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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And why does everyone hate them on here? People assume there ruff and will feel horrible but say they like stubble? Makes no sense to me, mines always soft and gives an extra sensation I thought it would be loved lol how wrong I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been working on mine for the past month or two and I'll be damnned if I shave it off for the sake of a meet.

Too much patience and time spent on it, and to shave it off means it was all for nothing.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"And why does everyone hate them on here? People assume there ruff and will feel horrible but say they like stubble? Makes no sense to me, mines always soft and gives an extra sensation I thought it would be loved lol how wrong I was"

Why does everyone generalise about everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why does everyone hate them on here? People assume there ruff and will feel horrible but say they like stubble? Makes no sense to me, mines always soft and gives an extra sensation I thought it would be loved lol how wrong I was

Why does everyone generalise about everyone?"

Exactly. OP, you'll find that for everyone who doesn't like your beard, there's many more who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why does everyone hate them on here? People assume there ruff and will feel horrible but say they like stubble? Makes no sense to me, mines always soft and gives an extra sensation I thought it would be loved lol how wrong I was"

Much prefer a beard to stubble...no rashes with a beard!! Needs to be well kept though...not keen on the hobo look tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love well kept beards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would never ever shave EVER, I guess everyone has the own preference I just thought the beardys would get more love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I could've expressed myself differently I was just having a rant so wasn't thinking about it to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was red ...you get a different response!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah shame the hobo look is my strong point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why does everyone hate them on here? People assume there ruff and will feel horrible but say they like stubble? Makes no sense to me, mines always soft and gives an extra sensation I thought it would be loved lol how wrong I was

Much prefer a beard to stubble...no rashes with a beard!! Needs to be well kept though...not keen on the hobo look tbh "

I'm totally with you on this. the hipster look is much more appealing than the hippy look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people who like beards too. Not in that much of a minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah shame the hobo look is my strong point "

You look pretty good to me! Love the hair too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to have a big ol' beard a long time ago and found it garnered plenty of positive attention...it does grow rather red though, i had it plaited once a la gimli from lotr, it was kinda epic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had long hair and a long beard I found I had more luck then when clean shaved, just read profiles and see if someone specifically says their feelings on beards either way. I think it is a split

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's the first complement I've received in ages so thank you for that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another buzz word Used!!! ....a beard is a beard however long

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

I don't hate beards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A beard that rocks the red is a beard that rocks in bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There all coming out the woodwork now lol

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Shaved mine off due to an influx of hipsters and constant question of "dude how did you grow it so long"

Am now growing again, as its trend finally dieing off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a beard or stubble every time for me. I rarely find a smooth face attractive. If my FB shaves, I'm not a happy bunny at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a beard! And a proper beard... the bigger the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a smooth face, don't like anything else, stubble and beards feel awful vs a smooth face. We all have different preferences and those are mine!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I preffer my women without a beard sorry il get me coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yey. Long live the beard! I look daft without mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A beard that rocks the red is a beard that rocks in bed "
beard on for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why does everyone hate them on here? People assume there ruff and will feel horrible but say they like stubble? Makes no sense to me, mines always soft and gives an extra sensation I thought it would be loved lol how wrong I was"

I have a little one

And my beards quite nice too

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Plenty of women do like them. The women who do really like them too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a goatee, whilst not strictly a beard, i get what you mean op. I think the issue though lies in that a lot of huge beards look like they could house a family of squirrels and a hedgehog in them. If a beard is kept in check then i think its great.

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By *r-1984Man
over a year ago

South west

Never been an issue for me, just keep it tidy and it makes for a great addition when putting your tongue to work

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By *ander_XMan
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

My face is much more abrasive without a beard, even straight after shaving it's like sandpaper, my beard is soft.

I think beards are a bit marmite to women, the reactions are either love or hate, but it's better to be marmite than vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a proper beard. Can't stand a whispy bum fluff affair. Shit or get off the pot!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I don't hate them just have a phobia

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Do what you like. I don't see BBW's trying to lose 10 stone to get a meet, just meet people who like you and your beard. The others won't know what they're missing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great to see the mostly positive stuff about us beardys

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Beards are not for me although some guys do look better with than without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like them never have but no one should have to change who they are ?? that's the spice of life we are all different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would never change/shave for anyone I was just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if your a pretty boy Adonis type with some type of beard you dangle it' is possible to bag a fitty

(a fit bird) on a pulling spree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't like beards, but a few people are fanatical about them. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fanny beards well that's another topic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm loving beards at the moment but only neatly trimmed ones. Don't like the hobo look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most women I've encountered here love beards. Or at least they just love people who look good in them.

My theory is that pogonophobia (extreme dislike of beards) is the combined influence of;

1.) 3rd wave feminism (never to be confused with women's rights and gender equality which I fully support) which demonises anything a man can possibly have that a woman can't (read penis, balls, beard etc.)

2.) Some men who don't/can't grow beards (for reasons ranging from genetics to having their balls seized by the opinions of women they want to fuck) throwing hate and shade.

3.) Corporations that have invested in razors and shaving creams etc. rather than beard care products perpetuating the myth that beards are "unhygienic" and other nonsense of similar import which provides the fodder for the first two groups.

4.) This is all of course limited to the underlying assumption that the tastes of many of us men and women are dictated by what the culture says is attractive and not. This includes some of us who grow beards too of course. That means that a lot of people dislike beards because they are told to.

5.) And then of course there are women who simply do not like beards..

6.) Studies were conducted by The University of New South Wales researchers on women who rated attractiveness by facial hair. The Australian researchers said women may be put off by beards as they perceive that the wearer looks more aggressive. Both sexes agreed that the hairier a man was, the more masculine he appeared.

(Please don't start the debate about some men without beards looking more masculine than some men with beards. What this is saying is that a man, any man, will look more masculine if he grows a beard than if he doesn't. It's not saying that he will look more masculine than ANOTHER man.)

The studies also concluded that women may be wary of ultra-masculine men because they are perceived to have ‘lower romantic attachment’.

The study also showed that women rate men with full beards as having the best parenting potential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit like. Blondes and redheads...

According to surveys women are not lovers of the above apparently ..

The women tend to sway to tall and dark....

in not bitter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A beard that rocks the red is a beard that rocks in bed "
I rock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love beards on the right man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yuk,,beards,,eeeeooooow,,and I really hate em on women

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Hairy faces bring me out in a rash so no beards or stubble for me thanks. Each to their own eh?

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

Grew mine on our honeymoon at the request of my then new wife, more than 40 years ago. It's never been off since but has greyed handsomely! It tickles the thighs beautifully instead of leaving a nasty rash!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purely a "look at me, look at me thread"... bore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beards, yum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A captain without a beard is just wrong. But I trim mine to a very short stubble regularly.

I'd shave if a partner absolutely demanded it but Slut prefers me with stubble. She says I look 'too young' when clean shaven!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love beards on the right man "
pretty men

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Ive always wanted to stroke a beard and do a few other naughty things with it but not had the opportunity - yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is definitely all hippy,no trace of hipster here I regularly get people asking if they can stroke it when I'm out and about,so it's a good conversation starter too

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Mine is definitely all hippy,no trace of hipster here I regularly get people asking if they can stroke it when I'm out and about,so it's a good conversation starter too "

Hmmmm might try the same technique with my cock!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Mine is definitely all hippy,no trace of hipster here I regularly get people asking if they can stroke it when I'm out and about,so it's a good conversation starter too

Hmmmm might try the same technique with my cock! "

You have a hairy cock?!

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I have had a beard of one type or anouther most of my life. Red with a wee bit of gray now. Currently a square Goatee.

I went clean shaven for a few years not long ago. Made me look a bit younger but I am also bald and somehow a beard on me looks better on my 0 cut head.

Not found anyone objecting to my beard really but the tidy and soft comments seam true to me. Stubble does scratch and thats not great. Have shaved clean my Cock and balls ever since taking up Motorcycles. Far less sweety in bike Leathers. Found most people like clean down bellow. But a beard on top is never been a block to me.

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford

Hate them lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't like the way longer beards look. If it's longer than about half an inch, I'm not really that interested. I don't even see my partner when he's growing his out for something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lost your ginger hair on your head?

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Mine is definitely all hippy,no trace of hipster here I regularly get people asking if they can stroke it when I'm out and about,so it's a good conversation starter too "

Is the hipster look not good then? I think hipsters look horny but never been lucky enough to meet one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why does everyone hate them on here? People assume there ruff and will feel horrible but say they like stubble? Makes no sense to me, mines always soft and gives an extra sensation I thought it would be loved lol how wrong I was"

Nothing to do with sensation for me..

Everything to do with young lads wanting to look older...

Otherwise why would you want to

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"You lost your ginger hair on your head?"

Well it was oddly enough Blond but so I was two tone now I am MonoTone.

Lol

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"And why does everyone hate them on here? People assume there ruff and will feel horrible but say they like stubble? Makes no sense to me, mines always soft and gives an extra sensation I thought it would be loved lol how wrong I was

Nothing to do with sensation for me..

Everything to do with young lads wanting to look older...

Otherwise why would you want to "

Well It keeps my Chin warm for a start. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the hipster look not good then? I think hipsters look horny but never been lucky enough to meet one "

Dunno if it's good or not,I just know it's not for me

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