FabSwingers.com forum: Voyeur meets genuine question

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A genuine question...(with only a hint of self promotion

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very few people seem to have space for a good old voyeuristic meet. By which I mean one where a voyeur (that'll be me) joins them for bedroom play, but only as a voyeur.

I am sure there will be comments that state pretend voyeurs are only using it as a chance to join in, and as usual these rotten eggs spoil it for the genuine well behaved watcher.

Do voyeur meetings in the truest sense of the word float your boat or are they and therefore I a lost cause?

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I don't think as a first meet I'd invite a stranger to my home to watch.

I do love to put on a show if at a club and wouldn't have any issue with who watches.

Think its more a safety thing

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

"I don't think as a first meet I'd invite a stranger to my home to watch.

I do love to put on a show if at a club and wouldn't have any issue with who watches.

Think its more a safety thing "

Same here. Plus I think it would feel really staged.

We do enjoy playing in club rooms that have one way viewing windows. The kind where you can't quite see who's watching but you know someone's out there.

Townhouse have a great room that's divided by a mesh curtain from the viewing area. It's lit in such a way that you can only see shadowy shapes on the other side. We find that to be really erotic!

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

Mmmmmmm,Love being watched and watching when we are in the mood for something a bit different......but perhaps a little stroking and touching...turns us both on being watched and us watching a guy wanking close by seems to bring out the exhibitionist streak in us....but also sometimes enjoy same room watching and being watched with another couple.

Really depends what mood we are in when looking for some sexy fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to have guys watch us and wank infront of mildred, in clubs and occasional private meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As another poster said, might be a bit off-putting and staged in their own home.

A way around this could be to meet outdoors somewhere, not a dogging meet as such, as there is really no control over who appears for that, but maybe somewhere that is actually quiet where you can be pretty certain no one else will show up. You can "hide" out of sight. They'll know you are there, but they also know it wont turn into a crowd, so they can relax about that side of it and it wont feel so staged as in a bedroom ?

You can also act as a lookout in case others do turn up.

You get a show, they get to be adventurous, but in a controlled manner.

I've only ever had one offer for a voyeur meet, but told them straight away that i couldn't make that date, but would love to be considered for any other ones they had.

Instant block.

They looked the ideal couple as well.

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By *x3anteexxCouple
over a year ago

NW Cheshire

"I don't think as a first meet I'd invite a stranger to my home to watch.

I do love to put on a show if at a club and wouldn't have any issue with who watches.

Think its more a safety thing

We do enjoy playing in club rooms that have one way viewing windows. The kind where you can't quite see who's watching but you know someone's out there.

Townhouse have a great room that's divided by a mesh curtain from the viewing area. It's lit in such a way that you can only see shadowy shapes on the other side. We find that to be really erotic!

All this too, we've had some great fun in that room too

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

When we go to a meet we prefer the other person joins in and plays.

When we go to a club we are happy for people to watch as there will be others who want to join in, best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Staged?

I am not talking role play here...I have experience of couples inviting me to their place or coming to my hotel simply to fuck In front of me.

For some, myself included, there is a fundamental exhilaration to sexually engage with a 3rd party present, not in a MMF threesome, but with a well behaved voyeur.

That being said, sometimes interaction is requested by the couple and if that is the case I am happy to oblige, to their boundaries, their rules, their limits....but this is their call and never assumed, nor always wanted by me.

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By *itscotsguyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yip definitely an unfulfilled fantasty of mine but get why some couples would be uncomfortable with this privately. Guess with everything you need to get to know them first.

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By *objgukMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

This is a massive turn on for me, much prefer it over a sex meet.

I'm well behaved too (hint)

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

"This is a massive turn on for me, much prefer it over a sex meet.

I'm well behaved too (hint)"

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