FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking about changing profile to bi curious would that put you off me?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thinking about changing my profile to bi curious ,would that put you off me and has anyone else later on in life thought I fancy trying something new.Now I don't think I could just go 1on1 with a man by himself but more so with the dynamics with a bi couple and lady present too.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

It would open up your opportunities with bi couples but it will put others off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Flutters eye lids back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll close some doors, but you'll open others. Best not to worry about the reaction. Be true to yourself, don't be how others want you to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thinking about changing my profile to bi curious ,would that put you off me and has anyone else later on in life thought I fancy trying something new.Now I don't think I could just go 1on1 with a man by himself but more so with the dynamics with a bi couple and lady present too."

I'd only meet with you if you were bisexual and enjoyed 1on1 with men. So yeah, being 'bi-curious' would still put me off.

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

I know a lot of bi people who ignore any mails etc from people who profess to be straight in their profile so you'll more than likely get more interest there if you add bi curious. Others may well be put off though. Swings and roundabouts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right let's do it and change it to bi curious,hopefully might get the chance to experience it with a bi couple and like it,if I don't enjoy it and it's not for me I can go back to straight,I mean fab straight

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

I myself wouldn't meet a bi guy but that's my preference.

But wish u all the best on your new journey and hope it works out xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it. As s couple we still get loads of straight guys contacting us & they can be very Arley when we point out the fact they're straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Profile all changed now to bi curious just need to move to the midlands

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By *ire X IceCouple
over a year ago

coventry

I'm a big believer in life's for living, if it's something your interested in go for it!! If your not keen you can easily change back

I hope for good things for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read anything other than the thread title and your username.

Your username would put me off you

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

The women who wouldn't meet a bi man..why is that? Genuinely curious..is it the "thought" of him with a man? Is it insecurity- do you worry if you're good enough/better than a man for his pleasure? its not like he's bringing another male along for the meet..so what's off putting?

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

For me I find bi men more attractive as I find generally they r more open minded

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Massive turn off!!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Massive turn off!!

and for us

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I don't understand why being bi is an instant no from some people. Everyone is happy to meet bisexual women but for some reason there's something wrong with bisexual men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand why being bi is an instant no from some people. Everyone is happy to meet bisexual women but for some reason there's something wrong with bisexual men? "

Everyone isn't happy to meet bisexual women.

Just as being bisexual is a choice some make,others have a choice of who they wish to meet.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

It doesn't bother us in the slightest. So long as he's all for the wife when we play and respects boundaries I don't really care who he gets his rocks off with. Good luck OP

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By *hebagsCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

Just people's prefrances!!! We are all here for diffent things!! We are a bi couple!! And we play with straight and bi couples!!!! Never had a problem!!! Once you set out wot you all want,it's all good fun!!! X

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

If that is who you are, then go for it

You will increase your chances with some women, decrease with some and some couldn't care less one way or the other. But you will now have significantly more opportunities than most of the straight single guys on FabS

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

"If that is who you are, then go for it

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I am predicting the future and seeing another thread by the OP asking Why won't women meet Bi guys.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"If that is who you are, then go for it

I am predicting the future and seeing another thread by the OP asking Why won't women meet Bi guys.

One step at a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself and don't worry. It doesn't matter what your sexuality is, some folks will like you and some people won't. You only live once.

Happy Fabbing fella and enjoy the ride however bumpy it may get

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By *atteriesnotIncludedMan
over a year ago

Buxton

"You'll close some doors, but you'll open others. Best not to worry about the reaction. Be true to yourself, don't be how others want you to be.

Being honest on here is always best, do what you feel comfy with and you will be best fullfilled that way, and after all being happy and satisfied with who you meet and who you are is what we are all here for after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile all changed now to bi curious just need to move to the midlands

Or up north

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By *ornylady71Woman
over a year ago

near Bury

"Profile all changed now to bi curious just need to move to the midlands

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Bi couple we would welcome more openly Bi guys.

It's seems most of the straight guys who approach us are secretly Bi.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Did someone say bi

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I found it doesn't make any difference at all. I still don't get laid.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Wouldn't bother me but Eastenders references do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right let's do it and change it to bi curious,hopefully might get the chance to experience it with a bi couple and like it,if I don't enjoy it and it's not for me I can go back to straight,I mean fab straight

I recently changed my status to bi curious and it's opening a whole new world to me. I never had issues gaining interest from men but found it difficult to break through into the couples world. That's seriously now changed. Good luck and enjoy

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"The women who wouldn't meet a bi man..why is that? Genuinely curious..is it the "thought" of him with a man? Is it insecurity- do you worry if you're good enough/better than a man for his pleasure? its not like he's bringing another male along for the meet..so what's off putting?

Don't you know they look different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of positivity on this thread today

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Wouldn't put me off anyone just because they are bi, unfortunately you will find that it does other people. I hope it leads you to many new adventures

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

Don't you know they look different?"
No that wasn't a general consensus just 1 persons poor point of view. A lot of people wouldn't know Marlon Brando was bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've recently done the same. We prefer to think of ourselves as hetero-flexible, but there isn't an option for that, so we had our profile set to straight, with a note in our profile text about what we like. And now we feel we want to explore that aspect of our sexuality in more depth. Since we've changed it, we've been approached by some really lovely, interesting people. The way we look at it, is that people who are bi are probably more open minded, so more our kind of people. The kind of people who might be put off by it, probably aren't...so it works as a good filter.

Good luck OP, I hope the change brings a lot of fun to your door.

V x

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I don't understand why being bi is an instant no from some people. Everyone is happy to meet bisexual women but for some reason there's something wrong with bisexual men? "

incorrect! not EVERYONE is happy to meet bisexual women we wouldnt and know several other couples that wont either!!!

and its about personal choice anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experiance 90% of straight men on here are Bi anyway

I get at least 6 straight e mail messages a day, all deleted and blocked as they are just not being honest.

It alwaays makes me laugh when couples wont meet bi men, then when you look at the verifications 50% of them are anyway

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

"Profile all changed now to bi curious just need to move to the midlands

Why the midlands lol

We both bi and never have trouble finding fun and by being true to yourself your getting the fun you want .....we love bi guys and ladies ... it certainly opens doors x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it I think some women are scared and some men are scared that all would enjoy it too much there nothing to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Your name would put me off ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's wrong with the name lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile name would put me off first

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"Did someone say bi

potentially yes

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

"Profile all changed now to bi curious just need to move to the midlands

(Mrs)

We're in Bournemouth

Kestrel's tomorrow if you fancy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say that putting bi cur will put some people off - lots only want to play with straight men. However it will also help you find those people who will help you explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone done the line about the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy is usually about three pints?

Mr.R

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

How's the change working out for you ??

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

General presumption is that bi = promiscuous = high risk of disease. Not that many will publically admit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't get why women are so put off by bi-guys.

I meet bi guys 1 on 1 but I wouldn't be happy to engage (or see them engage in any bi "activites"

But I guess it's preference

Lots of women don't care tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Chatting to some rather lovely bi couples now,as you say some doors closes as new ones open. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chatting to some rather lovely bi couples now,as you say some doors closes as new ones open. X"

Always pick a door with a window though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would make me more interested as I felt the same some time ago..I d be happy to have sex with aan with anyone watching.. very exciting

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By *y93Man
over a year ago

London

I actually find being bi has not limited anything on Fab for me, there are so many different tastes here that there will always be enough profiles with similar mind sets to chat to and more. There are actually loads of gorgeous bi MF couples on here! Loving it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would open up your opportunities with bi couples but it will put others off

This kind of sums it up.

But, when one door closes another one opens up.

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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

No it wouldn't put me off!!

Great pics and great profile.

Very sexy xx

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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

No it wouldn't put me off!!

Great pics and great profile.

Very sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If that's to me thank you

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

She's right you know

V xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if youre curious - say so

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"if youre curious - say so"

Profile was TV so not that he was hiding anything

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

You could write something in your profile about your bi curiousity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if youre curious - say so

Profile was TV so not that he was hiding anything "
Confused was that to me ,I never had my profile as tv,not sure I would look that good dressed up.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I don't understand why being bi is an instant no from some people. Everyone is happy to meet bisexual women but for some reason there's something wrong with bisexual men? "

We don't meet either, just our preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are bi-curious then change profile. If not then don't do it to please others or out of "desperation" to get meets. Be who you are....be true to yourself and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My profile does say bi curious and has since I said I have changed

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"if youre curious - say so

Profile was TV so not that he was hiding anything Confused was that to me ,I never had my profile as tv,not sure I would look that good dressed up."

Similar thread I posted to then I do apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very question I would like to pose

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