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How scared are you?

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By *mber Gambler OP   Couple
over a year ago

rugby

How scared of hurting your partners feelings are you? From messaging to socials to shagging. He's always in my mind. I never want to do/say anything that may hurt his feelings. I was just wondering how much people think about that side of swinging.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Talk plenty to each other, you will get to know the things that might upset each other.

If you know what might bother him, you can either reassure him and alay his concerns or avoid whatever it is.

Also you might be avoiding things unnecessarily.

Lots of comminication all round is key for stress free fun.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Not scared at all .

If either of us thought we may hurt each other's feelings , we wouldn't swing .

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We agreed before starting out on certain boundaries and have always said that one of us says stop we stop. We continue to talk to one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not scared at all. We're considerate of each other's feelings and have open discussions about what we want and who we wish to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op i always show Jables any conversations and give him a little 'that ok?'

I always know full well that whatever it may be is fine, but it's just that little bit of confirmation from him that reassures me xxx

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By *ulu99Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have clear boundaries, mostly mine! He's said he's up for anything and I can do anything with anyone pretty much.

It does sometimes feel a little unequal in an MMF where the other guy is straight though.

The one time I met someone by myself I felt I should even things up a bit so sent him off to meet someone from Grindr!

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