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By *attooedandfrisky OP Woman
over a year ago

midlands

I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:

Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?

And ladies what's your best blowjob tips?

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Anal play can help.

Wearing gloves satin, pvc, rubber

All gives different feelings.

Watch when he masterbates study his own techniques.

For me personally I like my balls being played with.

Mr. X

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Tickling the underneath of the head with the tongue normally works, holding balls, using hands too, deeptroating etc plenty of ways

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By *attooedandfrisky OP Woman
over a year ago

midlands

"Anal play can help.

Wearing gloves satin, pvc, rubber

All gives different feelings.

Watch when he masterbates study his own techniques.

For me personally I like my balls being played with.

Mr. X"

Yep I play with his balls as he enjoys that, I will certainly try the gloves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't put it fully in your mouth too soon, tongue licking and flicking around the head, then lips working the head. A finger up arse usually makes me pop.

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd say eye contact is most important though, can't beat it while she's enjoying your instrument

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By *attooedandfrisky OP Woman
over a year ago

midlands

"Tickling the underneath of the head with the tongue normally works, holding balls, using hands too, deeptroating etc plenty of ways"

Yep I love to deepthroat

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Tickling the underneath of the head with the tongue normally works, holding balls, using hands too, deeptroating etc plenty of ways

Yep I love to deepthroat

Just noticed typo haha

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Personally I like my balls grabbed around the base of the cock, lots of spit and eye contact and sorry ladies we do love a bit of gagging lol

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By *ighteningstrikesCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

A prostate massage sets me off within minutes

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By *attooedandfrisky OP Woman
over a year ago

midlands

"Personally I like my balls grabbed around the base of the cock, lots of spit and eye contact and sorry ladies we do love a bit of gagging lol"

Yes definitely, gagging has got to be involved haha

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By *urreyloverMan
over a year ago

Guildford

When a guy cums during penetration or with masturbation, it is all through direct stimulation of the penis. The secret to making your partner cum through oral is to stimulate him in a similar way. Whilst anal or testicular stimulation can add to the sensory experience, it could also be distracting for him. What makes HIM cum? Fast, slow or varying? How much lubrication is right for him? Is your mouth dry and not providing the right feel? Ask HIM, what HE finds stimulating? Perhaps ask him to masturbate for you so you can observe what parts of the head he stimulates and how fast. Then you could return the favour describing what you do so he can improve his oral technique for you. I wish you all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it more difficult to climax receiving oral. Not sure why. I know when I have in the past it has been extremely intense and pleasurable.

I'd add anticipation to the mix. Maybe start with a massage (good way to introduce lube to his ass if you want to explore that too) and play around his cock. Build him up without actually playing with his cock. Then when you do he should be ready to finish.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Although I'm not into anything IN my ass a spitty or lubed finger playing with it helps....a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't come from blow jobs either, they're great and I love them. They just aren't enough to send me over the edge.

Your fella isn't alone in this.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Good ol 69 with her head hanging off the bed is another if u don't mind deepthroting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mouthful of champagne (or prosseco) makes for a very intense experience, i just find varying it up, try different techniques and listen to the noises he makes to know what he is enjoying most

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By *ixedblkinjectionMan
over a year ago

london

I struggle to cum from oral....I normally have to help out; afraid it is normally due to it not being done correctly (for me): as we all different....but when I have cum from it....WOW!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mouthful of champagne (or prosseco) makes for a very intense experience, i just find varying it up, try different techniques and listen to the noises he makes to know what he is enjoying most"

Have had this in the past. Bubbles or an ice cube make for a wholr different type of beej!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the other guys in here...

Eye contact, anal play, tongue around the head, deep-throating (+slight gagging) are all good.

For me, lots of spit really gets me going - pausing to dribble loads more over me and playing with it using hands and mouth

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By *attooedandfrisky OP Woman
over a year ago

midlands

"When a guy cums during penetration or with masturbation, it is all through direct stimulation of the penis. The secret to making your partner cum through oral is to stimulate him in a similar way. Whilst anal or testicular stimulation can add to the sensory experience, it could also be distracting for him. What makes HIM cum? Fast, slow or varying? How much lubrication is right for him? Is your mouth dry and not providing the right feel? Ask HIM, what HE finds stimulating? Perhaps ask him to masturbate for you so you can observe what parts of the head he stimulates and how fast. Then you could return the favour describing what you do so he can improve his oral technique for you. I wish you all the best"

Awesome advice thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that I struggle to cum when someone goes down on me. Usually I need to take over for a bit with my hand to get close before she uses her mouth again.

And btw just because I don't cum directly from a BJ doesn't mean I don't love them.

Ladies feel free to get in touch if you think you can get me there with no help.

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By *attooedandfrisky OP Woman
over a year ago

midlands

Thanks for the advice everyone, I shall be trying them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be weird but ball play and gagging aren't what I'm looking for in a bj.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs gets me to face fuck her

Has the desired effect

Being made to cum from oral is much more powerful sensations than sex or a hand job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the woman sucking my cock listens to what I tell her to do I have no problem in coming especially if she is taking my spunk in her mouth and keeps on sucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came very early when I had my first bj and had a complaint for cumming in her mouth - I blame youthful exhuberance! But it meant that I was really sensetive about it and tended not to cum during a bj for quite a long time after that.

As everyone else has said, each to their own but eye contact, ball play and a focus on the tip and head rather than the shaft certainly help me.

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Try the old "Mexican tugboat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deepthroat gets you boys cumming in no time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a tip. I do it because I enjoy it, not to make a man cum. It's part of the whole sexual experience for me, not a stand alone act, with the intention of making a man cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have cum from oral before. But its not something I lose sleep over if I don't. I enjoy the sensations more, when they're done right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a tip. I do it because I enjoy it, not to make a man cum. It's part of the whole sexual experience for me, not a stand alone act, with the intention of making a man cum. "

This tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:

Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?

And ladies what's your best blowjob tips?

Tattooed and Frisky. That would work for me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP,

You may have to accept that your man can't come from oral, just like some women can't have an orgasm through penatrative sex.

We are all wired differently, even after all these tips he might still not come. That isn't a reflection on you or your oral skills so please don't make it an issue for both of you if it doesn't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he come if hes allowed to wank and your kneeling with your mouth open for him after some oral foreplay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

finger up the bum x

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By *lana Honey-LingusTV/TS
over a year ago

bolton

I'm circumsized and have never cum through receiving a blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:

Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?

And ladies what's your best blowjob tips?

Do your best to relax him. Kissing, stroking, licking other sensitive areas (i.e. not just his cock) can be hugely arousing and help him relax. Take your time. Don't concentrate on making him cum, I find when a girl tries to get me there before I'm ready it will have the opposite effect. Vary your technique and pace, listen and watch for reactions. I know when I'm getting head I like to let my partner know what she's doing well. Don't get too hung up on it if he doesn't cum though, sometimes it just isn't that easy for us, it's almost like a mental block sometimes. Also, I'm always aware of how long the female has been down there, and if she's uncomfortable or not!

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By *attooedandfrisky OP Woman
over a year ago

midlands

Haha Yeh it's definitely something we both enjoy and the if it happens then it happens but I would like to try it lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deepthroat gets you boys cumming in no time!"

Only if she's good at it, and not forcing it, which can be awkward or painful!

But good deepthroat skills feel sublime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:

Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?

And ladies what's your best blowjob tips?

Everyone of my mates can't cum from blowjobs! Unless they wank it themselves, at the same time

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By *objgukMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

must just be me but i struggle NOT to cum too quick with a blow job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:

Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?

And ladies what's your best blowjob tips?

It's got to be a bit of teasing my bottom, and plenty of talking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:

Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?

And ladies what's your best blowjob tips?

I envy people who can cum from a blowjob as personally I never have, and I've had some great blowjobs. Don't know the reason behind it though

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I didn't cum from a bj for years

Then someone did it right and wow

I tend to like my head being played with the most and a good rhythm just like fucking

Oh and pressure on the underside of my shaft helps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow i must be unusual i could come from a blowjob every time infant i have to restrain my self from cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love giving blowjobs but my partner has never cum from one so:

Guys what can a woman do whilst giving head to make you cum?

And ladies what's your best blowjob tips?

god knows, i hardly ever haver cum from one...they just don't do it for me really, they're ok and a bit of a giggle i guess but just not a lover of them...even had two women try at at once and still very little. some blokes are just that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cum from one. They are a bit vanilla and cliche'd.

Mr x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B goes crazy for them! He always finishes from my blowjobs. My tip is to mix it up and don't just use your mouth, use hands, tits etc and use his reactions to see what he likes and dislikes and play on those.

H x

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"I must be weird but ball play and gagging aren't what I'm looking for in a bj. "

A woman gagging makes me sick and I've never really liked to much attention on my balls, I have never cum from a bj, I've never had enough of them or had them done for long enough to know if I can or unable to cum from receiving, I suppose it all depends how you're feeling at the time as well as how its been done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and don't forget the balls!

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't cum from a bj for years

Then someone did it right and wow

I tend to like my head being played with the most and a good rhythm just like fucking

Oh and pressure on the underside of my shaft helps too

Similar story here.

It took me years to cum from one,then bang

I like it not too gentle.If she says she's gonna suck it,then suck it hard,preferably while holding my balls and wanking me at the same time.Gets me every time.

Eye contact is very horny too

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By *atteriesnotIncludedMan
over a year ago

Buxton

"I don't have a tip. I do it because I enjoy it, not to make a man cum. It's part of the whole sexual experience for me, not a stand alone act, with the intention of making a man cum. "

When the woman loves giving a bj and shows it in her breathing and facial expressions, thats when it turns me on the most and has the ultimate effect.

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By *amianoMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Play with the balls deepthroat and a good stroke game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was like this until a girl show me the anal way forward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consistent rhythm/pace with just the right amount of suction

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