of approval to just anyone on grounds of what they do after I've given that reflects on me and my judge of character or lack of if they act like a prat after I've said there ok . "

We like our veris. They tell a story. Understand why people who are more private than us aren't into them. I don't think our veris have added significant benefit to us, but we just like them and we like reading other people's stories. It's fun

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick


"I don't usually let it get to me. but I don't want people to be put off meeting me because I have lots of veris xx"

I wouldn't worry about people like that, honestly I wouldn't. Those are from people most likely afraid to talk to you or jealous of you.

I've seen your profile (both single and couple), you are a gorgeous looking woman and for one second I cannot imagine any serious swinger not wanting to meet you.....you are a stunning looking lass, so go play to your hearts content and enjoy yourself x

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

Before I get jumped on, I should amend that to any serious swinger who thinks you might match them, for not all serious swingers might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when people say lots of veris = not selective . You have no idea how many people that person has turned down !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is too promiscuous for a swinger? When should a swinger stop as that's too many partners?

not everyone on here is a swinger though ,

and number of veries only matter if its contradictory to the narrative you are using when dealing with others .

IE you cant really say your selective if the evidence of your play veries say otherwise .

i don't like or have much time for the verie system as sometimes it feels like a pissing contest and a measure of sexual prowess

when its nether because lets be honest who's going to give a bad veri to someone ..?

plus i feel those who show them are pimping out there meets to try and attract more meets

which i view as seedy behaviour if you cant get meets without the help of others through there veries of you what does that really say about you and your interpersonal skills .

then theres the whole seal of approval thing I'm old school i don't give my seal of approval to just anyone on grounds of what they do after I've given that reflects on me and my judge of character or lack of if they act like a prat after I've said there ok . "

Someone with lots of veris can still be selective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when people say lots of veris = not selective . You have no idea how many people that person has turned down !"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"be honest...

do lots of verifications put you off?? if so why?? "

If they're from the same person, yes.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If they are a bit on the nasty side and really ott with lamp post pissing ie: 'stay away he's mine' in them then I am cautious "

I avoid.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

How many verifications don't put me off. The tone of verifications can if they are overly graphic.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"How many verifications don't put me off. The tone of verifications can if they are overly graphic. "

Me too, though I acknowledge that's daft really when one considers the nature of the site.

But I can't help myself!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"be honest...

do lots of verifications put you off?? if so why?? "

No , but when a couple or single female have been on the site for a few months with no veris , that puts us off

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By *dstar01Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not sure about veris tbh... to some it a bit like comparing cock size... an advert nothing more.

Yes i have a few but i have had more fun and not needed to advertise just so i can say im a genuine real person... veris are not a factor or is that FUCTOR HEHEHEHE for me either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's a slight turn of, thinking you might be forgotten in 6 months time, but it might also cause me to message since you know you have a good chance of getting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im here 3 weeks amd cant meet a lady - all looking for verifications, I dont have any! ??

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